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Haii, I'm Elliott, And I'm 15, I'm English & I live in France.

Yes, You're all maybe thinking I'm too young, Well, Yes, But I think I've been through a lot in 15 years, I wont go into detail, But it has been hard. Dealing with family life, School life && Love life all at the same time. But life now seems to be getting back on track for me .. Still we never know what might be behind the next corner ! So, Yes, I'm in a relationship with a wonderful girl, Coming up to a year, So I must be doing something right ! :)I maybe young, But I believe it's true love .

I always sign my answers with my name, So if what I say isn't signed, I haven't wrote it. And that's me, I try to do my best answering your questions, So feel free to rate me or send me a message.

- Elliott.

She left and now she wants me back

Q.   Well, She left me on Friday, Since Thursday was going to well, We didn't speak, Never even looked at each other, So the same night, I phoned to speak to her about things, Telling that I'm going to try to improve our relationship, She didn't sound ...

A.   6 September 2009: Ohh, And I forgot to say that her reason for leaving me was that she though ten months was to long ...... (read in full...)

How do I know I"m not in the relationship just for sex?

Q.   hey guy simple question but might have a complicated answer. how do i know im not just in a relationship for sex? im a 17 year old male andim just wondering how i could know if im not just in a relationship subconsciously just for sex, i r...

A.   30 August 2009: Lose interest, I don't think so mate .. =D Look, Lets take my relationship as an example, Me & My girlfriend have been together for nearly a year now, We haven't had sex, We don't need it, Not yet anyway, And I think we're both clever enough to know... (read in full...)

I'm not sure the relationship is more serious, but I don't want to be just used for sex

Q.   Before I left college I was sleeping with a boy for a couple of months. We then broke up for summer and we carried on talking but because we live far away from each other I had basically stopped really thinking about him. I saw him recently out of ...

A.   30 August 2009: Talk to him about the matter, Ask him a few questions, Like : "What do you want out of our relationship ?" Or maybe he's just this way because he really really does love & miss you, You'll never know until you ask .. Or you could maybe try not ... (read in full...)

Why did this happen and why did I taste like that?

Q.   Heey. I'm 16 years of age. Yesterday my boyfriend (who's 17) and myself, had sex yesterday (doggy style)..now..after that we did the 69..i sucked him off as usual and he fingered and licked me out as usual...BUT! when he was fingering me...

A.   30 August 2009: Hey Jessica, I wouldn't worry about him, Pop down the doctors & get it checked out just to be safe .. Just one question, Was it your first time ?... (read in full...)

How can I make our time together even more romantic?

Q.   Hai, My girlfriend is coming round my place very soon, Last time when I was with her we relaxed in this hammock in the forest near by, This then gave me the brilliant idea of having the same sort of thing near my place, Seeing as school starts back ...

A.   29 August 2009: Alright mate, I see her on Tuesday, I'll give an update then.... (read in full...)

He says at his age a relationship "needs" to have sex. I'm not ready. Advice?

Q.   Hey I am 16, and the guy that thinks im totally amazing; we really like eachother and sorta go out. He is 19. In 5 months he will be 20. He says that at his age a relationship needs to have sex. Im totally not ready for sex. I have told him my view ...

A.   9 August 2009: He shouldn't be forcing you to have sex, There is NO age limit to sex, When two people have sexual intercourse, The're both ready for what might happen, If you're not ready and want to have sex after 18+, Don't have sex. ... (read in full...)

I like my teacher... but I'm not sure if he likes me back

Q.   Hey, look it's another teacher/pupil love question, though infinitely more complicated than others. And sorry. Well basically, my teacher is 26 (male) and all the pupils seem to hate him, he is quite irritating in truth sometimes, and quite geeky. ...

A.   8 August 2009: He's 26, Its just a crush, Nothing more, Nothing less. It looks like to me though, He has a soft spot for you, Doesn't necessarily mean he loves you. You're young, Find someone around your age, Time is on your side. ... (read in full...)

If I say something bad about her ex she protects him!

Q.   Hi, I met my girlfriend about two months after she broke up with her ex. In the beginning she was protective of him whenever I said something about him. It was then because I thought she just broke up with him and it might take some time for he...

A.   4 August 2009: Looks like she still has feelings for him .. She shouldn't start swearing and calling you names. Maybe you could speak to her about it all About why she protects him ? Otherwise, I think the best thing you can do is let her go.... (read in full...)

