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Archived questions from: January, 2017 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

Is it possible to tell him everything and stay friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2642 days ago

31 January 2017 (F) - Hi. I'm hurting and would appreciate a third person's opinion. I've had feelings for a friend for last 2.5 years. They kept getting intense with time but he lives in a different city so I never acted upon my feelings. We used to flirt back and fort...

Is he flirting or is it just banter?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

31 January 2017 (M) - Okay so there was a point I really fancied this guy but then he gave the impression he was straight He recently snap shot two pics I took and drew a penis on them to make it look like I was sucking dick.... then text" bravo you don't like (the ...

Do I have a realistic chance with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2644 days ago

30 January 2017 (M) - So, here's the situation: there's a girl I've known about 8 eights that I've just received starting seeing as more than a friend. I met her at church about 8 years ago and we weren't especially close then. She went off to school and I saw her very ...

Ladies what would you suggest? She's caught my eye. But I'm not sure what my next move should be.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

30 January 2017 (M) - This will seem funny for a 34 year old man to be seeking advice on. Basically, I go to the same shop a few times a week. There is a lady works there who has really caught my eye, whenever she is there when I go in, I get butterflies and feel...

What should I do? Is this normal behaviour or is there more to this than she's letting on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2621 days ago

29 January 2017 (F) - So, I have loved my best friend of over 5 years basically since I met her. We just had one of those instant connections and became best friends the second we sat next to each other in class. Both of us went back and forth about liking each other but ...

I still have feelings for him. He still feels the attraction too. But now he's living with another girl. How can we go forward with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

29 January 2017 (F) - Long story but need advice. In 2013, I dated a guy for a few months. I really, really liked him but he was very keen to make the relationship official (telling everyone), which at the time I wasn't ready for, mostly because I was really poor at t...

How do I proceed with this situation? How do I process feeling unwanted if it doesn't work out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2644 days ago

29 January 2017 (F) - There is somebody that I like who I am kind of friends with . We get on really well, have lots in common and laugh and joke a lot, as well as chatting when we go to the pub in a group etc. I've been on two holidays with him in a group. I wouldn't...

Should I give up on men? Is there such a thing as a normal guy? I want a relationship with a man.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2462 days ago

29 January 2017 (F) - I have have asked for advice before here and wanted to come back a year later to ask maybe what I am doing wrong. I am a woman in my early 30s that has given up on love. I have only been with three men and two had a relationship with. Through t...

I feel I am just not good enough for anything, its affecting my life and future!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2643 days ago

28 January 2017 (F) - How do I get over this overwhelming feeling that I'm just not good enough? I'm going to be 18 this year and I'm just sick of always feeling this way about everything. 1) I'm the middle child in my family, and this may sound really cliqué but it's...

I need help to face my fears so I can ask her out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2643 days ago

28 January 2017 (M) - Hey ppl, I need some advice. I'll try to keep it short. I like a girl. I have a bad case of social anxiety. I think she used to like me too but think I've waited too long and she's loosing/lost interest.I get to see her once a week. Most times...

I kissed Max on the cheek and Mark thinks I cheated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2644 days ago

28 January 2017 (F) - Hi, me and this boy have known each other for around 3 years now. Lets say his name is mark, me and mark have been quite good mates. The other day he asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes. I told him not to tell anyone we were together ...

I know we can solve any problems but he just acts distant!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2647 days ago

28 January 2017 (F) - Hi I really need some male opinion on this, I was friends with this guy 3 years ago we started having sex without admitting that we were in a relationship which was what we both wanted at that time ( though it seemed like we had feelings for each...

How come I am not heartbroken?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2644 days ago

28 January 2017 (M) - I had a huge crush on a girl for about 5 years. I went to school with her in high school, but now that I'm out I haven't spoken to her in person just over text. Recently I found out she just got a boyfriend, at first I thought I'd be all heart ...

We're already close. Do you think he is ready to move on and try something with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2413 days ago

27 January 2017 (F) - Hi! Maybe this will be pretty obvious to you but I'm terrible when it comes to relationships and understanding men. I like this friend of mine (we were friends first) and he knows I like him, and we've kissed before but we were always drunk and st...

I like him and enjoy his flirting. But what should I do? Because I think he has a Gf already

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2644 days ago

26 January 2017 (F) - There's this guy I'm talking too. The problem is, I think he has a girlfriend.. We've been speaking a while and a few months ago, he told me that he can't take things forward with me because he has someone. I respected that and we remained to j...

Is this an emotional affair? ?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2649 days ago

25 January 2017 (F) - Is this an emotional affair? ? ? Last March- my husband of 27 years (M) was working at a customer's house (he's a contractor), and one day a woman (T) who lived across the street came over to bum a cigarette from one of M's workers. She a...

