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I am student of life....and it certainly has taught me some lessons...some I wish I didnt need to learn and others that make me who I am today. I have been divorced for 12 years because my husband met someone else online when the internet was very new. I have been a single parent of 2 daughters (where I learned the most about life)have lost a brother to suicide due to a drinking problem. I am getting ready to become someone other than my girls mom, as the youngest will graduate in June and I am very afraid of the empty nest, but think I will find things to fill my time. I am a "people person" and love to share what I learned, maybe in an effort to have someone else avoid making some of the same mistakes. I live in Wisconsin and am gratefull for the signs of spring and the first Robin after a record 100" of snow.

I'm keen on this job after an interview, but something just doesn't seem right. Can you help please?

Q.   Question about a job interview. A few unsure feelings: I am currently on a gap year working after finishing college a year ago. I am looking into an apprenticeship within construction and noticed a trainee draughtsperson position locally ...

A.   9 April 2008: Unfortunatley if something doesnt feel right it ISNT. Trust your gut...in an interview that probably did not last more than an hour they did a few things really wrong...number 1 you have been introduced to EVERYONE and them to you, and then the ... (read in full...)

My wife is losing interest in sex and I have to beg her for foreplay! Any suggestions?

Q.   My wife of 17 years is slowly losing interest in sex. Foreplay now consists of a week or two of begging. When we have sex its great and she seems to enjoy it. It is just so darn infrequent. Please help! Cold Shower Man...

A.   8 April 2008: You dont say her age, but 17 years of marriage says close to menopause....that is the GOOD news...there is help and it is not you (or god forbid an affair). The hard part is talking with her about menopause without getting a shoe thrown at you. ... (read in full...)

I'm 15 and pregnant but I'm afraid that my mom will want nothing to do with me....please help

Q.   Okay so im kinda new at this "advice" thing so please take it easy on me........okay so my bf and i have been together for going on 11 months and one week after my birthday on 2-28 i broke my virginity..later we had sex again and started to do it ...

A.   6 April 2008: You dont know this yet, but you will when you hold your baby the first time.....Your mother loves you UNCONDITIONALLY....she has made mistakes and so will you. Her initial reaction will not be calm and collected...but if there is one person in your ... (read in full...)

Why the tears and "empty feeling" when I was gone if he is not in love?

Q.   I have dated a man for 3 years. When we met we did not see it as a match but the sexual chemistry was great. Given that we made a deal that if either of us met someone else all we needed to do was to call and tell the other person that. I did abou...

A.   6 April 2008: I need to add that he had dated her for 2 years, and he lost his virginity to her. Less than a week later he learned that she was cheating. I can only imagine that it must have done incredible damage, as he did not date again for 15 Years...became ... (read in full...)

He loves me and I love him but his temper causes him to hit me and I'm pregnant!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have just turned two years and I'm five months pregnant with a beautiful little girl. There is one problem though, he has a really bad temper. Sometimes he throws me around or slaps the back of my head hard and I atleast cry once ...

A.   5 April 2008: Oh Honey....please listen to what people are telling you. As you take on the added pressure of having a baby and the baby cries (which they all do) what will he do then. I was beaten as a child and watched the same thing happen to my Mom. It ... (read in full...)

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