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writes:I'm nearly 20, was raised in a strict home, my mom remarried 6 years ago after loosing my dad to a car accident. My mom and I are close. We can wear each others clothes. She and I go a lot of places together and my friends that know her know she is my mom and others think she is my sister and I quickly tell them she's my mom. I've had two boyfriends and both wanted to have sex shortly after going out. The second one we actually started but I told him no after I was performing oral on him and back out in the middle of it. Here is my problem.....my mom and stepdad was supposed to be alone at their house and I was going to spend the night at a girlfriends and forgot some stuff that we were going to do so I was going back to my house to get the stuff and caught my mom, in the jacuzzi, giving my stepdad a BJ and they didn't see me and right now have no idea of what I saw. I saw my two boyfriends dicks and my stepdad's was twice their size and I can't get it out of my mind. It must have been 9 or 10 inches long. Do boys/men penis' keep on growing or did my boyfriends penis just not as big as my stepdad. I don't know why I'm wondering this except that maybe I'm missing something. Also, should I tell my mother what I saw, I think I'm embarrassed! Reply to this Question
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reader, BarbsDaughter +, writes (6 March 2010):
BarbsDaughter is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLast night, a couple girl friends spent the night, we were watching movies, mom and my stepdad had gone to bed, and I guess we were making too much noise and my mom got up and came in to where we were. Mom caught one of the girls commenting on some guys clothes and how hung he probably was. Mom ask her about her question and I wasn't going to touch this with a 10 foot pole. She told mom the three guys she'd been with had little or she guess medium size penis and then she ask mom the bombshell question.....'Had she ever seen a bigger penis than average?' Mom's response was 'maybe!' and then she changed the subject. The subject came up 5 minutes later and she was ask what's the biggest she had seen and she said 'big!' and said she was going back to bed. We watched the end of the movie and laid in the living room talking until we fell asleep close to 3am and when we got up at 8am my friends had to go so I told them goodby and came back in and mom ask what was said after she went to bed. I told her that girl ask did I know how big was 'big' and mom told me 'way bigger than average'. I was going to ask her another question and she stopped me by saying 'you're going to keep asking questions so I might as well tell you'. She precluded her statement by saying that really it's really a private affair and she ask if I would 'guard her secret' and I agreed. She then told me it was her present husband, my stepdad, so I acted oh ever so surprised as she held her fingers about 10 inches apart. I ask her 9 inches and she said 10. She said she measured it when they first started dating and were going to make love. He told her and she didn't believe him so she measured him. She also told me that she has to get worked up to take it because sometimes there is some pain and sometimes not. She reminded me that it's a secret and that I agreed to 'guard' it and I will. I wonder what she is going to tell stepdad that she told me and I wonder if she tells him which she probably will, will if affect our relationship, I think not!
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reader, Boredatwork  +, writes (3 March 2010):
 It sound to me as if you have an unhealthy obsession withyour stepdads penis!
Yes you should drop the subject completly, Im sure one day you will come accross one that big yourslef...untill then you will just have to manage with 'mr average'
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reader, BarbsDaughter +, writes (28 February 2010):
BarbsDaughter is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBecause my mom and I share everything, well almost everything, I decided to ask her questions but not tell her what I'd seen and she ask me questions. I'm not sure but she might be suspecting something.
I told her a little white lie, that some of my girlfriends and I wondered about the size of guys penis, and that was the truth. We have talked about some of our boyfriends, present and past, size differences and I told mom they were all sizes. She ask me why I wanted to know, and that it didn't matter because it was how the guy used it and the size didn't matter. I nearly told her the truth but told her I was just wondering because I'd not seen but two and my friends stories were the same. I was hoping that she would make some comment on the size of my stepdad's but she didn't. I'm trying to be careful asking questions but not wanting her to ask me questions. I didn't tell any of my girlfriends about my encounter because I don't want to deal with them trying to tell me anything about my mom or stepdad and I for sure don't want them asking questions. I'm having enough problems asking questions to where mom doesn't suspect anything. I'm just fascinated by what my eyes showed me last weekend when I was supposed to be at my girlfriends house. Right now, mom and stepdad still don't have any idea of what I saw. Any ideas or should I just drop the subject entirely?
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reader, katt11 +, writes (27 February 2010):
it depends how old your bf is,it may still grow, probably not alot though, however 9 or 10 inches is very big,
and for the person who said she shouldnt hhave snuck up on her mum, from the question it doesnt sound like she "snuck up" on them, it sounds like an innocent mistake,
good luckk ..
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2010): you should have respected their privacy and not sneaked on them in the jacuzzi. that was in complete bad taste.imagine yourself in her place then decide whether to tell her or not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2010): No definitly don't tell your mum what you saw because you will ruin her sex life for good. because she will be disgussted and feel self conscious to ever enjoy sex anymore. as for your question about size.No their's will not grow much bigger than what they are now,but start with the average size ones and graduate to the bigger ones if you like them big.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (27 February 2010):
 In my opinion, you should not mention the private matter you witnessed, but to answer your basic question about penis size, all men are of varying proportions. For some, it tends to grow up to full manhood (maybe around age 30-35) then levels off. Your boyfriends may or may not ever attain much more than an inch or so more than they possess now, but it rarely matters providing they are of at least average proportions. And the 9-10 inches is fairly doubtful in most cases (though possible), and was probably just your imagination.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2010): No I think a mans penis stops growing at a fairly young age (perhaps in their teens) so yeah your stepdad just has an unusually large penis. And your ex boyfriends penises are probably not going to get much bigger. I know this bc, yeah well I started kind of young, but when I was 15, my bf, who was also 15 had a huuuge penis. I don't think it could get bigger than that. Imagine I'm 30 now and I still have never seen a penis that big! And back to the last question, No I don't think you should tell your mom. That's pretty embarrassing and somethings are better left unsaid. I was staying with my mom one summer who herself had a one bedroom apt, and woke up one morning to her having sex with her bf in the living room. I was completely flaberghasted and disgusted. I shut the door and stayed in my room all day. I was about 13 at the time. I have never ever mentioned it since. There is really no need to. Anyways glad I could share my thoughts with you and hopefully ur questions are answered. Sorry you had to see tha t but with time you'll just forget. Good luck!
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