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I have four children. I'm a single parent, of two children a boy (19) and a girl (10). My ex-wife has the two children we share living with her, 2 girls (16, and 14).
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6 July 2008: This is an article I received from local news. When reading this I think about how important it is to know who you know, and to notice changes in the behaviors of others. In cases like this, the agressor displays subtle signs prior to acting. He may ...
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I cheated on my boyfriend and he won't get over it- what do I do?
Q. I cheated on my man. I was wrong, I admit it, and I would turn back time and stay true to him if I could. But I can't, and I let him know that, but now he treats me like I do it everyday, conrtolling me and always accusing me of doing stuff with...
A. 6 October 2010: Those are valid reasons. You two should set certain boundaries before moving. It's easy to compromise the other when the opportunity presents itself. You need your time as well as he needs some freedom to party. Establish how much time will be spent ... (read in full...)
I cheated on my boyfriend and he won't get over it- what do I do?
Q. I cheated on my man. I was wrong, I admit it, and I would turn back time and stay true to him if I could. But I can't, and I let him know that, but now he treats me like I do it everyday, conrtolling me and always accusing me of doing stuff with...
A. 2 October 2010: You contradicted yourself. You said you want to be with him for the rest of your life, and that you want to get married to him, but you don't know if you're ready. Let me ask you something. It your desire to be with him for life is true, then would ... (read in full...)
Mid-Life crisis?
Q. I'm basically a mummy's boy. Never had a functional relationship; find sex confusing; lots of emotional relationships with women; just broke someone's heart, knowingly, and probably put her on track for a relapse in her recovery from abuse; have ...
A. 16 August 2010: Just like any other recovery, it takes time. Be proud of what you're doing. It's rare to see someone who knows they need to change, and who actually takes action in doing it. I remember, I told my dad, who had anger issues, that his anger wasn't who ... (read in full...)
Mid-Life crisis?
Q. I'm basically a mummy's boy. Never had a functional relationship; find sex confusing; lots of emotional relationships with women; just broke someone's heart, knowingly, and probably put her on track for a relapse in her recovery from abuse; have ...
A. 13 July 2010: Sounds like you're on the right track. Congrats on the improvements you have made. I'm beginning to learn to "live in the now." This means that in every moment of right now, you can choose how you feel and what you think. If your thought doesn't ... (read in full...)
Could I have gotten an STD?
Q. Last Saturday night I met a cute guy at a club. We danced and drank until closing and I got pretty buzzed. He offered me a ride home and when we got in his car, I went down on him. I never did that to a strange guy before and when he finished I ...
A. 14 June 2010: a majority of STD are contacted by intercourse and not oral sex. I don't think you have much to worry about, but if you do notice changes, such as discolored discharge, etc. get checked. I have heard of rare occasions where someone contracts from ... (read in full...)
Help! I'm in a loveless marriage!
Q. Im woman married for four years now. Our relationship has been mainly long distant for the past five years. We have one child, a daughter who is 2 years old. The hubby does not provide for the family. If i try to ask him, he gets defensive and ...
A. 14 June 2010: Why do you live in separate countries? That's got to be difficult for you. Support for your child shouldn't have to wait until later either. It seems the younger they are, the more they actually do need, so he needs to be lending that support now.
... (read in full...)
How to rekindle old spark in my relationship?
Q. How can i rekindle my relationship? Im back with my boyfriend after almost two months of being apart. The reason we broke up was because our relationship became a routine , and he said he had stopped loving me. He was the one to look for me and ...
A. 14 June 2010: Once the baby comes, there will be a lot of changes, most of which will seem routine. There is nothing exciting about spitting up and changing diapers. His taking part in that process, however can bring you two closer together.
In situatio... (read in full...)
I'm sleeping with my ex AND his cousin
Q. Okay, so I was in a relationship with a guy for roughly 3months. A week before we spilt up, I kissed his cousin. It was nothing special, just a kiss. We arranged to meet up, but then both of us backed out of it. When me and my boyfriend (his ...
A. 14 June 2010: You understand you can't have both... You need to decide, short term and long term what you want. What you really want would not change by someone sending you a text message. Make a firm decision and stick to it. ... (read in full...)
I cheated on my boyfriend and he won't get over it- what do I do?
