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I have four children. I'm a single parent, of two children a boy (19) and a girl (10). My ex-wife has the two children we share living with her, 2 girls (16, and 14).
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6 July 2008: This is an article I received from local news. When reading this I think about how important it is to know who you know, and to notice changes in the behaviors of others. In cases like this, the agressor displays subtle signs prior to acting. He may ...
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I'm in love with my Godfather
Q. I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...
A. 3 December 2010: I didn't know his wife was also around your age. I'm sorry you're going through this hard time. Have you considered spending your time volunteering around this season? You might even meet someone else who is doing the same that you might begin a ... (read in full...)
We've been trying to have a baby, then I find out he's fathered a child with another woman
Q. As you see from my name. I am just that...so scared. I have been married now for nine years and with my husband for thirteen years. I found out maybe two weeks ago that he has been having an affair. Also with a person I know but through someone else ...
A. 30 October 2010: You're welcome. That is a good update that the child was not his. Now, once a week I want you two to begin going on a date. This will help you reconnect and rebuild intimacy in your marriage. I feel you're at the point where doing a few things ... (read in full...)
We've been trying to have a baby, then I find out he's fathered a child with another woman
Q. As you see from my name. I am just that...so scared. I have been married now for nine years and with my husband for thirteen years. I found out maybe two weeks ago that he has been having an affair. Also with a person I know but through someone else ...
A. 30 October 2010: Are you evil? Anyone can be, if they choose to be. Let's talk about choice. An speaker I heard once stated, "Other than prayer, the greatest power we posses is the power to choose." You need to take this power back. You are the one in the drivers ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my Godfather
Q. I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...
A. 19 October 2010: I'm sorry you didn't get the job. Keep your head up. During my life, I've had times where I didn't get a position, then around the corner I end up getting one that ends up being better for me than the one I didn't get. You never know what's around ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my Godfather
Q. I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...
A. 13 October 2010: Your welcome. Thank you for the new name, that's sweet. Keep us updated, and if you need anything else, just ask. Take care. ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my Godfather
Q. I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...
A. 11 October 2010: You may not think you do, but I assure you that God holds true to every reason you do. I believe you deserve every opportunity that best reflects who you are, and who (in every moment) you're developing to be.
I hope you get that job. :)... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my Godfather
Q. I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...
A. 9 October 2010: You know, sometimes when hurt and broken, God renews and makes whole, but through new opportunities. I hope you get the job. :) Take care. ... (read in full...)
We've been trying to have a baby, then I find out he's fathered a child with another woman
Q. As you see from my name. I am just that...so scared. I have been married now for nine years and with my husband for thirteen years. I found out maybe two weeks ago that he has been having an affair. Also with a person I know but through someone else ...
A. 4 October 2010: You want in some way a revengeful form of resolution. Something bad to happen to him to somehow justify the pain that he has caused you. I'm sure, deep down you know those thoughts are not okay. Even if he were to be hurt in someway, it would not ... (read in full...)
Is he coming around because he's lonely? Or guilty?
Q. Im 27yrs, am in a 8yr relationship. My relationship is a happy one. No kids. Im not the cheating type. Never have been. Am not stupid, crazy, but not stupid. So, here we go... Ive known Brock since i was 12yrs. Brock is 3yrs older than me. He live...
A. 17 September 2010: Your welcome. I hope everything works out for you. Take care. ... (read in full...)
How do I help raise her daughter knowing she isn't my child?
Q. So, my girlfriend and I broke up when she moved away to go to college. While she was there, Her then boyfriend got her pregnant and turned out to be a deadbeat. She came back, and we're together again and engaged. Recently, she decided she didn't ...
A. 17 September 2010: The saying, "Anyone can father a child, but it takes a man to be a dad." is one you should think about. You are far from being the only guy who has been in a relationship where you may raise as child as your own, although you're not biologically ... (read in full...)
