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Is this just a budding friendship or something more?

Q.   He just came up to me and gave me a hug. He's been looking at me since before we started talking. He initiated the talking and we talked for the whole spring break online. He gave me his number and when I didn't text him he asked why and texted me. ...

A.   6 May 2009: I don't know if I'm bold enough to ask him that, not to mention he's been doing some sketchy stuff and been flirt hitting me a bit more lately so I'm kind of confused now.... (read in full...)

Is this just a budding friendship or something more?

Q.   He just came up to me and gave me a hug. He's been looking at me since before we started talking. He initiated the talking and we talked for the whole spring break online. He gave me his number and when I didn't text him he asked why and texted me. ...

A.   25 April 2009: So how should I react to him? I mean I am flirting back with him but is there anything else I should do?... (read in full...)

Does he like me and what do I do next if he does?

Q.   There's this guy and we've been friends for about a month. He has a lot of friends, girls and guys. We're both in high school and he's 2 years older than me. We flirt, you could say. He says something playfully mean, I say something back, we hit ...

A.   14 September 2008: It turns out he just liked me as a friend but it's cool.... (read in full...)

If he does these things does it mean he likes you?

Q.   -Stands near you, almost touching -If a part of your body is touching and he doesn't move -His pupils get big when you talk -Supports your ideas -Finds little excuses to touch you (appropriately) -Tease each other -Voice changes sometimes whe...

A.   14 May 2008: Yeah well, we do seem to flirt or whatever you'd call this, a lot.... (read in full...)

We have a love/hate relationship but how does he really feel about me?

Q.   Me and this guy are friends and when we're alone or not with out normal group of friends, we get along for the most part. But then when we get around our group of friends, we play argue a lot, well its serious sometimes but we don't mean what we ...

A.   3 May 2008: I'm 16 and he's 16 too. What do you mean the "show"?... (read in full...)

I have genital warts! Does this mean my boyfriend has been unfaithful?!!

Q.   Hi everyone I have been with my boyfriend for six months and I have genital warts on my vagina does that mean he has been unfaithful or do you think I may have caught it from the past boyfriends? Because I read that it can lay dormant in your body ...

A.   26 March 2008: It could be either.... (read in full...)

How do I tell my cousin I think I'm in love with her?

Q.   Well, I've been in love with my cousin for as long as i can remember. She's three years older than me so theres not much of an age gap. The thing is, we're both girls. I know she's a bisexual and I've been attracted to certain girls before. Just ...

A.   26 March 2008: I think you just love her in the family way, not a crush way. Or at least I hope not.... (read in full...)

If he looks at me a lot, does he like me?

Q.   There's this guy that I like. I think he just likes me as a friend but I don't know. If I ask him to do small little things for me he does them, I catch him looking at me a lot, even from across a large room he was looking at me, he makes fun of me ...

A.   16 March 2008: I'm not really thinking I'm ever going to ask him out. I'd rather get a friend, or just me, and ask him how he feels about me, that would be easier to do. Just get him alone and do that.... (read in full...)

What is wrong with this guy?

Q.   Today we were in class watching a movie and this guy I hate had to leave and while he was gone he's friends put water in his seat. He came back and sat in it. Anyways a few minutes later he's trying to pour the excess water on/near me and I start ...

A.   25 November 2007: Well I did like him alot last year and I don't know if I like him anymore. But this just got me really angry and I honestly hate him, again.... (read in full...)

Why does he torment me?

Q.   I already wrote about this guy but feel I need to write more. Anyway, there's this guy that I use to like last year. He'd call me beutiful and stuff one day, but then the next he's throwing salt in my hair and calling me ugly! So I started really ...

A.   24 October 2007: I need more hlpe people! He keeps making fun of the way I talk but this time I just ignored him.... (read in full...)

Why does he torment me?

Q.   I already wrote about this guy but feel I need to write more. Anyway, there's this guy that I use to like last year. He'd call me beutiful and stuff one day, but then the next he's throwing salt in my hair and calling me ugly! So I started really ...

