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Like many others on here, I've had my share of relationship issues. I've been in an abusive relationship, where I was the abused. I've had times where I'd drink and party a bit much, times of depression and really feeling lost as to what I should be doing to improve my life and the lives of my children.

I have four children. I'm a single parent, of two children a boy (19) and a girl (10). My ex-wife has the two children we share living with her, 2 girls (16, and 14).

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Know who you're with

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6 July 2008: This is an article I received from local news. When reading this I think about how important it is to know who you know, and to notice changes in the behaviors of others. In cases like this, the agressor displays subtle signs prior to acting. He may ...

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I'm dating 1,2,3 men!

Q.   I"m dating a few guys. Just dating, nothing serious. I am looking for something serious, but at the moment, I have these really great guys pursuing me and I really don't know who to choose. The first guy, I've known for years. I've always had a cr...

A.   11 December 2010: If you're not ready to let any of them go, you're not ready for the serious relationship. Each seems to have qualities you appreciate and ones you don't. I want you to eliminate all the characteristics and begin seeing them as individuals. The ... (read in full...)

My mother bad mouths my boyfriend!

Q.   this morning that i woke up i heard my mom talking to my family saying a lot of bad things about my boyfriend. i dont understand what her problem is, he doesnt do anything bad, and im not saying it just because i love him, im saying it because its ...

A.   11 December 2010: I'm going to take this into a direction that may or may not hold truth. It's said that girls are generally attracted to guys who have characteristics similar to their father. You mentioned your dad is in jail. Could you mom see something in your guy ... (read in full...)

Is she ignoring me because my beliefs are different than hers?

Q.   okay, so, i need advice on what to do with my "best friend".i am a thirteen year old girl. we have been best friends for about three years now, but have know each other since kindergarden. we are both now in 8th grade, and are falling apart. we've ...

A.   11 December 2010: I believe you could be right. You can be friends with someone of a different faith. Just don't try to expect them to religiously accept the others as being something they would believe in. It would also be okay for you to go to church with her and ... (read in full...)

Family stresses!!!

Q.   My mom and i arent getting along, when we're alone its constant arguing and when my grandmother is around its like she wants to diappaer me. the worst part is she doesnt like my boyfriend, and im pregnant with his baby, but she doesnt know that yet. ...

A.   11 December 2010: I agree with confusedWITHLOVE. If you're going to keep the baby, you need to tell your mom you are pregnant. Having a child when you are young will present you with obstacles, but it doesn't mean that life stops or that your future is doomed. ... (read in full...)

Can lying to one's partner about having cheated on them ever lead to anything good?

Q.   I see how lying (by omission or otherwise) about having cheated on someone can prevent immediate conflict, and seemingly keep things status quo in a relationship... but over time, does lying to one's partner actually lead to anything positive within ...

A.   11 December 2010: Honest is best. Keeping a lie only turns into guilt, which then begins growing bigger and bigger, so it's not only difficult on the relationship, but even more so on the one who is holding onto the lie. Anyone who cheats, the first and most ... (read in full...)

What is an appropriate age difference?

Q.   I have a question, I get hung up on age, is ten years too much of a difference. Is it wrong if the girl is ten years older like if she is 32 and he is 22?...

A.   11 December 2010: I agree, as long as you're legal. Age is really relative to the two who are in the relationship. Because there are those who abnormally seek sexual relationships with those who are younger, society has developed this believe that your intent, even ... (read in full...)

How is a girl supposed to act when recieving oral sex?

Q.   my boyfriend wants to lick me out and i know this'll sound a bit stupid but where would i look while he's going down on me? And i'm the type of person who'd be embarrassed if it felt good enough to make me moan or something, how could i get over...

A.   11 December 2010: I don't know about your guy, but when i do that to a gal I get excited off of their response and body movements. I'd recommend to just be natural, embrace and move into your feelings. Moaning, screaming and your hips moving into it are natural. ... (read in full...)

We took a break for him to be sure I am the one, and he slept with so many women! Now we are back together he doesn't trust me, what do I do?

Q.   We took a break for ten months just so that he was sure i am the one wants to spend the rest of his life with but now i have changed as i am pissed and hurt because he slept with so many women now we are together and he says he doesnt trust me.... ...

