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writes:I'm a junior in high school, i had started talking to this sophomore girl and after about a month we were talking about us and how we liked each other and so on, at the end of one of the friday night football games we were hanging out and we had our first kiss, but it was right as she had to go so it was only a couple seconds, she texed me the next day and told me it felt all wrong, shes breaking my heart and we agreed to talk about it in person after school, what should i do. Reply to this Question
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reader, panthers0412 +, writes (4 October 2010):
panthers0412 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advice, we already talked about how she felt,she keeps telling me she doesnt know so i told her id give her time, im hoping her seeing me in the halls, and not being able to chill with me after school, cuz we did that everyday, im hopin she'll miss it and come to her senses, any more advice please let me know
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reader, panthers0412 +, writes (4 October 2010):
panthers0412 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advice, we already talked about how she felt,she keeps telling me she doesnt know so i told her id give her time, im hoping her seeing me in the halls, and not being able to chill with me after school, cuz we did that everyday, im hopin she'll miss it and come to her senses, any more advice please let me know
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (3 October 2010):
 Let her bring it up. She hasn't gone cold on you. It's not like she's avoiding you and pretending like she doesn't know you. It sounds to me like you guys maybe rushed things a bit(emotionally speaking) and in person the chemistry wasn't as strong. That is probably what she meant by "it felt wrong", the fact that maybe she felt no chemistry when she kissed you. You guys need to talk, it may be because you are a little younger and that's causing a hang up for her........who knows!
Don't get too pushy and needy and just act normal and friendly to her and when brings it up then you guys need to talk about what intentions you both had and what you were both hoping for(friendship? a hook-up? a relationship?)and what she meant by "it felt wrong"
Good luck hun
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reader, xchellex  +, writes (3 October 2010):
Well to me it sounds like this girl has no idea what she wants, she may be playing hard to get or she may actually be completely confused. What i would do is ask her how she feels, does she want this to lead into a relationship or not. If she cant give you a straight answer, play hard to get, believe me it works and makes girls want you sooo much more. If however she says she only sees you as a friend then id just leave it and move on, you want someone to love you back, not mess you about
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