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... Send *V1 a private message | | | *V1's profile:Hi! My name is Devin, but my friends call me DV1. I currently live in Pennsylvania, USA. I'm currently in a serious relationship, and I've found that special someone... I've been in and out of relationships for many years. I've been lied to, cheated on, and lost friendships over relationships. I've found that I've taken many lessons from my experiences, and I want to use those experiences to help others. I'm just your average, run-of-the-mill guy, who sees himself as a hopeless romantic of sorts. I'm just lucky that I've found that special someone who doesn't get involved in drama, and just wants me for me. I want to help others find someone, or stay with someone who makes them feel appreciated. If I can cause at least one person on this planet to find or hold onto happiness, then my job here is done.
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He wants to give me oral but I'm a bit self conscious about how I look down there.
Q. My boyfriend wants to do oral on me (ive done it to him) and i want him to but I'm just a bit self concious about how I look! I know im probably worrying about nothing but i cant help it! i do shave but not right down there coz i dont wanna cut ...
A. 12 June 2007: That shouldn't matter. As long as you're clean, he shouldn't care. If he loves you for who you are, it doesn't matter.
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I am not good looking and have very little confidence. Is there any hope of me dating?
Q. I think im not good looking, so i have very little confidence in asking out any girl that i like.... what do i do? are looks important to women? im not good looking AT ALL... do i have any hope?...
A. 12 June 2007: The first problem is that you don't believe in yourself. Confidence commands respect. If you show that you're confident in yourself and your abilities, people will believe in you. If you don't believe in who you are, then you're not even ready to ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my friend I am crazy about him?
Q. hiya there is this lad that i really like and all my mates say to tell him how i feel i have liked him since i was in year 7 on and off. We are really good friends and we have just left school but going back for exams and i want to tell him how I ...
A. 12 June 2007: You've got to take a chance. Life's about taking risks. Sometimes things come out for the better, and sometimes they don't work out. If it doesn't work out, you can tell everyone that you made an effort.
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What kind of kiss?
Q. What kind of kiss would one prefer, I know it goes on personal preferences, but what is better, some people say that tongue is not good, and they prefer just the notion of the lips agains each other, what happens then? Thanks....
A. 10 June 2007: I just go with what feels right. I have a rule where I won't kiss anyone that I'm not in love with. When I kiss someone, it's like it's straight out of a sappy romance movie...
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I think my gf is cheating on me. she takes her cell phone everywhere she goes, to the bathroom, even in the shower.
Q. I think my gf is cheating on me. she takes her cell phone everywhere she goes, to the bathroom, even in the shower. when i got the chance t look through her phone i saw text messages to another guy. now she claims that her and this guy are just ...
A. 10 June 2007: It's not worth working out. At the same time, you're guilty for looking through her phone. That's a big no-no. You need to learn to trust her enough not to look through her things. If it's that bad that you felt the need to, it's definitely time to ... (read in full...)
My friend told me her dad beats her... I tried telling her to tell someone but she doesn't want me to get involved...
Q. ave got a female friend she is 16 and clamed to me that her dad has beating her up twice she doesnt want me to get involved i wnat her to tell some one but i dont no how to convince her...
A. 10 June 2007: Anywhere is better than getting beaten. They'll probably find a relative for her to stay with, and put him into counseling, and/or jail.
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My friend told me her dad beats her... I tried telling her to tell someone but she doesn't want me to get involved...
Q. ave got a female friend she is 16 and clamed to me that her dad has beating her up twice she doesnt want me to get involved i wnat her to tell some one but i dont no how to convince her...
A. 10 June 2007: It doesn't matter what she wants at this point. As her friend, it's your job to step up. Keep friends around her at all times. If her dad even looks at her the wrong way, make an example...
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Is this RAPE???
Q. I dont know what to do about my boyfriend. A few nights ago when I came home from work, he asked to have sex but I was too tired. He seemed understanding so I just went to bed. I woke up during the night to find him thrusting his penis in and out ...
A. 10 June 2007: This was definitely rape. Get him out of your home, out of mind, and out of your life...
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Why shouldn't kids ages 11-13 be dating?
Q. why shouldn't kids ages 11-13 be dating? i mean is it okay if you don't get to destracted with him/her?...
A. 9 June 2007: Because they're too young to understand the real meaning behind it.
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He told me it would be ok but I didnt want to do it and now I feel dirty!!!
Q. I have gotten my self into a real pickle and dont know what to do next!! I have been with my boyfriend now for a year and although i havnt slept with him, i love him. I was 15 in may and he was 16 in january and we have like i said been together for ...
A. 9 June 2007: He raped you. Period.
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Ear wax blockage...any tips to get rid of it!
Q. PLEASE HELP! i no this isnt really a love question but my left ear is blocked with wax! its so uncomfortable and i have clostraphobia.. its not helping! Errm i was wondering if any new how i could unblock my ear?? thanks!...
