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I have feelings for her but I don't want to destroy our friendship!

Q.   I have feelings for my friend,i love her so very much but I don't know how to tell her in a nice way and the most difficult part of it,is that I'm more close to her mother than her and I don't wanna destroy our friendship,please help. ...

A.   14 April 2012: This type of thing, you must be careful in. First, you must prepare yourself for the number one thing that happens to a lot of people who fall in love with their best friend: she only likes you as a friend. This can seem worse than just getting ... (read in full...)

I don't want to lose my fiance just because I'm too stupid to control my actions

Q.   I need help dealing with my own insecurities. I love my fiance with all my heart and I cannot wait to be married to her, but there are days, a lot of days, where I feel like I lose her. Its those stupid things I do, or those ignorant things I say. ...

A.   5 April 2012: It's just I say things that she finds hurtful when I don't mean for them to be. Like I mean one thing but it comes out hurtful and ignorant of her feelings. ... (read in full...)

Does it seem like he is just very friendly or flirting?

Q.   so there's this guy ... (typical, I know :P but I really need input, so please bear with me). I started a new job a little while ago and during the first few days I was workin there I met this guy. He didn't have his membership card so I asked hi...

A.   29 February 2012: I think you should try talking to him. If I liked a girl who seems as open and polite as you, I would definitely try and make conversation and return to see you. Many girls confuse attraction with overconfidence in guys, and I do admit that it is ... (read in full...)

Met on a cruise, like her, facebook connection, be here March, what to do till then??

Q.   Hey Everyone, So this summer me and my dad went on vacation on a cruise to Alaska. We were having a lot of fun and I met tons of people that I hung out with. We kinda formed a group that we hung out with with 4 guys and 3 girls. There was one gi...

A.   6 October 2010: I do hope so. And I hope this all works for you too. And I think it will. People don't just "meet" on a trip like that. They come into each other's lives for a reason. There's a reason she wasn't just another passenger. One of my favorite quotes ... (read in full...)

Met on a cruise, like her, facebook connection, be here March, what to do till then??

Q.   Hey Everyone, So this summer me and my dad went on vacation on a cruise to Alaska. We were having a lot of fun and I met tons of people that I hung out with. We kinda formed a group that we hung out with with 4 guys and 3 girls. There was one gi...

A.   4 October 2010: I do miss her a lot. We aren't together but it wasn't distance that ended it, it was our ages. She was two years younger than me and I got accepted to college in Boise and we live in Alabama and Tennessee, so I told her that I knew there was someone ... (read in full...)

Met on a cruise, like her, facebook connection, be here March, what to do till then??

Q.   Hey Everyone, So this summer me and my dad went on vacation on a cruise to Alaska. We were having a lot of fun and I met tons of people that I hung out with. We kinda formed a group that we hung out with with 4 guys and 3 girls. There was one gi...

A.   3 October 2010: Dude, the same thing happened to me on the same cruise. I went with my sister and her fiance on an Alaskan cruise and I met a girl who lived in the state neighboring me. We talked, kissed, etc and it turned out really well. In most aspects of life, ... (read in full...)

Is there a possibility he is falling for me too?

Q.   so there is this guy that i really like... somedays he flirts, LOTS. other days he just kinda treats me like a friend (only paying a little more attention to me than he would any other girl). the other night was girls night for me and a friend,...

A.   12 August 2010: Okay you need to act on this fast...as a guy I safely say that he most likely does have feelings for you. That wonderful! But with guys, time is of the essence. We have a tendency to let our minds rot us away from the inside when we like a girl. And ... (read in full...)

Should I tell my boyfriend I was abused only months before we met to explain my behaviour?

Q.   I apologize for the wordiness, I'll try my best to stick to the point. I've been dating an amazing guy for the last 11 months- the first guy I have ever dated in fact that actually respects me as a person, appreciates me and gives a damn abo...

A.   12 August 2010: I believe you should. I once dated a girl who had a past she wasn't proud of, and she waited until I was on my last nerve to tell me. I felt awful, and I could do nothing to soothe her after that. I suggest telling him when you two have a close ... (read in full...)

I'm terrified of what might happen next after the police caught us talking to 2 underage girls, but all we did was talk!

