How can I get over my worries about blow jobs?
Q. I really kinda need help with this now. When I was kinda young, I had a few problems with a relative, which involved him doing a few.... not so nice things to me at the time. In the start of my teens, I privately went and saw a counsellor, but she ...
A. 19 March 2008: Honey, from what you describe, you really do need counseling from a good therapist. It isnt the ability or inability to give a blow job. It is the trauma you went through with your relative when you were younger. It sounds like you have deep ... (read in full...)
I am very "turned on" by my wife with another man, is this crazy?
Q. This is a little embarrassing, but have been wanting to ask someone about this for some time, but have never had the guts to ask any of my friends. My wife and I have a good friend (David). We've been friends with him for about 4 years. The 3 of ...
A. 14 March 2008: I agree 100% with Uncle Phil. However, if this is true, you know where David stands and I think from the tone of the questions, Rachel would like it too!!
Good luck sweetie... (read in full...)
How much weight could I lose between now and Easter?
Q. Similar question was asked earlier, but... I'm around 5' 5" and weigh 116. I really would like to lose weight by Easter, because I'm fat. I'm restricting my food again because I lost a lot of weight when I did this last summer and fall. Unfortunat...
A. 14 March 2008: Honey, you are not fat! At your height and weight, you are a perfect size:) You said you like to run. If you run 30 minutes a day, 3 days a week, you will have nothing to worry about. If you want to tone up lift weights. This will increase your ... (read in full...)
Could I still get pregant even after my husband has had a vasectomy??
Q. My husband recently got a vasectomy. After 90 days, he had to go back to th doctor with a sperm sample for a sperm count. My question is: If it takes only one sperm to get a woman pregnant, what good is a "low" sperm count? Could I still get preg...
A. 3 March 2008: Thank you so much for all your help!!! I feel a whole lot better, thanks:)... (read in full...)
We are breaking-up but the feelings are still strong and my heart is shattered.
Q. I am really feeling sad today and hope someone can offer some words of wisdom? In short, I have had a very close emotional and sexual relationship with a guy for 2.5 years. Due to unavoidable circumstances we have to part our ways shortly. He is ...
A. 3 March 2008: Use your newly former love as the benchmark for the future. What I mean. You will find other men, but you will find someone who will make you feel even better.
I wish you the best. I know it is a difficult time, but time will pass and time wil... (read in full...)
I'm in the money -- but I need advice
Q. I have about $30,000 in credit card debt. I have made minimum payments for about ten years and my interest rates are high. Now I have inherited enough money to pay off the credit cards. What steps should I take? Should I simply pay the amount owed? ...
A. 2 March 2008: You can try and call your debtors and ask them if they will take a reduced amount. I believe, however, any unpaid balance will show as a charge-off on your credit report. Make sure before you reach any agreement.
If you cannot, pay-off all the ... (read in full...)
How can I get my husband to start paying attention to me,instead of masturbating to porn?
Q. My husband and I have been married for 8 years and lately I feel that he doesn't think that I am attractive. He is always looking at pictures of naked girls online. He admits that he likes masturbating to these pictures even though usually I am ...
A. 2 March 2008: Double M seems to always give great advice and this situation is no different. You both should seek counseling. Your husband may reject the idea, at least at first, but give it time. Have you tried while you are in bed alone and know he is watch... (read in full...)
The porn debate. Who's right?
Q. Alright, after reading some of the discussions on pornography on this website I have some things to say, and a few questions to ask. So these are some of the things p...
A. 2 March 2008: A question for you. If you are so against porn, what brought you to this part of the site?... (read in full...)
Have been engaging in flirtatious conversations with my mom’s younger cousin. Would a relationship between us be legal/moral?
Q. OK, here is my situation…I am a college student, with a loving family. Recently I have found myself engaging in flirtatious conversations with my mom’s younger cousin. He is not married, and we have so much in common, we started out as close ...
A. 2 March 2008: If you want the answer to a question, often you can look at history for the answer. Arguably one of our greatest Presidents, married his second cousin - Franklin D. Roosevelt.... (read in full...)
I love my second cousin, should I tell him?
Q. I'm in love with this really great guy. I mean, he's a lot taller than me, he's smarter than me (I don't know many guys who are), he's pretty good looking, is generally a nice guy except for when he gives people a hard time, and can basicly turn me ...
A. 2 March 2008: I know this is a year after the question, but I just came across this site.
First, he is not your 2nd cousin. Most think a 2nd cousin is one of your own cousin's child. The cosin you have a crush on is your 1st cousin once removed.
A 2nd c... (read in full...)
Is my mother sleeping with my boyfriend?
Q. I’m a little confused. I have been dating this wonderful guy (Greg) for 9 months now. He is 21 I’m 20. I live with my mother and my younger sister ( our father left when we were little – so it’s just us girls). My mother loves my boyfriend to bits ...
A. 2 March 2008: Another question to ask is: Do you trust your mother?... (read in full...)
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