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female
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anonymous
writes:a guy i met on plenty of fish dating site.. we've met in public once he says he wants to come to my house and chill with me cos HE HAS NO MONEY TO TAKE ME OUT.but he drives a very posh car and has a good job.i said i want to go out on dates and be a nice couple.. he texted me this:i dont know why you've got to be soo long.. everything has to be ur way. i want someone who isnt stubborn and understands that a relationship ain't just about them.what do i text back to him?? WE HAVENT EVEN BEEN ON A PROPER DATE YET!!he hasnt called/txt me since tuesday night!! we use to talk every daywhy is he doing this?? does he just want SEX?thnx..xx
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reader, rosiebaby +, writes (27 February 2010):
 dont bother wiv him dont text him back
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2010): wouldnt it b better to forget dating sites and get to know someone in the real world? of course he`s after sex.
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reader, sarcy24 +, writes (19 February 2010):
 Definitely up to no good, probably married and looking for a bit of attention and sex on the side. Don't even respond.
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reader, Moon13  +, writes (19 February 2010):
 Girlfriend, why bother with a loser like that.. follow your instinct and your gutt feelings, if you had to ask this question, then chances are that you know the answer to it already. IF i was you, i wouldnt give him the time of day.. no proper date, no date at all.. i have encountered men like these, they are up to no good.
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (19 February 2010):
 Yeah, that's all he wants. He doesn't want a girlfriend.
Take DoubleM's advice...don't even respond. Let this one go...you'll only get confused and hurt if you continue with him.
There are better men out there :)
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reader, Gridrebel +, writes (19 February 2010):
 Sounds to me like he doesn't want to be seen with you in public, for one reason or another. He obviously isn't trying to impress you. You haven't even been on one proper date and he's manipulating you and trying to make you feel guilty for wanting a normal dating relationship. Whatever!!! Dump the dude and find a normal guy.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (19 February 2010):
 Sounds like he just wants sex to me. You probably should not even respond if he messages you again.
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