A.   6 December 2010: I agree with the other poster. He wanted to make sure you are the one...... This is never done by going out and sleeping with other people. I agree that it is absurd to think so. That is almost as bad as saying that his love is based on which pr... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my Godfather

Q.   I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...

A.   3 December 2010: I didn't know his wife was also around your age. I'm sorry you're going through this hard time. Have you considered spending your time volunteering around this season? You might even meet someone else who is doing the same that you might begin a ... (read in full...)

I told my best friend what her husband had said, and now her husband and my boyfriend have turned against me!

Q.   Drama! Drama! Drama! My boyfriend, my best friend and her husband and i aré really cool.. We text or call each other all the time.. Well my boyfriend and her husband were friends before they met us and she and i were friends before we met them... ...

A.   12 November 2010: Maybe what you did was wrong, but it was only a reaction or building off of another wrong, which is how the husband handled their marital situation. You DO NOT have an issue with your wife and tell her best friend about it, and expect that ... (read in full...)

How would you feel if you found out your spouse had been lying to you before you got married?

Q.   How would people feel if they found out their spouse has been lying to them since before the marriage proposal about serious betrayals and disloyalty? Lied throughout the engagment and after marriage...What kind of a person can lie to their partner ...

A.   12 November 2010: It could be that they are. Most disloyalty has evidence that points to its possibility, that it should have been known prior to getting married. I'd be equally as worried about someone who ignores the signs and still says "I do", then wonders what ... (read in full...)

I just don't want my husband anymore!

Q.   hi, i am 31 and my hubby is 33, we have been together for 11 years, married for 6 and have 3 children together, 9,7,4. my problem is that i don't want him any more, i hate him a lot of the time and i don't want him to touch me any more. i do have ...

A.   12 November 2010: Be honest, not just with yourself, but with your husband. Tell him how you feel, and that you want this marriage to end, if that's what your goal is to do. He may be on the same page you are, or at least be aware that something is off in this ... (read in full...)

Since we have got back together properly I'm finding it hard to even have sex!

Q.   Ok heres the problem..a few months ago I got back with a boyfriend of a year that ended suddenly with no warning (he recently admitted it was coz he got scared). Sex was brilliant before we split and even when we were not together we were never ...

A.   11 November 2010: Your attaching fear to sex. He was afraid, now you are afraid of history repeating itself. It's difficult to be with someone intimately, or open your emotions and allow deeper emotions, when in the back of your mind you're afraid he'd bail without ... (read in full...)

Help! Obsessed ex-boyfriend is making me feel very guilt!! What can I do?

Q.   I'm in desperate need of advice. I've broken up with my boyfriend of four years. He was 5 years my senior. When we began our relationship I was 16 and he was 21. Both very young. In many ways we were on the same level mentally. I honestly couldn't ...

A.   11 November 2010: Often people say, "just get over it", "move on" with a break up, and that really is easier said than done. In breakups one or both parties will always end up hurt. That doesn't obligate you to stay with someone in order to avoid hurting them, but at ... (read in full...)

My teenage daughter wanted permission to marry her boyfriend!

Q.   Hello everyone. This question is really me just wondering what you would do in my situation: Yesterday, my 16 (almost 17) year old little girl and her boyfriend came to me and asked me to give her permission to marry him. I was baffled by it, a...

A.   11 November 2010: I would have handled it different, and talking to her and her boyfriend as individuals, instead of putting my foot down that firm and straight forward. Reason being.... Your daughter trusted you enough to come to you and ask your permission. In how ... (read in full...)

We have financial issues, I'm thinking about finding a sugardaddy!

Q.   I am married and have a soon-to-be 6 month old baby. We are starting to have a hard time with finances (just like everyone else in the country). I work full time at home on the farm and part time outside of the home (as needed) and my husband has 2 ...

A.   10 November 2010: I agree with the other posters. A sugardaddy is someone who trades cash for sex, legally. It's no different than having a mistress, other than the girl accepting favors is generally acting as his girlfriend and living in the same place. With ... (read in full...)

Is there a slim chance I can get her back?

