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writes:My Boyfriend Thinks I Have had Sex But Im A Virgin Will He Know? Reply to this Question
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reader, Andy00 +, writes (10 July 2007):
 It's definately possible that he will find out that your a vigin whilst having Sex with you if you are tight/bleed/ect.
My advice would be, just before you two do it, tell him the truth. I'm sure he will understand why you said you weren't a virgin. It is best to be honest, particuarly if this person means enough to you that you'll sleep with them.
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reader, Straight Up +, writes (10 July 2007):
 yes he will know because you will still be very tight down there what i suggest you do is tell him there's not point in mis-leading. imagine this because he thinks your not a virgin he may not be as gentle as he would be if he knew you were inexperienced because he would think that your experienced enough. so please don't put your self in that postion you do know that the first is alway the mone you remember once you lose it you can never get it back so make it memoriable
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2007): I'm a virgin too so i cant give advice on your question but i just wanted to stick up for you, these guys below don't know why he thinks uv had sex, maybe he assumed and u were too embarrassed to correct him (i would be). whereas if u did lie then its a difficult situation. u could tell him u are in experienced, which is the truth but not the whole truth. or u could just say nothing and get on with it. at least if u told him then he won't just think u have had sex but u werent very good.
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (6 July 2007):
 Phsyically no he will not be able to as it is very difficult to tell unless hes a OBGYN.But like Maryjane22 said you shouldnt be having sex with someone your lying to, its not fair on him is it?
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reader, youngcouple22 +, writes (5 July 2007):
The short answer is: It is unlikely
The longer answer is: you may bleed when you are sex for the first time but this doesnt happen to everyone. i think the best thing to do is to discuss this with your boyfriend. i am sure it will not put him off.
when i was 17 i met a girl who i thought wasnt a virgin. it turned out she was, i felt a little embarrass because i felt like i was rushing things with her.
i took my time and made sure that when she lost her virginity it was at the right time and i made it a night she would remember for the rest of her life and never regret.
i hope i have been some help. x
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reader, LauraE +, writes (5 July 2007):
Not unless you want him to. Not many women bleed the first time and if they do, it isn’t much. Also, there isn’t a sudden and drastic change in how you feel inside after the first time. All that stuff about getting loose if you have a lot of sex is nonsense. Your other muscles don’t sag when you use them do they? But for your first time, you should be taking it really slowly, with someone that knows that he needs to be gentle and caring. If he doesn’t, then it will almost certainly hurt, and if you show it, he might guess I suppose. And anyway, you don’t want to be lying there gritting your teeth to hide your pain just because you told a fib about your experience. Can’t you tell him really? If you think he will laugh, then is he worth spending your first time with?
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reader, flower girl +, writes (5 July 2007):
 He will have no idea physically unless you tell him, the only thing he might pick up on is inexperience but that is no big deal and quite a turn on to some people.
Take care.xx.
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