A. 9 June 2007: There is a product that you can buy at your local market. It will break the wax down into a liquid...
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Dating a co-worker but her ex is back. How do I deal with this?
Q. I work with a girl who first told me she liked me about two months ago. We've been on a few dates since but recently her posessive ex has come back into the picture and I think she is really confused as to what she wants. I've never really told her ...
A. 9 June 2007: If she's unsure, then you need to leave her be. I would move on to someone who is emotionally prepared for a new relationship.
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A past traumatic experience makes me dread my b'day! I need advice on how to cop!
Q. hi. im gonna go straight into my question n then i will explain. i am turning 15 tomorrow and i am dreading it because for the past 2 years i have been petrified of this one day!! last year i couldnt even bring my self to get out of bed and from ...
A. 9 June 2007: Don't let your past dictate your future. I know that the day brings back bad memories, but you have to believe that you're going to get through it...
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His uni work seem sto take priority over me and it's driving me mad! How do I deal with this?
Q. Hi ya, what can i say apart from im driving myself demented with worry and insecurity. I have been seeing a lovely bloke for 2 months he lives 80 miles away but we get on great. Unfortunately at the moment he is in his last 10 weeks of a 3 year ...
A. 8 June 2007: If you love him, you'll be understanding. He's working towards a future. Would you rather him be able to give you a good future, and have goals, or be living with his parents the rest of his life? He's working towards success, and that's the type of ... (read in full...)
I don't know whether to get back together with my ex or not???
Q. i dont know whether or not i should get back 2gether with my ex. we had awesome moments with each other until another guy came and occupied all of her time 2 where she wouldnt even say hi to me or even smile at me.but since i left her she hasnt ...
A. 8 June 2007: She's not interested. The only thing that you can do is move on with your life.
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Should I just dump him so he can be with his first love, his mooching best friend?
Q. I hate my boyfriend's best friend. Every time he comes to town he mooches (READ: lives, drinks and eats on my boyfriend's money). Furthermore, when he's here my boyfriend refuses to answer his phone. Which really upsets me. If the guy is going...
A. 8 June 2007: I turn my phone off when I'm with friends as well... It's nothing to break up with him over. Your bf obviously knows that he's being taken advantage of, but he's making a choice. As long as he isn't cheating on you, it's fine...
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Do I stick to my values of not wanting sex till I'm married or just give in?
Q. First of all, I sincerely hope that people take me seriously considering I am only 18. I have been through a lot recently, and I just found out my boyfriend cheated on me. The thing is that this is not the first boyfriend that has done that to me. ...
A. 8 June 2007: You should be proud of yourself for sticking to your values. If your guy doesn't respect your values, then he doesn't respect you. It's not your fault. Forget him.
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Why did he dump me after 4 years the way he did????
Q. I want some opinions 'cos its doing my head in... was with a guy, long distance for 4 yrs. well the last time we slept together he bought a 12 pack of condoms when other times he always got the 3 for £2 (vending machine) Anyway we hooked up and as ...
A. 8 June 2007: He sounds like he has an addiction to sex... I don't think that he was ready to be committed...
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We got in an argument, so he slept over his ex's house! He says nothing happened, but I don't kow what to believe!
Q. hi all, question to all males out ter. can u please help me !!! why would my bf of 3yrs tell me he went out for dinner with an ex of his from years back, then went back to her place for more drinks but slept on sofa while she slept in her bed. Sin...
A. 6 June 2007: You need to dump him and move on. Him sleeping over any ex's house should be out of the question. I don't care if they're friends or not. That's out of line, and I would dump them immediately. I don't care if it was on the couch or not.
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He's with me but I found out he made up with an old gf! What do I do now?
Q. After i answered, my bf he told me he had a gf working in Manila for 2yrs. and have an off and on relationship so i asked him if we should break.up..but he didnt agree..till he told me that he will get rid of the girl and asks me to living in ...
A. 6 June 2007: He's trying to get as much action as possible. Forget about him. Save up, and get an annulment, then go on with your life.
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We're trying to make this marriage work but he's talking to the other woman. Is he back with me for the wrong reasons?
Q. My husband and I are going through some rough times. We have been married for a little over three years, together for almost six. He cheated on me six times in four years. I forgave him and moved on. One day I took our kids and belongings and ...
A. 6 June 2007: 1) Get custody of the kids
2) Pack your things
3) File for divorce
4) Get him out of your life
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I'm in a relationship with a married couple - I am deeply in love with the guy, but sometimes see the woman as competition! I can't take it!
Q. i am in a relationship with a married couple, i am deeply in love with the man as i met him first and have known him longer, the wife however who is born the day after me but 8 years older, sometimes i like her but other times i see her as ...