Do you think I lost my virginity?

Q.   I am 40 years old...virgin and never have sex....But at my first time I have a weird blood( like a slice blood)...and I don't know what is going on...Do you think I lost my virginity. I want to see a doctor to tell me what happened. Any thoughts?...

A.   4 August 2009: You said : "But at my first time" Do you know how to lose your virginity ? You have to have sexual intercourse .... (read in full...)

I feel inferior compared to my girlfriend!

Q.   I've been with my girlfriend for 3 months and they've been wonderful, but I can't help but feel a little bit inferior. She is an amazing gymnast. She competes in meets all over America and I know she's gonna go on to be big. I just dont' see what ...

A.   3 August 2009: I've recently had this problem, I spoke to my girlfriend about the matter, Which I shouldn't of, I should of ignored what I was feeling .. She told me the most wonderful things, About how her heart beats faster than normal when she sees me, Ect ... ... (read in full...)

I said I didnt know if I loved him, now things have changed

Q.   This boy says he is in Love with me. I told him that i didn't know if i was in love with him. Now he is saying its hard to talk to me did i brake his heart ? Please help me!...

A.   3 August 2009: If you don't love him, You don't love him. And well yes, You have broken his heart, Maybe he has had a crush on you for awhile without you knowing, This was the sort of thing that happened to me awhile ago. In three years she asked me out twice, S... (read in full...)

She wants me to trust her but.....

Q.   Before anyone says I should speak to her about this, I have, I've told her times and times again. Me and my girlfriend have been together for roughly nine months now, And she keeps going on how I don't trust her.. Well, I don't. She is always o...

A.   3 August 2009: The relationship isn't long distance ..... (read in full...)

He loves me, he love me not.. which one??

Q.   i have been with my bf for almost 3 years and a week ago he split up with me because he felt we grew apart however after a hour he decided he made a mistake and wanted to come and see me so he did and we talked he said he couldn't live without me ...

A.   3 August 2009: I'm a bit like this, I can never make my mind up, Since my girlfriend seems to give me mixed signals a lot. I'am sure he really does love, Keep going at it, And see what happens, If he doesn't really seem to care any more, I would say try to talk... (read in full...)

What can I get my mom for her birthday?

Q.   todays is my moms b day.what do i gift her ?please and thanks in advance...

A.   3 August 2009: Hum, Well, A card for starters, Maybe some flowers, Perfume, Pay for a day at a beauty spar, Jewellery .. Just use your imagination ! I hope I helped && Happy Birthday to your mum ! - Elliott. ... (read in full...)

Do you think I lost my virginity?

Q.   I am 40 years old...virgin and never have sex....But at my first time I have a weird blood( like a slice blood)...and I don't know what is going on...Do you think I lost my virginity. I want to see a doctor to tell me what happened. Any thoughts?...

A.   3 August 2009: Well, Since it's your first time, You've maybe split your hymen, Which is a small piece of thin skin which goes across the opening of the vagina and protects it. If you are really worried, Go see a doctor, Better safe than sorry. And you're a vir... (read in full...)

Tips on how to ask out girls?

Q.   Ok. I'm really shit at asking out girls. I need some tips. I'm planing on asking out a girl next week at my party, (next time i see her), but i'm so bad at it. I havnt been with anyone in 2 years, and i hate it. But im not letting this one go. ...

A.   2 August 2009: Hey, Guys can help you too ! :D Girls, They love confidence, But not to much. I would say go right ahead, Ask her if you could have a quick word with her, Take her somewhere pretty quiet, And yes, Compliments, I don't know, Something like, I like y... (read in full...)

Do looks really matter to get a boyfriend?

Q.   hi friends.i agree that i dont look superb.but have a cute face.still i am not proposed.do looks really matter to get a boyfriend?i see girls who look horrible too get someone or the other.is it me only who is facing such fate?please reply.although ...

A.   2 August 2009: Hey, Don't worry about how you look, If you do find a boyfriend it is because, He loves you and what you are ! And he shouldn't care how you look. Here's an example, I have a girlfriend, And I have to admit, I could do better, I don't want to brag,... (read in full...)

Finished with girlfriend but now full of regret!

Q.   I recently finished with my girlfriend after a second attempt at the relationship, i was having silly niggling doubts and thought it was moving way to fast so i called it a day, however my friends and family all said to me i was way to hasty and ...