Is he coming around because he's lonely? Or guilty?
Q. Im 27yrs, am in a 8yr relationship. My relationship is a happy one. No kids. Im not the cheating type. Never have been. Am not stupid, crazy, but not stupid. So, here we go... Ive known Brock since i was 12yrs. Brock is 3yrs older than me. He live...
A. 16 September 2010: So, until 2008 you haven't been the cheating type. You were with Trin, and although you were with Brock before, being with him while you are with the other is cheating. Why are you asking these questions? I don't know what's going through Brock's ... (read in full...)
She constantly accuses me of cheating
Q. My girl and I have been together for over two years lived together two yrs this month. In that two years, she has cheated once, we were broken up for a bit. Has failed to find/keep a job, doesn't clean w/ being told, doesn't wake up with our 5mo old ...
A. 16 September 2010: I recommend psychological help. When someone acts this way, often there is something off balance in their sense of self. I recommend you seek counseling and she does separate. You need to because of how this behavior affects you. I also recommend ... (read in full...)
I got cold feet and said some really horrible things
Q. So I was seeing a wonderful kind loving man from a far away country.We met while he was here on work and it felt like it was meant to be. We maintained this beautiful realationship for awhile and after about 5 months he was talking marriage and all ...
A. 16 September 2010: You made a mistake, haven't we all at least once. I know about desperate email and text. I've been there, done that, and it never proved anything or brought the one I lost closer to coming back. I know the desire to, it's trying to prove yourself, ... (read in full...)
Daughter is having an affair/baby with a married man...
Q. Hello. My 24 year old daughter is having an affair with a 30 year old married man. It has been going on, correspondence/physical since the end of 2008. Before he was deployed to Iraq, she got pregnant and soon will be giving birth to his son. She ...
A. 16 September 2010: It sounds like this is one of those situations where you'll have to let her experience and fall if that's the direction this affair is going to take. It's easy to see that this is not going to end how she'd want it to. That's a given. He won't leave ... (read in full...)
We've been trying to have a baby, then I find out he's fathered a child with another woman
Q. As you see from my name. I am just that...so scared. I have been married now for nine years and with my husband for thirteen years. I found out maybe two weeks ago that he has been having an affair. Also with a person I know but through someone else ...
A. 16 September 2010: Your right, he forgave you and it's your choice if you forgive him or not. It may not be his. If his sperm count is low with you, chances are they were with her as well. You said if it was his child, you'd be gone. If find out is something that's ... (read in full...)
Hubby has his ex on facebook and I don't like it!
Q. Ive always had issues w my hubby and computers. If i am overeacting on any of this please tell me. Last month, he got a facebook and didnt tell me. The only way i found out about it was he was suggested to be one of my friends. No big deal. until ...
A. 15 September 2010: I would and let him know that there is something not right about keeping and acting in secret. I don't buy his excuse of not adding you because he sees you all the time. If it were me and if I was proud of you being my girlfriend, you'd be added to ... (read in full...)
I treated him like crap but I really like him and I don't know how to tell him
Q. I really stuffed up.I really did. Hi there, to all who're reading this.. I became mates with a guy , lets call him Dave and we started texting for ages. We obviously were more than mates.. i.e we texted into the night every day, he asked me h...
A. 15 September 2010: It is your fault if you loose the opportunity to be with the one that you like. You like him, swallow your pride and tell him that you do. At least you'll know for sure if he feels the same way. I don't think there should be any more time passing ... (read in full...)
I'm a male that loves to wear women's clothes but my girlfriend doesn't like it what should I do?
Q. hi i am male when i was a child my mother use to dress me as a girl this went on for about nine years now i am a lot older i have a female partner and i love dressing as a woman it feels so right to me but my partner dosent like it or understand am ...
A. 15 September 2010: Dressing as a woman, are you gay or bi-sexual? This may be a concern that she has. You said your mother dressed you up for 9 years? I believe in doing so, you're desire to dress as the opposite sex was created by the actions of your mother. I would ... (read in full...)
