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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2007): I think you should wait until you are ready, and trust me, when you are ready you will know and won't need to ask. 3months is really early into a relationship, i think. Don't rush, just take things slow. What happens if he breaks up with you after his birthday? You might regret it.
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reader, bovvalicious  +, writes (30 July 2007):
 okai well i was planning this too. i think as long as u love this person then its not wrong! its urs to do as u wish with it if u choose to give it away its up to u its not wrong.
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reader, candy00s +, writes (24 July 2007):
 Wait until you are ready - you will know when the time is right and you wont feel you need to ask if you should.
It will be worth the wait .
xx
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reader, Uncle Trev +, writes (24 July 2007):
I wasn't aware that ones virginity could be wrapped in paper and bows and the thought of giving somebody this for their birthday comes across as cheap and tacky. Taking the relationship to this level should only happen when you both feel it is the natural level to ascend to. It is something very special and something you can only give away once. Please bear this in mind before taking things any further. If you want to give him something special try writing him a poem, posting a special message in a newspaper, dedicating a song for him on the radio or something else like this. There are many special things you can do but something that personal I can only say in your shoes I wouldn't.I hope this has helped a bit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2007): You should wait untill you feel ready. Not because you think you should.
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reader, 88jane +, writes (24 July 2007):
 lol hunni! your virginity isnt really the classic birthday present!! lol! get him a card and maybe some chocolate or something! dont just rush into losing your virginity! its something you may regret afterwards! your young--wait until the time is right and i certainly dont think 3 months is not long enough for you to decide that you are ready with this person!
xxx
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reader, PoSiOnKiSS +, writes (24 July 2007):
 im sure a bottle of aftershave and a card will please him more. sex for the first time is supposed to be something special, offering it as a present is anything but special.
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reader, DIE-romantic. +, writes (24 July 2007):
 Well i'd agree that a birthday card is more traditional than virginity. But, it says that your between 16-17? You are allowed to now, your at the age. But 3 months isnt long enough, then again its upto you babe. :)
xxx Good Luck.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (24 July 2007):
 Like I said before when you posted this...give him a card instead.
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reader, deejuliet +, writes (24 July 2007):
 Yes, it is absolutely wrong. You have not been together long enough, especially at this young age. You should wait.
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