I aborted his child against his wishes-Is he still holding this against me?
Q. i am a lady aged 25 i had an abortion in feb 2006 against my bfs will.he really wanted the kid but i felt we were not ready for ababy at that time.he told me that we forget about the past n later that year i got pregnant again but gave birth to a ...
A. 13 May 2008: In terms of how he feels about you, I think he's probably pretty much moved on from what happened - he told you himself that you were going to move on from the past, which was very nice of him, and also shows he really cares for you. Basically, if ... (read in full...)
What do I do? It hurts to let him go. I do love him.
Q. Do I stay with my husband or leave him either for my lover, or to be alone? I have been married for 4 and a half years. I stopped wanting my husband and have been having sex with him when he wants it for just over a year of that marriage. He kn...
A. 11 May 2008: Thank you, 15purple, for your kind words ... yes, I know that being a single mother is hard. You pretty much dedicate your whole life to your child. I know because my ex-husband and I divorced when our son was 2, and I pretty much did everything ... (read in full...)
What do I do? It hurts to let him go. I do love him.
Q. Do I stay with my husband or leave him either for my lover, or to be alone? I have been married for 4 and a half years. I stopped wanting my husband and have been having sex with him when he wants it for just over a year of that marriage. He kn...
A. 9 May 2008: I think if you don't want him and HE wants out, you have to let him go. It is so unbelieveably painful to live day to day with someone who once let you in and now has shut you out. I am doing that at the moment, and that's with someone i loved very ... (read in full...)
I watch lesbian porn and masturbate. I hate myself. Is this normal?
Q. hi im 13 year old female and just recently started masturbating but i use a hairbrush and masturbate watching lesbian porn i no it sounds discusting and i want to stop because afterwards i feel so dirrty and hate myself for doing in i...
A. 9 May 2008: ps sorry if I sound a bit Victorian in my advice, but i think porn is a bit bad - it is addictive, and it's a bit like the Macdonalds of sex - when you're hungry you really think you want it, then when (in the case of MacD's) you've had it and ... (read in full...)
I watch lesbian porn and masturbate. I hate myself. Is this normal?
Q. hi im 13 year old female and just recently started masturbating but i use a hairbrush and masturbate watching lesbian porn i no it sounds discusting and i want to stop because afterwards i feel so dirrty and hate myself for doing in i...
A. 9 May 2008: Yes, it's perfectly normal, and doesn't mean you're in any way gay. Your body is just responding to sexual images (it imagines itself in those situations). Lesbian porn is all about the female body, and yours is just responding to that.
Havin... (read in full...)
Do you think I should just leave him be, and get on with my life?
Q. HEY I broke up with b/f of a year approx 2 months ago, he wanted to stay friends, that didn't work out as i was hurting too much. So we ended up having cross words. We haven't spoken in 2 weeks and i am really missing him. I want to call him as I...
A. 9 May 2008: It's hard to say. It depends why you broke up. Did you end it? If so, and you think you made a mistake, worth getting back to him.
If you honestly know it isn't going to work, just stay put and don't call him for a while. Or even just text him... (read in full...)
What do people mean when they tell me I'm handsome?
Q. I've been told many times that i'm handsome, but I don't really believe it! maybe i'm insecure, i'm not sure. Many woman of all ages have said i'm handsome......what exactly does it mean? thanks...
A. 7 May 2008: ps and that's a strangely naive question for someone with the name 'milf lover'...... (read in full...)
What do people mean when they tell me I'm handsome?
Q. I've been told many times that i'm handsome, but I don't really believe it! maybe i'm insecure, i'm not sure. Many woman of all ages have said i'm handsome......what exactly does it mean? thanks...
A. 7 May 2008: It means when they look at you they find your face beautiful ... it means they want you ... it means you're really quite lucky, as being handsome is definitely useful, and definitely better than looking horrible. You have a head start. Believe what ... (read in full...)
He says he is seriously falling for me but has a girlfriend? Where do I stand?
Q. Hey, I really don't know what to do anymore.. I've liked this guy for over a year and hes likes me too. We were seeing each other a lot last summer nearly every day, was amazing. Only problem is hes got a gf... he was with her all last summer too....