We've both cheated and I think we're better off not together
Q. He dumped me (again). Now he wants me back (again). ): I love him and want him back but I'm starting to think it would be better if we weren't together! - we've both cheated. It was ages ago, but it's still there, hanging over the relationship. Ca...
A. 15 September 2010: I agree as well that you must forgive the past, and start a new if this relationship is to work out. You both do. Cheating is one of the most damaging presences in a relationship. Forgiving is not forgetting, it's choosing to no longer let those ... (read in full...)
My father has disconnected from the family and we are very concerned about him. What can we do?
Q. I am at odds. .this is really taking a toll on myself and siblings. My parents had recently divorced after 35 plus years. My father had an affair and was drinkibg alcohol on weekends. .the had a great job and good relationships with people ...
A. 15 September 2010: Seemingly withdrawn and sedated does not equate to everything being honky dory. At first, I thought your dad was just a major ass for ditching his kids. These messages may have been sent by her and not him. As you said, when you made a phone call, ... (read in full...)
Hubby has his ex on facebook and I don't like it!
Q. Ive always had issues w my hubby and computers. If i am overeacting on any of this please tell me. Last month, he got a facebook and didnt tell me. The only way i found out about it was he was suggested to be one of my friends. No big deal. until ...
A. 15 September 2010: I'd have to agree that their is something sketchy going on here. It sounds like a second life he's leading. It's not okay if he's not inviting you as friends. Why would he have a profile that you didn't know about. He erased his history which is a ... (read in full...)
Frustrating sex life with husband. Thinking of trying anal or becoming bi
Q. i am maried,for 7 yrs and my sex life is not good.my husband dooesnt like sex like me.never had a sex toy cant allow me to have one and same goes for masterbation.lately i have been thinking about anal sex but he refuses saying its wrong is it ...
A. 15 September 2010: Get a sex toy. Tell him to screw off if he says anything about it. I never recommend having an affair, because messing around is often irreparable, and goes against, I'm sure why you got married. I recommend getting the toy, and let him know that ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend saw me kissing someone else!
Q. I was at a club with a guy friend. We kissed a few times. But there's a problem I was going out with someone at the time and he so happens to be a the same night club as me. He saw me kissing him. Now the guy that was my boyfriend says to me that he ...
A. 15 September 2010: The problem is not him being at the club, the problem is you kissing the "guy friend". Why do you want to fight for him, if you're going to go out kissing other guys? Is that right for him? Give him the time he needs, talk to him if have the ... (read in full...)
I got cold feet and said some really horrible things
Q. So I was seeing a wonderful kind loving man from a far away country.We met while he was here on work and it felt like it was meant to be. We maintained this beautiful realationship for awhile and after about 5 months he was talking marriage and all ...
A. 15 September 2010: I think you remember what you said, or you're repressing it to try to forget that the phone call happened..... or you need to stay away from alcohol, because if you really don't remember it could mean that you have an alcohol problem.
You n... (read in full...)
We've been trying to have a baby, then I find out he's fathered a child with another woman
Q. As you see from my name. I am just that...so scared. I have been married now for nine years and with my husband for thirteen years. I found out maybe two weeks ago that he has been having an affair. Also with a person I know but through someone else ...
A. 15 September 2010: Forgiveness is personal, either you do or you don't and it doesn't make you crazy if you do. Life takes turns, some are negative, but you have to face them when they come up. His having an affair was wrong and this is a difficult time for you. What ... (read in full...)
Son looking at pornography on the computer?
Q. I recently caught my son on the computer looking up pornography and masturbating, i sent him to his room and told him not to ever again, and that it was wrong. i think i did the right thing, but I'm not sure. he's only 11 and it seemed like he was ...
