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*rettyxdemon
writes:I'm 16 years old and I'm a junior in high school. In freshman year, my history teacher was pregnant so from March to June, we had a substitute teacher. When i first saw him, i didn't think much of him, but i knew there was something different about him. However, i learned he was married. Slowly but surely i developed a kind of crush on him. That turned into a strong infatuation. And two years later, I am now in love with him. Everything reminds me of him and i live to just see his face everyday. I've been visiting him everyday since freshman year, and i started to notice this year, that he would get very nervous around me. I'd catch him staring at me, and he would just treat me differently than other students. I don't know if it's just because we're close or he feels something. Then two weeks ago, the principal called me down to his office and said that the teacher didn't feel comfortable with me around and he appeared nervous. So final verdict was that we couldn't talk to each other anymore. I was crushed. I just didn't understand especially because last year i would visit him at least 3 times a day and I actually hugged him a couple of times last year. This year none of that happened. It was just more of a mature relationship, but we did share something. And to make it even more awkward, every time we pass each other in the hallway, we sustain eye contact and it's like we're saying so much to each other through our eyes. Please tell me if you think he has some feelings for me back. And some please try and explain what is going on with this man.
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reader, Ask The Leprechaun  +, writes (18 November 2008):
 I know how you feel, I'm 16, in love with a maried teacher who has kids, so don't let anyone tell you you're too young to have these feelings for him, or that getting over it is simple and painless.ok, I think he does have some feelings for you, because of the way he treats you, the eye contact, it's all too familiar, BUT you have to remember, this teacher filed a complaint against you. He probably does have feelings for you, BUT he does not want to act on them. He wants to keep his job and stay married. I understand how crushed you must feel, but you have to respect his decision, it's not like you have a choice anyway, since you can't talk to him now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2008): Prettyxdemon. Cool this thing. This is a crush on your part. Sorry, but you are not old enough to have any real relationship with someone his age and you know it. He is uncomfortable because of your crush. And he is married. Use your head. These things can be very difficult for teachers. Teachers have been fired over less things and by no fault of their own. Have some common sense. If you really like him as a person, you would not want to cause him problems, now would you?
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