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... Send *V1 a private message | | | *V1's profile:Hi! My name is Devin, but my friends call me DV1. I currently live in Pennsylvania, USA. I'm currently in a serious relationship, and I've found that special someone... I've been in and out of relationships for many years. I've been lied to, cheated on, and lost friendships over relationships. I've found that I've taken many lessons from my experiences, and I want to use those experiences to help others. I'm just your average, run-of-the-mill guy, who sees himself as a hopeless romantic of sorts. I'm just lucky that I've found that special someone who doesn't get involved in drama, and just wants me for me. I want to help others find someone, or stay with someone who makes them feel appreciated. If I can cause at least one person on this planet to find or hold onto happiness, then my job here is done.
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My friend broke up w/ her bf so she started spending time with me and my gf. My gf and I split, now my friend's going after her! I still love my ex! Help!
Q. I have been with my gf for 5 years. Last year one of my best friends split up with her bf and being the good friend I am, I took here under my wing and she has now spent most of her time with me and my gf. Before xmas I felt like there was 3 of us ...
A. 5 June 2007: If you're living in a tense household, I suggest finding another friend, and getting a new apartment. The only thing that you can do is move on to better things.
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I really want to seperate from my husband, but he's in a terrible physical and emotional state! I don't know if I can do it!
Q. I have been married for 28 years, I fell out of love 10 years ago but haven't left as my husband has always been so dependent on me. Over the years he has got severe back problems and suffers with depression. I have just found the courage to sell ...
A. 5 June 2007: He's got to fix himself on his own. When he looks in the mirror and seeks a change, he'll find it. The best thing that you can do is get a divorce, and let him find himself.
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She said she needs a "breather" and wants to get back to how things were! Should I be worried?
Q. I have been dating someone for a couple months now. She has told me that she wants a "breather" from me, cause I am constantly on her mind and she always thinks about when we will see each other, talk, etc., and she has to think about things (she ...
A. 5 June 2007: The problem lies in this question: How many times will this loop repeat itself, and are you prepared to go through this?
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I've been with my bf for 4 years, but I keep having thoughts about my ex from high school!
Q. I have been dating my bf for 4 yrs this month. he has always believed, and told me, that he knows i am the one for him. but for the past year, i have been having doubts about him and our relationship. i told him this and we have broken up a couple ...
A. 5 June 2007: Yes, you should break up with your boyfriend. Let him find someone who's ready to love him. If you aren't in contact with your ex boyfriend, you've answered your question. If you're not going to ever see him again, why give up the great thing that ... (read in full...)
I'm being put in the middle of an argument between my bf and my friend! I don't want to ruin any relationships - Help!!
Q. i am a female, i have been friends with *george for 6 years. ive been dating *jim for 2 months. *george and *jim are having a disagreement about their roommate situation. when i tell *george that im not getting in the middle of it he acusses me of ...
A. 5 June 2007: Get them both in the same room, and tell them that you're not getting involved with their bickering. If they're not satisfied with that, tell them you're done talking to either of them, and move on with your life. Follow through.
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Never in my life have I kept anything from her, if we get back together, in my eyes, she has a right to know everything, but I know it will destroy her, what do I do?
Q. I started seeing a girl 7 months ago, we have known each other for a bit, and completly fell in love. She came from a troubled childhood, and about a month ago, everything caught up with her, she told me she wanted a break. I'm no idiot, I realise ...
A. 5 June 2007: I know that this sounds cruel, but if you weren't together, your sex life is not her business. If you want to tell her, feel free to do so, but she won't have any right to get upset or angry about it. She broke up with you, making you single, ... (read in full...)
Me and my ex boyfriend got back together but the trust isn't there
Q. Me and my ex boyfriend got back together but the trust isn't there..he went out with a girl. used her to get to someone else.. mind u the girl he went out with while we were goin out b 4 they kissed.. now he claims thats his sister..and that there ...
