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My god I'm desperate, my daughter physically beats me

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Question - (9 April 2006) 9 Answers - (Newest, 8 September 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

Iam a single mum with a 13 year old daughter who is physically bigger and stronger than me and she has started to hit and bully me.

Iam a english size 8 and 5 foot tall and she is 5 foot 8 inches tall a size 24 and 20 stone she totally dwarfs me in fact.

my daughter demanded money last month so she could buy drink and drugs for her and her mates and when I refused to hand over any money she started beating me up and she didnt stop until she knocked me out I have still got two black eyes and a bruised face from that.

Then that night while she was high on drink and ecstasy she forced me to have oral sex with two boys from her class at school and after everyone had left that night she made me go down on her and give her oral sex and ever since then Ive been forced to go down on my daughter every day at least 4 times a day

Please help me Iam desperate

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A female reader, Wendyg United Kingdom +, writes (8 September 2006):

Wendyg agony auntHey what a wind up! I too believed it till the last paragraph... Not sure what the sicko wants out of this one guys!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2006):

Call the police and get family services involved. Your daughter is caught up in a wolrd of drugs and is hanging with the wrong people. This puts her like at risk and apparently yours.

Calling the police and making a report is the best way to show your daughter that you are still Mom and you still make the rules. She needs to know their are serious consequences for her actions.

If you cannot conceive to do this then I would have to agree with everyone else in that you are a bored or mentally imbalanced person who needs "attention".

Either way, get professional help.

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A male reader, David Lewis United Kingdom +, writes (8 September 2006):

David Lewis agony auntI believed it up until the paragraph regarding the sex. I have seen cases of a similar nature, until the said paragraph.

I dont believe this to be a true case, so I am not going to give any advice. I would only say to go elsewhere if you wish to make stories up of this type.

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A male reader, iamsoscrewedup333 +, writes (21 April 2006):

if this is actually true, which I doubt, CALL THE POLICE and have her arrested for poss of drugs, underage drinking and rape... stil think this is bulls**t

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A female reader, Italie United Kingdom +, writes (10 April 2006):

Italie agony auntSorry, dont believe you either. Only a very, very sick mother would agree to do that to their daughter (and to be honest It's sick that you even though up this story!!).

IF it is true then the fact that no one believes this is happening must tell you how ridiculous it is. Why would you not contact the authorities? The girl obviously has psychological issues that that you cant possibly think can be helped by an Agony Aunt website.

Do you think we are all daft?

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A female reader, willywombat United Kingdom +, writes (10 April 2006):

willywombat agony auntThanks Prunella, I was beginning to think I had missed something with this one or lost the plot.

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A female reader, PrunellaGringepith +, writes (10 April 2006):

PrunellaGringepith agony auntNope...don't believe either...sorry.

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A female reader, Angelicc United Kingdom +, writes (9 April 2006):

Angelicc agony auntBeing a single parent is hard, no parent expects to be fearful of there own child.

I am so sorry that you daughter is so shame that she beats on you and forces you to perform sexual acts upon her and her friends. no parent should have to go thro that.

I don’t believe you should blame yourself, the fact she behaves the way she does isn’t down to her up bring but to the Yob cultural she as sounded herself in. Youth’s today are full of bad attitude, violence is there first reaction if things don’t go there way and have a lack of understanding of other people’s feeling or thoughts, She’s just an shows how British youth today our out of control.

You may find it hard to love her as what she’s doing to you is a form of abuse. She may not realize what she’s doing is abuse as she is still very and may only see it as getting her own way.

I believe you have a few choices

1) Take her to see a councilor try to work thro these issues with her.

2) Ring social services and see if they can take her off you hands, (see a councilor just to help you)

3) Ring social services and get them to take her off you hands and see a councilor with her to work thro these issues.

4) Try to get her dad to take her.

i hope i've helped in some way. but please don't carry on dealing with this only you shouldnt have to be abused in your own home by your own child. please do something about it now.

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A female reader, willywombat United Kingdom +, writes (9 April 2006):

willywombat agony auntSorry but I am not buying into this one, don't believe you!

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