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Archived questions from: 2 January, 2011 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I'm scared he likes her more than me. He's dumped me and hurt me before. What are my options?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago. He then asked for me back, telling me all he could think about was me and that he just wanted to be with me. He and I then went to hang out, and he wanted me to have sex with him. I kept telling him ...

If they met him they would love him, but my parents don't approve. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I like this guy and he is19 and I'm 14, I met him over the summer in south Dakota and I live in illinois and we really do like each other. My parents both know about him. They don't approve because he is a different race than us, but I know if they ...

Which girl should I go for? And how do I best get her to like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - i am a 14 year old boy and have a problem with two girls at school, who are both the same age as me. i like them both, but i don't know which one to go after. Or if either one of them like me. Girl 1 is really nice and we kind of play figh...

How do I handle this to make her want to be with me as my GF?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4871 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - hi everyone i currently go to college in the uk and there's this girl in my class. i liked her from the moment i saw her but i then found out that she had a boyfriend. So i tried to not look at her, in that way. Before christmas she was telling ...

I push people away and then feel I have no friends. I don't know what to do. Help please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - i have "friends" but lately i feel really isolated from them and i feel like they're all closer to each other than i am to any of them. whenever i become good friends with someone, i for some reason start to push them away. i dont know why, i just ...

I have a strong desire for my 18 year old cousin. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - I'm 16 I have a cousin who is 18 . Many times when I'm by their house she would sometimes have on some boy shorts or somthing tight. Sometimes she catches me looking at her, but most of the time she doesn't say nothing and I have a huge attraction ...

My girlfriend is doing things she would not let me do. What's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - my gilfriend met my mate off facebook and met him in town, and i think a bit of flirting - because i went with them, and she is going to town with him tomorrow as well. i wont to meet my friend which is a girl, with her friends. And my girlfriend ...

Too shy to get a boyfriend... help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Okay, so I am 15 years old and never had a proper boyfriend. All my friends are dating all of the time, but I never do. They try to set me up with boys but I am very shy and turn them down. I have troubles opening up to anyone, especially my family ...

Help me sort out this mess...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4872 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Hi well my ex boyfriend and i were really cool after we broke up. then he started liking me again! it got really annoying so i hooked him up with one of my best friends which i think was my biggest mistake. me and my ex realize that we still have ...

I'm female and get turned on by lesbian porn???

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - im not a lesbian or bi. i dont find women sexually or mentally attractive at all. im completely 100% straight. but i get turned on and have orgasms to lesbian porn. what does that mean? please help !!...

Me, my girlfriend and our friends...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4865 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - Hi, I am with a girl, she was talking to my friend on facebook and they met up in town with me, it seemed that she was a bit flirting with him , i could have been mistaken though, and she is going to town with him and her friends again without me, ...

Are these feelings normal or am I bi?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4865 days ago

2 January 2011 (?) - so, i think i might be bi. im 19 and up until last year ive never questioned my sexuality. last year i thought i wouldnt mind doing things with another guy. also last year i was involved in a threesome with my friend and his girlfriend. i was so ...

Will my ex ever stop being mad at me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4872 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I Would like to know will my ex stop being mad at me? The reason why he is upset with meh because i wrote in my away on aim saying " i got him his shid and now look whats happening " what i meant was that he was acting shady early this morning ...

My crush on Taylor Swift...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - hi how can i convice anybody in my family to take me down to manchester to see taylor swift, she isnt playing were i live, its about a 4 hour car journey!is there any way i can convince them, this is a once in a life time thing and she is my ro...

Should I let things go or wait a while then give him a call?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4872 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - It's been about three weeks since I last talked to my ex. We were trying to work things out in our relationship, but we kept having disagreements. The last day we talked, I told him that I didn't want to go to couples counseling since we weren't ...

Help! I have no self-esteem!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - okay I have no self estme or confidence what so ever. what can I do to change that cause Ive driven into hateing myself for it... (sorry if I mispelled anything)...

Whats wrong with me? I push people I love away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - FYI, I'm a 15 year old girl who's never dated and I really wanna this year.Purely my decision. Theres a guy that i really care about, we fell for eachother but once it got to making our relationship official, I started treating him bad (like ig...

Will I ever be good enough for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my current boyfriend for nearly 2 years now.. and I love him with all of my heart.. he is everything I have ever wanted in a guy. He is the first guy to ever actually seem to care about me and love me.. unlike my ...

Does this count as sex?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - so first off my boyfriend and i have never had sex. okay two nights ago my boyfriend and i were messing around on the couch (like he was rubbing himself on me but not going in) and he kind of slipped and went in maybe an inch or so but n...