Q. I cheated on my man. I was wrong, I admit it, and I would turn back time and stay true to him if I could. But I can't, and I let him know that, but now he treats me like I do it everyday, conrtolling me and always accusing me of doing stuff with...
A. 14 June 2010: This is why that exercise is important. It's no longer about you. It's about him and healing. What you did is done, and in the past. What he's doing is currently and presently affecting your relationship. You choose him, he chooses you, that's it. ... (read in full...)
Kept a secret and now he's very angry
Q. There was something in my mind, and I can’t stop thinking about it. I really need help now. I really need an opinion to do to solve it. Here’s the thing, lets just see that you just hurt someone that you love. He love you damn much, he trust you, he ...
A. 13 June 2010: How about explaining a little more. What secret were you hiding. You said it was about your first date, but then said you don't want anyone to get into trouble. So, more information about what the secret was will help in our answering and helping ... (read in full...)
I cheated on my boyfriend and he won't get over it- what do I do?
Q. I cheated on my man. I was wrong, I admit it, and I would turn back time and stay true to him if I could. But I can't, and I let him know that, but now he treats me like I do it everyday, conrtolling me and always accusing me of doing stuff with...
A. 13 June 2010: You say you love him as much as you do, then why'd you cheat? What's missing where the affect of your actions didn't matter much at the time?
First, lets look at the impact and why his behavior has become more controlling. Various psycholo... (read in full...)
My husband is becoming increasingly abusive
Q. I am worried about my relationship with my husband. About a year after we got married I got a call in the middle of the night saying my husband had been arrested at work. It turned out he had a warrant out for his arrest. I had just given birth to ...
A. 13 June 2010: With his family blaming you for his actions, seems as if he grew up not taking responsibility and placing blame for his actions as well.
You understand that some relationships and some marriage just don't work out. This is not your fault. Y... (read in full...)
My husband left me once before for a another woman..is history about to repeat itself?
Q. I have found out that my husband of 22 years is involved with another woman, I have found out that he calls and txts her numerous times every day, I'm not sure if they have a physical relationship. Her husband has confronted my husband 2 times at ...
A. 13 June 2010: I think there is reason for why he was confronted. Anything other than that you'd have to find out from him. It does sound as if there is a possibility. ... (read in full...)
I want to go out and find myself a decent guy!
Q. I'm unlucky in love and relationships basically and have no idea how to change this. I'm 26 and i have been in 3 relationships ... the 1st lasting almost 2 years, 2nd lasting 6 months and 3rd lasting 6 weeks. All the relationships have had problems ...
A. 13 June 2010: You do need to work on your issues. What is it that you don't trust? There are good guys, and there are not so good guys. Don't place the label of not being so good on all, you'll end up missing out on ones who are.
You also need to figure o... (read in full...)
Can you please explain to me the meaing of mature love and settling down?
Q. hello to all the relationship experts :) i am 24yrs and my boyfriend is 27yrs old. earlier tonight he said it's nice knowing we have mature love and is on the settling down stage of our relationship. Please explain to me the meaning of mature l...
A. 9 June 2010: It sounds like his impression is that you are in a relationship that is stable. That you two may be compatible for your relationship to move further, and maybe past the stage of initially learning if you two fit well together. ... (read in full...)
Am I just afraid... and is my fear justified?
Q. Guys, I really need some independent advice. I broke up with my only long-term boyfriend two years ago. Since then, we had a lot of back together - breaking up (with me doing the breaking), then a year ago I went to travel the world. While ...
A. 5 June 2010: No one can say to go with him or not go with him. This is something that you need to feel within you to see if he's the one you need to be with.
You mentioned his love for you. In a marriage, love needs to be both ways. You really didn't mention ... (read in full...)
My husband thinks I cheat; why don't I just do it?
Q. I´ve been married for nine years but together for 16. Since the beginning of our marriage, and because of our personalities we´ve fought often but have remained together (this mostly because before we got married I cheated on him once, and he found...
A. 5 June 2010: Why shouldn't you? 3 small children. Let me ask you something. Would you let your kids watch? I ask this because when I had kids I visualize as if my kids are judging my actions daily. I don't do anything that I can't openly discuss with my kids. If ... (read in full...)
What do you do if you find out your husband is cheating?
Q. What wil u do if u discover beyond reasonable doubt that ur husband is cheating on you? I gave up so many things i hold so dear,jst to keep my marriage. I was using my husband's mobile phone wen i discovered a txt message he sent to another woman ...