Q.   I'm still madly in love with my ex-girlfriend. We had an amazing relationship, with a few problems, but nothing that time couldn't fix (we're only 21) However, I screwed up way too many times. The first offense was in may 2009 I e-maile...

A.   10 November 2010: I agree with the other posters. You really messed up and need to move on. Each offense you put another nail in your relationship coffin. If you talk to her sometime, I'd recommend you extending your best wishes and hoping she found someone who ... (read in full...)

For the guys, does it have to be smooth as a baby's butt or is a little stubble ok?

Q.   hey this is for all the guys on here! do guys really care if there is some stubble on a vagina if the girl is unable to get all of it off when shaving? or does it need to be perfectly smooth and hairless?...

A.   10 November 2010: Some like it smooth, and some don't mind stubble or just trimmed. You'd find more often than not that guys don't mind either way. It should be discussed between you and who you're with. With guys, one thing I don't think you'll find is a guy saying, ... (read in full...)

Is this standard I've set going to land me alone?

Q.   I had this crush on guy and decided it'd been a while since our second date so I wanted to ask him to do something for a change. He always text to contact me. I wanted to talk but decided to first text him see if he was busy. He was on his way to an ...

A.   10 November 2010: I agree with the other poster. He says he'll call and doesn't. You sit waiting, and he doesn't even acknowledge that it was wrong by not calling, and without apology. You don't need a guy where you are there only at his convenience. You'll find ... (read in full...)

Could someone please explain his actions?

Q.   Please can you help me decipher what is going on in this man's head and where did it all go wrong? Sorry, if it's long but I need to document all the facts. A year ago I meet a man through a mutual friend. He adds me on Facebook and sends me a m...

A.   9 November 2010: Your answer could be yes, yes, or yes. I'd recommend sending him a text message to find out. It is okay for you to initiate that contact. This would have been much easier to answer if the last contact you two had was having sex, because we could ... (read in full...)

Controlling b/f texts me 200 times a day?

Q.   Hi, and thanks for reading my post. I've always been a happy person, smiling,laughing enjoying my life lately I'm tired, headaches, a tad down. I'm sure its because of my turbulent relationship. It started like a dream come true. He was charming,...

A.   8 November 2010: The operative word, "make", won't happen. He can't change for you, and you can't make him change if that's not what he chooses to do. Change is always personal and to benefit one's self. If he were to change, it'd need to be because he's tired of ... (read in full...)

I need to find the courage to get out but I'm at a loss for what to do!

Q.   We have been married for 11 years and have been together for 13. Things were fine until my husband got arrested for driving under the influence and I had to ask my mother for 2000.00 to get my vehicle out of hock. My mother got very angry at my ...

A.   8 November 2010: So, his claims he didn't say anything to mommy, is that to say he's admitting to saying things to all these other people? Why would you need to find a place to stay for a week when company comes? That's just not right at all. You need to decide t... (read in full...)

Should I break up with him because I'm not supposed to have a boyfriend?

Q.   last time i had a boyfriend my mum was really disappointed and was upset because it was going against our culture, i have another boyfriend i think his the one, i love him to bits and i dont want to break up with him but i also dont want to upset my ...

A.   7 November 2010: There's not enough information to give you advice that would mean anything to you. This is a decision you'll have to make. What is your culture? How does having a boyfriend violate that? What are your mom's reasons and can you compromise with her? ... (read in full...)

Why did she broke up with me over a text message?

Q.   I was involved in a friend with benefits relationship with a woman who is 17 years older than me. We had a 15 months long relationship. I moved to a different city so the last 3 months of our relationship, we were just talking on the phone. I told ...

A.   6 November 2010: How do you go from not wanting her to show emotions, to wanting her to when she decided to break off the benefited friendship? It sounds like somewhere down the line, you developed emotions for her, therefore would have appreciated this arrangement ... (read in full...)

Am I asking too much? He barely touches me and wont consider oral because of a bad experience with his ex!

Q.   Hello, Well I'm 20 years old and i have been with my boyfriend for little under a year, i love him so much and i know he dose me but he never goes down on me and hardly touches me down their. It has gotten to the point that i like being on my peri...

