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writes:hi there i just wanted some peoples advice and opinions on my situation.but basically i really like this guy and i have for a long while now, but i was talkng to him a couple of days ago and he told me he was seeing some girl to see how it goes, just a general chat. and it kinda hurt me as i have strong feelings for him, he is on my mind 24/7 no jokes.i just want to know if he actually does have any feelings towards me.my friends and family say that we are meant to be but he ju hasnt realised yet. and i know lots about him as i listen to all his troubles, worries etc. xplease help me x Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 January 2010):
You will know if you're meant to be if he comes to you, not because your friends and family say so. The fact he hasn't come to you and has gone to another suggests that he doesnt' fancy you, but sees you as a great friend instead. I'm afraid you have to be strong for yourself and work through how you feel.
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reader, degasdancer14  +, writes (3 January 2010):
Well this same situation happened to me.
i really liked him and he just went out with her.
not because he didnt like me, but because he didnt know that i liked him.
and you know that honesty is always the best answer. so when they break up (which they will. it's not like their getting married at 13-15)
you should be there for him and let him know gently how you feel.
i hope it all works out for you.
best of luuuck!
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