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| | Moviefan's profile:Well i live in the United States in the State of Indiana. I feel like i have some things i cant contribute to help others becuase I have experienced a lot for my age and have always been a little mature for my age to the point that when i was in middle school i scared some of my teachers. I seemed to mature.. And this plus the fact that im good at logically thinking things threw and can connect things in life and movies that others wouldnt even notice. This has allowed me to learn things some people have to wait a life time to learn. This has also made others until recently distant from me, and made me cold for a long time.
I enjoy movies, music, anime, manga, video games, reading, building relationships, and hanging with family and friends.
And as of right now im single after getting out of a relationship that caused me a lot of stress and pain and im hoping to find someone i feel the same way about as i did for her.
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How do I pass my algebra?
Q. I have been having trouble in collage level algebra, and i have posted on here about this before i struggle even when i really try thus i studied for 3-4 hours for our last test and still failed, you ask why, because my teacher counted off on many ...
A. 28 October 2009: thanks its just irritating, i have little time to do all my work and i get slapped in the face for learning. ill talk to him, i just hope i dont have to go higher then him lol... (read in full...)
Is first time sex different when you are older?
Q. Hi everyone! I am a 26 year old virgin, and the reason why I have remained one is that I've not been truly in love until now. I am currently in a very loving relationship since more than a year, and yet we haven't had sex. Of course, my boyfrien...
A. 21 October 2009: Yeah for one you said that you want it no, back then when it was being forced on you it can tend to make it feel bad or you feel nothing, and you didnt want it. Ever heard of people having problems when the girl is nervous and he cant get in, that's ... (read in full...)
I want to lose my viriginity!
Q. So, I'm 17 and my friends around me are losing their virginity.. This one kid can hook me up with other virgin.. yada yada yada.. so i want to lose my virginity.. but i dont know how to approach this.. I'm really shy and slightly overweight, with no ...
A. 21 October 2009: Dont worry about it, dont just do it to do it im 19 and never had sex, as soon as you leave high school it doesn't matter if your a virgin or not except to yourself lol. Your going to be the only one that ultimately matters with that decision, do it ... (read in full...)
What is up with her?
Q. I dont get it. Why do women tell a guy that they aren't interested in them, they don't feel the same way, reject them... then all of a sudden they end up liking you? I had a girl tell me she didn't feel the same way, it hurt so much i didnt tal...
A. 17 October 2009: wish i could answer but same thing is happening to me actually so dont feel alone on this. I want to know the answer to, becausecthe girl i like has been doing the same thing. Not cool at all..... (read in full...)
We have a perfect relationship except he shakes me and pulls my hair...
Q. Im 16 and my boyfriend is 19. we have been together 5 months now but have known eachother for over a year. we have a perfect relationship. sometimes. when we are not fighting and screaming and wanting to strangle eachother. we fight over ...
A. 15 October 2009: ill make mine shory, my first love and gf left me for her ex who did and still does what your boyfriend is. Listen to me unlike her, leave him now it doesnt get better. she got pregnant too...... (read in full...)
Why do I keep attracting nerds?
Q. So I have this tiny problem where I attract the wrong guys. Okay, I think there has to be some kind of physical attraction and not to be mean but i keep attracting nerds. Lik no joke. They are the only ones to talk to me and it just bugs me. W...
A. 15 October 2009: Unless they are not clean or repulsive give them a chance, most nerds as you put it make better bf then the type you want. your lucky i responded you have me irritated. Im a nerd, not a bad thing. ... (read in full...)
God fails new ways to get amusement out of my dating failures
Q. In 2 days im about to turn 19 and im going to collage, i have never had a real girlfriend. I have had countless attempts and an equal amount of failures all of which have fallen apart due to things outside of my control like their ex tricking them ...
A. 2 October 2009: Thing is i don't use bars and i have used online dating, and ive done almost everything you said, i don't date people on rebound they just have on a few occasions decided to get back with a ex from long ago randomly after starting crap with me. I do ... (read in full...)