A.   3 November 2010: He doesn't realize how lucky he is to have you. You do it because it turns you on by seeing him get turned on. Now, this is embarrassing, but maybe it will help. I use to be the same way. My ex-wife was with me and everyone else she could get and ... (read in full...)

My husband does not agree with our daughters relationship whereas I am fine with it, this is putting a real strain on our marriage

Q.   My daughter is 14 and she is dating a 17 yr old. I've known the boy for 4 yrs and I also know his parents well. They are a very Christian family. This is her first real relationship. I make sure either I am with her or his parents are with them ...

A.   3 November 2010: It seems as if you are the one who's involved and experiencing their happiness, where he's on the outside looking in. Ask him if he is implying that you would put your daughter in harms way, or can he have trust in your opinion? As a parent, it's ... (read in full...)

I told my wife I thought about another woman and now she hates me.

Q.   I am a very happliy married guy, 2 years married but we have been together for 6, We had a tough few years to begin, with and went to councling and were both very happy with the result, but now i met this other girl, who i dont know and dont want to ...

A.   2 November 2010: Set up a time where you two can agree to sit and talk about what happened. I'm sure your thoughts of this other woman hurt your wife, so you need to overcome that pain with her. When you say you feel like sleeping with another girl, your wife, I'm ... (read in full...)

Past trauma is interfereing with my relationship

Q.   so my boyfriend and i are having some intimacy problems. mainly because of me tho.i was raped when i was 14 yrs old and ive been very distressed and disinterested in sex lately mainly because i hav nightmares from when it happened.i cant seem to ...

A.   2 November 2010: The problem I find with seeing a psychologist is that trauma it not something that you can tell your story, and expect everything to be okay. I urge you to seek help through neuro-linguistics, or hypno-therapy. This is because they focus on where ... (read in full...)

Scared about getting married....

Q.   I am 24yrs old and getting married in a few months. I love my fiance but i maybe having second thoughts about this wedding. I am so confused, i dont know if i want to get married?! I love going out and partying and i love the attention i get ...

A.   31 October 2010: Take some time for yourself. I want you to first deeply image and feel the emotions of your life with your fiance. Now I want you to do the same and imagine your life without him. That should give you your answer. Remember this, "Never leave so... (read in full...)

Mistress is threating to tell my wife about us

Q.   I feel like I'm about to lose the best thing that ever happened for me behind ignorance. I know everyone's probably going to say I deserve it and I probably due but no one's perfect. I told my mistress that we needed to sto and she's threatening to ...

A.   31 October 2010: I agree with the other posters. Telling your wife is a must. You may or may not loose her, but that's for her to decide. You took on this possibility by having someone outside of your marriage. Either way, isn't it better that she hears it from you, ... (read in full...)

Do I leave my abusive spouse for someone who is kind and my sister used to like?

Q.   I been married for 1 1/2 yrs. but been together for 4 yrs. I love him unconditionally thats why i never left him even though he chokes me and slaps me. I do the same to him too and i'm usually the one to do it first thats why i cut him some slack. I ...

A.   31 October 2010: You hit him and choke him first,and you cut him slack? It is equally not okay for you to be violent toward a guy, as it is for him to be violent toward you. It would be hypocritical to think that your husband can change, while you continue using him ... (read in full...)

He asked me why I broke up with him. Should I tell him?

Q.   I've been seeing a man for just 7 weeks. After spending more and more time with him, I realized that he makes rude comments, says condescending things, interrupts conversations to be self-promoting, and is generally more antagonizing than ...

A.   30 October 2010: I think you should, because he asked for the answer. ... (read in full...)

We've been trying to have a baby, then I find out he's fathered a child with another woman

Q.   As you see from my name. I am just that...so scared. I have been married now for nine years and with my husband for thirteen years. I found out maybe two weeks ago that he has been having an affair. Also with a person I know but through someone else ...

A.   30 October 2010: You're welcome. That is a good update that the child was not his. Now, once a week I want you two to begin going on a date. This will help you reconnect and rebuild intimacy in your marriage. I feel you're at the point where doing a few things ... (read in full...)

We've been trying to have a baby, then I find out he's fathered a child with another woman

Q.   As you see from my name. I am just that...so scared. I have been married now for nine years and with my husband for thirteen years. I found out maybe two weeks ago that he has been having an affair. Also with a person I know but through someone else ...