A. 6 June 2007: I think that you should be in a relationship of your own. You're always going to be third wheel. It's an incredibly strange situation. I would get out of it.
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Had unprotected sex and he 'came' inside me! Will I get pregnant?
Q. Ok I am 14 years old and i had unprotected sex with a guy that i been with for 9 months, he told me he came in me, i dont know if i might be pregnent but this happened like a week ago, will i be pregnent???...
A. 6 June 2007: It's a very strong possibility. Go to a doctor immediately and way your choices. You're way too young to be having sex and getting pregnant...
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We're engaged and he is the best thing that has happened to me! I was so happy until I saw the look on his Mother's face at our announcement..What can I do?
Q. Hi there, my name is Marya and I'm 33 years old and my fiancé’s name is Kevin, he's 38. We've been together for 5 years now. On June 03, 2007 he announced our engagement… but it was not good. I was so hurt and disappointed when I saw his mom’...
A. 6 June 2007: His mother just realized that she has to give up control of her little boy to another woman. It's not you. Who cares what she thinks, as long as you two are happy? It sounds like your fiancee is doing the right thing by turning women down. He proved ... (read in full...)
I set a honey trap and he fell for it... are all guys this bad??
Q. HONEY TRAP! I've been talking to my on-line man for about 4 months and we were getting on really well, he lives 100 miles from me and we were planning a weekend together in a couple of weeks. However, I set a 'honey trap' for him on the website w...
A. 5 June 2007: All men aren't like this. Some of us just want a one night stand, and others want what I want. I want "the whole 2 and a half, with the picket fence and the German shephard".
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We've been together two years - he says he can't live without me, so why does he treat me like complete crap?? Should I just leave?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together for over 2 years, but he is always telling me its not working and treating me like sh*t. but then he tells me he can live without me. what should i believe and should i leave him?...
A. 5 June 2007: He sounds a little cookoo... I would get away from him.
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I suck my thumb in private and my dad said I look stupid! I don't see why I should stop, though - any opinions?
Q. This isn't really loved based but I need people's points of view. I'm 17 and I suck my thumb, only in private, I can't give up and I don't want to really as I don't see anything wrong with it. Lately, my dad has been telling me off for it and says ...
A. 5 June 2007: I actually have the whole blanket problem... I always have it with me when I sleep. Don't feel bad. Stina's right-it's your dad.
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I'm very close to my guy friend, but now he's got a gf! I feel as though I've been replaced!!
Q. Hey, well I've been really close with this guy for 3 years now. I can't ever get to like anyone else that much cause it's him I like. We are still close, but i dont see him that much as he lives a few hours drive away. Now he's got a GF and thin...
A. 5 June 2007: That's a natural occurrence. A big part of life is understanding that partners tend to come before friendships. Friends are fun, but they generally don't cuddle and kiss, or satisfy other needs. If you really like him, wait it out, and see what ... (read in full...)
How do I know my boyfriend doesn't want to break up for good?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and a half. We have lived together for about 7 months and now my boyfriend has asked for a break. He says he just needs a week to clear his head. We've had issues in the past - I, personally, ...
A. 5 June 2007: It seems like he's got your best interests at heart. You're not ready to be with him, as you've got issues. He's doing the right thing-letting you go. When you REALLY love someone, you know what's best for them, and you know when they need space to ... (read in full...)
We moved in together as friends w/ benefits, but now I'm in love with him! I told him and he's become cold and distant (except when he wants sex)!
Q. I think I've made a big mistake. I've been living with a guy for the past 3 years now. At first we made an agreement that we'd be friends "with benefits." Over time, things changed (for me.) I fell in love with him and want more of a commitment ...
A. 5 June 2007: If one of your friends is stuck living at home, but they have a job, ask them to move in...
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My bf and his ex broke up 4 years ago, but they still text each other ALL the time! It's like dating two people!!
Q. i dont know if this should bother me but it does, im seeing a guy now 3 months but he calls and texts his x nearly every day and she does the same, he is away from her 4 years now and says they are just good friends, but he tells her everything and ...
A. 5 June 2007: I agree. She's the past, and you're his future. He can be friends with her, but friendships are supposed to be different with your ex. It means being civil and possibly seeing each other once or twice a year to say hi. It doesn't sound like he's ... (read in full...)
I told her that I love her and she says she's no good for me and to forget her! Why?
Q. i'm male 21 and i love a girl of 25. The tragedy is that she enjoys a lot talking with me, sharing his everything with me. Both of us don't give importance and priority to sex. I really love her and I will not be able to live without her. ...
A. 5 June 2007: I've heard those words before. It means that she's not the type of person to be tied down to one person, and she's not ready to change into what you want. The best thing that you can do is move on.
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We moved in together as friends w/ benefits, but now I'm in love with him! I told him and he's become cold and distant (except when he wants sex)!