A. 5 June 2007: If you can't trust each other, there's no relationship.
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I told my friend's sister that I was very fond of her, but she shot me down! I'm feeling a bit low now - what can I do?
Q. Hi, I am in love with my friends sister who I also have a great relationship with, however on saturday nite I finally told her I was very fond of her, her reply was we will allways be friends but nothing more, I now feel a bit depressed how do I ...
A. 5 June 2007: Rejection always hurts. Think of it this way: If she's not wasting time and emotions on you, don't do it yourself. You will be fine!
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We constantly bicker - is our relationship doomed?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years about we fight about stupid things all the time. We can never seem to see eye to eye. Does this mean were just doomed as a couple? Or is there something I can do to stop all of this....
A. 5 June 2007: You're supposed to fight about small things. That's normal in any relationship. A long makeup session is supposed to follow. If that's not happening, then your relationship is indeed doomed.
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I've been talking to this guy online since Christmas, now he has told me he likes me I've began to lose intrest and back away.
Q. I've been talking to this guy online since Christmas, I began to like him a couple of months ago. Its taken him quite a while to say how he feels about me however, now he has told me he likes me I've began to lose intrest and back away. I dont know ...
A. 5 June 2007: It seems that you like the chase, but you don't want to be caught.
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I'm engaged, but my fiance kissed another girl and this other guy has been coming onto me! I'm so confused!!
Q. I am engaged to a guy and with him 8 years im 24 and i am only recently starting to question this im so confused i do not think im happy but if i lost him id be upset. About two months ago he told me he kissed some other girl maybe this is the ...
A. 5 June 2007: The fact that he kissed another girl should be a problem. He messed up, and if he seems childish, maybe he is. Maybe he's not prepared for a commitment. As far as the new guy is concerned: If he respected you and your relationship at all(supposing ... (read in full...)
How do I get rid of my nerdy geeky personality?
Q. How do I get rid of my nerdy geeky personality? i know its a big part of me but i hate being always referred to as a loser. Oh and I'm 20 and not some teenager in high school....
A. 4 June 2007: Being a nerd isn't necessarily a bad thing... A lot of people making fun of someone do it to make themselves look better, because they're missing something themselves. Just work towards being successful. When you're a millionaire, they'll look ... (read in full...)
Do you think she is interested in me?
Q. I keep asking this girl i like out, she never says no but instead is always busy or something. We text each other almost daily and often. Do you think she is interested in me?...
A. 4 June 2007: Yes, but she's probably just got a lot going on. Don't read anything more into it... When she's got time, she'll come to you. Just don't have high expectations, and be willing to keep an open mind if something better comes along.
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I'm beginning to wonder if my boyfriend is just stringing me along
Q. Hi. I'm beginning to wonder if my boyfriend is just stringing me along. He often tells me about how he's going to marry me, and he's always the one that brings it up.. then every so often he'll backtrack and say that of course he's not going to...
A. 4 June 2007: If you've only been dating a year, it would be odd to get engaged. You guys should be together for a few years first, and this is probably what it going through your mind. In your first year together, he's still getting to know you. He obviously ... (read in full...)
Could you please tell me if my boyfriend hits me once would he do it again?
Q. Could you please tell me if my boyfriend hits me once would he do it again?...
A. 4 June 2007: Yes, he would. Get out while you can.
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I am dating a guy 22 years older than me, we are in love but have problems sexually!
Q. I am dating a guy 22 years older than me, we are in love but have problems sexually, he says it is our age gap, we love each other so what should we do?...
A. 4 June 2007: If you have to, try going to a doctor and getting a prescription to help.
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I'm in love w/ my flatmate, but don't feel I can tell her as she's emotional from a break up! What can I do?
Q. I am in love with my flatmate. We have lived together for a few years and have known each other since we started Uni 7 years ago. She has been having emotional problems with her ex boyfriend who messed her around and is still trying to string her ...
