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Hello. My name is Dustin and I am 20 years old. I live in California about 45 mins from San Francisco in a small town called Pleasant Hill. I am a student studying English with a focus in creative writting. I dont know if I have very solid qualifications to help people except that I am generally very good at reading people, and though I have not been in very many relationships I have seen many and know what is right and wrong. I am single but searching for my niche. I love all kinds of music (ya I know... Doesnt everyone...), I enjoying writting because it fills me up, I love watching movies, and since a little boy I have always adored driving and being driven. I don't appriciate fake people, that is what makes ME tick. I am friendly and layed back so send me a message and we can chit chat.

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I beleive a three year gap is appropriate.

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13 December 2009: *I want to preface this article by saying I do not condone nor do I oppose the dating of under age women/men, unless of course we are talking about molestation in which case you can burn in hell.* I often time hear people say "I really like this ...

A Survival Guide for the serial Dumpee!!

Q.   Are you continually getting dumped?, Do you never get passed the first date? 1) Never assume love. The more you think you like a guy, the more you must let him chase you.Don't lose your head and think you love him, before things have evn gott...

A.   15 December 2009: Damn... I really feel like a piece of shit after this... Not ALL guys are like this, though there are alot that are. I think you bring up some really important and valid points though. Very good article.... (read in full...)

I beleive a three year gap is appropriate.

Q.   *I want to preface this article by saying I do not condone nor do I oppose the dating of under age women/men, unless of course we are talking about molestation in which case you can burn in hell.* I often time hear people say "I really like this ...

A.   15 December 2009: So I guess I should rephrase this a little Californiagirl. Im in no way saying "This is the way it should be!" or "It will ONLY work if you follow these rules!" I absolutly agree that as you get older age becomes less and less of a difference and I ... (read in full...)

I've met a really nice man but it turns out he already has a boyfriend.

Q.   I recently met a loving and caring guy on an online dating site. We hit it off right away, and we went on a couple of really good dates. Things started moving into the realm of a possible relationship. Then I found out that he had a boyfriend. ...

A.   14 December 2009: That is a tough question to answer about "once a cheater, always a cheater", and the fact is that it depends on an individual. Technically he hasnt cheated yet really so I wouldnt worry. The biggest thing is that you dont want to get in the middle ... (read in full...)

My guy has never come straight out and said " I love You"

Q.   SO my guy has never said these three words "I love you." right out like that...Instead he says things like "Love yah lots!" Or he will tell his friends he "love yah lots!" then turn to me and say "love yah lots...more." Or if I do something stupid h...

A.   14 December 2009: You know what, this guy actually sounds pretty fun. I got a little chuckle out of his foibles. But seriously I wouldnt be too concerned... I understand where you are coming from but perhaps before you guys part for xmas break, during a serious ... (read in full...)

My girl has changed over the past 5 months and now I don't love her the same

Q.   For a few weeks (about 3), I've been confused about the way i feel about my girlfriend. We have been going on strong for 5 months now, and we were completely attached to each other. But recently I've been having doubts. Now that she has this new ...

A.   13 December 2009: So this could be a number of things. After a certain point in a relationship both people start to become too comfortable with one another and it almost doesnt even feel like a relationship anymore. So it may seem like you partner or you are changing ... (read in full...)

My pregnant partner doesn't want sex but my libido is high!

Q.   hi there, so my delema is this, i met this beautiful girl and she was pregnant, the father was waaay out of the picture, and i could not help but fall for this girl. she had a beutiful baby boy, whom is my world, and see him as my own, he is now 5 ...

A.   13 December 2009: Hey Jake, so Im pretty sure that there isnt any sure fire remedy to cool your desires, and it may sound lame to say this but I think the biggest thing is patience. If you really love this girl and enjoy being around the son then I think thats huge ... (read in full...)

I want to chat up somebody I don't know on facebook

Q.   I saw a guy on facebook who is extremely good looking. Unfortunately, i do not know him. I want to talk to him, but do not want to come off as desperate. What is the best way to open communication?...

A.   13 December 2009: I know its super stalkerish but if your physically attracted to this guy check out what his interests are and build off that. Or you can just do the babtism by fire and just say "Hey you seem like a cool bro(im just teasing. Dont say bro) and we ... (read in full...)

I don't want to give a gift in bad taste

Q.   Is it in bad taste or bad relationship etiquette to give my GF the same gift (a custom-designed collectible) two christmases in a row? She loved the one I got her last year and I thought about getting her another one this year....

A.   13 December 2009: Ya I absolutly agree. If she really loved your gift last Christmas then I dont see any problem in getting her another one of the collectibles (as long as they are different enough that she can still enjoy it). Hope this helps. ... (read in full...)

I don't know how to tell if boys are interested!

Q.   Not very long, but I feel really stupid asking this question. Guy #1: We've never talked in person to each other before. He started to text me in October, and when he did, he asked me a bunch of questions like what my favorite bands are, etc....

A.   13 December 2009: As for guy #1 it's super hard to figure out what someone wants without talking to them in person and having that face to face conversation. Sorry for the science of it but a large amount of information that is understood in a conversation is through ... (read in full...)

I feel like I am cheating my ex when I am interested in other boys

Q.   So my last boyfriend and i broke up about 2 months ago and now him and i are really good friends. we get along and were still kindof flirty but its all fun. him me and my other girl friend are really close and we always hang out. the problem is that ...

A.   13 December 2009: Honestly I know its cliche but I would just be honest with this new guy of yours. Tell him that you are interested in him but that you want to take it super slow right now because you just recently broke up with someone. If he's a good enough guy he ... (read in full...)

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