A.   23 October 2007: And today my gym class, which he's in, we ran 2 laps around the track. Then on the turn the guy was like "there goes [my name] and her white self" i ran back at him, I can't remember if I hit him but he ran. Stupid fag :[... (read in full...)

Why does he torment me?

Q.   I already wrote about this guy but feel I need to write more. Anyway, there's this guy that I use to like last year. He'd call me beutiful and stuff one day, but then the next he's throwing salt in my hair and calling me ugly! So I started really ...

A.   21 October 2007: He won't listen to me though.... (read in full...)

Girls, would you find it insulting for a boy to ask you out by text?

Q.   this is a question for girls, would you find it insulting if a boy was to ask you out, say to go to the cinema using a text message? and would you be more likely to reject them?...

A.   21 October 2007: Nope, I wouldn't mind at all. Just make sure not to break up with her with a text message, that really hurts.... (read in full...)

Is he interested?

Q.   hi i just wanted some help im trying to figure out if a guy likes me. i go to university with him basically in lectures he always sits near me and my friends most of the time he is directly behind me. he also touches me like he will grab my arm when ...

A.   13 October 2007: I think he likes you!... (read in full...)

How to get rid of love handles?

Q.   I haven't been eating breakfast while I have school for awhile now. I do however eat it on the weekends, over summer, and anytime else other than when I have school. My problem is that I feel absolutely sick in the morning if I have to eat ...

A.   13 October 2007: Yeah so I looked up what love handles really are and saw that I don't have them! Yay! But anyways I'm just looking for ways to tone my abs and stuff.... (read in full...)

I walked on him and my gay brother having sex!

Q.   I Have a problem....I've been seeing my boyfriend for two years now and last night I walked on him and my gay brother having sex!!! I really really love my bf and my brother and I know that I should dump him but I really love hi and he says it was ...

A.   12 October 2007: You guys should talk about this because this is a serious situation. Just sit and talk with him and good luck with this.... (read in full...)

My friend is crushing on teachers--what should I do?

Q.   Hello. I'm 15 years old and I'm writing because I'm concerned about my friend. She's in love with one of the teachers at my school and gets turned on by another one and says she wants to have sex with him. My friend doesn't see why it's wrong to...

A.   12 October 2007: Well she is right, there is nothing really wron with feeling that way towards a teacher. The part where she is wrong is when she wants to act on it. There's nothing you can really do though, just make sure she doesn't act on it.... (read in full...)

How to get rid of love handles?

Q.   I haven't been eating breakfast while I have school for awhile now. I do however eat it on the weekends, over summer, and anytime else other than when I have school. My problem is that I feel absolutely sick in the morning if I have to eat ...

A.   12 October 2007: Oh I knwo I have curves lol! But your right I'm probably overeacting but I honestly can't tell what they are lol. Thank for all f your advice I'll try the smoothie advice and look at that site to see if it really is lovehandles I have. Thanks!... (read in full...)

I have a huge crush on my spanish teacher

Q.   I have a huge crush on my spanish teacher. I'm 12 and he's in his 20s. It's been about a year since i started liking him. Everytime i see him he always says hi and asks how i am. I blush whenever he talks to me. My friends say that he's a perv but i ...

A.   11 October 2007: It's normal but don't tell him or anyone else unless you want to be heavily embarassed.... (read in full...)

Want to lose weight by not eating.

Q.   Ok well i'm 14 and i want to loose weight as im 9 stone which is like pretty bad for my age i'm fat really..i wanna loose weight by not eatin..but i wanna know what will happen to my boobs? will they shrink?? please answer thanks xxx...

A.   11 October 2007: If you stop eating you can actually gain weight. And my friends boobs shrunk after she lost a bit of weight... (read in full...)

Will my crush on my teacher ever go away?

Q.   I've posted on here sveral times bout this teacher hu i really fancy! I've been browsin the site and hav been looking into other ppl's posts with a similar problem as me. Anywayz, alot of the the advice seys dat it will pass over in time! I've been ...

