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Q.   Alright...so this is probably stupid, but it's something that's haunted me forever, and I'd love to get over it. I'm worried about cum getting on things. It never used to worry me. Just at some point, the idea that it was getting in my boxers and...

A.   1 February 2008: freind.. its good to wanna be clean,tidy etc. but their are limits. Nothing is gonna happpen if ya get cum anywhere!! I can sorta understand that it might gross you out, but its a natural thing to egaculate, and 99.9% of the time it goes where it ... (read in full...)

I miss him, all though I don't show it.

Q.   I just ended my relationship with my boyfriend a little over a month ago. He just started dating one of my friends from high school. every time i see them hug, and say i love you to eachother, i get this cringe in my stomach and it doesn't ...

A.   1 February 2008: I think that deep down you dont know how you feel, you dont wanna be with him untill you see him with someone els, this is a common thing we always want what we can no longer have. If you realy do miss this guy maybe you should try and talk to him, ... (read in full...)

I have loved her all my life and now she is unexpectedly gone!

Q.   Me n my ex broke up nearly 2 years ago, and i realy have tried to move on but it doesnt matter i cant. She was my 1st and only love, Now it all seems like a dream!!! She was my everything, we were young when we met (14 yrs) and we were together fo...

A.   31 January 2008: Thanks again everyone... maybe your all right, jst seeing her would hurt like hell. And your right KayKay i do have to learn how to except it. Coz it aint never gonna change, i have been thinking deeply since i posted my question, and ive come to ... (read in full...)

I have loved her all my life and now she is unexpectedly gone!

Q.   Me n my ex broke up nearly 2 years ago, and i realy have tried to move on but it doesnt matter i cant. She was my 1st and only love, Now it all seems like a dream!!! She was my everything, we were young when we met (14 yrs) and we were together fo...

A.   29 January 2008: Just to say thanx to all who gave their advive on my posted question. There were a lot of diffrent opinions and i have taken them all on bord,, and decided that maybe now it is time to go and see her and just get the closer that i have needed for ... (read in full...)

My Partner has just left me with a newborn baby. How can I get through the grief and raise my two kids successfully?

Q.   My Partner has just left me with an 8 week old baby and I'm really struggling to come to terms with this and finding life very difficult at the moment. We had been arguing for some months and had come to a stalemate situation. Several nights a...

A.   26 January 2008: Hey.... I real do feel for you but i cant help but feel that you better off without this man. To leave you with kids and a house to run without even a reason??? But dont wory my dad left when i was 4 leaving my mum also with my younger brother ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants me to give him oral sex but I don't want to...what should I do??

Q.   My boyfriend wants me to preform oral sex but I don't want to. What should I do?...

A.   26 January 2008: Dont do it.if you dont want to for whatever reason,he should respect that and move on. If he cant and keeps asking maybe your not with the right guy!! All the best Gaz... (read in full...)

They wont listen to me about my options at school. What can I do?

Q.   I Am Close To Choosing my options in school - 3 lessons that are decided on what i want to do when i am older - but my mum keeps trying to change my options. she also said that i wont be able to do a game designer course at university - wich is what ...

A.   26 January 2008: I feel for you mate... But at the end of the day its your life, and ur future.. If you want 2 be a game disinger GO FOR IT!!!!Their are many people who do it and make a mint!!And im sure their are a ton of places you can learn.. You need 2 sit yo... (read in full...)

We are both Muslim, but worlds apart! Can it work for us?

Q.   my problem is that i am involved with a guy who is 9 years senior to me and does not belong to our community also which is a big problem for me as this will cause a huge rift between me and my family.he says he is madly in love with me and is ...

A.   16 January 2008: From what i hear on tv and stuff, the rift between shia and sunni goes alot deeper than your faimly.... But this is kinda like Romeo and juliet... If it is true love it will find a way!!! But ask yourself the question is this man worth your fai... (read in full...)

He harrassed me at school, I reported him and he got suspended. Was I wrong to do this?

Q.   I'm a 13 year old girl. I really need advice. This boy who is in my class has been flirting with me for a while now since school started. and then he does gross, inapropriate stuff around me with words or physical contact. Ive held this in for 4 ...

A.   16 January 2008: I think you did the right thing, and wether he liked you then and hates you now dont matter. The most important thing is that all the things he was doing to make you unhappy are now in the open, and the people who are their to protect you can do ... (read in full...)

Worried my gf's good looks will go down the tolilet! How do I tell her this?

Q.   Hi, I have been seeing my girlfriend now for about 9 months, when we 1st met, she blew me away- nice personality, beautiful looks, a great smile and a lovely body. She has just started using the pill, I said I would use condoms but she wants to use ...

A.   16 January 2008: hey, 1. I think that if you truly love this girl how she looked wouldnt matter. Dont get me wrong looks are important but the longer your with someone how they look becomes less and less important and you should grow to love her for the person s... (read in full...)

