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I ejaculated in her face and now she is ignoring me.
Q. Well it all started when my freind suggested we hav sex ill admit it was great but it all went wrong when she went to finish me off she sucked me then told me to cum in her mouth i couldnt hold it long enough and ejaculated that hard i ended up ...
A. 5 March 2010: Give her time. Sharpen your aim if you get another chance. Also consult a dictionary about spelling the English language.... (read in full...)
Love is a one way street!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 7 1/2 years and we no longer have sex. The last time was in 2006. He says he loves me but doesn't want to be intimate at all. We've both gained about 40 lbs each over the last 6 years and he says we're too fat ...
A. 4 March 2010: Well there is a problem when a man does not want to have intimate relations with his wife. It is true that either partner may be spoiling the mood, and the postings here may only be half the story. But that's all we have to go on, and we can only ... (read in full...)
Love is a one way street!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 7 1/2 years and we no longer have sex. The last time was in 2006. He says he loves me but doesn't want to be intimate at all. We've both gained about 40 lbs each over the last 6 years and he says we're too fat ...
A. 4 March 2010: With all due respect to "Laura1318," I do not think that the poster is the problem here. I think the husband is the main problem based on the wife's explanation.... (read in full...)
Love is a one way street!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 7 1/2 years and we no longer have sex. The last time was in 2006. He says he loves me but doesn't want to be intimate at all. We've both gained about 40 lbs each over the last 6 years and he says we're too fat ...
A. 4 March 2010: Well this is probably more of a relationship issue than a sexual one, and I advise more on the sexual things. But sex is certainly not all that restrained by fat or weight. I'm rather trim, but have made love to women twice my size with intense ... (read in full...)
The idea of oral sex turns her off
Q. Hey Agony Aunts and Uncles, I've been having a small problem lately with my girlfriend. We've been together for a year, and we've enjoyed together a great sex life, and we also enjoy foreplay almost as much as the sexual act itself, but recently ...
A. 2 March 2010: To "Miamine" and "VocalsAndRhythmGuitarist," you are both welcome if my thoughts are of any help. I'm an older man, but experience really does matter as you will someday realize. The question here seems to be whether blow jobs, at least ... (read in full...)
The idea of oral sex turns her off
Q. Hey Agony Aunts and Uncles, I've been having a small problem lately with my girlfriend. We've been together for a year, and we've enjoyed together a great sex life, and we also enjoy foreplay almost as much as the sexual act itself, but recently ...
A. 2 March 2010: In my opinion, "Miamine" has the right idea. Your girl may simply not be ready for giving oral to a man at her age. It is a give and receive kind of venture that requires getting past the adolescent and teenage mentality that sexual things are ... (read in full...)
I found another man's underwear under the bed!
Q. I just found men's underwear under my side of the bed. I'd like advice on what to do. This weekend, I was searching for a pair of old sneakers and they were shoved way under our bed on my side. I have no clue how long they've been there, I usually...
A. 2 March 2010: Well I think the hidden cam idea is genius. Wish that kind of technology was available during my first marriage, but that was 1965-66. Once I arrived home unexpected and found the bed all messed up, but I couldn't prove a thing.... (read in full...)
Am I bad in bed because my boyfriend lost his erection during sex?
Q. i have this problem well actually its not me that has it, however i think i am contributing to it. My boyfriend lost his erection during sex and this is the second time it has happened.. We were in the missionary position and to be honest when it ...
A. 1 March 2010: My agreement is with "CaringGuy." It is not you, and I think it has more to do with a lack of foreplay. That is no way to maintain good sexual relations whether in marriage or not. Your reference to "straight in for the kill no foreplay or anything" ... (read in full...)
The idea of oral sex turns her off
Q. Hey Agony Aunts and Uncles, I've been having a small problem lately with my girlfriend. We've been together for a year, and we've enjoyed together a great sex life, and we also enjoy foreplay almost as much as the sexual act itself, but recently ...
A. 1 March 2010: Well, for some people who believe that oral sex is nasty, bad or worse, I do not think anything you say will change their mind. As has been mentioned here, some think it is slutty for a woman to give oral to her man. How can you change that opinion? ... (read in full...)
How do women train men without them knowing?
Q. I've been with my partner for 3 years but I still have trouble understanding him. I currently dont have a job but still pay my share of the bills. He expects me to do everything for him and doesn't thank me for doing it. He doesn't even say please. ...
A. 1 March 2010: Well I hope you will pardon my initial reaction to your posting, and I could be wrong, but I think that you are the one who has been "trained." Perhaps you are a very giving person and he undoubtedly has the better side of the relationship. Ideally, ... (read in full...)
Some ideas needed on sexy pictures I can send my boyfriend
Q. i want to take some sexy pics of myself for my boyfriend, and would like some ideas on how to do so, poses etc... he is away alot with his job so i want to suprise him if you are going to write to me saying i shouldnt because we could break up a...