A.   30 October 2010: Are you evil? Anyone can be, if they choose to be. Let's talk about choice. An speaker I heard once stated, "Other than prayer, the greatest power we posses is the power to choose." You need to take this power back. You are the one in the drivers ... (read in full...)

I was in a physically abusive relationship and can't seem to get over feeling terrified about being anywhere alone!

Q.   i am almost 21 i was dating this abusive guy was in a relationship for about 9 months, he would always hit me, push me down stairs broke bones i could not talk to any one about this he threatend to kill me. i have not talked to him for almost 3 ...

A.   27 October 2010: I'm glad to hear that you are. Can't wait to hear your updates. Take care. ... (read in full...)

Should I stop talking to her or should I still try (because I know she loves me)?

Q.   Hey: My ex-girlfriend of two years broke up with me roughly two months ago because I was studying for my medical boards, working full time, and not giving her enough attention in the 5 months preceding. In addition, she got a new sales job (her f...

A.   26 October 2010: I believe you need to stop letting her leave, or you leave without having solid answers. If she's that hard to pin down, I would have asked her where you two stand during sex. I understand, sometimes we are reluctant to seek meaningful answers, ... (read in full...)

Iv been cheated upon in previous relationships and its making me insecure about my present one!

Q.   ive been with my boyfriend for a year and he's my bestfriend but im very inscure because previouse boyfriends have cheated on me i keep thinking everytime he's not with me hes with other girls and it makes us argue alot, i don't know what to do ...

A.   25 October 2010: So, you recognize the problem is not with your boyfriend, it's with you? When you refer to cheating. I want you to begin using the name of those who did you wrong, instead of using ex etc. This is because you want the blame to be properly place, ... (read in full...)

I was in a physically abusive relationship and can't seem to get over feeling terrified about being anywhere alone!

Q.   i am almost 21 i was dating this abusive guy was in a relationship for about 9 months, he would always hit me, push me down stairs broke bones i could not talk to any one about this he threatend to kill me. i have not talked to him for almost 3 ...

A.   25 October 2010: If he makes further contact with you, you may want to seek a no-contact order through a court. I know, there as good as the paper they are drafted on, but sometimes they actually get the message across. I want you to think about what you are trul... (read in full...)

Should I stop talking to her or should I still try (because I know she loves me)?

Q.   Hey: My ex-girlfriend of two years broke up with me roughly two months ago because I was studying for my medical boards, working full time, and not giving her enough attention in the 5 months preceding. In addition, she got a new sales job (her f...

A.   21 October 2010: Taking it slow just means not to rush things. So often people want NOW, without having patients to allow things to progress into what may eventually be. It's to allow nature take its course, without trying to force the course. ... (read in full...)

I was in a physically abusive relationship and can't seem to get over feeling terrified about being anywhere alone!

Q.   i am almost 21 i was dating this abusive guy was in a relationship for about 9 months, he would always hit me, push me down stairs broke bones i could not talk to any one about this he threatend to kill me. i have not talked to him for almost 3 ...

A.   21 October 2010: Answer this, when was the last time you saw him or hear from him? Does he live in your city? Do you live with your parents or in your own place? ... (read in full...)

She lied about meeting an ex and it still haunts me!

Q.   I really need some help sorting out my thoughts. I've browsed a couple of other questions none ever really gave a distinct absolute answer. Don't know if there is one. 12/2008 I met Susan. Shes 26 im 23. Instant attraction - nothing I had ev...

A.   21 October 2010: You forgave her, so keeping it at issue is inappropriate. She's your wife, and as you say, the best wife one could ask for. That should be your focus. When you said "I do", leave the BS on the outside. That's when you joined hands to spend your ... (read in full...)

I was in a physically abusive relationship and can't seem to get over feeling terrified about being anywhere alone!

Q.   i am almost 21 i was dating this abusive guy was in a relationship for about 9 months, he would always hit me, push me down stairs broke bones i could not talk to any one about this he threatend to kill me. i have not talked to him for almost 3 ...

