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I have a boyfriend but also have strong feelings for my ex. Do I tell him?

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Question - (13 September 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 September 2008)
A female Lebanon age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i have a boyfriend that i love but i still have strong feelings for my ex.. and i think i still love him too.my ex is leaving the country should i tell him how i feel?and say goodbye? my current boyfriend hates him....

please help me.i feel that i need to see him:(

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A female reader, Aunty Em United Kingdom +, writes (13 September 2008):

Aunty Em agony auntI think you need time apart from your current boyfriend. If you feel you 'love' your ex, go and see him before he leaves. You don't want to live your life wondering 'what if' - go and do it, if he doesn't feel the same then you'll at least know.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2008):

I wouldn't tell your ex about your feelings. If you love your current boyfriend and he doesn't get along with your ex, you should just cut the ties with him (afterall he's moving out of the country). Maybe you would feel better after you've had some closure with your ex? I think saying goodbye to your ex would benefit you more than telling him you love him.

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