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Archived questions from: 9 November, 2008 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Does my girlfriend still like me or should I just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

9 November 2008 (M) - I started hanging out with my friend from college and his friends over the past several months. I was still new, when I met my girlfriend for the first time. It was like we were the same person, at the time she had a boyfriend for the past 2 years. ...

Be yourself, don't change for anyone

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - Hey, this is just my personal opinion. This isn't a question, just an opinion, and I would be happy to hear yours :D I believe, firmly, that you should not change who you are for anyone. I think that everyone is different and unique and diffe...

Second date ideas seriously needed here!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

9 November 2008 (M) - hi people at dearcupid, I'm 19 at uni 70 miles away from Manchester (uk) where my actual home is and I've been on a date with a girl who lives in the same area. Last Monday the 3rd November, (I tend to come home every 2/3weeks). I did not know her ...

I know there's no future with him but I still can't stop thinking about him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - I need serious help!! About 2 years ago I really liked this guy called chris and I ended up telling him I had feelings for him which was a big mistake as he said he didn't feel the same way.. We never knew each other properly and I guess that was ...

Does he just find me rather weird or is he actually interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - Hi There, I hope you one of you guys can help me out. You see I've been working and I met someone new at a job that I've been working at - anyways We've started to talk to one another and this guy that I like seems to be looking at me quite ofte...

I HAVEN'T DONE ANYTHING BUT KISS A GIRL BEFORE, NOW IM GOING TO DO ORAL FOR THE FIRST TIME, I NEED ADVICE!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

9 November 2008 (M) - ive been with my girlfriend over a couple of months now, and we are both ready to do oral sex. i've never done anything but kiss before. and im really nervous about showing my dick. im scared i might be too hairy, too small, and the main reason im ...

He has already told me he does not have feelings towards me romantically, and I told him I feel the same. But the truth is that I love him! It's absolutly killing me !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - I'm planning on moving out for the first time next summer with my Best Friend. Him and I have been Best Friends for four years now. We are so close and practically inseperable. We used to fool around, but now our relationship is completly ...

My parents are splitting up! What can I do to stop them?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - My parents are going to split up! :( i don't know how to keep them together ...... please i need help........ x ...

Should teenagers date before 16? What should they limit to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - So what do you think? Should people date before 16? And if they do, what do you think are the limits in a relationship? :) x...

In love and don't know what to do...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - I was on holiday and my mom dad met this couple and they became friends and when we got back off holiday andthey came round for the weekend and they brought there son who is 16 and i immediately fell in love with him. He started flirting with me and ...

What can I get my 16-year-old boyfriend for Christmas?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - hiya its almost christmas!!! and my boyfrind has already brought me a gift and i have no idea what to get him he's 16 and it so difficult on what to decide on what to get him its our 2nd christmas together weve been together for a lil ova a...

Surely his memory's not that bad? He suggested going to the movies but forgot twice!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - What do you make of this? There is a guy I texts and chat too on MSN, althought I have met him but I dont see him much because he goes to bording school in the week. He told one of my friends that he fancied me. I dont realy feel the same way but ...

My girlfriend is acting weird, it seems like I am bothering her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

9 November 2008 (M) - Dear cupid. I have been with my girlfriend for almost two months...but i think something is not working out for me.. she is korean..and came one year ago from there...of course we have different cultures..but i really try hard to understand h...

I'm super sad because the relationship is confusing...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - I'm just super sad. This guy my brother set me up with and I dated for a little while. He told me sometime he gets into depressed moods... But i never imagined he would be so depressed that he didn't want to talk to anyone. Well, he called about 3 ...

I don't know whether I'm coming or going!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - I really need your help. There's this guy at school who I am in love with, everyone else says that he does too. He recently moved 2 our school and I've only known him for 9 weeks and I am already in love with him. I have never felt this way about a ...

Any advice for a first timer on fingering?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

9 November 2008 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend just over a couple of months now, and we've talked about doing oral sex. she wants me to finger her, but I haven't done anything with a girl apart from kiss. Has anyone got any advice on fingering a girl for the first ...

How old do you have to be to have foreplay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

9 November 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfreind are so close its unreal, she says she'd have sex but I think it's a bit too soon, but I'd be up for anything else (blowjob, finger etc..). Does anyone know what the BRITISH age limit is for foreplay? Please reply. Thanks...

My partner is so unreliable, I can't believe a word he says.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - Hey, Me and partner get on great a lot of the time but there is just one thing he does that really frustrates me. He's unreliable, he says he's going to do something and then when asked if he has, he has some reason or another as to why he has...

How to make out at age 13 ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - Hi.I am 13 and want to know how to make out. I have a little bit of knowledge, but I dont know what to do! please answer step by step! Thanks!!...

I embarrassed her. Does this mean we are thru ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

9 November 2008 (?) - Me and my girlfriend got drunk tonight we ended up making out. One thing lead another and I pull off her shirt but it stuck to her bra strap. me being quite drunk pulling harder thinking it would come with it. But some padding fell out. I said " ...

My feelings have grown from those of friendship to love...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

Heartbroken and wanting him back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - I'm 15 years old, and a while ago I met this guy. He seemed like a really good guy, so I went with it. We talked all the time, and I liked him soooo much. I started to realize I was falling in love with him and wanted to stop right there. He was a ...

I've thinking about my life and I don't really know what I want anymore and it's scaring me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

9 November 2008 (M) - I've always been the type that likes to set big goals and work for them. Lately I've thinking about my life and I don't really know what I want anymore. It's scaring me. I'm upset and I can't imagine what would make me unupset. Seriously, if a genie ...

What would REALLY put guys off a girl?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - A quick question, just out of interest :) Guys, what would really put you off a girl? ...

My ex has had a major serious accident and I need to see him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - I came out of a 3 year relationship about 6 months ago. Me and the guy remained friends. Thing is, now he's gone and had a serious accident!!! I mean major! He's in a critical state and I can't go see him:-( His family never acccepted me and...

My gums hurt and I have these weird small white bumps on my tongue.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - My gums hurt and I have these weird small white bumps on my tongue. All of this happened after kissing someone. Also my skin has gotten darker. I have lower abdominal pain and a lot of discharge too! Do you think I have more than one std?...

My mom walked in and caught us making out...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

9 November 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 months.. she came over today and we were laying on the couch side by side watching the movie "Disturbia" and we starting kissing and then we made out for 10 mins or so and it was very intimate. This was ...

Any tips on how to have sex so it doesn't hurt so much?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - I tried having sex with my boyfriend, and I wasn't a virgin before hand, but I'm too tight and he's too big so it hurt me a lot and we stopped. The first time I had sex it didn't hurt at all and the guy wasn't that small but he wasn't huge like my ...