A. 4 June 2010: Ask him if he wishes to remain married. Let him know that his answer doesn't make sense, but if it's true, you'd be happy to call this girl and verify his story. Generally if it doesn't sound true, it isn't. Not saying there isn't any at all, but I ... (read in full...)
My husband makes me feel like a plain Jane.
Q. I've been married for about three years and I find myself less intimate with my husband. I feel like I always have to compare myself with other women. I have a low self esteem because his eyes wonder even if I'm there. I've seen things on his phone, ...
A. 25 May 2010: That is wonderful news. Some times you just have to give a little nudge to get things back on track. I hope all continues going well for the both of you. Take care. ... (read in full...)
My gangster ex left me for a hoodrat. Could a relationship work?
Q. Im 19 yrs old. I have 2 kids ages 3 and 2. My exboyfriend is an active gangmember. Ive been with him since i was 15. Hes cheated on me several times n has been in in out of jail. Hes even been deported too. Ive delt with him 4 years think he would ...
A. 21 May 2010: Who can answer why he left you for a girl in his gang? This is where I'd recommend following, "focus on what you can control, not what you cannot." ... (read in full...)
My gangster ex left me for a hoodrat. Could a relationship work?
Q. Im 19 yrs old. I have 2 kids ages 3 and 2. My exboyfriend is an active gangmember. Ive been with him since i was 15. Hes cheated on me several times n has been in in out of jail. Hes even been deported too. Ive delt with him 4 years think he would ...
A. 20 May 2010: You need to start taking care of yourself and your children. You may not always understand a choice that someone else makes, but you are responsible for your own choices. Be a good mom before anything else. He's cheated on you, over and over and ... (read in full...)
How can I stop these feelings I have for my teacher?
Q. I really really love my teacher.He came in year 9 as my form tutor and i had him for buisness studies.Now im in year 10 and just have him as a form tutor.When i had family problems we always used to talk.He used to make me laugh so much.But since i ...
A. 18 May 2010: It's difficult when you can't have someone that you desire. What you must keep in your thoughts. At your age, if you had him, what would you do? Bring him home, and say, "mom, dad, can we keep him?" I know that's difficult to hear, but you must look ... (read in full...)
Did I loose my change at love?
Q. Ok, so ive been friends with this guy for 3 years. We attend the same college. My first semester at the college i met him, i liked him, but because he was 3 years older then me and a bit of a player, he told me that he'd make my life miserable if we ...
A. 13 May 2010: In the midst of all the confusion, I think he does. What's better? Not knowing, and going on through life living the "what if?" game or knowing either way. You stand up and tell him how you feel. Stop trying to see if he'll tel you first. If you ... (read in full...)
Did my wife have gay tendencies?
Q. I have been with my wife for about 2 years total and one year married. I love my wife more then life itself, and we have a baby on the way. However, a past relationship she had with one of her friends (who is a girl) has always vexed me. Just befo...
A. 11 May 2010: It's normal for two girls who are close friends to display behaviors that two guys who are close friends would be called gay if they did the same. My ex, when she and her friend were running on a tight schedule to head to the club or something would ... (read in full...)
Did I loose my change at love?
Q. Ok, so ive been friends with this guy for 3 years. We attend the same college. My first semester at the college i met him, i liked him, but because he was 3 years older then me and a bit of a player, he told me that he'd make my life miserable if we ...
A. 11 May 2010: There are always other chances at love. Don't think this is you're only one. What I would recommend is simple. Be honest with your feelings. Stop asking so many questions that lead to even more questions, inching up to the possibility that at one ... (read in full...)
I love him, what should I do?
Q. I've been involved with a man I thought I new for 2yrs. He came along when it was a trying time in my life. We've had a lot of ups in down in our relationship to I always new he was up to something by playing the jeckle and hyde moods. Last week we ...
A. 11 May 2010: It is my advise that you have already been informed by the police, for whatever reason. Therefore, to show up to his work could be considered a criminal act, even if you're intent is not criminal. This is something that you and your daughter do not ... (read in full...)
The guilt is haunting me so should I give him my diary?
Q. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-tell-my-boyfriend-i-nearly-cheated.html the above link is the situation i was in 9months ago. i have gone ahead and not told my bf about what happened. nor has he found out. the guilt still ha...