God fails new ways to get amusement out of my dating failures
Q. In 2 days im about to turn 19 and im going to collage, i have never had a real girlfriend. I have had countless attempts and an equal amount of failures all of which have fallen apart due to things outside of my control like their ex tricking them ...
A. 2 October 2009: wow love the false emphasis on the god part the title gives lol ... (read in full...)
What prompted her to cut off all contact with me?
Q. A long story short. I met this girl in Germany over the summer (she's 19, I'm 30). Things were great, we really connected and enjoyed each others company. There was without a doubt love coming from both sides. We lived together for about 2 months ...
A. 3 September 2009: Sounds like she cant decide what she wants, she probably has someone she likes for somereason in germany and because he is closer it levels him with you even if you are a much better choice in reality. I was in a situation like this once ended badly ... (read in full...)
Friends with the ex--is it stupid of me to think that the friendship might last?
Q. Hey, Well about 1 month ago me and my girlfriend of about 2 yearas (not quite) borke up, on good terms. At the time it was more of a break, to take one step back. Anyway, as most relationships say, we made a promise to always be bestfriends / fr...
A. 3 September 2009: I seen the same situation before, to be honest she could be doing what you expect using you like a insurance policy so that if things in the future fail she can come running back to you in a few months to years.
I also know many couples who do t... (read in full...)
Why no reply to my birthday text?
Q. an ex spends loads of time playing little games to get my attention, she cheated on me i walked away. It was hard but i never gave her any trouble. she suddenly thinks im seeing someone else (but im not)we eneded 18 month ago. Anyway i aim to be ...
A. 28 July 2009: Sounds like she likes to toy with you probably because she still likes you but doesn't want to admit it so she makes your life hell when you replace her. Pretty simple common reaction for some girls. ... (read in full...)
My mom's boyfriend did this to me, what do I do!
Q. Well for starters, this isn't an easy topic to discuss. I've had so much guilt, and frustration built in that I don't think I can do it anymore. My mom's boyfriend has been living with us now for almost 2 years. At first he seemed really cool, an...
A. 24 June 2009: Some one was in a similar situation near where i live and it ended badly for her because things escalated, her mothers boyfriend had been doing things like this and it only got worse with time. She ended up doing suicide because her mom didn't ... (read in full...)
Three years on and I'm still too scared to ask her out, even though she's said "I love you " to me?
Q. Im 17 years of age, 18 in Decemeber and never had a girlfriend, not even kissed a girl. My problem started at around the end of Year 10 in high school, I started to like this girl in the year below me. I started to talk to her on MSN/Myspace etc and ...
A. 4 June 2009: Just do it, its what i did in this exact situation pretty much, yeah i looked like a fool while doing it because i was so nervous the whole time, but she thought it was sort of cute so she didn't get turned off by it.
Just do it when you can get ... (read in full...)
I've fallen for my best friend after rejecting him, how do I correct this?
Q. I think I'm falling in love with my best friend, and I believe I may have messed up whatever chance I had with him. The thing is we've been friends for a really long time, since high school. It was couple of years ago when he confessed that h...
A. 4 June 2009: Ive been in a situation that was sort of like this, basically to be blunt you need to tell him that he doesn't have to live up to your ex boyfriends because your love him the way he is and wouldn't want him to change. That you were a fool and didn't ... (read in full...)
Too shy to kiss him!
Q. Eugh ok so i am 20 years old and i've never been kissed not that i've not had chances too i have! but i just can't bring myself to do it, in some ways i want too but others i don't, i want to so i will stop feeling like a loser! and perhaps gain more...
A. 4 June 2009: Im almost 19 and i just had my first kiss a month or so ago, why it took so long was because im shy i guess you could say as well.
i over think things and worry about stuff until i just cant do it anymore, and my first kiss probably wouldn't of h... (read in full...)
Should I take her to the prom to please my parents?
Q. My parents want me to go to my senior prom with a family friend's daughter. She is cute and friendly but I don't really know her that well so I am not that comfortable with the idea. If I don't take her I won't have a date and I will go to my final ...
