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Why do I suddenly want to have sex with other men?
Q. I don't understand why I only found my husband and other women attractive for so long and now I want to have sex with other men too. Why would my wants have changed like?...
A. 12 February 2011: Life is a journey that can lead down many pathways. ... (read in full...)
How to give a good blow job???
Q. I'm gay and i will be seeing my boyfriend all day tomorrow, and i want to give him a blow job. How do you give him a really good blow job for him to ask me for more? When giving him a blow job where should i put my hands?...
A. 12 February 2011: Well I'm not gay, but have rarely had a bad blow job from any of dozens of girls. It may sound crude to some readers, and so be it, but the key for me has always been to have a girl fearlessly suck with enthusiasm, take it deep at times, and when ... (read in full...)
Do married couples over 65 still have sex?
Q. I would like to know, can a 65 yrs old woman can still be active in sex? Do you think a married couple at this age make love still? To men who's wife are from ages 60-65, is sex enjoyable with her or you prefer to look for younger women to satisfy...
A. 11 February 2011: Your original question was deceiving and, now that your true concern has been revealed, my opinion is that you are also being deceived.... (read in full...)
Wife is too wet and it turns me off!
Q. My wife is having this funny noise on her vagina when we having sex its not the farting sound due to air inside her vagina its like her vagina its too much wet and every time i go in and out the noise is there and it turns me off, so what should be ...
A. 10 February 2011: Few men would ever consider wetness a problem, nor would some sloppy noise bother us. However, I do understand that the slipperiness might lead to some lack of friction when needed for your satisfaction. I've encountered this in the past and solved ... (read in full...)
Do married couples over 65 still have sex?
Q. I would like to know, can a 65 yrs old woman can still be active in sex? Do you think a married couple at this age make love still? To men who's wife are from ages 60-65, is sex enjoyable with her or you prefer to look for younger women to satisfy...
A. 10 February 2011: I'm a 60-something year old man who still very much enjoys sex, and very lovingly so, with women about my age and younger. Women in their 50s and 60s can be very sensual and open minded when they have become widowed or divorced, partly because there ... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend a Nymphomaniac?
Q. I'm in a relationship for 2 years, but I'm starting to suspect my girlfriend is a nympho. What are all the signs I should look at to be sure? She has weird behaviours but I never caught her cheating. 1. She enjoys inviting men to her apart...
A. 9 February 2011: In my opinion, based on the posted behaviors, you have a bit of a "playgirl" as a girlfriend. She will not likely confess any infidelity in the relationship without evidence or getting caught outright, but one bit of evidence I have noticed in past ... (read in full...)
Wondering about the appearance of semen from different men?
Q. okay so i got with a guy when i was 15 and was with him for 4 years, i lost my virginity to him and remained faithful to him, i never cheated on him and so i had only had a sex life with him, obviously when your sleeping with someone and have been ...
A. 8 February 2011: From man to man, semen will often be different in color, consistency and taste. There is some evidence, and I can vow some personal input from girlfriends, that flavor, in particular, can be affected by diet. Your question is more about thickness ... (read in full...)
How do I learn to squirt?
Q. I always seen girls squirting on porn movie and never knew what they were doing i always thought they were peeing lol but i want to try and i would really like to learn how its done i don't ave a vibrator and i want to do it alone then i do it with ...
A. 8 February 2011: It is fairly unlikely that you will ever do that unless you have already had numerous sexual activities or encounters, either alone or with partners, that resulted in some tendency to "squirt." Few women do this, and I've heard of no way to "learn ... (read in full...)
Need to tighten my pelvic muscles, any tips?
Q. I need to tighten up my pelvic floor muscles I'm not really loose down there but I want to be tighter, however I've tried to do my PVM exercises but I don't feel as though I'm doing them right and find them difficult to do and I can't afford to buy ...
A. 8 February 2011: In my opinion, although I've known only a few girls who could do it, the best results are from the physical Kegel exercises. One young woman I knew about 30 years ago could seeming suck-me-off with her vagina. But apparently, it was either from ... (read in full...)
Does positioning make a blow job feel different?
Q. Hey, i'd love some advice from guys and girls about initiating a blow job for my bf. When we have had oral sex in the past, it's always been lying down, in bed or on the floor. I've never given a blow job with him standing and me on my knees, and ...
A. 7 February 2011: Initializing is one thing while positioning is another, and your question seems to address both. My favorite initialization has always been a "surprise attack" from either a wife or girlfriend. Some just grabbed me soon as I walked in the door, ... (read in full...)
