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I talked to a pretty girl and my knees went weak. What can I say to her next time I see her?

Q.   hi im 11 and i have a big kind of embarrassing question. Theres this friendly pretty smart girl that i realllly like and we're already friends and my uncles doing a haunted house i said(quote)hey are you doing anything for halloween she said yea...

A.   10 October 2007: Honestly, That is adorable. I am only 3 years older than you, but trust me Chances are all she wanted was you to make a move. Next time you see her try to act natural, guys mistaken girls as being stuck up and rude if he tends to embarass hi... (read in full...)

I'm 16 dating a guy who's 22. Do you think that's wrong?

Q.   I'm sixteen and i just started dating a 22 year ol that i met at a concert.. Our relationship is purely innocent. The idea of sex hasnt even came up. He is really respectful and we connect and a different level than age. I really and truly in my ...

A.   10 October 2007: Honestly I think it is fine. Anyway... 6 year difference? Not that bad sweetie I know people who are 12-20 years apart, and as long as you feel it is okay, then it is. ... (read in full...)

I fear her reaction. Should I ask her out?

Q.   i want to ask a girl out. But i fear on her reaction. I want to do it face to face nothing else. But i just don't know how a kind, shy girl will react if they were told i like her? How would you girls/ladies react to a guy who was your friend a...

A.   8 October 2007: I'm a pretty shy girl when it comes to this stuff, but I know for a fact I would want a guy to tell me how he feels about me and ask me out to my face. Trust me, I encourage you to do it. It also shows that you are not a freak as to where you woul... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is incredibly jealous! Why is she this way?

Q.   My girlfriend of 5 years, now has recently become extremely jealous of me having contact with girls. Guys too. Well, anyone to be honest. If I'm not with her, she gets really anxious, and worried about what I'm doing, worried that I'm cheating, or ...

A.   7 October 2007: Every girl has to feel appreciated and loved.... I mean she needs to actually KNOW it. Rather than telling her I love you, try actually proving it. And if you already have, well remind her. She may be going through a stage where she does not fe... (read in full...)

Am I Ok to feel like this?

Q.   Ello, I've got what my appear to be a ridiculous question. To start off I'm 14 and have recently ended a 3 year relationship. To be honest, I am 98.6% over the guy, and it has been a few months since we have broke up. My problem is that I would like ...

A.   25 September 2007: Aw thanks both of your replies really helped :)... (read in full...)

Scared to tell my councillor the truth as he might call me a liar. It's not true that I noticed my parents of the pregancy, as I said...

Q.   i had a boyfriend this time last year and i got pregant and had an abortion. and started to see my school concilor...but i lied to him. i said that i did tell my mum and the father, when really i didnt because i was too scared. now i feel guilty and ...

A.   15 September 2007: as a counselor im sure he will understand that you were afraid of telling him. its good that you are feeling guilty, because if you werent that would not be normal. i think you should tell him and see how that goes... you will feel a lot better ... (read in full...)

How do I know if my lesbian friend fancies me?

Q.   hey all, i recently have become very attracted to a gay woman. im bisexual myself. ive known of her for about 6 months, but over the past 3 weeks or so i have gotten to know her. i saw her on a friday night and things seemed good, she pu...

A.   9 September 2007: im bisexual too and the only way I have found out if a girl has liked me back is simply by asking, ask the girl. And if you feel you should, ask her bestfriend how she would feel about you two being together. i dont see why else you should not be ... (read in full...)

I am 13 so, why do I want sex?

Q.   yah i'm 13 i know sex isn't worth it in the end but i still want it for some reason any help...

A.   9 September 2007: I see your a guy, and thats normal, meaning your hormones are raging at this age. I'm only 1 year older than you and I am a girl, But dont give your virginity away at such a young age. Just think it through, if you want it THAT bad as to where you ... (read in full...)

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