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... Send *ctiveplay a private message | | | *ctiveplay's profile:Glad you stopped by! I've been on Dear Cupid, asking the hardest questions, and giving my up-most and best answers since 2007! Wow, I can't believe that. I found this site by stumbling upon it when I was 15, and heart broken. This site has helped bring me through many situations in life. Everyone has always been so honest, and helpful. It is such a shame that we aren't a more popular site! I have done a little bit of everything. I was a Firefighter for a few years, so I have seen some of the worst things a human can see, and faced some of the most gut wrenching things you can encounter. My latest adventure? The military! I am looking at joining the Army very soon, hopefully as a sniper. I love helping anyone that I can. If you want to message me, feel free! I'll help you in the best way I know how, an I will give you moral support, and I will never lie to you. I only tell the truth about how I feel, and how I see things. Sometimes the truth is hard to hear, but we need to hear it. That's just who I am. I would never intentionally hurt anyone, but looking back on my own life thus far, I think the simple truth would have saved a lot of pain. Instead, we are fed the sweetest lies, and they hurt.
I feel like I am a hopeless romantic at times, and I love to be romantic. I am a straight male. I love with all of my heart, and I put all of my effort in to people that I care about. People are my weakness, and my strength. If I only met you 24 hours ago, but felt a strong connection, I will get depressed knowing I will never see that person again. Like I knew them my entire life.
Just remember guys. We are all here for a reason. We all deserve to live here just like anyone else. There are 7 billion people trying to fit in to one society. You aren't alone. There is someone out there that completes you. In fact, they are searching for you just as hard as you are searching for them, they are searching for you as you are reading this. It's a simple fact! You stare at the same sun that they do. You stare at the same moon that they do. You're on the same globe that they are on, breathing the same air that they are breathing. Be patient, because happiness is ALWAYS on time. And it is just a matter of time.
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My heart desires my cousin's ex!
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He's not circumcised, what do I do?
Q. Hey, this is a stupid question but...when I'm kissing my bf, he puts my hand on his erect penis, and I'm not really sure what to do! He's not circumcised, so I'm wondering if I should move my hand so that the head pops in and out of the foreskin ...
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How can I forget about my girlfriend's sexual exploits while we were apart?
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A. 22 December 2009: Yo bud, I am in a similar boat! Its hard to forget, but either way you look at it, you had sex as well. They don't call it oral *sex* for nothing. But still yet you didn't have intercourse I absolutely understand that. Move on, its the past. ... (read in full...)
How can I forget about my girlfriend's sexual exploits while we were apart?
Q. My girlfriend and I dated for 2 1/2 years and broke up 2 months ago, we are now back together. While broken up she had sex with some guy she dated, and I went down on some girl but nothing serious. I know its none of my business what happened while ...
A. 22 December 2009: Yo bud, I am in a similar boat! Its hard to forget, but either way you look at it, you had sex as well. They don't call it oral *sex* for nothing. But still yet you didn't have intercourse I absolutely understand that. Move on, its the past. ... (read in full...)
Too scared to ask her out...
Q. I love a girl called Lois, I'm too scared to ask her out. You see me and her both have a lot of stuff in common and we kissed once. But this is the complicated part were both 13, she's seeing a 17 year old. I asked her out in class by reading a poem ...
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Q. Look i need help on how to get back in line with my relationship. I love this girl and we hit it off great but after 5 months things just seemed to go kaboom, i really need someone to help me patch up my mistakes and help me get us back on track. ...
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