A. 1 March 2010: As a professional photographer for some 40 years now, I must agree that you should consider a reputable pro, and probably one who is quite a bit older than yourself. He or she would not want to tarnish a good reputation by doing anything untoward or ... (read in full...)
Want to return the favour.
Q. Hey well i been dating this guy up till now we have not had sex and i really want to, he makes me horny he makes me feel these crazy sensations everytime he touches me. Ok well i just want to know how to please him? What can I do to really get him ...
A. 28 February 2010: Huh? Well in most cases, all you have to do to please a young man, or an older man as well, is be available and be willing. He should be taking the lead if he wants to.... (read in full...)
Virginty not fully taken?
Q. Hello, I have a partner she was married for 9 years and she lost her virginity to her husband. They have a child but she gave birth through ceserian. She is now divorced. We have perfect sex with her and we love each other so much. During our sex,...
A. 28 February 2010: It is not possible that her virginity was not taken, in my opinion. The hymen is located just inside the vaginal opening, not deep inside her vaginal canal. She bled for some other reason which may indicate that a visit to her doctor is advisable, ... (read in full...)
My wife bet a BJ to another man and he's won the bet... what should we do?!
Q. My wife made a bet that I don't want her to keep and now she has to pay up, or default on her word. What to do? A couple of weeks ago, my wife, some friends of ours and myself were drinking at my house. The conversation got heated regarding...
A. 27 February 2010: While I doubt the veracity of this story, all I say is that I'm glad I'm not you, or him or her. The reason for my doubt is that you first say the bet was made at your home, then you state that he left the "bar" immediately. Anyway, depending upon ... (read in full...)
No pleasure having sex...
Q. Hi, im a 19 year old male, and ive just started having sex, yet all of the times ive done it i havent felt anything, its warm and all but no real sexual pleasure like when i masturbate, ive considered the fact i may be gay but that doesnt appeal to ...
A. 27 February 2010: It is quite possible to become so addicted and acclimated to masturbation (and pornography) that is spoils your enjoyment of regular sexual activities with a woman. In MY youth, pornography was rarely accessible, which left only reality with a girl ... (read in full...)
Is it ok that I have protected sex with people when I am not in a relationship?
Q. im currently single so im just having fun, but do u think its ok that i have protected sex with people? the only reason i ask is because my friends say im dirty but i dont have one night stands after a night out, i know the people i have sex with....
A. 27 February 2010: Well even though personal freedoms are gradually slipping away in America, and perhaps in the United Kingdom as well, the b**tards are still not quite dictating bedroom behavior. Your question is one that only you can answer. If you are having ... (read in full...)
Does the penis stop growing or is it a continuous process?
Q. I'm nearly 20, was raised in a strict home, my mom remarried 6 years ago after loosing my dad to a car accident. My mom and I are close. We can wear each others clothes. She and I go a lot of places together and my friends that know her know she is ...
A. 27 February 2010: In my opinion, you should not mention the private matter you witnessed, but to answer your basic question about penis size, all men are of varying proportions. For some, it tends to grow up to full manhood (maybe around age 30-35) then levels off. ... (read in full...)
I think I'm too self-conscious to orgasm!
Q. I think I'm too self-conscious to orgasm. I've orgasmed in the past with previous boyfriends but with my current one, whenever he pleasuring me it feels good but then it starts to feels really intense and sensitive and rather than come, I start ...
A. 25 February 2010: The second anonymous reader probably has this right. Most women prefer a good deal of foreplay prior to intercourse or any direct stimulation, especially of the clitoris. Unfortunately, many guys are a bit too eager to get to the point (so to ... (read in full...)
I'm worried that when it comes to having sex I will just be really clumsy and inexperienced!
Q. Hi there this is really embarrassing but i don't really know what else to do. Basically i'm a 20 year old virgin, and this is totally out of choice. I have been extremely picky in the past, and to be honest a bit of a prude. I'm not ugly, and i ...
A. 24 February 2010: In my opinion, there is nothing wrong with being a 20-year-old virgin, and when the time and right man comes along, you will be fine. Most any man, experienced or not, and preferably in marriage, will be happy to be your first. The same will be the ... (read in full...)
What does female ejaculate taste like?
Q. just wondering but what does female ejaculate taste like? i mean i can go down on my girlfriend and the taatse wont bother me but somwtimees after fingerin and eating her i will go back down and the tatse will be unbarable lol why?...
A. 24 February 2010: Every woman tastes slightly different, and I think it depends a great deal on both diet and genetics. Assuming hygiene is proper and she is free of any kind of infection, most women are quite tolerable down below or even delicious, but the flavor ... (read in full...)
Is it normal that I need at least an hour before I can get another erection?