A. 7 May 2008: It's really simple. Tell him how you feel, and that you want to be with him. The only thing is, he has to finish with his girlfriend first, and then he can be with you. Better he chooses now than gets more involved with you and ends up hurting both ... (read in full...)
When did everyone stop masturbating? Or do you still do it?
Q. Hi, just for curiosity, when did everyone stop masturbating? Or do you still do it? I am 36 but stopped when i was about 20ish. Also, when did everyone start. Males and females should answer...
A. 4 May 2008: I started when I was 13 and I am now 39 and have never stopped, apart from occasional periods of time when I was feeling down. When I am fine and all is well, usually at least once a day - it is GOOD for you!!... (read in full...)
I'm 5 weeks pregnant...am I miscarrying?
Q. Hi everyone i have a question, i'm a little freaked out, i think i might be miscarring! I've looked online for the symptoms of miscarring and you have cramps like your on your period, sharp pains in your lower abdomin, and bleed alot for 4 days - up ...
A. 4 May 2008: I'm not quite clear on what symptoms you're having? If you feel a bit sick, off your food and have a slight stomach ache, that's all normal for early pregnancy. Violent stomach pains - well, maybe you have got a bug or something?? It would only be ... (read in full...)
My blind date - does instant chemistry every happen?
Q. about to meet a girl on a blind date soon, we have chatted online, not on the phone yet, and we seem to have somethings in common, advice for a sucessful blind date? we are meeting for coffe, thats it, short and simple. I've met girls via the ...
A. 3 May 2008: When you meet anyone, within max 13 seconds you know if you want to procreate with them. It's that simple. Your bodies know. So if you don't feel that, don't push it. Instant chemistry is an absolute essential for any relationship. Anything else ... (read in full...)
I don't understand why he doesn't offer me oral any longer! Any tips?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while and we've done everything. I love it when he licks me out but he doesn't do it anymore. He says he will do it but when it comes down to him actually doing it he doesn't want to anymore. I don't...
A. 1 May 2008: OK, here are my thoughts. There are, I suspect, two kinds of guys: those who love giving oral sex to a woman, and those who do it pretty much only if they really have to, or at the start of a relationship, but as soon as they can avoid doing it, ... (read in full...)
How long does it take a girl to climax through fingering?
Q. Hi, im quite young and still a virgin. I recently got a new girlfriend which i love very much but she is very shy and has not done much with any other boy except me. She is quite shy, and i have dry fingered her (over her pants), but she doesnt f...
A. 1 May 2008: ps Also must agree with LazyGuy - the one thing you must NEVER EVER do if you want to give a woman an orgasm is to think about, mention or in any way count how much time it takes!!!! For damn sure if you even start thinking 'hmm, is this taking too ... (read in full...)
How long does it take a girl to climax through fingering?
Q. Hi, im quite young and still a virgin. I recently got a new girlfriend which i love very much but she is very shy and has not done much with any other boy except me. She is quite shy, and i have dry fingered her (over her pants), but she doesnt f...
A. 30 April 2008: Very good answer from Tisha-1. Yep, she's said it all there. Remember that women are VERY EMOTIONAL and if it's not working in their head, you can bet it won't be working anywhere else ...
The most important thing to remember is that your gir... (read in full...)
Is three times a day sex normal? Am I addicted to it?
Q. I like to have sex around three times a day. Is this normal? Am i addicted to sex?...
A. 30 April 2008: ps if you're not on the pill, you're body is going crazy trying to get you pregnant, you know ... be careful ... : )... (read in full...)
Is three times a day sex normal? Am I addicted to it?
Q. I like to have sex around three times a day. Is this normal? Am i addicted to sex?...
A. 30 April 2008: Sounds fine to me. I would also be quite happy to have sex three times a day. Morning is essential. Lunchtime or some time in the afternoon would be nice. And last thing at night. That seems to me to be perfectly OK. Zillions of people don't have ... (read in full...)
Difference between a fuck buddy and a friend with benefits and what do you think of the whole thing?
