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writes:I tried having sex with my boyfriend, and I wasn't a virgin before hand, but I'm too tight and he's too big so it hurt me a lot and we stopped. The first time I had sex it didn't hurt at all and the guy wasn't that small but he wasn't huge like my boyfriend now. We've been dating for over six months now and we decided that we were ready to have sex, but we couldn't actually do the act. We used a condom and I'm on birth control, so don't worry. I just need tips so the next time it won't hurt as bad and we might be able to actually do something. Any suggestions?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2008): so this is weird to say; but.
stick ONE finger up your hole.
and pull JUST VERY SOFTLY towards your back side.
do this every once in a while..
dont pull so hard it hurts.
this will feel weird. but it helps. i promise.
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reader, xhailofbulletsx  +, writes (10 November 2008):
 Lots and lots of lube. Also, make sure you are as relaxed as possible, this will relax your pubic muscles making it easier for him to enter you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2008): Lots of kissing, slow caring toching, clitis stimulation, and a good lub, start slowly, find a rythm and relax
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reader, the one who doesn't know  +, writes (9 November 2008):
 if your so sure of yourself, who am i to lecture you?if you want to have sex go ahead...but since you say it hurts so much, i think it's better to try, sex without penetration, so it won't hurt that much, don't you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2008): come on dudu r only 16be a bit cooool I am 21 and still virginwait atleast 2 years. it is too early
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm turning sixteen in nine days.
We've been with each other for six months.
We've been through really hard times and he could have left me numerous times but he never has.
I don't want to be lectured on not having sex.
I just want advice.
But thank you to the person who did.
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reader, the one who doesn't know +, writes (9 November 2008):
call me old-fashioned, but with 13-15, you shouldn't be so interested in sex. but i would say some lube maybe...
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