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Why is my boyfriend so distant when it comes to sex?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now and we are no longer intimate. When we first got together, we had sex at least twice a day, but we haven't had sex in about 6 weeks. I have even tried lingerie and 'dressing up' for him, but ...

A.   24 January 2011: He could feel insecure about his potential, if u know what i mean. He could feel like he doesn't satisfy you... you just have to ask... (read in full...)

I had sex with my brother's 31 year old friend. My brother will kill us!

Q.   okay this is gonna sound well bad but here goes i went to my brother's friend's wedding this sunday just gone, and my brothers other friend who i have just recently fancied was there, i got really drunk like really drunk and randomly he started ...

A.   31 August 2010: Do not think about it and forget about it. Well my friend is 18 and h had sex with a woman that is 38 and she has 2 kids but is divorced...He was drunk too and the next day it felt wrong for him too. But he just never talked about it or always ... (read in full...)

Husband no longer watches porn and now goes too quickly. How do I help him?

Q.   Trying to keep this short and to the point: my husband used to get so turned on just by looking at me. Then I got pregnant and he didn't want to have much sex (i can understand, there's a baby in there! lol) I just had my baby 3 months ago, and I ...

A.   31 August 2010: Well this seems interesting because u are saying that before he used to last a lot, how long was that? Well why cant he do the same things now he used to do before? And how was watching porn helped him last longer? Now he is not watching it anymore? ... (read in full...)

Pleaseee help me!!! was she a virgin or she lied to me?? I'm really confused

Q.   Allrite, im kinda freaking out right now.... I was a virgin until today... Supposedly my girlfriend was too and i really believed that. Right now I am VERY confused... We were gonna have sex soon because we were very comfortable wit each other and ...

A.   15 June 2010: YouWish, I actually have to thank you alot for your responses, really appreciated and i would be more than glad if you could give me more advice, im already learning from you. Yeah i understand all tht, but goin down on her is not my favorite thing ... (read in full...)

Pleaseee help me!!! was she a virgin or she lied to me?? I'm really confused

Q.   Allrite, im kinda freaking out right now.... I was a virgin until today... Supposedly my girlfriend was too and i really believed that. Right now I am VERY confused... We were gonna have sex soon because we were very comfortable wit each other and ...

A.   14 June 2010: marieclaire, it was my first time, i obviously have to learn!! Why dnt u teach me nd help me out instead of criticizing me?... (read in full...)

Pleaseee help me!!! was she a virgin or she lied to me?? I'm really confused

Q.   Allrite, im kinda freaking out right now.... I was a virgin until today... Supposedly my girlfriend was too and i really believed that. Right now I am VERY confused... We were gonna have sex soon because we were very comfortable wit each other and ...

A.   14 June 2010: YouWish, u got it wrong. I love her and told her tht i loved it cuz thts the truth. We had sex twice. About an hour after we did it the first time, I used condoms both times, i "exploded" outside because i pulled out when i felt it coming, just for ... (read in full...)

Pleaseee help me!!! was she a virgin or she lied to me?? I'm really confused

Q.   Allrite, im kinda freaking out right now.... I was a virgin until today... Supposedly my girlfriend was too and i really believed that. Right now I am VERY confused... We were gonna have sex soon because we were very comfortable wit each other and ...

A.   14 June 2010:  We did talk it out before and she really made me believe tht she is one nd i never suspected tht she wouldn't be thats the thing and we had a long conversation bout it, a few times i guess. She uses tampons all the time...maybe thts the case... (read in full...)

While aroused strange liquid comes out.

Q.   Hi, Well i am 18 years old and my penis is uncircumcised. My major concern is why when i am making out with a girl and i am erect, my penis produces a liquid? It is not cum, it's just something that i have no control over and i don't know what it is ...

A.   14 March 2010: Yes I know that it happens to uncircumcised people, but i was wondering if the circumcised ones get it too, and if they do is it in larger amounts or just a few drops that can be barely seen.... (read in full...)

While aroused strange liquid comes out.

Q.   Hi, Well i am 18 years old and my penis is uncircumcised. My major concern is why when i am making out with a girl and i am erect, my penis produces a liquid? It is not cum, it's just something that i have no control over and i don't know what it is ...

A.   18 February 2010: lol i completely understand. the only reason im asking is bcuz in US prolly everyone is circumcised, and im not bcuz i was born somewhere else, so when im gonna have sex with someone tht had sex only with circumcised guys i dnt want them to think im ... (read in full...)

While aroused strange liquid comes out.

Q.   Hi, Well i am 18 years old and my penis is uncircumcised. My major concern is why when i am making out with a girl and i am erect, my penis produces a liquid? It is not cum, it's just something that i have no control over and i don't know what it is ...

A.   13 February 2010: i thought pre-ejaculation occurs when having intercourse...not just making out... (read in full...)

While aroused strange liquid comes out.

