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writes:Ok here it goes...I like this guy (he is 7 yrs younger than me, I have always dated younger) Anyways. We have been talking for 5 years online and I went to visit him to his state, we met and had a good time. We went out to eat at this japanese restaurant (he paid) and some other day we went to the movies (he paid) I always offered to pay my share because we were friends at the time. So a few months ago one of my friends asked him if he liked me and he said yes, that he really likes me, so my friend asked him why he doesn't tell me that and he didn't respond. So, I decided to talk to him and ask him if he thought I was ugly and with a grin he shook his head and said no, so I asked him why he won't date me. He said that TECHNICALLY we went on dates and that he had 5 years of knowledge on me, that we have known each other for that long and that was it. I am going to go visit him again soon, but I want to know what you guys think about him. I feel he likes me and the way he stares at me tells me he does, but he says he isn't into me, yet from what he told my friend and me makes me think otherwise. What does that TECHNICALLY we went on dates mean... and does he like me or not. do you think he will ever ask me if he does like me. Reply to this Question
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reader, dirtball +, writes (5 May 2010):
 I agree that he sounds shy. Technically you have been on dates. You've gone out together, just the two of you. In my book, that's a date, even if you aren't "dating." Why not see how he reacts if you try to kiss him?
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reader, rcn +, writes (5 May 2010):
 He seems really shy. Technically, meaning two people, out together, getting to know one another, other than on the computer or general methods of your communication.
He may be someone who's shy to the point where he'll answer questions, but may not make the first move. If you like him, I'd recommend, next time your out that you ask him.
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