A. 14 September 2010: I think it's time you two have "the talk". Boys and girls, ages vary, where they begin finding out about their sexuality. I know that was impulse sending him to his room, but it won't be effective if you don't talk to him about sexuality and the ... (read in full...)
Boring Selfish husband
Q. I am sexually frustrated with my husband. He had a talk with me as if its me that is lousy in the bed when he doesnt even participates. He says he thinks my mind is on somewhere else .. I think it is really his that is on someone else. I Usually ...
A. 14 September 2010: Tell him that if there are these issues, then why not spend the time to explore and learn together? You can't keep going where you're wondering why it's like this, when he might be asking himself the same questions. Come up with a plan, add some ... (read in full...)
My parents have always treated me poorly, preferring my sister to me. Time to walk away?
Q. All the time I was growing up my parents made no secret of the fact my younger sister was the preferred child. From the day she was born they compared us, always to my detriment. Everyone was told that I’d been a horrible baby, forever crying a...
A. 14 September 2010: Your right that time is running out. You did what you could and tried, I believe more than most people would have. You can never be blames or blame yourself for trying. What has happened in this family is not your fault. It sounds like, for whatever ... (read in full...)
How can you stop yourself from getting too jealous?
Q. Hey how can you stop yourself from geting too jelous? My bf has alot of female friends that parts ok, the problem is the ones that have a crush on him or messed around with him in the past (hes friends with hes ex's). I get jelous/mad/upset just ...
A. 14 September 2010: Your right, some girls don't care, just as some guys don't care. How well do you know your boyfriend. I think it's good that he mentioned her voice being like yours. Most guys that cheat won't mention a girl they're talking to, or feel open in doing ... (read in full...)
What's the difference between being honest and being negative?
Q. What is the difference between being honest and being negative? People told me many times.including family,and friends, ''you are being too negative'' And I just cant see, where am I going wrong. I feel, Im just seeing the truth.. What is wrong wi...
A. 14 September 2010: I don't see how a train crash can be positive, but what I believe is going on with you is you are allowing your empathy control your moods and feelings that others see you as having. There are times in all of our lives where we feel for those who ... (read in full...)
I have problems with my violent teenager son, who doesn't want me to date!
Q. I am having problems with my teenager. He's 13 and doesn't want me to date or talk to anyone. I decided not to bring any man around until I felt that it was serious. I have found someone who I am very happy with. My son won't accept it. He is very ...
A. 14 September 2010: Your son is currently the man of the house. Now with your boyfriend, his importance with that role is being replaced. Kids act out in anger often because they don't know how to relate to adults at their level. My daughters talk to me, not their mom. ... (read in full...)
Heartbroken by a jealous husband
Q. I have been a good woman. I never cheated on him. He was my first love, my first (and only) sex, my first everything. I have loved him for eight years. And I did not deserve this. The culmination of these years, is one year of calm and seven ...
A. 14 September 2010: Your right, jealousy is a killer in relationships. It's not that there is evidence to support that accusations, it's that there is a possibility or having the ability to cheat, meaning you have female parts, therefore the ability exists. However, ... (read in full...)
He is having marriage problems and we want a fling together? what should I do?
Q. So I just got into contact with a guy I had a crush on back in high school. Found out he was very attracted to me as well. We both haven't forgotten each other and would like to have a fling but here's the situation: he's married, I live in one ...
A. 14 September 2010: While he's married, I'd recommend not following up with any type of fling. I understand the urge being there, but right now he's not yours and that temptation would be wrong to enter into while he's still with his wife. ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my Godfather
Q. I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...
A. 14 September 2010: Glad to hear the update. That's exciting. I hope everything works out for you. Take care. ... (read in full...)
My overwhelming jealousy is killing this relationship!
Q. I've always been a very jealous person. But in this relationship I'm in now, I've never been so insanely jealous. My man and I have been together 3 years, he is 31 and I am 22. I used to cheat on my ex with him, and now that we're together, I can'...