Q.   This is probably the worse place to ask for advice on this topic (No offense I appreciate all the help I've received over the years) but I don't know where else to turn. My best friend and I have two female friends (ONLY friends) that are 13 and 14. ...

A.   31 July 2010: Thank you all so much for your help. Nothing has happened so far, and I hope it does not. Still thank you all so much.... (read in full...)

Worried by his relationship with his female friend, now he wants to go see her!

Q.   Okay so my boyfriend has had this girl(friend) quote the word "Friend" for 3 years. Well, he's known her for 3 years. I have talked to her a couple times before and she seems nice. The thing is he texts her a lot, and she's brought up in our fights ...

A.   29 May 2010: I am in a very similar situation, my best friend for 3 years is a girl, and my girl friend is jealous of her to extreme measures. As I have tried to explain to her, you must realize, who your bf is with now. He's known her for 3 years and they're ... (read in full...)

He saw another girl naked before me and I can't handle it!

Q.   Okay so my boyfriend and I's past gets brought up a lot.. Like he gets depressed if one of my friends brings up "do you remember when you and him did that??". And just last night we were talking about sex and being naked, and I asked him if I was ...

A.   29 May 2010: This is a difficult situation, but I\let me point out, that while he is depressed with the memory of seeing another girl naked, that also means that he regrets that you were not the first. I believe that is the way out for you. Obviously he cares ... (read in full...)

Do you think this girl and I are right for each other?

Q.   Hello, I wanted to ask whether this girl and I are right for each other. I think we are. I'd like some more feedback before I make a move. I care about this girl so much that the though of rejection petrifies me. I want to be as certain as possible ...

A.   4 May 2010: Okay, I think you're good here. The list really helped and I think that she must feel something. You should at least try. Now, one thing before you get happy on me lol, as you may have found, girls LOVE declaring that some guys they are close to are ... (read in full...)

I love her. She likes me. How do I tell her that I want to be with her?

Q.   My friend and I are close, and we are gradually getting closer to being in a relationship, but we both are hesitating. I'm afraid. I love her and I know she doesn't feel the same back. I know she only likes me. I don't want to pressure her but as we ...

A.   7 February 2010: This type of thing, you must be careful in. First, you must prepare yourself for the number one thing that happens to a lot of people who fall in love with their best friend: she only likes you as a friend. This can seem worse than just getting ... (read in full...)

I want to date her but am worried about what will happen if I then dump her

Q.   I've been talking to a girl recently after a terrible long-term relationship of mine ended. This new girl is kind, loving, quiet, and has a heart of gold, but she also has flaws. She was raped as a child by her own mother and her mother's countless ...

A.   3 December 2009: I"m so sorry I forgot to point out that she was taken from her mother after social services found out about the rape. She was adopted by a very good foster family.... (read in full...)

We haven't had any private moments lately

Q.   My girlfriend and I haven't made out in awhile, mostly because pda can get you in decent trouble at school and we havent really had any private moments lately. I thought I'd try something new next time. Any ideas on new or better ways to make out? ...

A.   19 August 2009: No, I meant I was looking for different ways to make out...... (read in full...)

Here we are saying we'll wait for each other... What do I do?

Q.   Im going to just let everything out because I want an answer. First off... I can't believe im writing on a site like this.. but from the answers ive seen.. i want to. About 2 years ago.. i randomly added this girl, who lives in germany, she ...

A.   1 August 2009: I know this is kind of cliche sir. But please follow your heart. I had a girl that I cared about and waited too long to decide what to do and she was killed in a car wreck before I could tell her anything about how I feel. Just follow your heart. ... (read in full...)

Any tips on how to make-out for the first time??

Q.   Dear Agony Aunts, I'm an average teen, in an average relationship. This new boyfriend I've been dating for about a month now seems totally into me, and I'm totally into him!!....there is just one problem...I'm scared that when the moment comes to...

A.   1 August 2009: Making out is an amazing thing. I was shy when I first got with the girl I'm with now, but I'm really confident now and I owe it kissing. My first kiss wasn't like in a movie, surrounded by rolling plains, and singing doves. It was in a Zaxby's ... (read in full...)

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