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writes:Hi everyone, I'm hoping you can help me out! I am so confused about myself and what guys think of me. I am a freshman in High school; I just turned 15. I've noticed something over the months that is really confusing. It seems like no freshman guys are interested in me, but a ton of eighth grade boys are. They chat me on Facebook, ask me out, and some hit on me as if they were older than me. I don't understand this! Am I just repelling guys my age? I'm not fat, but I'm not a stick figure; I have curves. People tell me I'm pretty, but is there something wrong with me?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (3 October 2010):
 At your age no one cared to look twice at me. Just be happy you get some attention, and tons of younger guys think it is hot to be with someone older.
Don't pay too much attention to guys right now, they are here there and everywhere. As you get older there will be certain patterns, but teenage guys don't go for a typical pattern, except they like all women who will have sex with them.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 October 2010):
Of course not. The truth is, most guys your age don't even know what dating really involves. I asked out a load of girls when I was your age, and to be honest I just didn't know what I was doing. Didn't get my girlfriend until I was nearly 17.
Relax. You're fine. There's nothing wrong with you.
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reader, Taylaa.x +, writes (3 October 2010):
There is NOTHING wrong with you! The only thing wrong with you is that fact that your saying this! Being curvy is what every girl dreams of. Your only 15, a you get a bit older you will attract older guys and guys your age. At this stage of puberty you are going through lots of emotions and changes, you are bound to think this is strange that youger boys like you. But honestly, you ave nothing to worry about it. just relax and take this slowly, the right guy will find you! I promise! x
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