Q. Hi Im with a new partner now, and things are going well. However, she is very demanding in the bedroom. When ive orgasmed i need at least an hour before i can get another erection, if weve had lots of sex the night before it might be two hou...
A. 23 February 2010: I think that's about normal or even better than normal.... (read in full...)
I'm branded gay and I'm not!!!
Q. hi people.. so uh,we all have our good memories and bad memories. Being human we all made mistakes, sometimes a huge mistake right? So.. In 2006, i met a new friend, she's nice and all. We get along pretty well and I see her as a good friend,but ...
A. 23 February 2010: If some choose to have sex and love within their own gender, so be it - and to each their own. But is also still ok to be straight "cherry264" without any apology to anyone. Being accused of ANY falsehood is what is unjust.... (read in full...)
I want to know what he likes in bed but he seems so embarrassed to tell me!
Q. I've been with my husband for 7 years. I love him to death and only want to make him happy in every way. but we have one issue. He is only my 2nd partner, and im like his 6th or 7th. I had a lot of growing up to do sexually, like watching porn, ...
A. 23 February 2010: Well first of all there are only a few basic ways to do heterosexual sex, although the potential positions are very numerous. But let's get to what I think is probably the issue with your posting.
You have a nice and easygoing husband, but he has ... (read in full...)
I'm branded gay and I'm not!!!
Q. hi people.. so uh,we all have our good memories and bad memories. Being human we all made mistakes, sometimes a huge mistake right? So.. In 2006, i met a new friend, she's nice and all. We get along pretty well and I see her as a good friend,but ...
A. 22 February 2010: All you have to do is get a boyfriend.... (read in full...)
I need tips to raise my sex drive! Advice?
Q. My sex drive has gone to nearly zero the last few months. I think it's linked to him having cheated on me and not feeling fully safe with him, also i feel that i need to have sex with him or i'm giving him a 'reason' to do so again. I know he is ...
A. 22 February 2010: You do not explain the nature of this relationship, such as whether married, boyfriend, live-in or whatever, but it's obvious by your post that he is self-centered and self-serving. That's what you've got there.... (read in full...)
How do I control getting wet too easily?
Q. I have a little bit of a problem. I notice that whenever something turns me on I get wet pretty easily. Is there anyway I can control this or make sure that it doesn't come as soon?...
A. 21 February 2010: You are just normally aroused sometimes. Don't worry about it. Wear panty-liners as necessary. ... (read in full...)
I don't want to have sex, but at the same time am tempted
Q. So I'm in a situation with a guy that I've known for my whole life (literally). We just saw each other for the first time in years, and we got into some pretty heavy physical stuff, but we didn't have sex. I'm a virgin, and he wants to sleep with ...
A. 21 February 2010: Please realize that having vaginal sex is a serious step, and the loss of your virginity is a momentous event, even if only you know it happened. It is especially true due to your age, and understand that I am no prudish person even though you would ... (read in full...)
After I masturbate, I can't cum again for about an hour. Is something wrong with me?
Q. when i cum after masterbating i can't cum again for about an hour is there something wrong with me?? and also does anyone know how to make masterbating better???? Cuz i love the experiance im bout to do it now...
A. 19 February 2010: That's about normal at your age, but better not to be quite so frequent there.... (read in full...)
Why is he doing this?? Does he just want SEX?
Q. a guy i met on plenty of fish dating site.. we've met in public once he says he wants to come to my house and chill with me cos HE HAS NO MONEY TO TAKE ME OUT. but he drives a very posh car and has a good job. i said i want to go out on d...
A. 19 February 2010: Sounds like he just wants sex to me. You probably should not even respond if he messages you again.... (read in full...)
What is the natural way to tighten my vagina again?
Q. after an abortion my boyfriend complained that my vagina is not as tight as it used to be, which i have noticed myself.please, what is the natural way to tighten my vagina again...
A. 19 February 2010: Kegel exercises, and you can find more information by using the search field above each page here. These exercises will not actually make your vagina tighter, which is not likely needed anyway, but will allow you to squeeze your pelvic muscles to ... (read in full...)
Should you marry someone if the sex is terrible?
Q. Should you marry someone if the sex is not good and there is no possible way for it to get any better?...
A. 18 February 2010: Certain things about lovemaking can improve with time and practice, and possibly some study, but there must be desire and some natural stuff going on. Some things cannot be fabricated regardless of intent. Some folks, whether male or female, are ... (read in full...)
Should you marry someone if the sex is terrible?
Q. Should you marry someone if the sex is not good and there is no possible way for it to get any better?...
A. 18 February 2010: Little information to go on there, but based on the general idea offered, my response would be a simple - no.... (read in full...)
How can I be hot with small boobs?
Q. How can I be hot with small boobs? I have small boobs, wide hips and a small waist. I think it's a very feminine looking body. But guys still drool more over busty women! I don't get it, boobs are only fat. I've seen guys drooling over women with ...