A. 11 May 2010: I carefully read your original post, as well as this follow-up. You did not almost cheat. You were almost taken advantage of in your drunken state, but you resisted, and that resistance changed it from happening to not happening. The are I'd see ... (read in full...)
Can I deal or stay with my jealous wife?
Q. my wife gets jealous every time she thinks im looking at a woman . the crazy part is that i will see her look a a girl or woman walking on even in her car and after she sees her she will look at me intell she passes to see if i look that way. what ...
A. 11 May 2010: I wish you the best with everything. Recording seems sneaky, but going through this myself at one time, my ex seemed possessed at home, but in public, especially with those who have authority, she'd come across as a "I can do no wrong" angel. Take ... (read in full...)
We are in love but afraid to be with each other
Q. I meet the man of my dreams 2 years ago. From the very first night we met we have talked ever single night without fail for 3 to 5 hours depending on the day and work. We have become best friends. We talk about our future all the time. It's a ...
A. 10 May 2010: You're welcome. Take care. I hope all works out for the both of you. ... (read in full...)
I think I need therapy, but I don't know where to start...
Q. I'l try and keep this short. My friends have advised me to seek therapy, but i am not sure what to type to seek and if there are other ways in which to help me. Basically, since the age of around 17 I have been getting increasingly obs...
A. 10 May 2010: You do need therapy. I'd look for one on one sessions and/or finding a therapy group that includes others who are having these difficulties.
I'd also recommend working with a nutritionist. I feel as if the ups and downs are not so much to maint... (read in full...)
Not in love with wife and never have been, very depressed
Q. I became an alcoholic and drug addict when I was 15 years old. I met my wife when I was 17, she was 14. I am now almost 33 years old. When we met, I was drunk and high everyday, and the relationship was for me simply a sexual relationship but she ...
A. 9 May 2010: Actually I am comparing love for one individual to love for another individual. Acknowledging and accepting what love truly is makes the great difference. Intimate feelings are feelings of intimacy, which may lead to the choice of loving someone, ... (read in full...)
Parent's have gone too far
Q. Hello, I posted on here a few times about a breakup but now I have another problem, my parents. I’m sorry this is long. They are very young and very strict. They have always made me feel horrible about any decision I have made in my life ...
A. 8 May 2010: Ask them. "When are you actually going to be on my side?" Then when they get done ranting and raving about how they help here and there and everywhere, and you can speak again, just say, "I mean emotionally." Get up then and walk out. It's not ... (read in full...)
We are in love but afraid to be with each other
Q. I meet the man of my dreams 2 years ago. From the very first night we met we have talked ever single night without fail for 3 to 5 hours depending on the day and work. We have become best friends. We talk about our future all the time. It's a ...
A. 8 May 2010: You're exactly right. You are healing together. I work with people who have these trauma related fears and issues.
Let's look at trauma. How do you go from the act of being molested to fearing this relationship? It's because trauma, if not addr... (read in full...)
I feel so ugly.
Q. I broke up with the guy I love a couple of weeks ago, well technically he broke up with me, but I was the one that didn't take him back when he asked me to (he didn't respect a boundary: we had agreed that if we broke up once again, it'd be over for ...
A. 7 May 2010: I like girls with smaller butts and boobs, so I guess those features vary from person to person. He stated that as his opinion, and not as the opinion of all guys.
The girls you are talking about I've found are some of the loneliest people. ... (read in full...)
Advice for my friend: She's being abused!
Q. *OP's own title* Ok, I've asked for help before for my one friend's situation... but this is 10x more serious! She and I both need your help with some good advice! Y'see my friend is growing up with HORRIBLE parents. Ever seen the movie Matild...
A. 7 May 2010: I'd say, you're right on about the abuse. Does she have a dad that is living in the same house? In a situation like this, where it has gotten to this level, it's important that corrective intervention begins sooner than later. Due to the severity, I ... (read in full...)
Married but in love with someone else who I can't ever be with!
Q. Hi guys, need sum help plz. I'm married andvhav been for 6 years. I've been cheating on my husband with this guy from work over 5 years. And I really love this guy. I got pregant, my son is 2 1-2 years old. And it's the guys baby. My husband still ...
