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Archived questions from: 3 October, 2010 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

How can I try to get his dad to be nice to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4959 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - Ok. This is a teensy bit awkward. Basically, the guy I've been seeing for over a year, I've had a crush on since I was 12. Although I payed him a lot of attention, he was never really interested in me, so I gave up and dated another guy. We all go t...

Is it normal for my boyfriend to stop me before orgasming?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for two months, things regularly get heated, yet I haven't slept with him yet. The thing is, when I toss him off he always stops be by saying 'stop' or pulling my hand away, just before orgasming. I think he's scare...

I'm seriously in love with her and want to know how to prove it, as she doesn't have much time to hang out with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

3 October 2010 (M) - i met this girl freshan year at first it started as a crush and well it started to grow we did things as if we were a couple but i never officially asked her to be my gf,,,time passed by and i was juss an idiot and still never did,,,sophmore year ...

Should I just leave him to simmer...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4960 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - See this question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-could-possibly-have-been-going-through-his.html for the story leading up to this. He's been writing me on Facebook nonstop telling me how sorry he is and how I'm somehow different from t...

Why has she went cold on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

3 October 2010 (M) - I'm a junior in high school, i had started talking to this sophomore girl and after about a month we were talking about us and how we liked each other and so on, at the end of one of the friday night football games we were hanging out and we had our ...

Should I keep him sweet in order to get my inheritence?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - Hey, I don't know my biological father... After many years, I have recently been emailing with his sister, and she hasnt mentioned him at all and neither have I. He has never shown any interest at all, and has a new family. I of course, have my ...

Boy crazy!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - I'm a passionate and really nice person but i'm also extremely boy crazy. I've only had one boyfriend so far because all the guy i like go for the C cup size 0 bitchy girls and i'm not like that so i'm insecure sometimes. I feel like i need to ...

Doggie dilemma!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - I am a 19 year old female and my boyfriend is 18. whenever we have sex, i enjoy the missionary position but as we start doing other positions (esp. dogggie) i just cant bear the pain on my lower stomach. Does anyone know about this? and is this the ...

Why do I always look for something wrong in the guys I fancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - Hi I feel like I always try to find stuff wrong with guys that I am interested in (looks, personality, etc)... I do that so that way I can convince myself that I don't like them and that I can do so much better. I am not sure why I am doing that ...

Help!!! Scared of sex...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - hey guys i have a really serious problem that is worrying me for a while.. i'm a girl and i'm afraid of sex.. yeah i'm a virgin but my fear is different than most girls'. It's like i'm not afraid of the first time because it's going to hurt, m...

Am I just repelling guys my age?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm hoping you can help me out! I am so confused about myself and what guys think of me. I am a freshman in High school; I just turned 15. I've noticed something over the months that is really confusing. It seems like no freshman guys ...

So, I have a crush on my ex's best friend..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I just recently broke up. And before I get all these "Don't do anything! You'll ruin their friendship!" responses, the break up was mutual, so we've decided to stay friends; best friends, in fact, because we know no one knows each ...

Abusive ex, back in touch.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4960 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - One year ago I split from am extremely abusive boyfriend. My boyfriend knows everything that I can possibly think to tell him about that relationship. But recently my abusive ex has been back in touch and has told me he wants me back. I told him I ...

Together 7 months now but he's not very affectionate with me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both 19. He has been known as the "macho" kind of guy.. Very cavalier and promiscuous. I have always been the hopeless romantic.. One day, we started dating and in the beginning he told me that it was nothing serious ...

I have questions about condoms, masturbation and diseases--mature answers, please!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - loads of people in my school are NOT virgins, some of them are but i wouldnt say many people are, they all have big boobs and have nice legs, and know all about sex and masturbation, can someone answer these questions: Do condoms really protect y...

I only seem to be interested when there's a challenge

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - Hey! So I have a problem I cant figure out... whenever theres a guy I meet that I'm attracted to, I flirt with him and everything because I like him, but then when I find out he likes me, my feelings and attraction towards them, just go aw...

I might be pregnant! What's going to happen?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - i am 14 me and my partner want a baby , i might be pregnant and we really hope i am he is scared what will happwn if i am what will happen to the baby ?...

He asked me to homecoming but openly flirts with my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4960 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - I said yes. We had a time where we both liked each other but nothing ever happened cause he ended it. Now, after he asks me to HC, he sometimes ignores me and openly flirts with my friend (and they both had a time where they liked each other too). ...