A. 4 June 2007: Right now, she needs a good friend to console her. Help her heal, and don't take advantage of her sadness. Down the road, when she's happy, tell her how you feel. Just know to take it slow.
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He wants a sexual relationship but I don't think I feel the same...
Q. I'm an 18 year old female, and have been dating my boyfriend for nearly 8 months. I'm starting to feel like I don't like him in that special way anymore. He wants a sexual relationship, but I don't think I feel the same. I don't get that tingly ...
A. 4 June 2007: It sounds like you're falling out of love with him. You should tell him now, before you hurt him more down the road.
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Could she be my dream girl???
Q. Hello, I wonder if you could help please? I have been ‘play’ flirting with this girl for about a year or two. She’s really popular, beautiful and real nice, way out of my league in my opinion. At first she found me weird. When I mean play it’s ...
A. 4 June 2007: She's probably just flirting... The best thing that you can do is take things slow. If you're interested in her, ask her to hang out sometime.
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I've been with my boyfriend for just over two years now, and his flirting is really bothering me.
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for just over two years now, and his flirting is really bothering me. I didn't usually care, but as time has passed and our seriousness has increased I don't appreciate it. He flirts with service people, people in other ...
A. 4 June 2007: It sounds like he's not ready to be commited to anyone.
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Living with someone for 5 years just found loads of filthy texts and pic messages on his phone from someone
Q. Living with someone for 5 years just found loads of filthy texts and pic messages on his phone from someone. Confronted him he denied it an tried to say from a male friend yet saw with my own eyes one pic he has taken a girl givin him oral sex he ...
A. 4 June 2007: Pack your bags, and leave immediately. He's caught.
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He says the phrase "I love you" is overused. So how do I tell him that I really do love him?
Q. Been seeing my boyfriend a year and wanna say i love you, but he has said to me in the past he thinks the words are overused. Now I don't know if I should say it. When is the best time to say something like that? I'm finding it a big deal because ...
A. 4 June 2007: I think the truth is he's afraid that you really mean it, and may be getting a little commitment phobic...
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What products can I use for my greasy hair? And how do I make my chest appear bigger?
Q. Im a teenager and my hair goes greasy after 1/2 days after washing it. Really annoying, does anyone know anything to help prevent this products to help. Theres head and sholders (for greasy hair)?. Also I think my breasts are rather small does ...
A. 4 June 2007: I have the same problem. I suggest buying shampoo at your haircuttery...
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My bf cheated on me with my best friend a few weeks ago - I just now found out! I love him, but don't want to have this happen again! Help!
Q. Okay just the other day I found out that my boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend while I was on my cruise for Spring Break with my family. Like I said, it was spring break and now it is June 2 and i just now found out about it. They have be...
A. 4 June 2007: Cheating is never forgivable in my view. It's adding injury to insult when they cheat with your best friend. If he is willing to do it with your best friend, it shows the great lack of respect that he has for you and your relationship. I would drop ... (read in full...)
My bf cheated on me with my best friend a few weeks ago - I just now found out! I love him, but don't want to have this happen again! Help!
Q. Okay just the other day I found out that my boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend while I was on my cruise for Spring Break with my family. Like I said, it was spring break and now it is June 2 and i just now found out about it. They have be...
A. 4 June 2007: Cheating is never forgivable in my view. It's adding injury to insult when they cheat with your best friend. If he is willing to do it with your best friend, it shows the great lack of respect that he has for you and your relationship. I would drop ... (read in full...)
Help..I'm pregnant. What can I do?
Q. ok so i've asked alot of ? about me and my bf about french kissing, sex, etc. but i didn't listen to anybody cuz I'M PREGNANT!!! i ain't told my mom cuz she'll litterally kill me well when i went to wal-mart i found and took a pregnant test thing, ...
A. 3 June 2007: It depends on if your body can handle the pregnancy. Ask a doctor.
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I am dating a man 8 years older than me but I feel as if I'm holding him back...