Q. My friends and I were talking and she said she had "a friend with benefits". I said "So you have a fuck buddy?" And she said, they were different things? Cant someone explain the difference to me between a fuck buddy and a friend with benefits ...
A. 29 April 2008: For me, the definitions would be:
Friend with benefits = a (usually good) friend who you occasionally have sex with
Fuck buddy = a person who you just have pretty much exclusively for occasional sex as suits you both
In both cases, be car... (read in full...)
Woman on top advice needed!
Q. Ok my boyfriend of 9months asked me about 3 months ago would i go on top during sex just for a change, i said no cause i havent a clue what to do and he was ok with that.but personally i tried it with my ex and it just didnt work for us. I would ...
A. 28 April 2008: Well, it's pretty easy, and pretty damn nice, I can tell you.
Simple method: he is lying down on his back. You get on top of him (one leg either side of his legs). You can just get used to that position for a while ... if you position yourself agai... (read in full...)
Can casual sex end up as the real thing?
Q. Has anyone had a FWB relationship which has ended up as the real thing?...
A. 28 April 2008: Of course. The attraction that made you jump into bed on pretty short acquaintance is exactly the kind of chemistry you need for 'the real thing'. Plus someone being decent, rather than a complete bxxxxxd - be careful about that one! : )... (read in full...)
Sleeping with a married man and jealous of his wife and baby..what should I do?
Q. Im sleeping with a maried man and i thibnk i might be falling in love with him. Im jealous of his wife and i cant handle that he has just had a baby with her. what should i do?...
A. 27 April 2008: What the heck are you doing? Stop sleeping with him. Don't let yourself fall in love with him - it will only end in tears, probably yours. Honestly, if he has a wife and a new baby, he will always put them before you. That's really hard, but it's ... (read in full...)
You made me realise it is too early to have a baby, but what if we are expecting at such young age?
Q. Hi my name is mar mar and we want to have a baby......But I been hearing some suggestings and i think now that i don't want to have a baby.........But i already came in her more than 10 times......And what if she is? Please help and give me tips on ...
A. 25 April 2008: If she's pregnant, well, she's pregnant, and there's not much you can do about it. Although you're young, I'm sure you'd cope. Since you started out actually wanting a baby, I REALLY don't think you should consider abortion - it is a very brutal ... (read in full...)
I can't climax through masturbation recently, what could be wrong?
Q. recently i have ran into a little problem when i masturbate i cant get off now matter how hard i try and i cant figure this out any help woould be great....
A. 25 April 2008: I'm not a guy so I don't know, but I know that if this were my problem (as a woman), it would be psychological, not physiological. Basically, you've probably developed a small mental block. It could even be that after just once of not being able to ... (read in full...)
My playboy boyfriend lies to me all the time, how do I confront him? Please help.
Q. Hi everyone, I would really appreciate some constructive advice on my problem. I am a complete mess at the moment and I can't stop crying and worrying all the time. Background: I have been seeing my boyfriend on and off for 5 years. We dated fo...
A. 25 April 2008: I think that if he says it isn't working out, and doesn't want any contact with you, then really you won't be able to salvage anything. Guys tend to make their decisions and then that's it, really. I know it would feel better if you were able to ... (read in full...)
Was this checkup done inappropriately by my wife's gynecologist?
Q. I went to a gynocologist when my wife was of 3 month pregnancy.Ultrasound done on his lab in presence of me and doctor asked my wife to meet his chamber which was 30 meter away from his lab for further checkup.Everything was ok.As per our turn I ...
A. 25 April 2008: I think it could be perfectly innocent, but it sounds a bit strange to me. The strange things are:
- Why did you have to go to a different room where you were separated from your wife? The only reason I can think of is that maybe they needed the ... (read in full...)
My playboy boyfriend lies to me all the time, how do I confront him? Please help.
Q. Hi everyone, I would really appreciate some constructive advice on my problem. I am a complete mess at the moment and I can't stop crying and worrying all the time. Background: I have been seeing my boyfriend on and off for 5 years. We dated fo...
