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While aroused strange liquid comes out.
Q. Hi, Well i am 18 years old and my penis is uncircumcised. My major concern is why when i am making out with a girl and i am erect, my penis produces a liquid? It is not cum, it's just something that i have no control over and i don't know what it is ...
A. 18 February 2010: I don't know how many times you have to be told that the fluid is almost certainly pre-cum before you will accept it. ... (read in full...)
I have become increasingly concerned about her night time habits!
Q. I have been living with my finacee for 8 months. We enjoy sex 3 or more times a week. I always ensure she has an orgasm before there is any penetration as I tend not to last too long. I have become increasingly concerned about her night time habit...
A. 16 February 2010: It would seem she better enjoys doing herself sometimes. Perhaps some of the female responders can help, but I wonder, do you provide her oral pleasures?... (read in full...)
I've never had an orgasm with him... how can we fix this?
Q. ok so my boyfriend and I have recently started having sex... for the past month, he's never given me an orgasm. I love him to death and I'll never leave him because of that, I just wanna know how to fix this. it's always disappointing to know that ...
A. 16 February 2010: It's a common problem. First, you both are inexperienced, especially your boyfriend who knows nothing about pleasing a woman (girl). If he knew anything, he would know how to please you first, or at least stimulate you nearly to orgasm, but that ... (read in full...)
I have become increasingly concerned about her night time habits!
Q. I have been living with my finacee for 8 months. We enjoy sex 3 or more times a week. I always ensure she has an orgasm before there is any penetration as I tend not to last too long. I have become increasingly concerned about her night time habit...
A. 16 February 2010: I'll admit that it is interesting that she would do that knowing full well that you are awake and right next to her. Why don't you simply talk about it? The masturbation is reasonably normal, but even if she feels too tired to engage in intercourse ... (read in full...)
It’s All Good, Guys!
Q. Pinkee here~ Was thinking this week about some of the stuff that men worry about, and how you really don’t have to worry. Now, I know that we women are the traditional queens of poor body image, but let’s face it, guys, some of you are getting hung ...
A. 16 February 2010: LOL
Well I cannot say "Nobody" but not me anyways.... (read in full...)
It’s All Good, Guys!
Q. Pinkee here~ Was thinking this week about some of the stuff that men worry about, and how you really don’t have to worry. Now, I know that we women are the traditional queens of poor body image, but let’s face it, guys, some of you are getting hung ...
A. 14 February 2010: What the hell is your point, or the question? I personally don't worry about any of the stuff you mention and I wonder who does. We don't in Texas. ... (read in full...)
Do any other girls out there withold sex from their partners when they have done something wrong?
Q. Please Help .... I have a problem . When my boyfriend does something wrong , like out late with his mates , or comes home intoxicated , I without Sex for a period of time . I tell him the set penalty time and he signs a form ..eg : 1 week , 1 ...
A. 14 February 2010: Immature and silly.... (read in full...)
Can a man tell if a girl has had sex on anygiven day?
Q. Is there any way that a man can tell if a women has had sex with someone else the same day he tries to have sex with her as well?...
A. 13 February 2010: There are clues, notably the smell of another man about her. If she has received sperm in her mouth or vagina, there can be a fairly noticeable aroma for some time. Swallowed sperm may remain a subtle hint on her breath even after the use of ... (read in full...)
Would it be smart for both of us to get an HIV test done even though we both have no sexual history?
Q. Hello, my boyfriend and I are both virgins. We've been together for about four years now and we feel ready to lose it to one another. Would it be smart for both of us to get an HIV test done even though we both have no sexual history? Or am I just ...
A. 13 February 2010: If you are certain about the virginity, and also certain that your partner has not had oral sex as well, then I think you would be simply wasting money.... (read in full...)
He gets excited to easily, is this normal?
Q. When I am kissing this guy he gets turned on really quickly and asks me to make him come which he always says it wont take him long and it doesn't I mean he lasts about 2-3 minutes, is this normal, he usually comes quite a bit. We aren't dati...
A. 13 February 2010: It can be normal at his age, but it sounds like he's getting all the thrills, and he's no lover. ... (read in full...)
Do women not like men to touch their breasts in intimacy?
Q. Hi, I'm really confused and I know this will sound weird to many people but I need some help. My boyfriend and I have wonderful intimacy. I love my breasts being touched as much as I love kissing and intercourse. I am also a very giving lover. M...
A. 13 February 2010: Based on my personal experience for more than 45 years as a man, you are closer to normal, and he and his priors more abnormal. ... (read in full...)