Q. I think I've made a big mistake. I've been living with a guy for the past 3 years now. At first we made an agreement that we'd be friends "with benefits." Over time, things changed (for me.) I fell in love with him and want more of a commitment ...
A. 5 June 2007: It's a dead end. You moved in, knowing that there was the possibility that things could change. I would move out.
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Got my first proper date with an older guy on Friday... don't know what to wear or how to behave!
Q. i have my first proper date on friday night,and i am reali nevous i dont have a clue what to wear as i usually dress quite casually, and i dont wanna come on to slaggy either.i am very nervous aswell becuz hes a older than me and im not quite sure ...
A. 5 June 2007: Just wear what you normally wear when you're out doing things. If he accepts you for what you are, then he's a keeper. He's probably nervous, too. Just take it slowly.
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This older guy left his girlfriend for me! I don't want to get in too deep - what should I do??
Q. This older guy said he was falling in love with me, after having sex more than once. He split up with his girlfriend and went all weird, even though we were doing this stuff when he was with her. But two days ago i ended up staying round his. What ...
A. 5 June 2007: He's older, and you're having sex? He could get put in jail for that! It's rape!! It's going to be weird for him to adjust to being with another girl right out of a relationship. Take things slowly.
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She told me I was average in bed and that I didn't know what I was really doing! Any tips, or do I just have to practice??
Q. I just started having sex with a girlfriend, I was a virgin before I met her. She has had a lot more experience than me with older guys. She recently told me that "I don't know what I'm doing" during sex. This is a huge blow to me since I thought I ...
A. 5 June 2007: Stop having sex with her for a little bit. Generally, you should go out of your way to satisfy your partner. In this particular case, what I recommend, is stopping for a while. She'll want you more, and then you look at her and say: "I thought that ... (read in full...)
How do I tell him, I want to kiss him at my b'day party?
Q. There's a guy I like who I think likes me back. My birthday is coming up and some of our mutual friends are having a party for me and someone else. Now, my guy and I aren't dating but I really want him to know that I like him and I'd really like to ...
A. 5 June 2007: Figure out if he likes you first. If you just tell him that you want to kiss him, he's going to assume that you just want a one night stand. It may end up going farther, and your birthday will be a day that you may come to regret for the rest of ... (read in full...)
My ex split with me to date another female-so I moved on to another guy. Now my ex wants me back! Any advice?
Q. I have recently split from a 4 year relationship due to my partner thinking he wanted space but then i found out he was meeting another girl which he claims is all innocent. We split just before christmas and i started to get on with my life and i ...
A. 5 June 2007: As a guy, I can tell you not to go back to him. You're his B choice, or his last resort, second choice. You're the one he dates when he can't have anyone else. Continue moving on. You'll find someone better.
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I'm 14..is that too young to masturbate?
Q. is 14 too young to masturbate at i was just wonderin ??...
A. 5 June 2007: Not at all. That's a normal age where puberty kicks in. It's normal to be curious about how your body is changing.
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I'm feeling homesick and unsettled in this new country - I have lousy jobs and am not enjoying myself! If I go home, I feel people will see me as a failure - Help!
Q. Hey, Every1. I left for Austria Saturday and I'm missing home or feeling very unsettled at the moment. Wish I didnt have the job that I'm doing here which is waitressing and housekeeping but now I dont know what to do because I want to stay in ...
A. 5 June 2007: If you want to go back to your country, go back. Don't let what people think stop you. You don't have to go back to your same town... That's the great thing about choice. Make a financial plan ahead of time.
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My friend broke up w/ her bf so she started spending time with me and my gf. My gf and I split, now my friend's going after her! I still love my ex! Help!
Q. I have been with my gf for 5 years. Last year one of my best friends split up with her bf and being the good friend I am, I took here under my wing and she has now spent most of her time with me and my gf. Before xmas I felt like there was 3 of us ...
A. 5 June 2007: If you're living in a tense household, I suggest finding another friend, and getting a new apartment. The only thing that you can do is move on to better things.
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How do I know my boyfriend doesn't want to break up for good?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and a half. We have lived together for about 7 months and now my boyfriend has asked for a break. He says he just needs a week to clear his head. We've had issues in the past - I, personally, ...
A. 29 May 2007: I have a feeling that he'll be getting in touch with you. Wait for him for a few months, and if you don't hear anything, move on. I don't think that you'll need to worry about it. When he gets into contact with you, ask him to listen for a little ... (read in full...)
How do I know my boyfriend doesn't want to break up for good?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and a half. We have lived together for about 7 months and now my boyfriend has asked for a break. He says he just needs a week to clear his head. We've had issues in the past - I, personally, ...
A. 29 May 2007: It seems like he just needs space for a while, and if you love him, you'll respect that. That doesn't mean go and date/sleep with someone else. If you love him wholeheartedly, you will wait for him, unless he says otherwise.
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