A. 31 March 2009: Well i have to ask her today, and well i just was not sure if i should. I just hope my friends don't make a mess out of the situation as they are known to do on occasion.
Thanks aunts ... (read in full...)
I envy the males!
Q. I envy the males, they can be good looking and charming without trying. Girls have to make themselves into sluts at all ages to get a boyfriend that's not fair. Opinions please....
A. 31 March 2009: You don't have to be sluts to get a boyfriend, you just are looking for the wrong type of guy or looking in the wrong places. If you go for jocks or bad boys of course they are going to respect you to put out because they are uncaring jerks most of ... (read in full...)
In 3 days her attitude changed completely
Q. Why would a girl that was really into you for weeks beforehand suddenly loose interest in barely 3 days. She went from being as giddy as a school girl, to wanting to only be friends, to not wanting to talk to me and asking for some space for a whil...
A. 30 March 2009: Yeah it really sucks, i really liked her to. I have learned to move on, mainly because of past experiences. Im already happy again and back to normal but thinking about it saddens me a bit. Thanks everyone.... (read in full...)
What should I do about my friends pressuring and harrassing me about sex?
Q. I really need help. My last attempt at getting my first girlfriend failed in a really odd and stressful way that has yet to end fully and conclusively because she keeps telling a few of my friends random messages to me saying that she still l...
A. 30 March 2009: Hopefully ignoring them doesn't piss them off, o well they have been doing that to me for some time. Thanks guys, im sorry i didn't respond till now never had a chance.... (read in full...)
Does he want more from me?
Q. My boyfriend just fingered me and it was really good. I just want to know will he want more now and want to have sex? I mean we have talked about how we are going to want a little bit but he is always all over me and was just wanting to know if he ...
A. 24 March 2009: He wants more, hes a guy. At his age that's one of the few things on his mind 24/7. Just don't let him, if he tries push him away and tell him no, and don't show weakness when you do it because he will keep pushing if you do.
Be strong, just don... (read in full...)
I had sex with 2 girls who are considered 'sluts', now I have a nice girlfriend. Should I tell her?
Q. Hey, something has been bothering me! I've been in a relationship with a girl for 3 months, she's a nice, respectful girl! What's bothering is that she's a virgin and I think she thinks I'm a virgin also. A few months back before the relationship I ...
A. 24 March 2009: Sometimes i wish i had to deal with problems like this, mainly because Ive never even had my first kiss let alone any kind of sex and im freaking 18 years old. Yet at the same time im glade i don't have to deal with all this, my friend did stuff ... (read in full...)
She said she'd go out with me soon, but still nothing. What should I do?
Q. I asked out a girl, she said she would go out with me in a few weeks when she got over her ex.. It has been over a month and nothing! We have even made out! What should I do?...
A. 22 March 2009: Girl did this to me an i waited 4 months and ended up getting screwed over really bad in the end move on, it will most likely be the most wise thing to do in the end. She will probably go back to him in the end like the girl did to me. ... (read in full...)
Help needed please. I want to break up with my boyfriend but not sure how to do it!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and I don't think I love him any more, at least I'm not in love with him any more. I recently met another guy and we went out as just friends but he's told me he likes me and I've said the same to him a...
A. 21 March 2009: You sure that you want to give up what you have with your current boyfriend, for a guy you know nearly nothing about in comparison. For all you know he could use you and leave you, and brag afterward that he stole you from him and had his fill. Guys ... (read in full...)
We had an amazing date but it's been 3 days and he still hasn't called...
Q. I recently went on a date with this guy, and we had an amazing time, we went for dinner, a walk and then a drive. We were out for 4 hours so I thought we'd see each other again, but he hasn't text me and it's been 3 days. Is he interested? ...
A. 21 March 2009: Its still possible that he is as q said, even at 21 a lot of guys are still very much man whores to many women and interests and hop from interest to interest, woman to woman without second thought. So try what you will , see what happens. Hope... (read in full...)
We had an amazing date but it's been 3 days and he still hasn't called...
