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what qaulifies me 2 help others is i like listenening 2 othes problems and being able 2 talk it out with them i like helping others out with their problems bcuz i kno that everyone has them and someone always needs a friend 2 talk 2 when their feeling down...

i live in rochester ny..

what makes me tick is when people try 2 be down..when people annoy me..when peole act phony..when ma boyfriend gets me mad{{i hate dat}}

my relationship status is taken{{and pregnant}}

My partner doesn't allow me the same level of freedom he gives himself. He also accuses me of cheating! What can I do?

Q.   Ive been with my partner for 6 years, we have 2 kids wee girl 7 months and wee boy 2 1/2 years. At the beginning we had a great life, then I started going out with my mates male and female, he would only let me out until 8pm snd if I was 1 min late ...

A.   12 October 2007: get out of the relationship now you are being abused and things are going to get alot worst if you continue to stay with him..you have your kids and yourself in danger LEAVE HIM NOW...u deserve better!!... (read in full...)

Joking or planning our future?

Q.   am 16 while my bf is 25.there was a day when he was smoking and i told him to stop but he didnt so i said to him it was his ploblem.he said back to me that it was my ploblem too coz if we get married and he get cancer of the lungs it was going to ...

A.   12 October 2007: he just said it because hes guilty and wanted to try and make you feel bad because he does..he knows hes doing the wrong thing and tried to put something on you!!... (read in full...)

How do you answer I Love You?

Q.   when a guy says he loves you but your not sure if you feel the same what do you say??? is there anything you can say that wont hurt too much??? HELP!...

A.   12 October 2007: if u dont feel the same way as him then jus say thanx or give him a nice smile..its ok 2 not feel the same way...and when he says he loves u try asking him why does he love u and what he loves about you and see what he says..good luck!!... (read in full...)

Is it weird for an 18 year old not to be interested in sex?

Q.   Is it weird for an 18 year old not to be interested in sex? Not only am I not interested I really don't want to do it, I still feel young and that is such an adult thing to do. I would also be very worried about getting pregnant, even though I know ...

A.   12 October 2007: maybe you dont like sex because your not ready yet..and also because you have a good future ahead of you and are afraid if you have sex that you will end up pregnant which is something that you dont want righ..d if your bf is your bf then he likes ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is making me mad.

Q.   My boyfriend is driving me mad. He is constantly telling me I'm miserable, even when I'm not, and he gets annoyed at me for it. Constantly! I love him, but this is becoming unbearable. I feel like nothing is good enough for him. He moans that I ...

A.   12 October 2007: i say u should start kissing him more often because maybe he feels that you dont show him any affection..but tell him to stop calling you miserable because you feel that your not and that it hurts your feelings..... (read in full...)

I'm teetotal. Will his friends still like me when they know this?

Q.   Ive made the decision to never drink and I think ive made a good decision for myself, however I feel that so many poeple look down upon me for it, or think m weird. Im about to meet my bfs friends for the first time and my bf even says they are he...

A.   12 October 2007: here it goes....your doing the right thing and being the healthy one..dont beat yourself up bcuz u feel that people dont like you because of that...if thats the case i dont think you should be hanging around people like that..tell your bf that u ... (read in full...)

My friend could use advice about her problem 15 month old son

Q.   A friend of mine is having trouble with her 15 month old son, who when he is told no, or dosnt get his way starts to screem to the top of his lungs, slaps his mom in the face or wherever he can reach, bites and pinch's. And not only does this with ...

A.   11 October 2007: i agree wit the person above me...wat is the lil 15 month old doin with a knife...i was thinking the exact same thing...maybe she needs to discipline her child more well she should have done it more in the beginning things wouldnt be like this ... (read in full...)

He screams when he sees food!

Q.   i have 14mth old and all he does is scream when he sees food can someone please help me ...

A.   11 October 2007: dont give it 2 him..just because he wants its doesn't mean give it to him..u dont want a overweight child now do you...a snack here and there is alright..but not everytime he screams for it..good luck!!... (read in full...)

Could you tell me some signs of being pregnant

Q.   Dear Cupid my best fren is reali worid becoz she suspected that she is pregnant, she said she had her period last month at the 10th but this month she is still waiting for it. she is worid sick coz she and her bf sometimes they had unpro...

A.   11 October 2007: i am a pregnant teen right now @ the age of 1t..im 4 months now..but yea some signs are..nausea..feeling sick 2 your stomach..tiredness..dizziness..u can jus search all of this stuff on msn..searc this....."symptoms of pregnancy"..... (read in full...)

What do I do? She's pregnant but I don't know if I want this baby.

Q.   Im with this great girl who is 3-4 weeks pregnant just found out yesterday she is happy but im not sure if i want this baby at this time. i was married before for 3yrs and we are separated. Lately we have been talking and she is willing to make thi...

A.   11 October 2007: i say you keep the baby bcuz its only right...dont ruin the baby jus bcuz of this..u have a responsibility now dont take it out on the baby!!... (read in full...)

How can somebody just get over a relationship ending after such a long time together?

Q.   How can somebody just get over a relationship ending after a long time together? I'm struggling to do so. My first love broke up with me almost 6 months ago, after 2 years together, because she wasn't sure if she was ready to have something seriou...

A.   11 October 2007: i fel u on this but the only reason that yoou cant get over her is bcuz she is your first love..i've been goin wit my first love for 3 yrs now and i dont think it will be easy 4 me 2 get over him neither...but yea if she is through with it then i ... (read in full...)

How do I tell my mom my period has just started when I'm only 10 years old??

Q.   HELP! I'm 10 years old and today I started my period in school today for the first time! I didn't tell my mom or the nurse. So so far no one knows except me of course. But I don't know how to tell my mom. She told me one of her freind's daughter is ...

A.   11 October 2007: yea i started my period @ 14..and i was shy 2 tell my mother @ first..so everytime it came i use 2 jus go in the bathroom and put on a pad...until oneday my period was 2 heavy 4 me and i knocked on her door and told her that my period was on..she ... (read in full...)

How do I tell my mom my period has just started when I'm only 10 years old??

Q.   HELP! I'm 10 years old and today I started my period in school today for the first time! I didn't tell my mom or the nurse. So so far no one knows except me of course. But I don't know how to tell my mom. She told me one of her freind's daughter is ...

A.   11 October 2007: yea i started my period @ 14..and i was shy 2 tell my mother @ first..so everytime it came i use 2 jus go in the bathroom and put on a pad...until oneday my period was 2 heavy 4 me and i knocked on her door and told her that my period was on..she ... (read in full...)

If you love someone, shouldn't you want to hear from them everyday?

Q.   i thought if u love someone u always want to hear from them everyday.i love my bf very much so i call him most of the time but he only calls a day after i dont call him.does he love me as much as i do?...

A.   11 October 2007: i think that if he is your bf then you should be able 2 talk 2 him face 2 face and tell him how u feel..but yea he still loves you..if he didnt he wouldnt call you..i think he only calls when you dont bcuz since u always call him first he is use 2 ... (read in full...)

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