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female
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30-35,
*ovvalicious
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together 5 weeks and we are both virgins and are both ready for sex. We are both nervous and don't know how to approach it. We tell each other everything and are completely comfortable with each other. Please help and give advice!!
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reader, bovvalicious +, writes (8 July 2007):
bovvalicious is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for your input on the situation i will definately bear that in mind whilst talking to my boyfriend about it
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2007): I think u should wait until at least the 2 month mark. Its only been a few weeks so ur probably still at that honeymoon-type stage where u both seem perfect to each other. i think u should wait for a while otherwise you might do something you regret. you've had ur virginity for ur whole life do u really think ur ready to lose it after 5 weeks? and if you are both nervous but ready then i think u will find the right time will present itself.
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reader, intimatedude  +, writes (5 July 2007):
If you have to ask, you are not ready. It is good to discuss these issues, yet you need to wait. You will truly know when the time is right and with the right person. 9 months to a year is a better time frame. You are still learning and finding those things that you like. Remember, you may like something today, yet find it undesirable later. Just think that you may have liked Barney, yet had you gotten ink, how your you feel?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2007): I agree with YummyMummy, find out your local sexual health clinic by phoning your GP surgery. Book an appointment and go together, you will have a meeting with a nurse and they will talk through contraceptive options with you. If you do this you'll probably feel in a better position about whether or not you are ready. All the best :)
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reader, flower girl +, writes (5 July 2007):
 I am not going to lecture bacause most of us have all been there and done it, but you really need to consider the consequences if you get caught doing this as it is illegal.
Obviously at such a young age it is not all the safe just having condoms as your contraception as many accidents happen just having these as your safety net.
If you care about each other that much, would there be any harm in waiting a bit longer untill you are both old enough to sort out more suitable contraception and you are legal, you are at the end of the day still only children and you should enjoy your childhood, because it really does not last all that long.
Take care.xx.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (5 July 2007):
 First thing is if you are both very sure you are ready for this then sort out some contraception. Condoms protect against STIs and pregnancy. Try going to your local family planning clinic. I did that and got lots of advice on how to prevent STIs and pregnancy, and got free condoms. That was a few years ago now though.
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