A.   11 October 2007: 3 months is nothing, I've liked this one teacher for 4 years straight! But I've obviously realized that I will never be with him, but I think I more of love him as a person and not so much as a crush. But anyways it will pass, or turn into what I ... (read in full...)

He cheated on me. Now he wants me back. What should I do?

Q.   i caught my boyfriend cheating on me and i broke up with him now he wants me back,what should i do? ...

A.   11 October 2007: Leave him alone. Once a cheater is always a cheater, he'd just end up hurting you again.... (read in full...)

I gave my boyfriend oral. He said he liked it, but he never came! Am I doing something wrong?

Q.   Hi, im a sixteen year old girl. I recently got a boyfriend, he and i love eachother very much. I tired giving him a blow job and i was in the car doing it for about fourty five minutes or and hour, and he didnt cum. We tried two more times and i was ...

A.   11 October 2007: Well I've never done this type of stuff but I heard that guys just don't cum all the time. And its great that you and your boyfriend decided not to be just physical. And don't worry I don't think he was lying when he said he enjoyed it lol.... (read in full...)

I have a girlfriend... But I like somebody else, who is already taken! What do I do?

Q.   I have a girlfriend but i like this other girl but she has a boyfriend. I don't even know if i love my girlfriend anymore, but i love it when im around this other person. I;ve knowen this girl for 5 years but i've only started to feel this way the ...

A.   11 October 2007: Well you might as well break up with your current girlfriend since you'd just be leading her on since it seems as though you don't like her anymore. Whatever you do, don't break up the girl and her boyfriend or they'll both hate you. Just be single ... (read in full...)

Have I scared him off?

Q.   the guy i really like, now has decided we should stay friends, after months of saying we would go out etc, i am totally gutted, but i think i've been too full on and scared him off, he now thinks i'm mad so i've ruined any chance with him! i'm ...

A.   10 October 2007: You can't change his mind, the more you try the worse it will become. Just be friends with him and move on.... (read in full...)

How can I make her fall in love with me again?

Q.   my girlfreind who lives with me says she luvs me , but not in luv with me we still together , how can i make her full inluv with me again ?...

A.   10 October 2007: You can't really make anyone fall in love with you. Maybe its more of a brotherly love?... (read in full...)

How can I make her fall in love with me again?

Q.   my girlfreind who lives with me says she luvs me , but not in luv with me we still together , how can i make her full inluv with me again ?...

A.   10 October 2007: You can't really make anyone fall in love with you. Maybe its more of a brotherly love?... (read in full...)

My boyfriend I met on msn, never met in person. I hate myself for what I did. He calls me a liar.

Q.   Hi guys i dont know what to do man i am all stressed out yo. I am 16 and currently talk to a male over the internet for about 3 months lets say, he is 23. he told me he loves me but he lives very far from me and so the chances of us meeting are very...

A.   10 October 2007: I didn't read all of thi but from what I read I say dump the guy. If he's calling you a liar and your trying to tell you the truth, why bother? You guys should just be good friends, not to mention he is a bit older than you.... (read in full...)

She said she had a sex dream about me, but turned down my offer to have sex.

Q.   A woman at my job told me she had a sex dream about me. She even said I was good. I asked her if she wanted to have sex with me and she said no. Why would she say that and then not want to take up on the offer. I let it go, no means no right? Or am ...

A.   10 October 2007: Maybe she just had a dream and you just happened to be the person she was having sex with. You'd have to be the one would be able to tell whether she was joking or not. I think she was being serious from this.... (read in full...)

I'm obsessed with my 30 year old teacher! I can't go on like this--what should I do?

Q.   I'm so desperate to end this misery! Firstly, it was a crush... then it got a lil stronger and now it's just got out of control - I'm mad about him!!! He's 30, i'm 15 - big age difference! you see, he's a teacher at my school! Sometimes i cry ...

A.   9 October 2007: I use to be the same way with one of my teachers last year. But then this year it was like, what I liked him? So people telling you to stop liking him doesn't help at all. It's ok to like him but don't tell him, as hard as that sounds or anyone ... (read in full...)

How do I tell her that I fancy her?