A. 14 September 2010: You said he lies to you about his communication, so why are you with him? He's hanging with her, has he invited you to join them? You may be jealous or have reason to question what's going on in your relationship, so I think it'd be best to ask him ... (read in full...)
My family treated us very badly in the past. I've made amends, but my wife can't get over it!
Q. I have been married for 22years, till recently my wife and I were having a fantastic life together. but now there are signs of breaking up and it hurts me. I think my wife is going trough some psychological problem. in the past in the year 1993, my ...
A. 12 September 2010: She doesn't have to maintain a relationship with who she doesn't want to. That doesn't mean that you can't have one with people she chooses not to. It's not rude to, and it's not wrong. I think she needs counseling and that she has issues that are ... (read in full...)
I want to know his feelings towards me...
Q. My teacher is 43 and well don't know too much about his private life as i don't really tend to take notice, but since i've started his class which i've been in for a year and a month or something, there was sort of something there, its hard to ...
A. 12 September 2010: Well most who have experienced inner partner violence can't see someone acting that way toward them, until it happens. In just about every case, control is the underlying behavior. Knowing his control characteristics, you must know that their is ... (read in full...)
Is it true that a guy won't ever turn down sex?
Q. Hi, ive been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. we r very happy together. i have a problem though, i have been influenced by people so much in the past that you cannot trust any man ever. an i have been told this so many times that i dont t...
A. 12 September 2010: Guys who are faithful are by choice, just as women who are faithful are by choice. There is some truth your statement about people going for sex, but it works just as much with women as it does with men. Men may not turn down, but women are the ones ... (read in full...)
I want to know his feelings towards me...
Q. My teacher is 43 and well don't know too much about his private life as i don't really tend to take notice, but since i've started his class which i've been in for a year and a month or something, there was sort of something there, its hard to ...
A. 11 September 2010: Your welcome. I didn't want you to end up learning the lesson the hard way. Take care. ... (read in full...)
Unsettling memories from 14-15 years ago are making me wonder what really happened?
Q. okay so I'm 26 now and at the time I must of been bout 11 to 12 Maybe almost 12 years old and I spent the night at a friend from schools house one night, it was the first and last time I slept over her house, I kinda remember drinken a little_ Maybe ...
A. 11 September 2010: Yes that was rape. With how old you were, being under the influence, lack of experience, and his size compared to yours, I don't see their being much else that you could have done. You were definitely not at fault for what happened, and your being ... (read in full...)
How do you know when you've found Mr. Right?
Q. Hey all. How do you know when you've found Mr Right? I've been with my guy for years now. Things aren't perfect, but we love each other unconditionally and we can always make each other laugh. We wake up each day, looking forward to being at...
A. 11 September 2010: It sounds like he may be. When it comes to money and such, you two need to look at the partnership of being together. Both of you have different traits, and strengths in your relationship. The best relationships are where you focus on what you have ... (read in full...)
I'm going insane! Am I depressed?
Q. I feel so alone. I feel unloved. Sometimes I dont know why im here. I never give, I only receive. In school, and everywhere else I have NO friends what-so-ever. At lunch and in class, I dont know where to sit. Because if I sit alone people think im ...
A. 11 September 2010: Stop worrying about what others think. That's where I feel a lot of your insanity comes from. At your age, often we define ourselves off what others see us as or say that we are. The truth only lies within how you feel about who you are. It doesn't ... (read in full...)
How can I stop obsessing over his ex's?
Q. I can't help but still feel insecure when it comes to my boyfriend's ex-flings. I Facebook them often, and have even made fake profiles to try to friend them (which haven't work) so I can keep tabs on them. My boyfriend has had a problem with lying ...
A. 11 September 2010: Why do you feel you need to compare yourself to his ex's? Do you feel that if you're not keeping tabs on them that they are secretly seeking out your boyfriend? They lying, official or not official is not okay. It sets the standards for your ... (read in full...)
I want to know his feelings towards me...
