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Am I too messed up and damaged to ever have a happy relationship?

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16 February 2020 (F age 30-35 - I am 26 and have lived in a toxic, emotionally abusive household my whole life. I come from a culture where you're guilted into never moving out until marriage. (I'm saving up to move out as soon as I can though). Also, if I ever go no contact with them, my life would be made ... (397 words

Is casual sex that much better than relationship sex? If so, how can a woman in a long term relationship ever compete?

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16 February 2020 (F age 41-50 - What's so good about casual sex? How does it differ from sex in relationships? And why would people risk a long term relationship for casual sex? Is a stranger or someone who doesn't care that much better in bed? How can a woman in a long term relationship ever compete??... (50 words

I want to let go of him with understanding not hatred

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16 February 2020 (F age 51-59 - I have a slightly odd question about a previous relationship that I'm still trying to figure out aspects of because I'm trying to heal and really move on. I am NOT the kind of person who just walks away from things. I know I give far more than I should in relationships and in ... (973 words

I've just discovered I am the OTHER WOMAN!

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16 February 2020 (F age 30-35 - I've been in a sexual relationship with a man for over almost 4 years now. I do not have feelings for him, but had always wondered why he was so distant and indifferent towards me throughout the 4 years. Long story short I just found out through instagram that he has a gi... (322 words

My husband's actions have made me feel I'm not worth much anymore.

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15 February 2020 (F age 22-25 - We've been married for two years now, but all these wounds that I've gotten during our relationship haven't healed. I want to move on so badly from everything but I don't know how. I want to say my anxiety is what is keeping me from thinking about these situations and hurting ... (563 words

The man I've been going out with made sexual jokes about my friend.

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15 February 2020 (F age 26-29 - I have been going out with this lovely man for about 3 months now. We have been official for 1 month. I think he is a great man, goal-oriented, and self-driven. I really like his bubbly personality and how easy it is to interact with him. He makes jokes all the time and I am... (275 words

This girl is bad for me, what should I do?

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15 February 2020 (M age 30-35 - A long time ago in college there was a girl who was very close to me, very touchy feely and all that. I fancied her, had a really huge crush. Though I didn't know it, she had friend zoned me. One day she said she was moving to the west coast and will be leaving our college. I ... (290 words

I need answers and support.

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12 February 2020 (F age 30-35 - My last post here I got super judged on here and went into a depression. More then I already am. So please be kind. I m a 30 year old single mom of an amazing 4 year old. My child’s father and I were together (we never’ married) for 5 years and split. We were on and off for the ... (494 words

How Do I Get My First Date Before I Turn 30?

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12 February 2020 (M age 26-29 - I am a overweight, not very handsome, not particularly smart or interesting, bald, geeky, awkward male virgin. I am very introverted to say the least. I've never even kissed a girl and I've never been on a date. When I get nervous, I stutter and my teeth chatter so talking to ... (131 words

I'm a bit naive, how do I get myself out of this pickle?

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12 February 2020 (F age 22-25 - I have a co-worker who has a bit of a crush on me. He has been persistent in trying to go to the gym together and he can "show me how to work out". It's actually starting to get a bit annoying because he keeps mentioning it every day on our break. Not only that but he is ... (263 words

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