A. 18 February 2010: If it makes you feel any better, and I'm an old man now and you probably wouldn't care, but small breasts have always been fine with me. In fact, they are possibly an asset because they are less likely to sag later on. Smaller breasts may also have ... (read in full...)
My gay best friend proposed to me! And I want to accept!
Q. My gay best friend just asked me to marry him.... SOBER!! Now, he's a gay man who everyone thinks is straight or bisexual and he can play it straight very well! SoO straight, that he is enlisted in the US Armed Forces! I love him with all my heart...
A. 18 February 2010: What could possibly make you think that being married to a man who has sexual relations with other men is a healthy long-term relationship for you?... (read in full...)
While aroused strange liquid comes out.
Q. Hi, Well i am 18 years old and my penis is uncircumcised. My major concern is why when i am making out with a girl and i am erect, my penis produces a liquid? It is not cum, it's just something that i have no control over and i don't know what it is ...
A. 18 February 2010: I don't know how many times you have to be told that the fluid is almost certainly pre-cum before you will accept it. ... (read in full...)
How can I make oral sex more comfortable for me and enjoyable for him?
Q. hi, this is a bit of a weird question but my boyfriend loves me to give him head, and i love pleasing him, but he has quite a wide penis and i wondered if there are any ways to make it more enjoyable for me? my jaw aches after a while.. and also i ...
A. 18 February 2010: Well I don't know how "wide" you mean, but deep-throating can more easily be accomplished when your throat is extended and in-line with his erection. There are a few positions I know that allow this. My favorite is to stand next to the bed, while ... (read in full...)
Could I have an STD?
Q. This might sound a bit stupid...but I'll ask anyway! I lost my virginity to my boyfriend. He was a virgin also, and we used a condom. Neither of us had been sexual with anyone else before each other, and haven't been while we've been together. A...
A. 17 February 2010: True virgins are so unlikely to either acquire or pass a sexual transmitted disease that it is almost silly. That being said, girls do develop certain infections, like yeast infections, due to other conditions. Some infections may also be acquired ... (read in full...)
My wife wont let me go down on her and it is a real turn on for me. Any advice?
Q. My wife is wonderful and we have a good sex life, but she won't let me go down on her. Or at least it hasn't happened in many years. She says she just doesn't like it, but its a real turn-on for me. Any advice? ...
A. 17 February 2010: Read this one:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-advice-do-you-have-about-giving-and.html... (read in full...)
It becomes painful...
Q. Whenever i masturbate or my boyfriend plays with me, after rubbing my clitoris i get the feeling i need to pee, i carry on because i know this is when im about to cum but just as i get the peeing sensation, my clitoris begins to become very painful ...
A. 17 February 2010: Too much direct stimulation can be too much. An experienced lover knows how to adjust, whether orally, with hands or both. I think it is kind of a natural thing about monitoring her responses and adjusting to bring a woman to climax. It's an art. ... (read in full...)
Worried about partner's future ED/low sex drive as he gets older in a significant age gap relationship
Q. If you've been in/are in a significant age gap relationship, have you ever worried about this: your significant other experiencing ED or lower sex drive as he gets older? I'm with a man who is 20 years older than me (I'm almost 21) and I sometime...
A. 16 February 2010: Well, everyone is different. I'm now in my early 60s and still have plenty of want to, but one certain kind of high blood pressure medication (beta blocker) has begun to affect me in recent years. Viagra solves that issue just fine, but is ... (read in full...)
I have become increasingly concerned about her night time habits!
Q. I have been living with my finacee for 8 months. We enjoy sex 3 or more times a week. I always ensure she has an orgasm before there is any penetration as I tend not to last too long. I have become increasingly concerned about her night time habit...
A. 16 February 2010: It would seem she better enjoys doing herself sometimes. Perhaps some of the female responders can help, but I wonder, do you provide her oral pleasures?... (read in full...)
I have become increasingly concerned about her night time habits!
Q. I have been living with my finacee for 8 months. We enjoy sex 3 or more times a week. I always ensure she has an orgasm before there is any penetration as I tend not to last too long. I have become increasingly concerned about her night time habit...
A. 16 February 2010: I'll admit that it is interesting that she would do that knowing full well that you are awake and right next to her. Why don't you simply talk about it? The masturbation is reasonably normal, but even if she feels too tired to engage in intercourse ... (read in full...)
While aroused strange liquid comes out.
Q. Hi, Well i am 18 years old and my penis is uncircumcised. My major concern is why when i am making out with a girl and i am erect, my penis produces a liquid? It is not cum, it's just something that i have no control over and i don't know what it is ...
A. 10 February 2010: Responder "gg2qt4me" is correct. It is pre-cum, and it will occur to you all your life whenever you are highly aroused. Wash your underwear after. lol ... (read in full...)
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