Q.   Hi, Well i am 18 years old and my penis is uncircumcised. My major concern is why when i am making out with a girl and i am erect, my penis produces a liquid? It is not cum, it's just something that i have no control over and i don't know what it is ...

A.   10 February 2010: Well i doubt it that circumcised guys have it. They peobably don't have it. Can i get some feedback from someone that is actually uncircumcised and tell me more about it? Like if they get it or not?... (read in full...)

2 questions about sex....

Q.   So i have 2 questions basically and i need some advice... my gf got topless for me couple days ago, but her nipples didn't get hard at all nd i tried everything, kissed the, sucked on them touched them and kissed her body... by the way we didnt...

A.   30 April 2009: ok you guys kind of got me wrong here a little bit... 1st: i thought there might be something "special" to get them hard and not rock hard lol 2nd: when i said hair i meant an inch... and is not really that it bothers me that much but when ha... (read in full...)

I heard you can cum inside a girl and she won't get pregnant?

Q.   I really need your advice here aunts and everyone else. So my g/f is virgin and me too and we will have sex when we both feel ready for it, it won't be very soon though because we both want to take out time. My question is: I know the first time i ...

A.   25 January 2009: Yeah i will and i didn't know precum can leave a woman pregnant... When im with her and make out i always precum and i hate it. It's just so weird. I have another question: if i make out with a girl alot, will she get wet down there? I mean if ... (read in full...)

I heard you can cum inside a girl and she won't get pregnant?

Q.   I really need your advice here aunts and everyone else. So my g/f is virgin and me too and we will have sex when we both feel ready for it, it won't be very soon though because we both want to take out time. My question is: I know the first time i ...

A.   25 January 2009: I didn't say i don't want to use condomns people. I DO want! But i was just curious and wondering if that's possible if i am not wearing it and DrVendetta dont call me a moron.... (read in full...)

I heard you can cum inside a girl and she won't get pregnant?

Q.   I really need your advice here aunts and everyone else. So my g/f is virgin and me too and we will have sex when we both feel ready for it, it won't be very soon though because we both want to take out time. My question is: I know the first time i ...

A.   24 January 2009: So if i cum inside her after her period was one is she going to be pregnant? What is the time her ovalating time is over?... (read in full...)

Do circumcised guys make better lovers?

Q.   This question is strictly for the ladies, but guys can input on the matter if you'd like. My question to the ladies is... would you like a guy to have foreskin, in other words to be uncircumsized... cuz lately Iv'e been really insecure about that ...

A.   24 January 2009: For Cerberus how would u clean it 3 times a day? Take 3 showers? It sounds awkward lol i am uncircumcsed too btw. And for you, the poster, i bet you weren't born in US. I live in US too but i was born somehwere else and i am uncircumcised too. I a... (read in full...)

They're both really sweet... who to choose?

Q.   ok hi :] I'm 15 and I'm going out with this guy and everything is or was going great until I met this guy now I'm sure that I love my bf but every time I'm with this other guy I feel so good and I think that there might even be friction between this ...

A.   24 January 2009: I would say text or talk with this new guy and ask him if he would want a relationship, u know... at least u know what he wants and then you can make your decision and take a chance with him. I did the exactly same thing and it worked out great!... (read in full...)

Circumcision problem???

Q.   So I am going out with this girl and I am looking for an advice here. I know she wants to go down on me sometimes but I don't know what to do... I am uncircumcised and I have a frenulum... should I let her do it? It hurts when I pull the foreskin ...

A.   22 January 2009: I will wait lacexoxo22 thank you! i would really appreciate it if you can give me as much info as possible because i really need it and it will help because he was like me, or at least almost...... (read in full...)

Circumcision problem???

Q.   So I am going out with this girl and I am looking for an advice here. I know she wants to go down on me sometimes but I don't know what to do... I am uncircumcised and I have a frenulum... should I let her do it? It hurts when I pull the foreskin ...

A.   21 January 2009: lacexoxo22 the thing is that when i am erected the foreskin doesnt retract by itself, i have to do it manually and as i said it hurts if i retract it behind the head... satindesire thx for advice. I don't really have to go see a doctor beause ... (read in full...)

Would a man get offended if a woman told him his penis was beautiful?

Q.   Lol just wondering, would a man be offended if a woman told him that his penis was beautiful? Or would he be flattered??...

A.   21 January 2009: Lool of course he would be flattered lol that would turn him on even more lol. Btw is it circumcised or uncircumcised? Oh and size also matter because if it's small then he would think you make fun of him and just lie so he wold feel better...... (read in full...)

Will I hurt her?

Q.   This is yet another penis size question folks! Well, I have been dating a girl of over a year now and we have not had sex yet because she isn't ready, but, I am scared I may hurt her since she is a virgin and I am also. My erect penis length is 6 ...

A.   21 January 2009: You say u are a virgin too right? For her yeah of course it will hurt because that is normal, but for you... it depends if you are circumcised or uncircumcised and if you have frenulum... ... (read in full...)