Does he go soft because I am too wet?
Q. So during intercourse i get very wet. My boyfriend says hes never been with someone who gets as wet as i do. I find it kind of embarrassing when this happens, where ever we are having sex the surface gets soaked. My boyfriend tends to go soft during ...
A. 5 February 2011: At your age, his flaccidness is possibly a result of your wetness but it would seem unlikely. When I was in my late teens and throughout my 20s there were a number of young women who became very wet but it never deterred my enjoyment. Their vaginas ... (read in full...)
Lights On & Open Your Eyes during Sex means what?
Q. We know most women enjoy the lights off and men want the lights on, lol. Why is this? What does it mean when the lights are on and he looks into your eyes during sex and when he has an orgasm? What does it mean when a guy looks into your eyes o...
A. 5 February 2011: In all my years (I'm over 60 now) and possibly nearing 10,000 climaxes, I cannot recall even one when my eyes were open during actual ejaculation. I keep forgetting to try, and seem to always miss any visual during that several seconds, whether ... (read in full...)
If I didn't really like oral, how am I going to like intercourse?
Q. dear cupid, soo, this might seem like a really weird question, but it's something that really bugs me and that i actually catch myself thinking about quite a bit. i've received oral sex from two other guys...and to be completely honest, i wasn't...
A. 3 February 2011: First of all, you are still very young. The "boys" who tried to please you orally were presumably also still very young and likely had no idea about what they were doing. I know, however, that perhaps you and most young folks like to think that you ... (read in full...)
Crying during Sex: What does he feel? What happened to me?
Q. Last night, my boyfriend and I were having sex. We went on round after round til he was so worn out. I still wasn't so I moved his hand to caress me under there. He got into it and started doing something that made me feel soooo good. I felt lik...
A. 31 January 2011: In all my many years (you would probably consider me a fossil), I can recall only one girl who in about 1968 seemed to break into tears while we first (and only once) had sexual intercourse. Although she slightly began to cry as I was coming in her, ... (read in full...)
She says sex is all I care about!
Q. I'm an 18 year old male and I've been with my girlfriend for almost two years. The first time we had sex was on our one year anniversary and after that we did it about once a week. But we haven't had any sexual contact with each other for the last 5 ...
A. 26 January 2011: To reiterate, if you wish a lifelong or extended relationship with this "girlfriend," then you need to focus on relationship issues other than just your sexual gratification. If you cannot understand that, then yes, just drop it. ... (read in full...)
She says sex is all I care about!
Q. I'm an 18 year old male and I've been with my girlfriend for almost two years. The first time we had sex was on our one year anniversary and after that we did it about once a week. But we haven't had any sexual contact with each other for the last 5 ...
A. 25 January 2011: Concentrate on friendship and cultivate shared interests.... (read in full...)
He doesn't ejaculate?
Q. Hey, I'd love some advice, esp. from any guy readers, about male ejaculation. I've been with my bf 4 months, see him 3-4 times per week, and everything's going great :) But I'm kinda worried about what happens when we have sex. Our libidos seem ...
A. 17 January 2011: Well I'm not sure and cannot speak for all guys, and will add that I'm a much older man now, but throughout my life and even today, I've very rarely had any problem finishing. My advice would be that your bf, whom we'll assume must be about your ... (read in full...)
Any tips on getting my man to orgasm faster? My neck is starting to cramp.
Q. How to give my guy a better blow job? I have recently started giving my man blow jobs. It is the first time I have done this and I'm having trouble getting him to cum. I am not really sure what i'm doing entirely and I know people say pay attentio...
A. 15 January 2011: You do not mention how long the process has taken with your boyfriend, but in my experience I have usually finished in about 10 minutes or so. Indeed, as MissSoul777 mentioned, a bit of mood helps, but blow jobs are actually quite a naughty event. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend likes anal sex but it hurts
Q. My boyfriend and I have been talking about anal sex since after we had vaginal sex. So, it's been about six months now... We had anal sex (barely) once before and it hurt like hell. I ended up crapping blood for a couple days after that. That was ...
A. 29 December 2010: Well I think that a lubricant, such as K-Y Jelly, might somewhat ease the discomfort of anal penetration. But please realize that the rectum and colon is designed for excretion, not penetration. I'm aware that potential problems can include such ... (read in full...)
Am I giving a good enough blow job?
Q. Could i be giving my bf too much stimulation to the head of his penis? Is that possible? I'll lick it suck on it and stuff alot and twirl my tongue around it. Would that be too much for you guys or would you like it?...