Q. I am currently dating a guy 8 years my senior. I truly care about him and he has helped me through a lot of rough spots. However I fear that I am holding him back. He is 27, owns a house, has a good job, and is begining to think about starting a ...
A. 3 June 2007: If he really loves you, he should be willing to wait a while. This should especially the case if he really sees you as the eventual mother of his kids. If you let him know that you would at least consider kids with him in a few years, he might not ... (read in full...)
I'm in a relationship but I have fallen for my friend's girlfriend...
Q. I have fallen in love with my friend's girlfriend although I'm now in a relationship... What should i do..??...
A. 3 June 2007: If you're in love with someone else, end your relationship ASAP. Your current girlfriend doesn't deserve to be put through any pain because of your desires. From there, you wait it out, and see if it doesn't work out with your friend and his ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on my best friend's little sister
Q. I have a crush on my best friend's little sister. I really don't know what to do about it...I've always been able to take confidence in the fact that if I was approached by a girl that I had moral reservations about, I could always turn it down. ...
A. 3 June 2007: As long as she's legal, your friend should have no problem with it... If you guys get married, you'll get to be related to your friend!!
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She's seeing someone else now and I'm devastated!
Q. Hello all that reads, my name is Nick. To start at the begening i have been in a relationship with the love of my life for 4 years but now we arent really talking. it ended in april, we lived together for at least one year, we had are fights about ...
A. 3 June 2007: I know that you don't want to move on, but she's made her choice. I made the biggest mistake of my life this year - wasting my emotions on someone who wasn't returning them.
Don't do the same. It's only going t cause you massive amounts of hurt and ... (read in full...)
I feel just like a little hoe that he was using for something or another.
Q. Hello, I had ask for your help last week and now, I still am. I did hang on to the married man, hoping that he would come to me one day; to tell me that he's leaving his wife. He didn't! Ironically, his wife came from the beauty salon, he took her ...
A. 3 June 2007: You're going to be ok. You can't be selfish and expect people to break up a marraige, not to mention walk away from kids. Marraige is a serious commitment! How would you feel if some woman came along and stole your husband, not to mention the father ... (read in full...)
He can never commit to making a plan to do anything in advance.
Q. I have been dating a guy for 10 years - We don't live together and he can never commit to making a plan to do anything in advance. I feel like I am always begging him to spend time with me and then sit around and wait for him to decide what he wants ...
A. 3 June 2007: No, it doesn't. You shouldn't have to beg for him to see you. When a guy is really in love with a girl, he can't stop thinking about her, and wants to see her. Otherwise he just doesn't care. Don't waste your time with him.
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I don't know if I can trust my friend with my boyfriend...
Q. Right, this might be a little complicated so I am going to write it in a list: I am totally in love with my boyfriend of six months and trust him implicitly. I do not believe he would do anything wrong in this situation. However I don't know...
A. 3 June 2007: She shouldn't be hanging out in his room alone with him, period. End of story. That's a big trust killer. I would personally be furious. There's hanging with a girl, then there's being in a room with a bed of any sort. Basically THEY were ON A BED. ... (read in full...)
I do not know how to react when my husband becomes extremely unfair and agressive verbally to me.
Q. I do not know how to react when my husband becomes extremely unfair and agressive verbally to me. i tell him he's hurting me but he doesnt seem to give much ear. i say that it is not correct what he thinks of me or says about me. this often ends in ...
A. 3 June 2007: That's not a way to live. He sounds like he's telling you what he wants to hear in order to maintain control. That's not a relationship. The easy way out is indeed to leave. The cool thing about life is our right to make a choice. You deserve ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to let him play with my breasts even although I'm breast feeding?
Q. bit of a silly question but 2 embarrassed 2 ask anyone, recently had a baby 6 weeks ago was getting intimate with my fella the other nite, 1st time since the baby was born he always enjoyed playing with my breasts but as im breast feeding i dont ...