Frenulum breve, should I have sex?

Q.   Hi, I am uncircumcised and i have a frenulum breve, when i am erected it doesn't let me pull my foreskin behind the head because it hurts. When i am not erected i can retract the foreskin alot. I am not sure what will happen if i will have sex be...

A.   11 January 2009: Ummm if it's surgery then i could just get frenuloplasty but im not talkin about doctors now... Please don't say that i have to go to doctor because i am looking for other answers... and people that really know about it could help. Thank... (read in full...)

What does foreplay really mean?

Q.   I have read that size doesn't matter and stuff and that foreplay is very important. What actually does foreplay mean? And why doesn't penis size matter? I have a 5.5 inch penis when erected and 5 girth.... Is that good to satisfy a women? I'm also a ...

A.   9 January 2009: planepocket Good answer. But what do u mean by the clitoris is on the outside of the body? I thought it is the same thing as vagina... Can u tell me more? Thanks DoubleM Thanks for taking your time to write that much, it helped.... (read in full...)

I have frenulum problems, please help!

Q.   Okay so I'm a virgin and my penis has a frenulum, which is a thin skin under the penis head, and it doesn't allow the foreskin (I am uncircumcised) to retract. When I am not erect I can pull my foreskin back a lot, but when I am erect I can't pull ...

A.   7 January 2009: Well i guess that's the only thing i have left... but it only hurts when i try to pull it behind the head when i am hard. I can masturbate fine i have no problems with that, it's just that it doesn't go behind the head....... (read in full...)

I have frenulum problems, please help!

Q.   Okay so I'm a virgin and my penis has a frenulum, which is a thin skin under the penis head, and it doesn't allow the foreskin (I am uncircumcised) to retract. When I am not erect I can pull my foreskin back a lot, but when I am erect I can't pull ...

A.   6 January 2009: I did not get any message that helped me.... :( everyone says to go to doctor... But for what? It hurts only when i am hard and try to pull the foreskin behind the head... but it looks like it needs to be streched... i wanted answers from people ... (read in full...)

I have frenulum problems, please help!

Q.   Okay so I'm a virgin and my penis has a frenulum, which is a thin skin under the penis head, and it doesn't allow the foreskin (I am uncircumcised) to retract. When I am not erect I can pull my foreskin back a lot, but when I am erect I can't pull ...

A.   6 January 2009: If im gonna see a doctor my parents would find out and that would be embarassing... and why would i need to see a doctor? Shouldn't this be normal?... (read in full...)

How to make it last longer?

Q.   I'm starting to get very sexually frustrated here. I'm 15 and my boyfriend and I started to have sex a little over a week ago. We've done it tons of times so far, but I've never gotten any satisfaction from it. At all. It's just that he lasts about ...

A.   6 January 2009: Tell ur boyfriend to think about bad stuff while having sex... it would work if he thinks about fucking something nasty.... maybe he likes u so much that's why lol, and ure both kinda young.... practice will make it better... (read in full...)

Am I normal? Is any other guy experiencing the same thing as me?

Q.   Okay so im a virgin, and when im watching porn (not masturbating) my penis gets hard. And after a while when im not watching anymore, i found in my underwear a liquid... it's not precum, it's just liquid and it does not smell or anything... i can ...

A.   4 January 2009: Yeah pietry ure right there cuz sometimes when i wake up in the morning i have it in my pants... and it sucks cuz i dont even know about it lol...... (read in full...)

Will sex hurt the first time for me because I'm uncircumcised?

Q.   Okay so.. I am concerned about something and my question will be about sexuality... I will just say a couple things about myself: 17 years old, I have a 5.5 inch penis when hard and is uncircumcised. I am also a virgin, but many girls like me and ...

A.   4 January 2009: Haha dude i have no infection. I think is because of the frenulum... but i don't know much info about frenulum..... (read in full...)

Am I normal? Is any other guy experiencing the same thing as me?

Q.   Okay so im a virgin, and when im watching porn (not masturbating) my penis gets hard. And after a while when im not watching anymore, i found in my underwear a liquid... it's not precum, it's just liquid and it does not smell or anything... i can ...

A.   4 January 2009: Then it must be precum as u all say, but it seems alot lol... i haven't masturbated in a while because i didn't want to... it's already been a year since i did it last time...... (read in full...)

Will sex hurt the first time for me because I'm uncircumcised?

Q.   Okay so.. I am concerned about something and my question will be about sexuality... I will just say a couple things about myself: 17 years old, I have a 5.5 inch penis when hard and is uncircumcised. I am also a virgin, but many girls like me and ...

A.   3 January 2009: I really appreciate your answers!!! They are very helpful. But i was wondering somethin else: when i gte very hard the foreskin does not pull back behind the head... and it hurts to pull it. Now when im havin intercourse the skin obviously has to go ... (read in full...)

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