A
female
age
41-50,
*omma
writes:I've been involved with a man I thought I new for 2yrs. He came along when it was a trying time in my life. We've had a lot of ups in down in our relationship to I always new he was up to something by playing the jeckle and hyde moods. Last week we had an arguement and he just kept saying things to hurt me. I waited until the next day to drive to the city he lives in. He was at his moms house. The house that I thought he shared with his mom the whole time I've been with him. He didn't come to my care so I didn't get out the car but I let my daughter out the car because she calls him daddy. He acknowledged and took the time with her and then he also took the time to bring her back to the car. He still never acknowledged me. I left and when I did I called him. I was confrontational with my phone call. We argued and I hung up. He called back and told me not to come back to his door step and he has nothing to say to me. He called me again I didn;t answer I waited a while and called him back. He didn't answer. I continued to call him through the night and into the next morning. When the phone finally got answered it was the police telling me not to call him again. The next day I called his mom who said that he didn't live with her he has his own place and to walk away from him. I'm so hurt becaus ein the mix of trying to figure out what is going on he changed his cell phone number.I know where he works I just won't go to his job with fear that he may try to embarrass me and make it look like I'm stalking him. I don't qiute know what to do. I mean I'm no fool I can figure whats going on but I just don't know how to handle the whole thing especially do to the fact that I and my daughter were very attached to him. I need to know should I go to his job to let him face me like a man or as hard as it is even for me to do just let it go. I have so much of my heart invested in him . I truely love respected and stayed faithful to this man. HELP
View related questions:
stalking Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, rcn +, writes (11 May 2010):
 It is my advise that you have already been informed by the police, for whatever reason. Therefore, to show up to his work could be considered a criminal act, even if you're intent is not criminal. This is something that you and your daughter do not need, so I'd let it go and move on.
|