My wife has more time in bed for her toys than she does for me
Q. I'm totally confused over whats going on - I normally sleep really well. I recently couldnt sleep and heard my wife orgasm harvesting (masterbating) - she had several orgasms it seemed at different times of the night. she would have an orgasm(s) ...
A. 13 February 2010: It sounds to me that you are getting to the heart of the matter. In other words, she is likely using masturbation to relieve stress, which is essentially what sex is "partly" about anyway. I mean, it is ideally associated with a lot of things.
L... (read in full...)
I don't understand religion and why we should be forced to put up with it.
Q. hi, im 14 and an atheist but i respect religious people who are open to another persons point of view, but the other side of that coin is that ignorance and single mindedness makes me really really angry. i just dont understand religion, i mean no ...
A. 12 February 2010: At your age, I think you should remain open to all possibilities, but I remember feeling much the same about your age. Other than my early years growing up in church (protestant), I have remained more open to religious diversity and much less ... (read in full...)
Is it just me, or are lots of young people having sex nowadays?
Q. is it only me or you guys see that lots of young has experienced sex already, and they are so open about it. do you have kids that age (13-15ish) are they doing it? are you aware of it? i don't have kids, and I'm not going to for that reason...
A. 12 February 2010: As a much older man (62), I would be a hypocrite to condemn what is going on today because I began at age 14 at a public park in Texas. The girl was older, and it occurred in the back seat of a 1954 Ford sedan. But that was about 1961 and I was ... (read in full...)
Too much foreplay?
Q. This shouldnt be hard to answer really guys sooo... Basically, when my and my girlfriend first started having sex, i was perfectly capable or lasting a long time. But all of a sudden i started coming almost instantly after penetration...i ...
A. 12 February 2010: Yes, too much of a good thing can be great for her, but leaves you so ready (highly aroused) that you won't last long. You're still just a youngster (not criticism, I was there once), so you will eventually learn. Hope you're practicing safe sex! ... (read in full...)
It gets hard, but I can't finish! Am I having prostate problems?
Q. Hello, I'm 43 years old, all my adult life I've enjoyed good sex most days, and when not with a woman my hand has been perfect, and never had any problems. About a year ago, I began to notice that it was getting difficult to shoot. At first ...
A. 11 February 2010: My recommendation is to see a male physician right away, perhaps a specialist. Yes, I've heard it's common that prostate problems can greatly affect ejaculation as well as urination. Can also be serious. ... (read in full...)
What are some comfortable positions for a "quickie"?
Q. ok so i need a little help me and my husband have busy schedules and does anyone know any comfortable sex positions for a "quickie" as some might say he says i pick the sex position and idk what position to do it in can anyone please help me...
A. 11 February 2010: Not sure how "quick" your quickies need to be. Most any position for intercourse can be accomplished in short time for him, but rarely pleases a woman to orgasm. I guess the quickest intercourse can be accomplished doggie-style into your vagina. ... (read in full...)
How do I relax & just let him please me?
Q. hey, am dating this guy..hes really sweet, Amazing, good looking.. and i love make love with him.. he loves pleasing me..always asking what i like etc: hes soo great:) ok the thing he says he wants to go down me..but i feel nervous cos no gu...
A. 11 February 2010: As a man, I insist that some of us truly enjoy providing oral satisfaction for our woman. With reasonable hygiene, most every single vulva and vagina I've ever encountered has been lovely, fragrant and delicious to me. Having such intimate proximity ... (read in full...)
Sex with next door neighbour .
Q. I came home just over two weeks ago and was working on my computer when my neighbours "beach ball" came over the fence, next when I hear a knock at the door and she was standing there in just a small bikini, and was Rather drunk, she came we had a ...
A. 11 February 2010: Please help her relocate to Texas. lol But more seriously, I think you should simply explain to her your unspecified "other commitments" and why you are so crazy to deny her. ... (read in full...)
My wife has more time in bed for her toys than she does for me
Q. I'm totally confused over whats going on - I normally sleep really well. I recently couldnt sleep and heard my wife orgasm harvesting (masterbating) - she had several orgasms it seemed at different times of the night. she would have an orgasm(s) ...
A. 10 February 2010: For whatever reason, it would seem that her libido remains quite high and that you are not apparently "doing it" for her anymore. By that, I mean pleasing her sufficiently. The obvious question would be whether you provide her oral satisfaction ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with my boyfriend but I am scared of getting close because of the way my ex treated me.
Q. Hi Im 22 and have a lovely boyfriend who is 25 weve been together for one year but the problem is im too scared to get close to him physically and its starting to put a strain on my relationship. My previous relationship before my current boyfrien...