Why are the girls at school, so mean to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

3 October 2010 (M) - y dont girls like me, at school there mean to me, call me names for no reason and dont really know me at all. Im in the football A team, top 5 for athletics in my year, Im not disgusting, Im very polite and haven't said a mean word to any girl. ...

Great personality but I'm not attracted to his looks..he's way too thin. Should I date him anyways?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - Theres a boy who likes me, hes lovely and funny, not too bad looking but hes super super skinny, like you think hes just going to break when you see him. He has such an amazing pesonality and I get on with him so well but I think because hes so thin ...

He's nervous about hanging out with me..so, does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4960 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - Ok so this guy I kind of like I asked him if he,could hang out today And he said that he wil try and go. Then later today which was when we were suppose to hang out he told me that he couldnt go. And then after I left I text him telling him he ...

My boyfriend wants me to be more sexual?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm 13 years old. My boyfriend is 16 last week. The problem is, im a virgin...he isn't. He wants me to be more sexual, and i don't know what to say! He is really nice but he said it will never work unless i try to become a little bit more...

Is there anything that males prefer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - Hello everyone, I've not been on this website for a while! I'll just start by saying I've learned quite a lot about the opposite sex, and I managed to avoid them whilst doing my GCSE exams and I am proud to say I did quite well and got into the...

Secretly I don't want to get over him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

3 October 2010 (?) - Hello. I really like this one person in my class. I've liked him for more than a year now and he doesn't know about it. I really want to tell him but I fear rejection. Due to which I haven't really even displayed any remote emotions of liki...

He's older but does he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - The guy I like at the moment is four years older than me. We get along very well and I feel like he likes me. However, I'm not sure if he pays extra attention to me because I am his youngest friend or because he actually likes me. Age isn't a pr...

We're both shy! Does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4960 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - I want to know if my cousin has a crush on me. What shall I do? It is quite complicated. I have a crush on him for 11 years. He lives in US and I live in HK so we only see each other for every two years. I am a Virgo and his birthday is on ...

Am I fat?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - im 5"3 nd weigh 130 pounds i have a flat tummy nd big breast for some men do you consider this fat? ...

Twitter codes and teenagers

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

3 October 2010 (?) - Ok this is probably the rarest question submitted. But i am hoping someone knows the answer. I have a 16 yr old daughter and as a concerned parent, I like to know what she is up to. I notice from time to time on her tweeter page she would type a b...

Should I wait, or date other people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - I am in love but we are broken up... We started going out october of last year and broke up in January. Since then he has dated one other girl. In June, he started hanging out with me again and told me that he still likes me and we hang out and talk ...

What to do about my boyfriend? And his best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year now, and lately I've noticed some changes. I'll shorten this as much as I can.. He's kind of addicted to an online game, and I think that's where all of his problems come from. He gets ...

Would I mess up their friendship by asking one of them out??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4960 days ago

3 October 2010 (M) - There are these two girls in my class and they both like me, but they best friends. If I ask one out I might screw up there friendship. What should I do?...

Can't remember how I was able to have an orgasm, need help please??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - I'm so frustrated. I've only cum once and now I don't know how i did it :( And it sucks because the last time I engaged in sexual intercourse, I was so close to climaxing but I couldn't for some reason... even though the sex was amazing as well as ...

First time sex went wrong

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i attempted sex for the first time last night. we were both confident about it and it felt right, but we couldn't manage to get him inside of me. it didnt hurt but we couldn't get him in the vagina. am i too small? or is it normal? ...

Met on a cruise, like her, facebook connection, be here March, what to do till then??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 October 2010 (M) - Hey Everyone, So this summer me and my dad went on vacation on a cruise to Alaska. We were having a lot of fun and I met tons of people that I hung out with. We kinda formed a group that we hung out with with 4 guys and 3 girls. There was one gi...

Guys, would older experienced man still try to pursue a teenaged girl??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - if your an older guy who likes a severely younger girl (bout 6 yrs) and you have a lot of sexual experience but she has none so she shyes away from stuff would you still try to get with her? ...

Need a little advice on going to the next step, help??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - Okay, I have kissed this guy maybe 3 or 4 times.. And i think im ready to go to makeout. I know he wants to because he has told me he wants to before. I have never made out with a guy and im scared i wont do it right. Oh ya, He also has braces. I ...

Guys! Is being a flat chested girl a turn-off to you??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

3 October 2010 (F) - Okay, i know this is probably asked all the time but I'm worried my boobs are really small and i'll dissapoint when my bra comes off. I wear a B cup and it's usually at least a slightly padded bra that i wear. without it, there's practically nothing ...