A.   21 October 2010: Coming and opening up, admitting that these issues are taking place, is the first step toward healing. It's so easy to go with the flow day to day, and not as easy to realize we may have to change. You had a very traumatic experience. Don't le... (read in full...)

Should I stop talking to her or should I still try (because I know she loves me)?

Q.   Hey: My ex-girlfriend of two years broke up with me roughly two months ago because I was studying for my medical boards, working full time, and not giving her enough attention in the 5 months preceding. In addition, she got a new sales job (her f...

A.   20 October 2010: Did the two of you leave your intelligence at school? Life is tough. Relationships are not easy. You two are playing the gilt game, and that needs to stop. You can't be kissing and making out with her, then tell her not to contact you again. That's ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my Godfather

Q.   I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...

A.   19 October 2010: I'm sorry you didn't get the job. Keep your head up. During my life, I've had times where I didn't get a position, then around the corner I end up getting one that ends up being better for me than the one I didn't get. You never know what's around ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my Godfather

Q.   I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...

A.   13 October 2010: Your welcome. Thank you for the new name, that's sweet. Keep us updated, and if you need anything else, just ask. Take care. ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my Godfather

Q.   I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...

A.   11 October 2010: You may not think you do, but I assure you that God holds true to every reason you do. I believe you deserve every opportunity that best reflects who you are, and who (in every moment) you're developing to be. I hope you get that job. :)... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my Godfather

Q.   I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...

A.   9 October 2010: You know, sometimes when hurt and broken, God renews and makes whole, but through new opportunities. I hope you get the job. :) Take care. ... (read in full...)

We've been trying to have a baby, then I find out he's fathered a child with another woman

Q.   As you see from my name. I am just that...so scared. I have been married now for nine years and with my husband for thirteen years. I found out maybe two weeks ago that he has been having an affair. Also with a person I know but through someone else ...

A.   4 October 2010: You want in some way a revengeful form of resolution. Something bad to happen to him to somehow justify the pain that he has caused you. I'm sure, deep down you know those thoughts are not okay. Even if he were to be hurt in someway, it would not ... (read in full...)

We've been trying to have a baby, then I find out he's fathered a child with another woman

Q.   As you see from my name. I am just that...so scared. I have been married now for nine years and with my husband for thirteen years. I found out maybe two weeks ago that he has been having an affair. Also with a person I know but through someone else ...

A.   16 September 2010: Your right, he forgave you and it's your choice if you forgive him or not. It may not be his. If his sperm count is low with you, chances are they were with her as well. You said if it was his child, you'd be gone. If find out is something that's ... (read in full...)

We've been trying to have a baby, then I find out he's fathered a child with another woman

Q.   As you see from my name. I am just that...so scared. I have been married now for nine years and with my husband for thirteen years. I found out maybe two weeks ago that he has been having an affair. Also with a person I know but through someone else ...

A.   15 September 2010: Forgiveness is personal, either you do or you don't and it doesn't make you crazy if you do. Life takes turns, some are negative, but you have to face them when they come up. His having an affair was wrong and this is a difficult time for you. What ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my Godfather

Q.   I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...

A.   14 September 2010: Glad to hear the update. That's exciting. I hope everything works out for you. Take care. ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my Godfather

Q.   I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...

A.   23 August 2010: It's amazing when I hear how God directly works in lives. Congrats. You made the right choice and bettered yourself and your position by doing so. I'm glad to hear you're doing okay. Take care. ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my Godfather

Q.   I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...

A.   16 August 2010: Okay, it's past August 12. How are you doing? I hope okay. ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my Godfather

Q.   I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...

A.   2 August 2010: I know it's going to take time. Remember, I'm going through what you are, but from the opposite side. She was younger, I proposed, she accepted, then decided I'm not going to be part of her future goals. Trust me, I know exactly what you're going ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my Godfather

Q.   I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...

A.   30 July 2010: I know what you're going through. I was with someone who was also younger than I was. You put your faith and trust in someone, but you also have to realize that with the difference in your age, was he looking for what you were looking for. It seems ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my Godfather

Q.   I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...

A.   12 August 2009: These feelings are not perverted. Whoever you begin a relationship with is about you. Not about hurting family. ... (read in full...)

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