A. 25 April 2008: Starlight, I'm really sorry he's being like this ... it is really painful, and I totally understand, having been there myself. You want to keep him, but he is torturing you with what he does.
I'm afraid I don't think there's a really easy answ... (read in full...)
How do I pull myself out of this black hole?
Q. I've always been such a strong and independant person. But the break up of a relationship in December seemed to start the beginning of a downward depression cycle. My ex boyfriend and I lived together, and I left the house we shared to move...
A. 24 April 2008: I know exactly how you feel, and it is a scary feeling - but please believe you can and will get out of this.
I won't go into details of how I got to feeling the same, because in a way the reasons don't help - yes, it's awful he dumped you like... (read in full...)
Does my girlfriend have a clit?
Q. hi, my girlfriend seems to be lacking a clit. {white american female}. i looked but cannot find one, even a small one. she lacks a hood that protects the clit. she is very highly stimulated by oral, and will orgasmn many times. she also orgasms 5 to ...
A. 24 April 2008: It sounds like there's nothing wrong with her at all if she has that many orgasms!! Not having a clitoris would make it more difficult. I'm sure it's impossible 'not' to have one, though - and it isn't something that is really noticeable - it's more ... (read in full...)
We're expecting our first child and he's texting his ex to ask for naked picture "for fun" !
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together for almost two years, we're expecting our first child! I have started to have some serious trust issues with him, it's driving me mad and it's all started with an ex of his i caught him texting her loads of ...
A. 23 April 2008: Fun? No. Not for you, as you say. Does he reassure you that he loves you, etc.? I hope so.
Basically, I think he's one of those men who needs to flirt with too many women, and he likes his exes when they're ex ... suddenly they become interest... (read in full...)
Am I in the wrong for not letting my daughter see her father?
Q. My daughter's dad and I have been in and out of a relationship. He is getting ready to leave in June with his other two kids elsewhere to where he can hold a decent job without getting let go because of his attitude. To make a long story short...
A. 23 April 2008: Yes, totally know what you mean about those negative comments, too - my ex has done that for YEARS, although he's getting a bit better now (10 years - he should be!). It's like they only see what you do wrong, and they blame EVERYTHING on you.
... (read in full...)
Am I in the wrong for not letting my daughter see her father?
Q. My daughter's dad and I have been in and out of a relationship. He is getting ready to leave in June with his other two kids elsewhere to where he can hold a decent job without getting let go because of his attitude. To make a long story short...
A. 21 April 2008: ps One big piece of advice, though: never ever let your daughter know that you think he cares more about his other children. That really would be a terrible emotional burden for her to bear. Personally I've hidden my ex-husband's failings from my ... (read in full...)
Am I in the wrong for not letting my daughter see her father?
Q. My daughter's dad and I have been in and out of a relationship. He is getting ready to leave in June with his other two kids elsewhere to where he can hold a decent job without getting let go because of his attitude. To make a long story short...
A. 21 April 2008: Sure ... sorry if I seemed a bit one-dimensional, but it's hard when you don't know all the facts. I TOTALLY agree that he has to behave properly in the way he is involved in your daughter's life. The partying, drinking, etc. is completely wrong and ... (read in full...)
We have dissention amongst our friends due to a newcomer's strange comment - should we ignore the incident or ban the newcomer?
Q. I have a question for all you guys/girls out there. I have a close male friend who owns a vacation property (cabin) on a lake with his wife. A few times a year he has an all guy weekend, There's a lake, a boat, a shooting range, etc. Lots of ...
A. 21 April 2008: I think the guy is gay or bi or strange, yes. A straight guy just wouldn't suggest strip poker in a group of guys, unless he's a real idiot and/or was stupidly nervous about fitting in with the group - but even so, that's highly unlikely. Nope, I ... (read in full...)
I'm paroniod because my lower stomach makes noises.
Q. My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex on 27/03/08, which also was the day after my period ended. It only lasted like 40 seconds but niether of us ejaculated so to speak. I'm paroniod because my lower stomach makes noises sometimes and kind of move...
