I want to get pregnant, how do I bring this up with my boyfriend? And after our last unprotected sex, is there a chance I could be pregnant?
Q. [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into the same post] Question 1: When me and my boyfriend have sex we never use condoms. he always just pulls out. well the other night we had sex and he pulled out and came nea...
A. 20 November 2009: Answers:
1. You could get pregnant from this, but there is only a very low chance.
2. There's only one way to bring it up ... say 'i'd love to have a baby with you. what do you think?'
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Oh my god!!! Could I possibly be pregnant???
Q. hey, i have a question. im currently on bc, and i got my period last weds. but yesterday, when i was sitting under the dryer at the hair salon, i started feeling really sick, and ended up throwin up. then i drank some water and threw that up too. ...
A. 19 November 2009: i guess so. do a test.... (read in full...)
What gave me this sudden, intense chill???
Q. In the middle of my last class I got this sudden intense feeling down below (which felt good) and it gave me a chill? Like a sudden very short chills. Although I did not do anything at all I was just talking to friend in the class (and when this ...
A. 19 November 2009: perhaps you had a spontaneous orgasm.... (read in full...)
Bedroom issues...
Q. I enjoy sex, the problem is my husband has a small penis that I can't feel. He's clumsy in bed and has never made me orgasm. I have tried talking to him about it and he gets angry and starts saying that I don't love him so I have faked more orgasms ...
A. 19 November 2009: oh dear.
i guess you do love him?
he is unconfident in bed, by the sounds of it, and no doubt because of worries about his small penis ... which are justified, as you can't feel it. how small is it? because even if quite small, if you are careful ... (read in full...)
Should we work at this for the sake of our daughter?
Q. I have been with my fiancé for eight years. And we just recently had a baby girl five and a half months ago. Things are rocky and are not the same it used to be. Were no longer happy. We rarely speak,have sex, or even show love with a kiss or a hug. ...
A. 18 November 2009: You have to work at it, of course. Babies do change life considerably, but it is possible to work back to what you had, just including the baby. You need to do something, though, and quick. And remember this is just the start of her little life - ... (read in full...)
Am I crazy for thinking my boyfriend might be gay?
Q. hi i have been with my boyfriend for ten months now, but i have known him for a long time... we both love eachother, he tells me alot that he loves me, treats me so good. this is gonna sound a bit crazy but i keep thinking my boyfriend is gay or ...
A. 18 November 2009: I can't see any evidence in what you've said that would suggest he is gay at all.
Let's go through the points:
1. Turns you around to have sex from behind - this is a totally normal and popular position for straight men having sex - nothing ... (read in full...)
I am struggling with the end of our relationship. I need closure.
Q. I am struggling to cope with the end of a 9 year relationship, and need some advice on how to get through it all as my now ex-bf has cut all contact, leaving me with many unanswered questions and no closure at all. We were together 9 years, lived ...
A. 17 November 2009: you deserved a lot of things, including him not betraying you, but unfortunately he just can't provide you with that - not with fidelity, and not with answers. he doesn't have answers. i think he has just taken the cowardly way out, which is really ... (read in full...)
Was I pregnant and did I kill my baby?
Q. I drank with my brother earlier, and i may be pregnant i went to sleep and when i woke up i was bleeding but not really like my period . It was there but it stopped. Could i have killed my baby? Or could it have been implantation bleeding ? ...
A. 15 November 2009: Have you taken a pregnancy test? That is the thing to do, before you start getting upset about anything.
And as for drinking / bleeding ... babies are surprisingly tough, and very small at the start. Lots and lots of women have drunk in early pr... (read in full...)
I am having fantasies about my pregnant neighbor!
Q. i have a young couple as next door neighbours. my problem is that the wife is 5 months pregnant. and i have started having fantasies about her. ever since she got the baby bump. its almost like a pregnancy fetish. and i am not too happy about ...
A. 14 November 2009: I don't think you should consider it a fetish. A lot of people think that a woman is at her most beautiful and attractive when she is pregnant, and you're also constantly reminded of her sexuality by the sight of that tummy, that shows she is ... (read in full...)