Q. I recently went on a date with this guy, and we had an amazing time, we went for dinner, a walk and then a drive. We were out for 4 hours so I thought we'd see each other again, but he hasn't text me and it's been 3 days. Is he interested? ...
A. 21 March 2009: Not always true q1605, but most of the time yes. How old is he, is he 16,17, 18???
I was never this way but a lot of guys are, so odds are q is right or you scared him away.
Try to get hold of him, and if he seems to be avoiding you he ... (read in full...)
After I ask her out, what do I do?
Q. I posted on here a few days ago about a girl that i thought liked me that i liked as well, but i was unsure if i was reading her right. Well its confirmed that she likes me. She talked to one of my best friends about me and basically confessed to ...
A. 19 March 2009: we do what i would call most of the day dates we leave around 4 and stay out till at least 10 at the prom itself and then do whatever afterwords. And yeah I realize no one can do everything for me, its just i tend to panic and i need to have a rough ... (read in full...)
Has anyone ever felt that they can never get over their ex
Q. Has anyone ever felt that they can never get over their ex.My ex was the love of my life. I am in a relationship right now.I compare every guy to him. Every one else always falls short.I know I am wrong.What can I do?I know there are still feelin...
A. 19 March 2009: It seems like it will never go away until it goes away, it just sort of faded after i started truly realizing it wasn't my fault what happened happened. Then my mind started to shift into thinking of what to do next, odds are the same will happen ... (read in full...)
I snooped and found messages I shouldn't have seen, now it's causing all sorts of problems!
Q. My mom and my step dad have been together ever since I was in kindergarten. I am fifteen now. They have been on and off basically my whole life. Separating then getting back together, etc. I have never really had a problem with it. A couple ...
A. 19 March 2009: Its not your fault, odds are she would of caught him herself doing such things. You did the best thing you could of done, that was tell her of his actions so she could sort things out as she felt appropriate. It could of escalated into an affair and ... (read in full...)
Good or bad? I want to have sex!
Q. My gf is 15 and im 14..we've known eachother for a long time and have been going out for over a year, so we have great chemistry, and we simply love eachother.... so lately we've been tlking about having sex for the first time...we want to ...
A. 19 March 2009: You don't need to be doing things like this yet, hold off. If you really like each other as much as you say you can both hold in there until your both of your states AOC or older and can take care of yourself financially and emotionally. Right now ... (read in full...)
Any tips for insecurity and what to do?
Q. Hi. My boyfriend and I have a great relationship. I would really like to do something special and sexy for him in the bedroom (besides basic tipss.) But I am kind of insecure and chicken out. Plus, I don't know really what to do, and am shy when it ...
A. 19 March 2009: Insecurities are rooted in doubt, as soon as you stop worrying about anything you want to try and go into it with an open mind and not worry about it. If you just sit there and worry the whole time you wouldn't enjoy it anyways. You could also... (read in full...)
My mother is dating my ex-boyfriend...what do I do?
Q. My mother is dating my ex-boyfriend, who I was on and off with for five years. I am still in love with him and she knows it... well I'm not any more. They are actually trying to have a relationship. My kids loved him. She was never a great mo...
A. 19 March 2009: You cant really take your kids away from their grandmother, kind of immoral in itself. Does she know how much this bothers you, i mean it may seem obvious but you never know.
Is there any chance he is doing this out of spite or hate?
Is she ... (read in full...)
Dating tips for being in a backwards town
Q. I am currently attending a small boarding school with a rigorous curriculum that consumes most of my life. Coming from a class just shy of 50 students there is not much of a dating pool. I am about to graduate and go home for the summer before I ...
A. 19 March 2009: Talk to everyone you can, except for the people that look like they want to hurt you, lol.
Oddly enough that's how i found my soon to be girlfriend(long story) sort of. Never would of met her otherwise. Just try to communicate and network with peo... (read in full...)
Does it sound like she likes me or not and any tips to tell if they do?
Q. Alright I like a girl I and well i have been talking to her for about 2 weeks and I feel like things are going nicely. I actually found out we have a lot more in common then I previously imagined. I had someone I know say that she was talking ...