Q. My teacher is 43 and well don't know too much about his private life as i don't really tend to take notice, but since i've started his class which i've been in for a year and a month or something, there was sort of something there, its hard to ...
A. 11 September 2010: It's your not understanding and his answers that you need to worry about. It shows his being unstable and that is besides his crossing the teacher/student boundaries which shouldn't be crossed. I'm addressing this as, his being an individual, I'd ... (read in full...)
I want to go to university in Paris! How do I tell my parents?
Q. I'm a junior in high school and I found this really really good college in Paris, it's pretty much perfect for me. The problem is I don't know how to tell my parents, because I would be really far away from them (I live in the US) and the cost would ...
A. 10 September 2010: Why Paris over a school in the U.S.? What I would do is make sure my grades are very high to qualify for scholarships. One reason I know some parent have is a fear of their children being that far away. Being in another country, your far away, which ... (read in full...)
An ex of my husband wont leave us alone on facebook
Q. Hi, my husband and I have been married for about 3 months now. and he just recently got a FB account. about 2 weeks ago his ex (with her 4 years were engaged) friend requested him as well as all of his other close friends. so it annoyed me she ...
A. 10 September 2010: I think she should be blocked. It's apparent that her intent is not to be friends, as much as it is to bother or harass the two of you. ... (read in full...)
I want to know his feelings towards me...
Q. My teacher is 43 and well don't know too much about his private life as i don't really tend to take notice, but since i've started his class which i've been in for a year and a month or something, there was sort of something there, its hard to ...
A. 10 September 2010: If what you say is true with how he has been acting, it's abnormal. I AM NOT talking flirting and attraction. His behavior would be what I'd find in a stalker, or someone who has been or would be involved in a controlling relationship, related to ... (read in full...)
How do I get over someone I thought I would spend the rest of my life with?
Q. I was dating a guy for 2 years and during that time I was dealing with some drama from an ex of 6 years. My boyfriend was patient and stayed with me while working these issues out. We broke up during the summer time and I really love him. The break ...
A. 10 September 2010: If he says he won't be with you because you slept with so and so, it really doesn't matter who he's slept with, unless it's your decision not to be with me because of what he's done. I wasn't placing blame or trying to balance out who may be right ... (read in full...)
How do I get over someone I thought I would spend the rest of my life with?
Q. I was dating a guy for 2 years and during that time I was dealing with some drama from an ex of 6 years. My boyfriend was patient and stayed with me while working these issues out. We broke up during the summer time and I really love him. The break ...
A. 9 September 2010: I feel you both love each other, but if he sees it being better without you, that's what you must allow. I also feel the chance of getting back together at some point was much greater before you slept with the other guy. You just need to move on, ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my Godfather
Q. I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...
A. 23 August 2010: It's amazing when I hear how God directly works in lives. Congrats. You made the right choice and bettered yourself and your position by doing so. I'm glad to hear you're doing okay. Take care. ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my Godfather
Q. I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...
A. 16 August 2010: Okay, it's past August 12. How are you doing? I hope okay. ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my Godfather
Q. I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...
A. 2 August 2010: I know it's going to take time. Remember, I'm going through what you are, but from the opposite side. She was younger, I proposed, she accepted, then decided I'm not going to be part of her future goals. Trust me, I know exactly what you're going ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my Godfather
Q. I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...
A. 30 July 2010: I know what you're going through. I was with someone who was also younger than I was. You put your faith and trust in someone, but you also have to realize that with the difference in your age, was he looking for what you were looking for. It seems ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my Godfather
Q. I am a 22 year old female who is in love with my Godfather. Surprisingly enough, he has confessed to me that if he wasn't my Godfather, he would marry me. I really don't know what to do. I have dreams about him at night and I want to start a ...
A. 12 August 2009: These feelings are not perverted. Whoever you begin a relationship with is about you. Not about hurting family. ... (read in full...)
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