I am having fantasies about my pregnant neighbor!
Q. i have a young couple as next door neighbours. my problem is that the wife is 5 months pregnant. and i have started having fantasies about her. ever since she got the baby bump. its almost like a pregnancy fetish. and i am not too happy about ...
A. 14 November 2009: I don't think you should consider it a fetish. A lot of people think that a woman is at her most beautiful and attractive when she is pregnant, and you're also constantly reminded of her sexuality by the sight of that tummy, that shows she is ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my gf what I'm thinking about the other woman?
Q. I had an "emotional" affair which didn't involve any sex but did involve me falling head-over-heals for the other woman. I'm well aware I'm a bastard for doing what I did, but I still need help. The other woman and I discussed things and decided ...
A. 11 November 2009: ps
it strikes me that what you really want is for someone to tell you whether it is ok to give in to your curiosity and go to this dinner, within all conscience.
i almost think it is. you may have made things bigger and more important in... (read in full...)
Should I tell my gf what I'm thinking about the other woman?
Q. I had an "emotional" affair which didn't involve any sex but did involve me falling head-over-heals for the other woman. I'm well aware I'm a bastard for doing what I did, but I still need help. The other woman and I discussed things and decided ...
A. 11 November 2009: Don't tell her about the other woman. No way. That will change her world forever. Don't do it.
As for what you do with yourself ... you have to decide really if you want to be with your gf or with the other woman. If you choose the other woman, y... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and am in love with my teacher!
Q. So i'm 14 years old, and there's this teacher at school, she is amazing, like really amazing and i really really like her, she acts so nice to me and like i think i might be in love with her. She acts strange though, telling me i'm beautiful...
A. 11 November 2009: What, just on the cheek, or differently? If anything more then you MUST have no more contact like this with her, and you should tell someone - your parents. This is not right - not appropriate. You don't see it clearly as you are v young and in an ... (read in full...)
He's the most amazing man I've ever met... but is the age difference just too much?
Q. I've been great friends with the most amazing guy for 9 months now, and just this past month, we acknowledged the mutual attraction and got past the age difference: he's 22 and I'm 53. I've been involved with a lot of younger men (my ex-husband was ...
A. 9 November 2009: ps
do remember though that 22 year olds tend to be naive and optimistic with very little life experience. i know that's refreshing, but you need to deal very responsibly with someone this young.... (read in full...)
He's the most amazing man I've ever met... but is the age difference just too much?
Q. I've been great friends with the most amazing guy for 9 months now, and just this past month, we acknowledged the mutual attraction and got past the age difference: he's 22 and I'm 53. I've been involved with a lot of younger men (my ex-husband was ...
A. 9 November 2009: I can't quite picture this. I guess you must be young for your age, which is good, and if he is happy with this, and you are, then that's all fine. His mum will have a difficult time, though. I guess she might want her son to have children. Do you ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and am in love with my teacher!
Q. So i'm 14 years old, and there's this teacher at school, she is amazing, like really amazing and i really really like her, she acts so nice to me and like i think i might be in love with her. She acts strange though, telling me i'm beautiful...
A. 9 November 2009: I agree with caring guy. Girls do sometimes develop crushes on other girls or women in their teens, but it is not anything to act on, and especially not with a teacher. Just enjoy her friendship and leave it at that. And as caring guy said, any kind ... (read in full...)
My period is two weeks late but I've never had sex
Q. Im 15 and started my periods 3 years ago. They have been regular and consistant until this past month where Im currently over two weeks late. Im definately not pregnant as I havent had sex so I know I shouldnt worry but its bothering me. Does anyone ...
A. 9 November 2009: Have you had any sexual contact whatsoever with a boy recently, even if he didn't penetrate you? ... (read in full...)
Tried a new position and it made me bleed. Is this normal?
Q. My boyfriend and I made love last night, and we were a little more adventurous i.e. trying a couple of new positions, but nothing strenuous or 'weird'. Anyway, when we had finished and I went to the toilet and there was a little bit of blood - Is it ...