A. 10 February 2010: My only advice is not to always compare one person to another, expecting the same, and especially do not let the actions of someone in the past affect a current or any future relationships.... (read in full...)
My Husband only wants sex once a month! I am always ready for it!
Q. my husband hardly wants sex. I am always ready and want to. He only wants sex maybe once a month...
A. 10 February 2010: This issue keeps coming up on DearCupid again and again, one way or the other. Either the husband or wife, or the boyfriend or girlfriend, wants more affection and intimacy than the partner. Somehow, I must have been very fortunate during a long ... (read in full...)
While aroused strange liquid comes out.
Q. Hi, Well i am 18 years old and my penis is uncircumcised. My major concern is why when i am making out with a girl and i am erect, my penis produces a liquid? It is not cum, it's just something that i have no control over and i don't know what it is ...
A. 10 February 2010: Responder "gg2qt4me" is correct. It is pre-cum, and it will occur to you all your life whenever you are highly aroused. Wash your underwear after. lol ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants sex for Valentine's Day but I don;t know how to tell him that I think we are too young.
Q. im 15, i just turned 15, me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 3 1/2 months, things have moved really fast for us, we kissed after 2 days, made out after one week and started 'doing stuff' after about 2 weeks, since valentines day is coming ...
A. 10 February 2010: Simple. Say no.... (read in full...)
He seemed shocked when I asked him to cum in my mouth! I thought this was common.
Q. Ok im really confused becuase i thought guys like it when you let them cum in your mouth. I never did it before and my bf asked me where he should cum and i said my mouth cause i wanted to taste it for myself. He seemed shocked kinda and i asked him ...
A. 9 February 2010: Well I began cumming for women in the 1960s (I'm 62-years-old now). Probably more than 60-70 women by now and many thousands of times. Many were first-timers. Admitted only to say that it eventually becomes a very comfortable thing to do, but even ... (read in full...)
I am inexperienced, did I put her off?
Q. I am inexperienced when having sex and need some advice. 1st, I hung out with this girl for a while (one month) and always pleased her. We had sex once and my nerves got to me and I came pretty fast. For about a week we still messed around bu...
A. 9 February 2010: You first need to explore and practice giving her oral pleasures (cunnilingus). along with G-spot massage. Give her an orgasm or more before you go for intercourse. Trust me (an older man), it keeps a woman quite happy, at least sexually. Read my ... (read in full...)
Oral Sex Odour - Is it normal?
Q. hi, so the thing is that when i give my bf a blow job his cock smells HORRIBLE, like really nastly, kinda like fishy or of pee a bit..... is that normal?? thankyouu x...
A. 7 February 2010: No, certainly not normal. I would seriously question his hygiene, and sorry, but I'd also question your activities at your age.... (read in full...)
I only feel turned on when someone else touches me!
Q. So, when I try to pleasure myself by touching, I feel nothing. I mean I feel my hands on myself but It doesn't turn me on. When my guy friend touched my leg and somewhat rubbed it, I got turned on. Is it normal that only someone else can turn me on ...
A. 7 February 2010: In my opinion, there is nothing abnormal that you are turned-on only by touch from someone else. Attention from a member of the opposite sex is obviously most natural. Masturbation is, again in my opinion, just a function of stimulation usually ... (read in full...)
It's Friday night and here I am, alone again!
Q. It's friday night and I'm alone. I was at a friend's b-day earlier tonight. It seems like every night I'm alone. I like being to myself but this is getting ridiculous. When I was out at the restaurant I saw many cute girls out with guys. One of ...
A. 6 February 2010: You probably need to get out more, and so should I as well. "CaringGuy" offers a good suggestion, such as a class that likely attracts women, like gourmet cooking, yoga, dancing or whatever. Also, online opportunities are possibilities if the woman ... (read in full...)
Why do I always feel lonely?
Q. Is anyone happy in th world at all? I have study about loneliness and it says that people gets lonely 48 times in a year. Is that true? How come I am always lonely even with my own husband who does reject and has not make love to me in almost 14 ...
A. 6 February 2010: If you have been married to a man who has not made love to you in six months, not to even imagine the past 14 years without sexual affection, then something is very, very wrong. ... (read in full...)
We live together and tonight he said sex is a meaningless act
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now. Recently it's like he's lost all interest in being intimate with me. Just tonight actually he told me that he thinks sex is a meaningless act! How could you possibly think that it's ...
A. 6 February 2010: It would not seem to make any sense to me either. ... (read in full...)
Is it must for a girl to cum during sex?
