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writes:I'm planning on moving out for the first time next summer with my Best Friend. Him and I have been Best Friends for four years now. We are so close and practically inseperable. We used to fool around, but now our relationship is completly non-physical. He was the first boy I ever did anything with, and I think that made me get reallyyyy attached to him. He has already told me he does not have feelings towards me romantically, and I told him I feel the same. But the truth is that I love him! It's absolutly killing me. I hate keeping this from him, but I've been keeping it from him for soo long that even the thought of telling him scares me to death as I already know how he feels towards me but I know it would be sad to live with him for two years while we go to college together and have these hidden feelings towards him.If I ever tell him I would want the timing to be right.. maybe when we are older, after college, then he would be ready to settle down and fall in love. I'm just falling apart inside and would like some kind advice. Thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2008): I know its hard, but you should tell him how you feel. Just think he may feel the same for you -- and is just waiting for you to say it first -- so he wont risk being embarrassed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2008): You should tell him NOW. How you feel now will be worse if you are living with him at college and he starts bringing a string of girls home or worse for you getting a steady girlfriend. He NEEDS to know.
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reader, the one who doesn't know  +, writes (9 November 2008):
 really you are right. telling him now would be like playing with a gun. but who tells you he, like you, doesn't love you? yeah it's like playing the russian roulette, but it's better than being "eaten alive" don't you think?
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