A. 9 November 2009: Yes, quite possible. I only had one boyfriend, and with him it hardly broke, but when I had another boyfriend, it broke more.
Also, there are certain positions where your cervix can be grazed, and it can bleed a tiny bit.
Just keep an ... (read in full...)
Would this be considerd rape...i don't want to think badly of him...
Q. Mah boyfriend and i had been together for 5 months...we had had sex before but one night we were washing his car in his barn and there is a couch in his barn. Well sprayed him with the hose (juss being goofy) and then ran to couch. he followed too ...
A. 9 November 2009: pps
but remember: you didn't feel like you were raped. you felt like he over stepped the mark, he said sorry, it wasn't a big deal. you were annoyed rather than hurt. this is very very important. how you felt determines what it was, really. just... (read in full...)
Would this be considerd rape...i don't want to think badly of him...
Q. Mah boyfriend and i had been together for 5 months...we had had sex before but one night we were washing his car in his barn and there is a couch in his barn. Well sprayed him with the hose (juss being goofy) and then ran to couch. he followed too ...
A. 9 November 2009: ps
Having said that, it all hinges on how long he kept on going after it was clear you didn't want it. If it was a couple of times then he reluctantly pulled out, ok. If it was several minutes and you were all the time upset, not ok.... (read in full...)
Would this be considerd rape...i don't want to think badly of him...
Q. Mah boyfriend and i had been together for 5 months...we had had sex before but one night we were washing his car in his barn and there is a couch in his barn. Well sprayed him with the hose (juss being goofy) and then ran to couch. he followed too ...
A. 9 November 2009: No, I don't think it was rape at all. Well, I wouldn't consider it so. I think it was this:
You are both very young. He has a very strong sex drive. He doesn't quite know where the boundaries are yet. You were both horsing around in the barn. Hi... (read in full...)
Can a guy in his late 30's be interested in a girl in her late 20's for a serious relationship?
Q. Could a guy in his late 30s be interested in a woman in her late 20s for a more serious relationship? We are 10 years apart, almost to the exact day....
A. 9 November 2009: Why not? You are at life stages that are compatible. She will soon be (if not already) at the home-building/nest-making stage. You, as a man, if you haven't already done all that, will certainly be thinking about it. Women, I hate to say it, are ... (read in full...)
Are women intimidated by an attractive male?
Q. Hi, I'm kind of curious, I work in with a few woman and I not really after pulling them or sleeping with them at all, I've got someone else in my eye! However what I'm curious about it are women intimidted by an attractive male either at work or in ...
A. 8 November 2009: So, are you very attractive, do you think?... (read in full...)
I'm depressed after my abortion.
Q. im 14 and i had an abortion in February, and know im depressed and want a baby. what do i do? please help me. i have never been this depressed in my life before please please help me ...
A. 6 November 2009: I am so very sorry for you. What you are feeling is grief, because someone close to you has gone now. It is completely natural to feel this, and to feel that you want another baby. To be honest, the only real cure for abortion is another baby, or ... (read in full...)
Having second thoughts about possibly terminating my pregnancy.
Q. Hi,i can't believe i am 39 and got myself into this situation.Firstly i have a 6 yr old daughter from a previous relationship.I have been dating a new guy for about 3mths and have just found out i'm pregnant.My inital feeling is to have an ...
A. 5 November 2009: Good luck. Personally, I am so grateful that my son now has a sister. I know that when I am gone, he will have someone of shared flesh and blood, and family culture, to love and support, and to receive love and support in return. It isn't just about ... (read in full...)
Having second thoughts about possibly terminating my pregnancy.
Q. Hi,i can't believe i am 39 and got myself into this situation.Firstly i have a 6 yr old daughter from a previous relationship.I have been dating a new guy for about 3mths and have just found out i'm pregnant.My inital feeling is to have an ...
A. 5 November 2009: I say again, you are a mother, so you know what you are doing. You know what you would be losing.
When I had a termination, it was my first child, so I didn't know what I was doing. When I subsequently had children, I was shocked again to think wh... (read in full...)