Was finding the pictures fate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm 14 and I went out with a boy for a couple of months early last year, we broke up and he got with sum1 else, they aren't together now. But I was clearing my bedroom out and found loads of pics of us together and its made me realize I still ...

Help me read this girl!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - I am 14 a freshman in highschool and there's this girl I really like. But this was only since yesterday. Up until then she was just a "sorta friend" I didn't even really find her attractive. That night at the skating rink, somehow during a ...

What happened to just falling in love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - it used to be about finding your soulmate, whoever they might be, whatever they might be like - blonde, redhead, blue eyed, mixed race, it didnt matter if you loved them. Now days people care more about looks than personality and it bothers me, why ...

How do I win back this girl's heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - I fell in love with her as soon as I met her. For the first time I had met someone just like me, a soulmate, and it didn't take me long to believe we were made for each other. Also for the first time I felt what it was like to really love a girl and ...

I sent a boy embarassing pictures of myself

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Hello I'm seeking good advice these are the details to my DilEmma I'm an 18 tease old female soon to be 19 in a few months,I'm not a virgin but in FebuAry it will be a year since I decided sex is for marrige,the begginibg of my abstinence. Six mont...

I've fallen for my best friends little sister

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - Okay so here's the deal.. I'm a 16 year old guy who happened to fall for a 13 year old girl. 1st Question: Is this very wrong and pediphiliac behaviour? I can honestly say that I'm not your quintessential teenage guy: I don't crave sex in relat...

He felt me up and I liked it...what does that mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - ive been with girls my whole my life n never really thought of men, but the other night a guy felt me up n tried to go with me n it really turned me, does that mean im gay?...

I like to cuddle my best friend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4108 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - My friend, who is a girl, and I are best friends. We are really close and I trust her with almost everything. We have sleepovers a lot and always sleep in same bed and cuddle. Is that wrong? sometimes we stay up all night just hugging or rubbing ...

How can I turn my life around so I don't feel the way I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I go to an all guy school.... There's only 2 other girls and I'm not Friends with anyone there... It's a school for bad behavior and learning dissabilitys... I have troubles around males... And bad trusting issues... My biological dad abused me and ...

When I see him I fall in love all over again

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Dear cupid this boy i have the biggest crush on delted me on blackberry messenger cause i sayd something i shouldnt ... I need to get over him but i try its really hard. But when i see him i fall in love him again ! When i see him in school w...

14 and like my cousin

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - i am 14 and really really like my cousin. whenever i go over her house i think about being with her and fanatsize about us being together.when i decided to act on my feelings and grabbed her butt i didnt get a clear message from her. how can i tell ...

How can I have safe sex without the use of birth control and condoms?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - how can I have safe sex without the use of birth control? My boyfriend doesn't like to use condoms and I trust him to pull out but sometimes I'm afraid. I would like to be on birth control but I can't be prescribed because I'm on chemotherapy pil...

I want to convince my girlfriend to go farther

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I'm not a virgin. My girlfriend is. I feel really bad about this because I think I love her and I want to sleep with her, but she says that she isn't ready yet. I asked whether she thought oral sex counted she said yes, so nothing. We kiss and ...

He flirted at first but now he's not texting back. Is he over me already?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Well, I know I shouldn't be freaking out on something like this, but... Okay I like this guy and we've talked for a while and now and he asked me for my number. so i gave it to him. and he flirted first, but he's not texting back! What should i do?!...

I can't tell him what happened. And I can't face him. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Long story short I had sex with my friend last night and he came in me.. It's 9 days after my period so I'm assuming I'm pregnant.. He bought me the morning after pill and I took it asap.. I guess about 18 hours after we had sex.. How do I even look ...

He suddenly got back with his ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - So I have a problem that I really need help with... There is this guy, Tony. I really like him. And I thought he liked me... But after hanging out with him for a while he suddenly got back with his Ex. He says he loves her, but I just know shes bad...

I don't understand him, please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I'm 16 and I live in Florida. My family and I just went to our hometown in Wisconsin to visit old family and friends. My dad wanted to visit his old highschool buddy so when we got to his house, I immediately hit it off with his 16 year old son. We ...

Can we be in love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I am 13, and dating a 14 year old. He is in high school versus me being in middle/jr high. Is it possible for us to be in love? I am pretty sure I love him, he tells me he loves me all the time, just randomly. One day he said "you may not believe ...

I feel so out of place.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Hi. I'm 18. I've never had many friends, still don't. Not because i'm weird or anything like that, just because i don't really identify myself with most people i know. I used to not care about all that, but recently i've been feeling really low.. ...