A. 27 December 2010: Well guys may have varying preferences, but that is definitely superb technique to get things going for most of us. What follows several minutes of said stimulation is what matters, depending on your desired result. Why would you ask? ... (read in full...)
How much is to much orgasmic juices?
Q. When i have sex i tend to get the bed and the man i am with all wet.Is this normal.I mean its like i am urinating but know its not, especially if i am on the top in control.How much is to much orgasmic juices?...
A. 26 December 2010: Never "too much" - just change the sheets when necessary and worry not.
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Why am I not getting oral anymore?
Q. Hey, my bf has recently stopped giving me oral sex. I am not sure why we have been together 11 months now and when we first started dating he told me it was his favorite thing to do. I asked him what his reason was he said idk I just don't ever feel ...
A. 23 December 2010: You may have spoiled him by giving head although he does not reciprocate anymore. Perhaps he's just taking the "easy" road while you're toting the load.... (read in full...)
How do you get rid of cum taste?
Q. How do you get rid of cum taste? I deepthroat my hubby last night and he went, which i was hoping for since i want to try new things, but when he did i gagged a little and swallowed it. Ever since then I cant get rid of the taste in my throat. I ...
A. 23 December 2010: I've no personal experience from the receiver point of view, but might suggest fruit juice or wine. Some past girlfriends seemed to enjoy swigging some wine after, but few really ever complained. I'm told, and understand, that different guys taste ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend caught wanking at work?
Q. hi my name is sally :( my boyfriend (today ex) and i had an open very sexual relationshipd, we watched porn together often, until i found him doing it alone and found out he was doing it at work and even got caught wanking ? when i have conftonte...
A. 19 December 2010: It is not unusual or abnormal for anyone, male or female, to masturbate on occasion. It's usually a good idea, however, to be fairly discreet about it - meaning to keep it private and at appropriate times. Perhaps your boyfriend needs more ... (read in full...)
How can I lengthen my penis?
Q. My penis is 5 inches long when erect,how can i lengthen it?...
A. 9 December 2010: You cannot.... (read in full...)
Is it ok to date a married but separated man?
Q. I have a male friend who I've been friends with for years. Lately we have been spending a lot of time together. There is a problem he's married but seperated. Him and his wife are seeing other people and the only reason they have not divorce is ...
A. 9 December 2010: Depending on how long the couple have no longer been living together, and also if she is actively dating other men, then it is probably okay. ... (read in full...)
How can I stop cumming too quickly?
Q. when i having sex with my wife i tend to cum with in 5 to 10 mim 's how can i stop that....
A. 8 December 2010: My best suggestion is to provide her with plenty of oral stimulation first. Used to call it "driving the girl up the wall" back in the old days. Lick her clit until she's groaning and clawing the sheets, then it will not matter how long you can ... (read in full...)
He prefers to look at porn rather than have sex with me!
Q. Me and my boyfriend got together when i was 16 and he was 17. We have now been together for just over 7 years and living together for 3 years. 6 months befor we moved in with each other the sex dried right up. I usually get sex once a week but i ...
A. 8 December 2010: Well, things will unlikely ever be the same, unfortunately. If you choose to stick with such a relationship, it may improve at times but probably continue to revert back to you giving "him head" most of the time, except when he is masturbating to ... (read in full...)
If you're a virgin, can you have sex 2 or 3 times in the same day?
Q. Hey, is it possible too loose your virginity but have sex another 2 or 3 times in the same night? Its what my partner wants just want to know if it's safes thanks x...
A. 22 November 2010: Not a very good idea at all. ... (read in full...)
I was lying there thinking, is that it?
Q. Compatible, just not in bed. I have been seeing this great guy for six weeks or so. Really get on well, easy to be with him, he is very caring and considerate. Also affectionate and I can tell he is into me. Feel happy when we are together. ...
A. 17 November 2010: Well I could not agree with "birdynumnums" more. Perhaps far too many years have passed for me to think about it much, but her answer made me recall the gals during the 60s and 70s, several a few years older, to whom I owe so much! To my credit, I ... (read in full...)
I was lying there thinking, is that it?
Q. Compatible, just not in bed. I have been seeing this great guy for six weeks or so. Really get on well, easy to be with him, he is very caring and considerate. Also affectionate and I can tell he is into me. Feel happy when we are together. ...
A. 14 November 2010: A bit too early to say, if you wish to give the guy a chance.... (read in full...)
Too much masturbation leads to less sperm later on?