A. 18 March 2009: Will do, I had a feeling she did because she has very few guy friends except for a few who are in track with her but most of them are pompous jerks, so i pretty sure that is why she wont date any of them.
She seems really down to earth and I li... (read in full...)
How to tell my parentsthat I am sexually active?
Q. Can anyone help me with what I wany to tell my parents. Well the thing is that am sexually active and i want to tell them but I just don't know how. The one that really scares me to tell is my father. So how could I tell my parents that am ...
A. 13 March 2009: Just tell them anyway you do it your still going to get about the same reaction. They may already know somehow, and didn't say anything. My friends parents did that for a LOOOOOOOOONG time. If you tell them they will either get sort of upset and try ... (read in full...)
Not use birth control pills?
Q. Someone told me that a person who hasn't had kids should not us birth control pills. is this true?...
A. 13 March 2009: No, the whole point is to prevent having kids. A lot of girls take them to stop it from happening so they can have sex without their being much of a chance of pregnancy, but there is still a chance. Many at your age do it, I wouldn't recommend ... (read in full...)
I feel unconfident & ugly!
Q. Hi :-) I am 17 years old and everyday I just feel really unconfident and ugly. I know that a lot of girls struggle with this and that I am not the only one, but I just feel that something is wrong with me personally. I've never had a boyfriend ...
A. 13 March 2009: I am still sort of the way you are, shy and not the most confident. But its just one of those things you have to learn to move past and grow out of. If guys are looking at you, odds are you are just being over pessimistic about yourself. Accept ... (read in full...)
I need some self-esteem!
Q. Helloo there. I am aware that what i am going to say might sound like an average teenage girl but it is realy staring to get to me. I am 15, soon to be 16. I am 5ft 5ish and weigh 9st (126 lb) I know this might not seem a problem to some peopl...
A. 13 March 2009: Don't worry about it, your boyfriend doesn't seem to mind if he is getting frustrated with you not eating normally. Also a lot of guys like a little substance to to girls. Yeah its ok to be skinny, but 126 pounds isn't something to worry about. ... (read in full...)
I've fallen in love with my bestfriend and I don't think she feels the same
Q. Hi I think i have fallen in love with my best friend. I know I am only 15 years old and you are probably thinking that I'm joking around or that I'm not in love with this girl but i am positive that I am. I really cannot stop thinking about her,...
A. 7 March 2009: Ten years from now if you didn't get in the car, will you wish you did.
Years from now will you wish you would of went out on that branch and asked her. Yeah it may be awkward to ask her especially if she doesn't like you. If she is really y... (read in full...)
Why won't he sleep with me?
Q. 4 years ago, I met 2 men on the same day: I was interested in both of them, but only one of them very assertively pursued me and I ended up in a realtionship with him for 2 years, and friends with the other "romantic associate"/man during that ...
A. 7 March 2009: Odds are hes like me and wont make the first move unless there is a major hint that action is wanted. I just don't want to risk messing up a friendship or relationship by letting my urges get the best of me. All men have the same urges but some tend ... (read in full...)
Cheating sucks!
Q. My boyfriend cheated on me with a girl he works with. She kept offering him to fool around even though she knew he had a girlfriend and a family. He caved in but has never cheated before. We've always had a great loving relationship! He cheated ...
A. 7 March 2009: Being on meds isn't an acceptable excuse, it can effect decisions yes but unless he had a week will then he should of been able to resist. The fact that you cheated on him once also make this situation make a lot more sense it sounds like he thought ... (read in full...)
Cheating sucks!
Q. My boyfriend cheated on me with a girl he works with. She kept offering him to fool around even though she knew he had a girlfriend and a family. He caved in but has never cheated before. We've always had a great loving relationship! He cheated ...
A. 7 March 2009: Well this is one of those things that tends to be a lot easier to do once you have done it once before. Odds are that he will do it again, there is always a chance that he wont but odds are against it not happening. I would say to get out now before ... (read in full...)
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