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Had unprotected sex and he 'came' inside me! Will I get pregnant?

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Question - (6 June 2007) 17 Answers - (Newest, 7 September 2008)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Ok I am 14 years old and i had unprotected sex with a guy that i been with for 9 months, he told me he came in me, i dont know if i might be pregnent but this happened like a week ago, will i be pregnent???

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A female reader, toxicbutterflies123 United Kingdom +, writes (7 September 2008):

I Had Protected Sex. About 2/3 Weeks Ago And Im 3 Days Over My Period, Ive Been stressy About Being Pregunaunt Thoe Im Sure Im Not. He Never Came Atall Becuase Afterwards I Made Him And It Took A while so im sure he never precame to, i cnt tell my parents ive told my friends, i dont know what to do becuase i know it never broke, i havent had any sickness but my boobs are a bit sencitive but my m8s said that could just be a sign of your period. so could i be pregnaunt "/ please answer people im really scared im only 14 :'(

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2007):

I dont think that it is worth saying how silly you have been as i am sure that the fact that you are probably very scared at this point in time is proof enough. You could well have become pregnant as it does only take the one time however it is too soon to take a tst my advice is in a couple of weeks make an appointment with your local family planning clinic if you are unsure where this is then ask at your gp's. they will talk to you and test you if you wish and all importantly give you some free contraception. You do not need to tell your parents about this as it is confidential but if you are pregnant then you should tell your parents as soon as possible they may be angry to start with but you will need them whatever you may decide for support, and be careful in the future if you believe you are old enough and ready for sex then behave acordingly and responsibly.

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A female reader, lisarocksyoursocksoff United Kingdom +, writes (26 June 2007):

lisarocksyoursocksoff agony auntgo to GP to be sure....!

you can get pregannt first time.. surely it's worth just getting checked

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A female reader, superfly United States +, writes (11 June 2007):

If it happens again, you're probably be a 14 year old "mother"

for sure!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2007):

Not nececerally, But there is a chance, you should get checked out by your gp, and im not trying to scare you or anything but you should also get checked out for any sexual transmitted diseases just to be on the safe side, for that could prevent you from having children when you are older and other things too.

Keep me informed and i hope everything goes well for you.

Love Emily-jo xx

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A female reader, shortybabes United Kingdom +, writes (7 June 2007):

shortybabes agony auntHiya hun there is a chance but you dont always get pregnant straight away just buy a pregnancy test or go to your local GP and they will do one for free ok bbz

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (6 June 2007):

love-him agony auntHey babe dont panick about anything kai, if he came inside you (ejaculated) then yea sorri 2 say this darlin but you could be pregnant, you need to get a pregnancy test or go to your local GP anywhere you can get a pregnancy test kai babe. dont panick though because there is always a chance you arnt. mail me if yoo wana talk x x x good luck! x x x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2007):

Maybe...maybe not. Depends on where your monthly cycle and ovulation is at. You may have scraped by without incident this time, but I wouldn't do it again without the proper protection because you are just playing Russian roulette with your future. Go to the drugstore and buy a pregnancy test and find out for sure. Then learn from this lesson. Good luck.

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A female reader, goodlistener United Kingdom +, writes (6 June 2007):

It usually takes about three weeks for a pregnancy test to work. Don't stress yourself out over it honey, if you are then it's up to you what you do. If your not, then thank god. Don't let people try and keep pushing you saying it's wrong. Of course it was a bad option, but whats done is done.

good luck honey!

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A female reader, tasha556 United Kingdom +, writes (6 June 2007):

tasha556 agony auntyou can get pregnant. you will need to take a pregnancy test or go and see your gp. if your gonna have sex try and be more careful and use contraception. gd luck xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2007):

most likely not but it depends if he ejacuated in you if he did then yes there is a good chance that you could possibly be pregnate so to be safe and to make sure your not pregnate would to take a pregnacy test to be 100 percent sure your not.

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States + , writes (6 June 2007):

TasteofIndia agony auntYou can absolutely get pregnant. When you have sex make sure you're being responsible about it and you're educated about it. At this point in the game, I really don't feel that you're quite ready.

Birth control is SUCH an important thing when you beginning to have sex. Condoms, the pill! The pill doesn't protect against STI's, though... so double up. You can get pregnant, it's a very real and very serious thing.

Go to the doctor as soon as you can. I reccommend going to Planned Parenthood where they can test for pregnancy and also give you information about sex and they can set you up for a valid form of birth control. If you are ready for sex, you have to be ready to be responsible and learn about the consequences.

Alright, sweetness. I wish you the best of luck.

xxIndia

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A male reader, Prik Belgium +, writes (6 June 2007):

Prik agony auntGo to a doctor as soon as possible! No one can tell if you're going to be pregnant in this stage. Usually, you have to wait for 2 weeks or a month to do a pregnancy test. Ask your doctor for more information on that matter. Be responsible and use condoms next time.

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A female reader, Helen Help! :) United Kingdom +, writes (6 June 2007):

Helen Help! :) agony auntHey Huni

It is a possibility If your too afraid to go to the doctors you could buy a home pregnancy test from any pharmacy like boots. But if it turns out positive you need to go to the doctors and itd be best if you told your parents or someone older you can trust who could help you through it. If its negative (not pregnant) then its probably correct but you could always do another one a few days later just to make sure. Keep a check make sure your still gettin a period too. Also you could go to a free family planning clinic there will be one near by and they would give you a preganancy test and go thru the results with you and give you options about what you could do. They will also tell you about different types of protection eg.. condoms the pill to make sure this doesnt happen again. Also you are really too young to be having sex it is illegal for you to do so until you are 16 in the uk any ways good luck x

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A female reader, stina United States +, writes (6 June 2007):

stina agony auntAnonymous,

Of course you could get pregnant if he came in you! Well, that is unless you're on some form of birth control.

I suggest taking a pregnancy test. If you're pregnant, you'll need to go to the doctor. You will obviously also need to tell your parents. Here is a website that I always recommend to teens in your situation:

http://www.momdadimpregnant.com/

If it turns out that you're not pregnant, you need to use some sort of birth control in the future - whether it be condoms, pills, rings, etc. Schedule an appointment and talk with your doctor.

Take care.

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A male reader, DV1 United States +, writes (6 June 2007):

DV1 agony auntIt's a very strong possibility. Go to a doctor immediately and way your choices. You're way too young to be having sex and getting pregnant...

DV1

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A female reader, jaxwardle86 United Kingdom +, writes (6 June 2007):

jaxwardle86 agony auntYou won't know for sure for another few weeks until you miss your period if you do miss it then i strongly advise you to go to your GP and get a test done if its positive you have a lot of big decisions to make if your not please get some longer term protection like the implant.

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