Having second thoughts about possibly terminating my pregnancy.
Q. Hi,i can't believe i am 39 and got myself into this situation.Firstly i have a 6 yr old daughter from a previous relationship.I have been dating a new guy for about 3mths and have just found out i'm pregnant.My inital feeling is to have an ...
A. 4 November 2009: ps
and forget about the money and 'lifestyle' - of course you'll survive. and if the new guy was so nice, why can't you give that relationship a chance? i know it is an early time to get pregnant in the relationship, but it doesn't mean it can'... (read in full...)
Having second thoughts about possibly terminating my pregnancy.
Q. Hi,i can't believe i am 39 and got myself into this situation.Firstly i have a 6 yr old daughter from a previous relationship.I have been dating a new guy for about 3mths and have just found out i'm pregnant.My inital feeling is to have an ...
A. 4 November 2009: Something similar happened to me, also after 3 mths of being with (a very unsuitable) person. I was also 39. I didn't have an abortion, and my daughter (18 mths) is the absolute light of my life. I also have a son, older, from my previous ... (read in full...)
Boyfriends make me feel drowsy. Why?
Q. I was wondering...everytime I am with my boyfriend I feel extremly tired. Like we will be sitting close (touching and holding hands) and all of a sudden a strong wave of drowsiness come over me. So I lay my head on his shoulder; but I dont sleep...
A. 3 November 2009: The same thing happens to me when i am next to my partner. And I also CAN'T settle easily to sleep without him. But if any time during the day I lie, or even sit, next to him (ie, within his aura!! It's true - we all have our own electro-magnetic ... (read in full...)
Is it true he just needs time and no pressure to sort himself out?
Q. Basically its a very complicated story. Back in April I almost lost my job twice over and me and my partner were not getting on 2 well. on august the 9th he cheated on me for a week just kissing with one of my friends. I forgave him, but he went to ...
A. 1 November 2009: pps
he needs not to feel trapped with you, because maybe this is why he broke ship... (read in full...)
Is it true he just needs time and no pressure to sort himself out?
Q. Basically its a very complicated story. Back in April I almost lost my job twice over and me and my partner were not getting on 2 well. on august the 9th he cheated on me for a week just kissing with one of my friends. I forgave him, but he went to ...
A. 1 November 2009: ps
and yes, i know it's hard, but i think that if you want any chance of him coming back, you have to just hold your tongue and give him absolutely free rein at the moment. if he wants you, he'll come back, and he will appreciate what you've d... (read in full...)
Is it true he just needs time and no pressure to sort himself out?
Q. Basically its a very complicated story. Back in April I almost lost my job twice over and me and my partner were not getting on 2 well. on august the 9th he cheated on me for a week just kissing with one of my friends. I forgave him, but he went to ...
A. 1 November 2009: I half agree with Dr Psych. Actually, I think your relationship wasn't going well and there were a lot of pressures (eg, your job), and it was all miserable and stressed at home, so it was the perfect situation for him having an affaire (men don't ... (read in full...)
How can I retract my foreskin?
Q. I am 15 and I can not retract my foreskin. Is there something wrong and what can I do to start retracting it?...
A. 31 October 2009: My partner recently told me that he frequently reminds his son, aged 5, (from a previous relationship), to retract his. He said that the first few times it hurt, but then was ok. I was surprised - I didn't know one was supposed to do this. I guess ... (read in full...)
How can I stop my period for one day so that I can have sex?
Q. how can i stop my period for one day so that i can have sex?...
A. 31 October 2009: ? Are you mad?! Of course you can't 'stop' your period for one day, to have sex, or anything else!
Either have sex while you have your period (no problem really, just a bit messy), or have sex another day. Simple.... (read in full...)
Do men just ask their girlfriends to give them a blow job?
Q. Random questions: Do men ask their women to give blow job if they want one? I know there are guys who don't ask and they won't even allow their partner to give head, cause they have respect for women. Well, its just a curiousity. Thanks for t...