A. 6 May 2010: The right path is always not to get in these predicaments in the first place. I'd recommend starting over. Leaving both, because it's not fair to your husband to continue being in a marriage that seems more one sided. Leave your boyfriend where he ... (read in full...)
Mid-Life crisis?
Q. I'm basically a mummy's boy. Never had a functional relationship; find sex confusing; lots of emotional relationships with women; just broke someone's heart, knowingly, and probably put her on track for a relapse in her recovery from abuse; have ...
A. 6 May 2010: You didn't waste 30 years, just have a chance at beginning the next 30 years new. Reminds me of a county song, by Tim McGraw, "In the Next 30 Years." I know from 30 on, my life is different, and more exciting. I was drunk a majority of the time from ... (read in full...)
The idea of her having sex with someone else ...
Q. my girlfriend dumbed me last year,our relation was for 4 years.[actually i went to meet my parents, out of station for 15 days.but due to some problem i had to stay there fore whole one month.moreover i could'nt call her up for 3 days.when i came ...
A. 6 May 2010: NO, You accepted her back into your life, because you say you love her. This means you forgive the past. If you want revenge and to make her feel hurt, then I'd have to question if you really loved her at all. ... (read in full...)
Mid-Life crisis?
Q. I'm basically a mummy's boy. Never had a functional relationship; find sex confusing; lots of emotional relationships with women; just broke someone's heart, knowingly, and probably put her on track for a relapse in her recovery from abuse; have ...
A. 5 May 2010: What I see is that you're childhood was somewhat trying to hold everyone together. When did you have time to be a kid yourself and grow up as a child with others who took care of you, instead of you taking care of their needs?
The things you witn... (read in full...)
What goes around, comes around. How can I get back at her?
Q. i'm a nice guy, caring and all that, i dont act like a d*ck, i have respect for people i'm modest, you get my point anyway, i recently found out that my girlfriend has kissed some other boy anyway, you know that song, "what goes around comes around" ...
A. 5 May 2010: In this situation two wrongs compile the issues that need be dealt with. Remember, revenge will only define that action as who you are. ... (read in full...)
Mid-Life crisis?
Q. I'm basically a mummy's boy. Never had a functional relationship; find sex confusing; lots of emotional relationships with women; just broke someone's heart, knowingly, and probably put her on track for a relapse in her recovery from abuse; have ...
A. 5 May 2010: Anytime you can open up and say, "I have something wrong" is a plus, and is facing it. Before going further, I have a few questions for you to answer.
1) With the girl you broke it off with: What was your reason for ending it? How was the relation... (read in full...)
Is he still in love with his first girlfriend 12 years later?
Q. I am in a long distance relationship of more than 2 years with a really wonderful man. We are really close and speak every day for at least 3 - 4 hours. He has had 2 previous marriages and one long relationship of 10 years. Trouble is the following: ...
A. 5 May 2010: Let me ask you something. Is it okay to have feelings for someone who has made an impact on your life? I think it is. Just because two people had a past, doesn't mean they have to toss away all feelings for that person, although they may not be ... (read in full...)
Her mother is going to decide our fate
Q. I'm a junior in high school. I am 17 and I really like a 14 year old. She says she really likes me back, and we've known each other for over 6 months. However, her mother is the obstacle standing in the way. I met her mother by coincidence and she ...
A. 5 May 2010: Let me ask you something. Does this girl have a mind, and can she make choices? If so, why not give her a chance to decide what's best for her. If you're certain you'd be loosing her, then step aside. How long has it been since you met the mother? ... (read in full...)
Is he or isn't he?
Q. Ok here it goes...I like this guy (he is 7 yrs younger than me, I have always dated younger) Anyways. We have been talking for 5 years online and I went to visit him to his state, we met and had a good time. We went out to eat at this japanese ...
A. 5 May 2010: He seems really shy. Technically, meaning two people, out together, getting to know one another, other than on the computer or general methods of your communication.
He may be someone who's shy to the point where he'll answer questions, but may ... (read in full...)
I really like my boyfriend and want to stay but he's making it difficult
Q. I have been in this relationship for about 9 months now. both me and my boyfriend are 20 years old. Ive been in long-term relationships before, but his on the other hand have never lasted over 3 months...maybe even less. In the past we have had a ...
A. 5 May 2010: Tell his as you just stated here. Just say, "You're making it difficult for us to stay together. You don't want to sit and discuss things so we can solve issues. Either we get things done together, as I'd hope we could, or I am going to have to ... (read in full...)