Q. Don't know how to start but I keep on watching porn and masturbate frequently, like once a day. I am worried that the more I masturbate the less sperm I will be able to produce later in the years And for some reason I am not as aroused as i used to ...
A. 20 September 2010: Previous answers well explain that your concern is unwarranted physically, but as both allude, you can certainly become desensitized to even normal/actual sexual stimulation if addicted to pornography. ... (read in full...)
I'm Okay with my girl sleeping with another man, am I crazy for this?
Q. So my girlfriend and I have been dating for a year now, we are both in college (i am 20 she is 19) we hit it off from the start and have known eachother for about a year and a half. Dated all school year, basically lived with eachother, slept ...
A. 31 August 2010: Better you than me, and your way would never be my way.... (read in full...)
Getting married and just found out boyfriend doesn't believe in any kind of birth control!
Q. Hello everyone. I feel like my problem is a bit weird and I don't want to go to my friends or family with this, so I'm coming to you guys. Anyway, I'll be getting married this December. My fiance and I made the decision to wait until our wedding ...
A. 29 August 2010: Keep talking and be honest.... (read in full...)
I am in love with my deceased Uncle's wife! Is this wrong?
Q. hi everyone. i have previously posted my question but i would like to hear more advice from people so i am reposting it. thank you very much! i am in love with my aunt. im 21 and shes 34. my uncle passed away 3 years ago and shes been single sin...
A. 29 August 2010: Well if it might be what she wants, then you two can overcome all the rest.... (read in full...)
Husband cheated on me and now I feel like retaliating with a friend to show him how it feels!
Q. I recently found out my husband of 5yrs was having an affair with another married woman for a little over a year. To make things worse, let me mention that I was pregnant with our 2nd child and not only did he have the nerve to screw her in MY car, ...
A. 27 August 2010: Getting alternatively "sexuality involved" will not likely "heal" much of this pain.
It may be fun and adventurous and all that, which is what he has been enjoying behind your back. Now, you are certain what kind of man you married. Do not expe... (read in full...)
Am I a bad friend for getting this type of attention?
Q. The majority of my girl friends have boyfriends, when we get together and go out or go on a trip as one big group we have a good time. Lately 2 of my friends and myself have noticed that some of the boyfriends (not all at once/sametime) but alwa...
A. 23 August 2010: It has long been said that, "All is fair in love and war." (Loosely attributed to a 16th century English poet, John Lily, or something). As long as you are simply being your pretty, cute and/or happy self, then you are doing absolutely nothing ... (read in full...)
I can't get an erection , is it nervousness or medical?
Q. My girlfiend and I are planning on having sex for the first time, as i'm a virgin i'm quite nervous but seeing as she isn't i'm also worried she'll compare. I'm not the biggest guy down there but that doesn't really concern me, what concerns me is ...
A. 21 August 2010: Just angst - stop worrying and get it on.... (read in full...)
Amazing guy, second date. Do it or make him wait?
Q. Hi all, Well I need a little bt of advice so here goes. On Thursday, after a night out with the girls, I came home a little tipsy, wide awake, nothing on TV, and I decided to phone a chatline. (sad I know, but we've all been there?) Anywa...
A. 16 August 2010: Well, it sounds like a lot of potential fun and enjoyment, but would you be happy if it went no further? You are of ample age to enjoy some safe passion and satisfaction, and maybe it will lead to more, but perhaps a few more weeks prior to ... (read in full...)
Are there are any men left that won't just use me for sex?
Q. How do I find a boyfriend? Iv only slept with two people and they weren't even my boyfriends, they got what they wanted and left me. Iv been used twice now and just want a boyfriend who'll want me for me, not just my body. Are there any men like ...
A. 11 August 2010: Friendship and love "first" are fine concepts, but in your age bracket, you simply must try to understand that a lot of experimentation and exploration occurs prior to success. That's true for the vast majority in the Western world.
I'm much olde... (read in full...)
If women can only orgasm from G-spot and clitoral, then what about women who orgasm from kissing?
Q. If its true that women get orgasms from clitoral and g-spot stimulation only,then how can you explain those who get orgasms just by kissing their breasts,or massaging them,or whatever?...
A. 9 August 2010: Anyone who claims that "women get orgasms from clitoral and g-spot stimulation ONLY" is wrong. Certainly, those considerations are apt to please a majority of women if they can find the right man to do it, and perhaps much more intently satisfying, ... (read in full...)
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