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writes:I have been off and on with, let's call him "Joe", for almost a year and half. The on and off has been do to me being uncertain of what I want. Anyways I ended up back with "Joe" and he's great. This time I feel for him hook, line, and sinker. He's the best thing in my entire life besides my puppy, not that that was relevant to the situation at hard. Joe and I made Love for the first time Tuesday, April 11th and it weren't even close to being what I had wanted. I was a little disappointed. But I love him so it does not matter and I have faith that it will get better. So now for some of the sexual details so you can lend me some advice or some ideas on my situation, or should I call it a problem. 1) Were both rather overweight but not so bad that people look at us funny when walking down the street; not too much that having sex should be a problem. We have both had sex before and never had problems.2) I think I'm quite tight and his penis is pretty round and he tried to even fit to fingers and it was a tight squeeze. Just from him trying to enter and not really suceeding, ended in soreness and some bleeding. But once again I have been with other guys and they were able to penatrate me fine and not hurt. He did not even have the chance to make it even hurt bad because there was no getting it in.3) His penis is really not all that long and I feel bad to have to bring that up as what I think may be the possible problem as well as the two problems above. I don't really know what to think or where to go with this so what do you think the problem is and how we we work on it to make it better... all advice is welcomed. Thank you.
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reader, CaptainPicard +, writes (14 April 2006):
 Have you use lubricants? Water based ones are the best if you use latex condoms. Maybe you guys should try different positions, like doggy, spoon, etc...
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (14 April 2006):
 Sounds like the traditonal missionary position is just not for you. Try side on or rear entry postions you may have more luck.x
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reader, Jadzia1127 +, writes (14 April 2006):
 This is a problem with patience.
That area of the women's body gets tighter with sexual arousal or can be from a lengthy absence from sex. Use lots of edible lubricant and have him patiently use his fingers to massage you open, or do it yourself and have him watch. Guys love, love, love being instructed this way.
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