Q. I want to ask a question. Is it must for a girl to cum during sex. and how do you make a girl cum?...
A. 5 February 2010: It should be considered, in my opinion, the primary purpose of the man to provide his woman at least one orgasm during sex, either simultaneously or before he has his climactic finish. And also in my opinion, anything less is not being a man. ... (read in full...)
I want a sex with no strings attached relationship
Q. I am not at all ready for a new relationship. I think it could be years before I want to get into something serious again (long story). So I'm wondering lately (because I love sex) if it would be a good idea to find someone who wants a purely sexual ...
A. 5 February 2010: One caveat though. Don't trust any long-distance online romance. They lie. ... (read in full...)
I want a sex with no strings attached relationship
Q. I am not at all ready for a new relationship. I think it could be years before I want to get into something serious again (long story). So I'm wondering lately (because I love sex) if it would be a good idea to find someone who wants a purely sexual ...
A. 5 February 2010: Well I've had many relationships over the years that would now be considered "friends with benefits." lol That term did not exist when most of mine occurred. Actually, I always wanted every relationship to be more, but whatever. To attempt an answer ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to swallow
Q. my boyfriends been trying to get me to swallow, but im so nervous ill puke or something, because I have heard nasty stories about it. i was told this joke: do you know the difference between like and love? spit and swallow.. it made me feel bad. ...
A. 5 February 2010: First of all, he should be doing oral for you as well, preferably first. It should also be done by him so well that you orgasm, maybe repeatedly. If he does that, then swallowing will likely be lovely for you.
It's healthy for a woman, to begin with... (read in full...)
How can I give my girl the most sexual pleasure?
Q. How can I give my girl the most sexual pleasure? Itsa not that we don't have enough but I don't think I'm giving all I'm getting...
A. 4 February 2010: Give her lot's of foreplay - include back rubs, thigh and foot massage, whatever she enjoys - and precede with plenty of kissing and snuggling. Making love is an art that requires a lot of things. I'd have to write a book to answer.
Alas! I near... (read in full...)
I really want to squirt. PLEASE help me out!
Q. Hello. When my boyfriend and I first started messing around he was fingering me and rubbing my Gspot. I've rubbed it before while masterbating but never got to far with it because it had always been a bit uncomfortable. Well, while he was down there ...
A. 4 February 2010: Few women actually squirt. But most do emit the female version of cum during orgasm. It's typically a fairly small amount that often goes unnoticed mixed with all the other juices going on down there during sex.... (read in full...)
Is my girl selfish for not returning oral sex?
Q. Hey, I have a question; Would it be selfish of my girlfriend not to return me the favor if I gave her an orgasm with cunnilingus? I gave my girlfriend her first orgasm with this technique. I must admit it felt great and Id certainly do it ...
A. 4 February 2010: Give her some time. ... (read in full...)
Why does he make sexual comments to me if he doesn't want to have sex with me?
Q. I have a friend of about one year. At first there was a little romance and a little sex but that all cooled by his choice because 1) I have herpes and 2) I am menopausal and he wants children (he is 15 yrs younger than me). I can clearly see his ...
A. 3 February 2010: I think the guy is just jiving with you. Playing you. Why not go for an older man who will appreciate you more, and the herpes can be managed and reportedly not transmitted, reasonably safely.... (read in full...)
I waited 3 months for a dinner reservation in a top restaurant and my bf has just cancelled out. Is it ok to take another man to not miss out on the dining experience?
Q. A while back I booked a table at the supposedly best restaurant in the UK and it took me 3 months and a cancellation to get in. My b/f has known about it for weeks and how excited I am about it. Today he texts me to say that the mother of his child ...
A. 3 February 2010: Of course! Think of yourself for once and enjoy the dinner with a man who possibly puts you ahead of all else. ... (read in full...)
I am trying really hard to give him pleasure and give him an orgasms everytime but I just can't!
Q. me and my boyfriend have tried twice to have sex and i'm not sure what is going on..he just can't seem to keep an erection.im trying really hard to give him pleasure and give him an organisms everytime but i just can't please... help any ...
A. 3 February 2010: Twice ain't much, and the information provided is skimpy at best.... (read in full...)
I don't know how to have an orgasm.
Q. How can i cum or orgasm when i masterbate without sticking my finger / anything else in my vagina ?...
A. 3 February 2010: Even an older man knows something about this, having raised a stepdaughter with very open communication, and from youthful experiences long ago. If masturbation can curtail actual sexual activity with a young man at this point and at your age, it ... (read in full...)
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