A. 21 April 2008: Glad you got your period. Please be careful in future, for your sake!... (read in full...)
She had a one night stand but claims it meant nothing. What shall I do?
Q. I am very unhappy. I have been going out with my GF for 2 and a half years. A while ago she got a new job - she did not think she had a chance of getting it - was not going to apply - but I encouraged her and helped her and she got the job. She's ...
A. 21 April 2008: Blimey. Well, I don't agree with the guys here. I think you shouldn't act rashly. I think you should:
1) ask her why she did it
2) ask her if she still wants to be with you
3) forgive her and see how it goes
I think it was a crazy act - and wa... (read in full...)
They both raped me and he still won't leave me alone.
Q. I had been dating this guy for a year, until about 3 months ago i broke up with him. He instantly started calling and harrassing me, asking me why I broke up with him and telling that he loved me and that he wanted me back. I told him it was over ...
A. 21 April 2008: Absolutely just tell your parents and call the police. This guy is extremely bad news, and needs to be locked up.
Then also you will get the love and support you need - how terrible you've suffered this all alone. Tell your parents now, swee... (read in full...)
Fake tan gone wrong - how do I get it off?
Q. heya i put this fake tan on yeah. its not a wash off tho, its one that wers off...it looked great last night bt thismorning it has gone to dead blothchy on knees, ankles, wrists and stuff.. how do i get it off before waiting for it to wear off..bec...
A. 21 April 2008: Get some good (really good - expensive) body exfoliator and get scrubbing ... seriously, you need to scrub that stuff off!!!! Don't go too crazy - you don't want to damage your skin - but i would get scrubbing ... it works, too. : )... (read in full...)
5.75 inches. Average?
Q. I have a 5.75 inch penis, about 1.5 inches wide, is this considered small? I've never had any complaints in the past, I was just wondering if women consider this to be small or average?...
A. 21 April 2008: Sounds completely average and perfectly fine to me. And if you've had no complaints, I'm sure it's fine. Dicks can be too big, you know. Best to be average, really.... (read in full...)
Am I in the wrong for not letting my daughter see her father?
Q. My daughter's dad and I have been in and out of a relationship. He is getting ready to leave in June with his other two kids elsewhere to where he can hold a decent job without getting let go because of his attitude. To make a long story short...
A. 21 April 2008: He doesn't want to leave her and have nothing to do with her, does he? He wants his rights back. That means HE WANTS TO BE HER FATHER.
OK. You've got two things going on here:
1) your relationship with him - your love for him - your anger at him... (read in full...)
Health problems and I don't want to see my doctor. Please advise.
Q. hello to all, ok. im 36 at 16 had a mis-carriage(didnt know i was pregnant).hospital did urine said i was still pregnent. well i seen my fetus in the toilet so being 16 i thought it was twins and i only lost 1. well almost a year later no baby i a...
A. 21 April 2008: I understand you're feeling scared. The thing is, going to the doctor will probably help sort all this out and stop you feeling scared. Many of the things you mention could be completely unrelated. For example, I recognise several of them, and have ... (read in full...)
I'm paroniod because my lower stomach makes noises.
Q. My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex on 27/03/08, which also was the day after my period ended. It only lasted like 40 seconds but niether of us ejaculated so to speak. I'm paroniod because my lower stomach makes noises sometimes and kind of move...
A. 20 April 2008: There's NO WAY ON EARTH that the feelings you're having in your tummy mean you're pregnant. You only feel movement in your tummy from about 18 weeks of pregnancy onwards, and you would/could only be about 3 weeks pregnant. The baby would be a tiny ... (read in full...)
I'm paroniod because my lower stomach makes noises.
Q. My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex on 27/03/08, which also was the day after my period ended. It only lasted like 40 seconds but niether of us ejaculated so to speak. I'm paroniod because my lower stomach makes noises sometimes and kind of move...
A. 29 March 2008: These are definitely in no way any signs of pregnancy, so don't worry. As Mandy says, sounds like wind.
You are 99.99999999999% not pregnant, as you had sex at the wrong time, only a tiny bit, and your boyfriend didn't ejaculate inside you. HOW... (read in full...)
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