Should I stop holding back? I'm scared to get hurt

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2651 days ago

23 January 2017 (F) - Hey all Till now, I've had very hurtful experiences with the guys I've been involved with/liked. I always feel like I've been abandoned or left to myself. And that the other person doesn't feel any remorse in doing so. I know I'm probably wrong ...

I like this guy I'm dating, but the sex is nice but not amazing. How do I discuss this with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2651 days ago

22 January 2017 (F) - I have just started dating a truly lovely guy, he is adorable and I really enjoy spending time with him. The problem is, things aren't totally electric in the bedroom. I'm quite a sexual person and chemistry and sexual connection is really important ...

How can I get over my sexual frustration without making choices I may regret?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2651 days ago

22 January 2017 (F) - Hi I'm 18 this year and there's this guy who I'm really interested in at work. We're kinda friends and flirt and stuff. Not only have I got feelings for him but I'm so sexually attracted to him I sometimes can't think straight. He's a touchy kinda ...

My wife left me for her ex, who found her on Facebook and now wants to come back. Should I give her a second chance ?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2650 days ago

22 January 2017 (M) - My wife was contacted by an ex on Facebook who first said he only wanted to be friends, then indicated he wanted more. She showed me his messages and told me they dated in high school and college and she broke up with him twice. The first time...

My husband's brother is behaving towards me in ways that make me feel uncomfortable. Is my brother in law trying to tell me something ? What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2651 days ago

22 January 2017 (F) - I need some advice regarding my husband's brother. We haven't always got on so well because I found him a bit intimidating. He's 12 years older than me and he used to behave a bit strange with me for example: He always accused me of flirting w...

Why can't I shake this crush?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2654 days ago

19 January 2017 (F) - Hello Aunts and Uncles.. I'll make this as quick as possible.. I have been working at my company for 8 months now. I have a few bosses here, but there is one in particular who I am so incredibly attracted to. From the minute I met him in our ...

He went out of his way to get my number but never called

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2654 days ago

19 January 2017 (F) - Ok on a friday night at the gym i noticed this guy looking at me and well there was a mutual attraction. He kept looking at me the whole time i was there. I had gone into the hall to take a break and he passed by me as he was leaving and passed b...

I love my partner but we've been having sexual issues and I'm starting to develop feelings for a colleague

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2652 days ago

19 January 2017 (F) - Hi all, I am having a bit of a problem at the moment. I have been with my partner for just over 5 years and we have been extremely happy. We are best friends and have been since the start. Very recently I have started developing feelings for ...

Shall I tell him? Do I let it out or just walk away without saying anything ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2649 days ago

19 January 2017 (F) - Do you tell the person you love that you have feelings for him ? Despite the fact he is not that friendly to you and never indulges you in their personal thoughts and life ? I have been thinking about telling the guy I love that I loved him but ...

Any opinions as to whether she is into me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2657 days ago

18 January 2017 (F) - There is a young girl who I come across frequently as she works near me and I am of the understanding she is straight. I think she has a boyfriend but I am gay with a girlfriend. I am just curious as to whether she is into me or not. She remembe...

I still feel embarrassed 8 months later.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2657 days ago

17 January 2017 (F) - I expressed interest in guy that I was interested in 8 months ago but he turned me down. I felt disappointed but brushed it off and acted like it was no big deal. However, the long term effect was embarrassment. I thought he was interested in me...

He seemed interested, but I was at work.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2661 days ago

14 January 2017 (F) - A customer came to apply for a house and seemed like he was interested in me. He asked my name, then told me his as he left. He came back the next day and asked me who would help him with his housing application as I was going somewhere else. I came ...

People changing their minds about crushing on you years later...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2659 days ago

14 January 2017 (M) - When someone turns you down romantically or makes no time for your friendship, then years later they see you again. Suddenly, like nothing has happened they are all over you, and suddenly attracted you. Do you give them a chance or leave them? ...

Should I listen to my heart or to my mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2661 days ago

13 January 2017 (M) - Hi, i have fallen for my assistant. Its just that we are so different. We come from different strata s of society, different upbringing and different religion. We have different tastes. But we get along very well in office. Now i cant stop thinking...

Should I take a step back and distance myself from her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2661 days ago

13 January 2017 (M) - so I like this girl who is one of my best friends. when we first met we started something it wasn't serious but that ended due to me and hers mental health issues. anyway we stayed friends and we're really close talk everyday, tell each other ...

I'm not sure if I should hang in there or let it go ...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2663 days ago

10 January 2017 (M) - Hello everyone, I'm not sure where to begin? I came out of a very bad relationship. I try not to say anything negative about anyone, but imagine the worst things you can do and she pretty much did it. This ended about a year ago. I met...