Q.   need desperate help. I want to tell my friend i have feelings for her. Both 17 and go college. I don't talk to her everyday but i need to tell her. I dunno how to do it. I will definately ask her out face to face. But i don't know if i should t...

A.   9 October 2007: Ask her to go out for a drink or something easy like that. Maybe write her a note, my advice sucks I know but I try lol.... (read in full...)

I like him, how do I go about meeting up with him.

Q.   where do i go from here. I've known this guy through a lot of my friends, and we've talked a little at parties. Although recently we've gotten closer, we often send flirty txt messages, and we have both hinted that we like eachother, and want to ...

A.   9 October 2007: Well just ask him if he wants to hang out or go to the movies. Bring a few friends if you feel uncomfy the 1st time meeting up.... (read in full...)

I need to know if she like me. How do I find out?

Q.   how can i test the waters with a girl i like? Sometimes i feel she likes me and sometimes she doesn't. I want to find out, could i somehow hint her and see her reaction maybe by complimenting her? ...

A.   9 October 2007: Start flirting with her and see what happens.... (read in full...)

Am I right to doubt my boyfriend?

Q.   Ok, here's the problem, I love my bf but lately he has been saying how nice looking and open-minded my best friend is, my brother has told me to leave him because he thinks he is cheating on me and I want to leave him but we live in the same house ...

A.   8 October 2007: Your welcome, hope everything goes ok.... (read in full...)

I've got herpes. How do I tell the guy?

Q.   ok, ive just recently been tested and found positive for Herpes Simplex type 1 (genitally) so i know i caught it from oral sex im worried about telling the guy. hes not a boyfriend more of just sex - although have to confess doesnt feel just totally ...

A.   8 October 2007: Exactly just keep thinking that its his loss not yours. And to be safe ask him to get tested too.... (read in full...)

Whats next?

Q.   alright i am 11 me and my gf have done evreything together from kissing to holding hand what do we do next...

A.   8 October 2007: Nothing, your way too young to do anything else.... (read in full...)

How can I get my partner to love me as much as I love her?

Q.   It took about three years of hardwork to win the heart of the love of my life.Almost one year into the relationship,my love tells me that she is finding it difficult to bring herself to love me as much as i do her.She had always told me she was ...

A.   8 October 2007: You can't change how people feel for you. Talk to it with her and if you don't hear what you want to, move on as harsh as that sounds.... (read in full...)

Do I fancy or hate my teacher?

Q.   There's this teacher at school that i always think i've hated! i always say i hate him and take the mik out of him with my friends just joking but...every time i see him my knees go weak and every time i talk to him or he looks at me i go all shaky ...

A.   8 October 2007: I think you like him, those are the typical signs of a crush.... (read in full...)

Am I falling in love with my best friend?

Q.   So, my best friend is a guy who lives in CA. I live in TX. I cannot stress it enough, we are EXACTLY alike in personality, and he is the only person that I can talk to about certain things.We've already talked about me having feelings for him, and ...

A.   8 October 2007: Well it sounds to me he thinks of you as more of a sister thana possible girlfriend. I say leave this as friendship because the worse thing you can do is keep forcing it upon him to like you back since you can't change what people think of you. ... (read in full...)

I've got herpes. How do I tell the guy?

Q.   ok, ive just recently been tested and found positive for Herpes Simplex type 1 (genitally) so i know i caught it from oral sex im worried about telling the guy. hes not a boyfriend more of just sex - although have to confess doesnt feel just totally ...

A.   8 October 2007: I think you should tell him so then you both can be more careful when having sex. Maybe tell him to get tested as well to see if you got it from him.... (read in full...)

Am I right to doubt my boyfriend?

Q.   Ok, here's the problem, I love my bf but lately he has been saying how nice looking and open-minded my best friend is, my brother has told me to leave him because he thinks he is cheating on me and I want to leave him but we live in the same house ...

A.   7 October 2007: Don't do anything drastic. He may just be saying this because he talks to your best friend as a friend too but I don't know. Ask him about it before you break it off.... (read in full...)

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