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My ex left me and I lost my virginity to another girl; my ex is now back on the scene. How do I handle this?

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Question - (27 July 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 July 2007)
A male United States age 36-40, *eanring2live writes:

I am 20 years old, and I am going nuts now.

My first ex left me for Bible college (pastor's daughter) and we never spoke for about a year, then I started dating this other girl, for almost 2 years and we lost our virginity to each other about a year in (myself at 19), and then she just recently left me for some jock with a pick-up.

My First Ex, call her 'Liz', is now calling me, and among other things talking about coming back.

I love Liz alot, I really do, but I have yet to tell her about my lost Virginity. How show I handle this?

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (28 July 2007):

Danielepew agony auntSound, very sound advice from Frank.

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A male reader, Frank B Kermit Canada +, writes (28 July 2007):

Frank B Kermit agony auntIf it comes up, and you are in a relationship, tell her directly. Otherwise, if she is not your girlfriend, it really is none of her business.

I get the impression from your email that you assume SHE is still a virgin too...for all you know she is a completely different person than the one you remember.

Stop acting like you have something to feel guilty about.

-Frank B Kermit

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