How should I act towards him for the best outcome?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2665 days ago

9 January 2017 (F) - A while ago I kissed someone from work who I had liked for a while. He told me he had feelings for me and we began texting. -But then later said because his ex works at the same place nothing could happen. And then kissed a different co wor...

Why is he making this so hard?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2664 days ago

8 January 2017 (M) - I have so much in common with this guy why is he making it so hard to be more...... okay so I know this guy from social media. We have loads in common when we first started talking he had a BF he asked me to go to a concert with him but I declined...

We enjoy each other's company but nothing seems to be starting! Any advice, aunties?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2664 days ago

8 January 2017 (F) - In April last year I met a guy at a local sports club I go to and over the course of the last few months we've built up a friendship and now regularly see each other outside our sports club. We're both single and in our 30s and at the start of las...

How to get over the embarrassment of rejection?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2666 days ago

7 January 2017 (F) - I expressed interest in guy that I had my eye on 9 months ago but I was politely rebuffed. I felt embarrassed but brushed it .However,I try to be polite and friendly whenever our path cross but things are extremely awkward between us.I wish things ...

I'm a girl who has liked this girl for 3 years! Should I tell her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2666 days ago

7 January 2017 (F) - There is this beautiful girl who goes to my school and I'm in love with everything about her from her looks to her knowledge. She has blond hair and blue eyes and she has one hell of a body.(brace yourselves this is gonna be a long heart-breaking ...

I've fallen for my friend's ex! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2666 days ago

5 January 2017 (F) - I have fallen in love with my friend's ex. What should I do? I have been crushing on him for just over a year now and can't stop thinking about him, they broke up about 2 and a half years ago and she is in a relationship with this new guy who she ...

Help, please? I don't want to hurt my friends, but we all like the same guy. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2666 days ago

5 January 2017 (F) - Hi, I'm 13 and I'm in a bit of a love triangle... Well.. Love square. My two best friends like the same boy, and they have for ages now. And guess what? Now I'm in the picture, I like him too. And the thing is, he likes me. I feel bad for my...

His behavior has me asking if he is bisexual!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2585 days ago

5 January 2017 (F) - Hey everyone, Thanks for taking the time to hear me out. I met my boyfriend in college almost 3 years ago. We've gotten along great and haven't had any serious issues...until now. I've just recently noticed that his behavior is a little od...

She's broken up with her girlfriend and I've always thought we could have something special together, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2669 days ago

5 January 2017 (F) - Yesterday I bumped into an old friend, someone I haven't seen much of this past year, but someone I have always, since we first met, had very strong feelings for. In the entire time that I have known her she has always had a long-term girlfriend, ...

He likes and comments on my social media but blanks when invited out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2669 days ago

5 January 2017 (M) - Okay so I met this guy on social media but I don't get him.... seems we have a lot in common and when we've spoken convo flowed well. He follows me on two types of social media as I do him. Sometimes now he don't reply to conversations......

I fancy my friend's housemate!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2669 days ago

4 January 2017 (F) - I really fancy my friend's housemate. She doesn't. But he is super nice to her and I wonder if he fancies her. She does not see him like that but it makes me feel sad. Is he just being friendly? I feel that everyone always fancies her over me and ...

Should I consider that this friend I like is now available? What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2669 days ago

4 January 2017 (F) - I asked a friend who I like and who knows I like him, advice about dating as my ex is now started dating again and my friend told me to get out there etc. I then took a month away from social media. I came back mid/late December and I found out ...

Guy says he doesn't like me, but others say the opposite. What do you think? ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2669 days ago

4 January 2017 (F) - Question: Every guy I know says this guy obviously likes me, but the guy himself said to me it's not that way? He's close to me since my break up 5 months ago. He's brought me out, treated me to food and movies, would come all the way to my neighb...

Should I tell her he cheated on both of us?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2670 days ago

4 January 2017 (F) - Hi, I had a difficult abusive relationship before hand. I met someone from out the country and he made me trust again and go out again. I was content with his friendship but he pursued it to something more. Time for him to leave. He wanted me to go ...

Is my ex looking to reconcile, or just hoping to being friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2670 days ago

2 January 2017 (F) - Ex gave me two missed calls on the 29th of Dec. He claimed it was accidental. So I didn't react thinking it was genuine mistake. But he wished me a happy new year, and we ended up texting for about an hour. Funny thing about the text was we we...

I find myself attracted to another person. I would never cheat. But what does this feeling say about my current relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2671 days ago

1 January 2017 (F) - I have been in a relationship for nine years. I love him. But recently I have found myself somewhat attracted to someone else. I would never cheat, ever. But is this something that is normal? It's just a crush but does that mean I don't fee...