Please could someone out there give me some advice whether to finish with my current boyfriend and get back with my ex or stay with him...

Q.   Help. I'm currently in a relationship with my boyfriend and we have been together for 9 months now. Latey we are arguing quite a lot. Since we've got together his family have treated me outstanding as if I'm one of them and me and his sister have ...

A.   20 September 2007: If ur ex made ur happier then go 4 it!!!!!!!!!! Gaz... (read in full...)

Do I tell her I love her? Should I do it over the phone, or in person?

Q.   I have known this girl for a few years now and we're good friends. I Realized a couple weeks ago that I love her. I can't stop thinking about her. Ever since I realized that I loved her I haven't started the conversations at all. She has been the ...

A.   20 September 2007: OUCH!! I think you ned to tell her how ya feel, but not on the phone!!! Face 2 Face that way it'd be real! just be honest with her about ya feelings, but b4 i think ya need 2 tell her dat she aint done nothing wrong. Be careful if ya realy do... (read in full...)

How can you turn a friendship into a romantic relationship?

Q.   Hello, I just wanna say summat small. I know an amazing girl and I love her. She would feel the same I guess, but she just doesn't. She thinks I'm good looking, but she's not attracted to me, she doesn't really feel that way about anyone... and ...

A.   19 September 2007: If you like her that much "maybe" you should tell her how ya feel. But b4 ya do tell her that you realy do value the freindship and dont wanna lose it. I think its a real hard situation 2 be in. But if ya heart wants it I think ya'd be a fool not 2 ... (read in full...)

I have total hots for him! His girlfriend already flirts with other guys - What do you think I should do?

Q.   Help! I have loads of boys who fancy me, but I fancy this boy who has a girl. I have total hots for him and rumor goes that his mate has been flirting with other guys anywa! Please, I need help. What do you think I should do?? I don't wanna hurt any...

A.   19 September 2007: If you dont wanna hurt anyones feelings then Id advise ya 2 do nothing, untill they split!! If you do somthing about ya feelings someone is gonna get hurt n i dont just mean his missus, I mean u. Have you thought about what would happen if he re... (read in full...)

She laughed of my body as we were getting intimate. What should I do?

Q.   Me and my girlfriend were "getting in the mood", but when I dropped my pants she laughed and said I was small. What should I do?...

A.   19 September 2007: I think she's well out of order. You love the perosn for who they are, not what they got!! For her to laugh at ya tells me she's not that serious because if she thought a lot of ya, it wouldn't matter what size it is mate ....As sad as it is, ge... (read in full...)

I'm beginning to think he likes me - what do you think? And what should I do?

Q.   im almost 15 and im not sure the guy i like likes me back and im not sure what to do. we went on a school tour to rome last year and thats when i realised i liked him, he is really funny and makes me laugh (+ he is easy to talk to) well ever sin...

A.   19 September 2007: Best thing to do is be blunt and just ask him. What do you have to lose!!! Nothing to lose and all to gain.. Your young just go for it n tell him how you feel. He might feel the same. I have been in the sota same situation n did nothing about it... (read in full...)

Is it best to stay friends after a break up or better to sever all ties?

Q.   is it best to stay friends after a break up or is it better to sever all ties? my ex and i were very close and he often said i was his best friend as well as girlfriend! We broke up amicably and he said he wanted us to be like ross and rachel i.e ...

A.   19 September 2007: No one is ment to be alone. And it wouldnt be wrong to see someone els, I think it'd be a good thing, a start to moving on with your life. If nothing els seeing someone els would confirm to you if you made the right choice leaving your ex. ITS NOT ... (read in full...)

How do I deal with my depression and get over her?

Q.   I have become very depressed after this girl rejected me. i dont know whats wrong. i have been reject before, and never felt very depressed for very long. at most only a couple of days, but this has lasted at least 5 months. maybe its because i like ...

A.   19 September 2007: I think that rejection of any form is hard to deal with. But even more so if you realy do like the person who is doing the rejecting. How do you get over her? Have you spoke to her and found out why you were rejected? Sometimes all we need is t... (read in full...)

She's too tight? What should I do?

Q.   my girlfriend cant have sex. she's too tight, meaning it wont go in even when im hard. what should i do?...

A.   19 September 2007: Well thats difficult.... Ive found that foreplay can help in loosing up..but ya prob allready knw this. Other than that im guessing that you talk about your sex life. Talk about seeking medical advice as unconfatuble as it may be their is many th... (read in full...)

Is it best to stay friends after a break up or better to sever all ties?

Q.   is it best to stay friends after a break up or is it better to sever all ties? my ex and i were very close and he often said i was his best friend as well as girlfriend! We broke up amicably and he said he wanted us to be like ross and rachel i.e ...

A.   19 September 2007: I think that its always going to be hard when you split up with someone..but even harder to be freinds with someone whom you shared a special time of your life with.. I think at first if you truly dont want a relashionship together then distance ... (read in full...)

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