Not in love with wife and never have been, very depressed
Q. I became an alcoholic and drug addict when I was 15 years old. I met my wife when I was 17, she was 14. I am now almost 33 years old. When we met, I was drunk and high everyday, and the relationship was for me simply a sexual relationship but she ...
A. 4 May 2010: Maybe it's not that we don't see the whole picture, as much as it may be that we're giving you a broader, outside your box look at possibility.
You're right, you won't fall in love with her, because love is not a falling. Love is greatly misrepre... (read in full...)
What do you do if you find out your husband is cheating?
Q. What wil u do if u discover beyond reasonable doubt that ur husband is cheating on you? I gave up so many things i hold so dear,jst to keep my marriage. I was using my husband's mobile phone wen i discovered a txt message he sent to another woman ...
A. 3 May 2010: 1 st confront him. Then go from there. You'll be able to tell in his behavior which direction to take next. If you can forgive and work on your marriage, or if it's time to hang it up and say goodbye. The main thing, get it done so you'll stop ... (read in full...)
Not in love with wife and never have been, very depressed
Q. I became an alcoholic and drug addict when I was 15 years old. I met my wife when I was 17, she was 14. I am now almost 33 years old. When we met, I was drunk and high everyday, and the relationship was for me simply a sexual relationship but she ...
A. 1 May 2010: I'd have to agree with AuntyEm. There are not may people out there who would stick with someone who's gone through what you had with addiction.
What I'd recommend is you begin to have a real relationship with your wife. You'd never had one, so ... (read in full...)
My husband makes me feel like a plain Jane.
Q. I've been married for about three years and I find myself less intimate with my husband. I feel like I always have to compare myself with other women. I have a low self esteem because his eyes wonder even if I'm there. I've seen things on his phone, ...
A. 23 April 2010: That's great to hear. I hope all works out for you, take care. ... (read in full...)
My husband makes me feel like a plain Jane.
Q. I've been married for about three years and I find myself less intimate with my husband. I feel like I always have to compare myself with other women. I have a low self esteem because his eyes wonder even if I'm there. I've seen things on his phone, ...
A. 21 April 2010: You're not selfish at all. You have every right to a satisfying marriage. You deserve to feel beautiful inside and outside. You deserve to be desired, respected and treasured. Women are not property, just as a relationship is not a tool to control ... (read in full...)
My husband makes me feel like a plain Jane.
Q. I've been married for about three years and I find myself less intimate with my husband. I feel like I always have to compare myself with other women. I have a low self esteem because his eyes wonder even if I'm there. I've seen things on his phone, ...
A. 20 April 2010: Only 3 years, and it's "blah"? This is not how a marriage should look. It'd tell him, something needs to change. Be firm. Tell him this is your marriage too, and you will not be part of one that makes you feel the way you have been. A marriage needs ... (read in full...)
Can I deal or stay with my jealous wife?
Q. my wife gets jealous every time she thinks im looking at a woman . the crazy part is that i will see her look a a girl or woman walking on even in her car and after she sees her she will look at me intell she passes to see if i look that way. what ...
A. 25 February 2010: Your welcome. I hope all works out for you, the kids and your wife. I've had experience with those who have BPD, but don't know what it's like being the one who looks through the eyes of turmoil as people do with this disorder, and setting the ... (read in full...)
Can I deal or stay with my jealous wife?
Q. my wife gets jealous every time she thinks im looking at a woman . the crazy part is that i will see her look a a girl or woman walking on even in her car and after she sees her she will look at me intell she passes to see if i look that way. what ...
A. 23 February 2010: To the other poster, not nuts, but about as close as you can get with a trauma related disorder as you can get to nuts, or at least from where she is now to developing "multiple personality disorder."
I'm sure with some of her behaviors, you've n... (read in full...)
Can I deal or stay with my jealous wife?
Q. my wife gets jealous every time she thinks im looking at a woman . the crazy part is that i will see her look a a girl or woman walking on even in her car and after she sees her she will look at me intell she passes to see if i look that way. what ...
A. 20 February 2010: Definitely start the cam to record. How long has she been this way? I would like to ask if you know anything traumatic that has happened in her past? Such as childhood sexual, physical of mental abuse. Also if anything has happened to her as a teen ... (read in full...)
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