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I turned down my coworker as I am married and love my husband, but why then can't I stop thinking about my coworker?

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Question - (28 September 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 September 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hello. Just a quick post before my husband catches me using his computer! There's this guy at work who had the cheek to ask me out a couple of months' ago. I turned him down *of course* - but have not been able to get him off my mind since. In fact I do not see him that often in the office but obviously now know that he likes me very much. I daresay he won't talk to me again fearing a backlash from our human resources department. So basicaly he fired all his ammunition and then waved the white flag. Although I did nothing to encourage him I can't stop thinking about him! I love my husband though, so why is this?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2008):

Its the fascination with the forbidden and unknown. Let yourself be fascinated but nothing more. Don't mistake it for anything else.

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A female reader, Aunty Em United Kingdom +, writes (28 September 2008):

Aunty Em agony auntIt might just be the flattery of being wanted, even though you're married. It's quite an achievment. You DO love your husband though, and wouldn't change him for anyone. Don't be misguided in thinking you like this co worker.

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