A.   2 August 2009: So if you do get back together, This will be the third time, May I ask who finished those two times before ? Now, If you left her those two times before, I highly doubt she will take you back, Seeing as she will be afraid to get hurt again. But y... (read in full...)

My boyfriends much more serious about our relationship than I am, and I don't want to lead him on. What should I do?

Q.   I’m really confused could really do with some advice please, its doing my head in, cant bear to talk to anyone I know about it, thanks in advance for any feedback I really appreciate it! Well… I’m in a relationship with this guy have been for 8 ...

A.   2 August 2009: You say you just want his companionship, And you don't see a future together, It looks like to me, You treat him more as a friend, Than a lover. Well, I guess you're going have to let him go, It's going to kill him, But if that's the way you feel... (read in full...)

I'm 17 and she's 24....What should I do?

Q.   I am currently really good friends with a girl on facebook and MSN, we have never met but we text like 24/7. I really like her and she likes me, I have never felt this way about a girl before I feel like I just want to f*ck her shes so fit and I ...

A.   2 August 2009: Well, Sonny, Looks like to me you just want to get into her pants ... I love the way you say : "And I think I love her." Maybe if you arrange to see her, You could hook up. And see where it goes from there. Hope I helped, Good luck ! -... (read in full...)

Nervous about my penis size

Q.   hi, im 16 and my penis is nearly 6 inches, is this normal for my age. if it is, will it grow much more? im nervous about it....

A.   2 August 2009: Hey, Don't worry about your size, It's up to her, If she doesn't like, Tell her where to go. Even if it is small, There's nothing you can do a part from have surgery .. She didn't go out with you because of your penis size. Hope I helped, Good l... (read in full...)

Sex in less than a week!

Q.   Last night I got into a little "activity" with my new boyfriend... He wanted sex. But, we just got officially together less than a week ago. Do you think I should've had sex with him?...

A.   2 August 2009: A week, that's a bit fast. It looks like he has taken you for a test drive before he decides to stick around. && Sex is up to both of you, Not just him, When you're both ready and committed, I would say that's the best time. Hope I helped... (read in full...)

I love him but he has a girlfriend...

Q.   I have known this guy for about 1 1/2 years now but we'd never really talked, I mean at first he was good friends with one of my friends and they kinda liked each other. I always thought he was cute but i never really knew him. my friend talked to ...

A.   2 August 2009: First of all, Just be careful, To me he sounds like a bit of a player. Second," I know I could make him happier than any other girl could ever in his lifetime, I just want him to love me as much as I love him " Maybe his current girlfriend does tha... (read in full...)

He's showing off his genitals online and getting paid for it!!!

Q.   I found out that my husband was uploading movies and photos of his genitals to the Internet when I clicked on the browser (it was my day off from work, and he'd left the browser open after he'd put the computer on in the morning!). He'd set out f...

A.   2 August 2009: You are both right, It's his body, So he may do as he wish, But then again, He did lie to you about the matter. I would try again to speak to him, If he really doesn't want to know what you think, Then he doesn't care, And you're married so ther... (read in full...)

Why do opposites attract?

Q.   Why do relationships seem to last longer between people who have very little in common? I had everything in common with my girlfriend, and yet it lasted less time than the relationships where the guy is a total abusive d*ck.....

A.   2 August 2009: Well, I'm not abusive to my girlfriend, But me & her, We don't really have anything in common, I like sports & Films, She likes horses & going out. But I think its because of our differences that the relationship has lasted for nine months. So, I... (read in full...)

Aaahhh I can't talk to girls!

Q.   Hi all. I like this girl. But Im having trouble keeping up a conversation with her. any one have any tips on how too have a good conversation?...

A.   2 August 2009: Yeh, Take Rcn's advice, Talk about her, Or find something you have in common with her, Like a TV show you both watch ? Just remember to listen ! Good luck ! - Elliott.... (read in full...)

I am SO in love with her I feel like crying!

Q.   There's this girl, who is very important to me. Every time I think of her I want to cry. I've known this girl since kindergarten. In the 3rd grade, she told me she liked me for a friend, because that's the same year she found out I've had a crush on ...

A.   2 August 2009: Ok, Well, If her boyfriend does cheat on her, Maybe you could prove that && win her love that way, But be careful, Even so, She might still be crazy in love with him, I guess you need to tell her how you feel, Since Kindergarten .. Then it's up ... (read in full...)

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