A. 3 June 2007: That's completely up to you. If it doesn't hurt, and you still want to be intimate, go for it...
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He likes BDSM porn, and has invitations in his email to meet others in this group.
Q. Married for nearly 8 years. I have never cheated, but he did. He doesn't know I know. He likes BDSM porn, and has invitations in his email to meet others in this group. I was totally at a loss for that end of the spectrum, because I had never ...
A. 3 June 2007: He's crazy and a liar. There is no other way to say this. Rate me badly if you want for saying this, but it's true.
This is NOT a healthy relationship, and you deserve MUCH BETTER!! Leave him, and find someone who's ready to make you their worl... (read in full...)
What are the chances do you think of us getting back together?
Q. My boyfriend asked me for some space three months ago, but stupid me kept phoning and texting telling him how much I loved and cared for him. A week later he dumped me and said he'd met someone else and changed his cell number. I know he had ...
A. 3 June 2007: It sounds like it was friendly courtesy. He probably realized how bad he looked by dumping you the way he did, and tried to be a bigger person. Your best bet is to try really hard to move on. In time, I promise, you'll be ok. :)
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When I shave my legs it hurts so bad because I have very sensitive skin. Anyone got any ideas?
Q. I have dark hair on my legs so I have to shave it but I also have very sensitive skin. Whenever I am shaving my upper legs it hurts like something wicked. I use a venus disposible razor with some sort of shaving gel. I have tried alternatives to ...
A. 3 June 2007: Change your razors often, and make sure to use plenty of gel. The pain you are feeling probably means that you're using a razor that needs to be replaced. You could also go the wax or lazer treatment route...
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This is going to sound stupid but I have a fear of going away on holiday.
Q. This is going to sound stupid but I have a fear of going away on holiday. I have been on many holidays but its since I have hit around 16 I have become less bothered about going away. The thing is I am going with my girlfriend in a week and I am ...
A. 3 June 2007: I know that it's scary, but once you're there, all you'll be thinking about is checking out your new surroundings.
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He is still telling me that he loves me but yet acting distant. Has he gone from love to loveless?
Q. Hello everyone. I have been in a relationship with this guy for about 4 months. We met on the internet. We finally met. We clicked on every cylinder. This guy had become my everything. We talked about getting married one day, having our ...
A. 3 June 2007: For all you know, he could be going through a death in the family, or something really bad. Instead of thinking of it in terms of yourself, try looking at the broader picture. Instead of wondering, pick up the phone and call him, or go and see him. ... (read in full...)
He is being violent to me and beating me on a regular basis...
Q. Hey i have been with my husband for 3 years although we have been together for 5 I love him very much but last year I went through a really rough time and lost 3 babys altogether the 3rd was an abortion and my husband has been blaming me even though ...
A. 3 June 2007: Although I understand your need to defend yourself, I have a couple of points that I want to make clear.
1) Your wife has a right to vent online, and it's a little odd that you need to follow up with things, and post on her account. Are you that... (read in full...)
I don't know if I can trust my friend with my boyfriend...
Q. Right, this might be a little complicated so I am going to write it in a list: I am totally in love with my boyfriend of six months and trust him implicitly. I do not believe he would do anything wrong in this situation. However I don't know...
A. 3 June 2007: You're not being ridiculous. I don't care if they were talking, or just laying there, he shouldn't have even been in a bedroom with him. I would have been furious! You're right not to trust him. Just because he may not be attracted to her now, ... (read in full...)
Help..I'm pregnant. What can I do?
Q. ok so i've asked alot of ? about me and my bf about french kissing, sex, etc. but i didn't listen to anybody cuz I'M PREGNANT!!! i ain't told my mom cuz she'll litterally kill me well when i went to wal-mart i found and took a pregnant test thing, ...
A. 27 May 2007: I'm pretty much shocked. You're still a baby, and you're having a baby. You shouldn't have been having sex for many years to come. You need to tell your parents ASAP.
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