A. 27 October 2009: It sounds like your partner is a bit strange, or maybe just embarrassed. Most men love it. And if your partner doesn't do it for you, too, I would say he has a bit of a problem with it all. Maybe you should try talking? Although I know men don't ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend and I are 14, we want to have a baby, any opinions?
Q. Me and my girlfriend are deeply in love and want to have a baby. Were 14...
A. 27 October 2009: Oh dear - everyone is being pretty hard on you. What I want to know is, why do you want a baby now? I guess you must feel very close to your girlfriend, and possibly the idea of starting a family is much more appealing than just going through school ... (read in full...)
How does one delay ejaculation?
Q. okay so here is my question. I am confused about the concept of premature ejaculation. I am a virgin but am talking about sex with with my GF. I can ejaculate fairly quickly by myself if the mood is right and i put my mind to it. Obviously ...
A. 27 October 2009: First rule: Don't get hung up about it. It will take time and practice to discover yourself how everything (and you) work. Frankly, I think the best thing is to allow yourself to orgasm in your own time - which may indeed be v quickly - but given ... (read in full...)
If he ejaculates quickly does that mean he is cheating?
Q. My boyfriend and i use to be sexual active but no longer... Well if we do.. he ejaculate very quickly (in seconds). I kno he feels back but i always told him it was alright. Dont worry its not a big deal, it can be fixed. I just love him so much ...
A. 25 October 2009: no way is he cheating. he wouldn't be getting fatter, for a start. and he would take longer to ejaculate. and there would be less semen.
i think he's depressed about something - talk to him, and forget this unfounded fear. i'm sure he isn't ch... (read in full...)
Since the divorce, my bipolar ex has made life hell for me!
Q. I am in dire need of help!!! I am a 47 year old female. I divorced my bi polar husband and we have been seperated for five years. I have not moved past the pain of the divorce. I have not accepted it and regret it. My husband was the love of my ...
A. 25 October 2009: First thing: don't regret the divorce. You say yourself that he scared you when in an episode, wouldn't recognise his needs, and his family treated you badly. He is now continuing to abuse you. He may have been the love of your life - you feel - but ... (read in full...)
Why does my ex keep thinking I am pregnant?
Q. so I'm 16, i stayed at my bf house (ex now) we didn't do anything. i swear, but when i woke up that morning i had bruises everywhere and i felt real funny down there. i told him about it he said it was my problem and my body. anyways, we ar...
A. 21 October 2009: !!! I meant talking it through with THEM - THE POLICE!!! Not with him!! Don't have any contact at all with him. Don't look at or speak to him if he sees you. Completely blank him.
... (read in full...)
Why does my ex keep thinking I am pregnant?
Q. so I'm 16, i stayed at my bf house (ex now) we didn't do anything. i swear, but when i woke up that morning i had bruises everywhere and i felt real funny down there. i told him about it he said it was my problem and my body. anyways, we ar...
A. 21 October 2009: Look, he is obviously a total bastard, and dangerous, and you have done really well to get rid of him. It would have been best if you had explained about the pills to start with, but that's ok. What he has done is very very nasty, and to be honest ... (read in full...)
Why does my ex keep thinking I am pregnant?
Q. so I'm 16, i stayed at my bf house (ex now) we didn't do anything. i swear, but when i woke up that morning i had bruises everywhere and i felt real funny down there. i told him about it he said it was my problem and my body. anyways, we ar...
A. 20 October 2009: Ok, so well done for having told the truth now. You've done the right thing, if a little bit late. So your question really is could you be pregnant from whatever you did - yes, but since this was some months ago (yes?) then you aren't pregnant, ... (read in full...)
Why does my ex keep thinking I am pregnant?
Q. so I'm 16, i stayed at my bf house (ex now) we didn't do anything. i swear, but when i woke up that morning i had bruises everywhere and i felt real funny down there. i told him about it he said it was my problem and my body. anyways, we ar...
A. 18 October 2009: He sounds an absolute idiot (sorry). If you had bruises all over, he must have done something . I'm not being funny, but this all seems a bit strange. What, you go over there, have a normal evening, lie next to him nicely, don't have sex, go quietly ... (read in full...)
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