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I think he likes another girl but I don't know how to broach the topic

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17 October 2017, 6 hours ago (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months but it's not exactly official, his family don't know and only a couple of our close friends know, it's like a need to know basis. Recently he went on holiday back to his home town with a mutual friend of ours who knows w... (451 words

My ex hasn't told me his wife is filing for divorce

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17 October 2017, 6 hours ago (F age - I've been seeing ex for some time. Yes, I know it's wrong it's a long story. anyway, his now wife is filing for divorce but he hasn't told me. heard from mutual friend. why would he not mention this?... (39 words

My boyfriend used to be a nerd but now acts like a 'Gangsta'

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17 October 2017, 6 hours ago (F age 22-25 - He's a middle class white boy whose parents pay for everything including his Mini but he keeps acting like he wants to be the "gangster hood" stereotype and idk it really annoys me for some reason. My parents are also middle class but I was raised differently, is it stupid to ... (240 words

My guy friend denies being in a relationship and lied about becoming a father

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17 October 2017, 6 hours ago (? age 22-25 - Hi everyone, so this situation is going to sound kind of crazy. There's this guy who I've been friends with for about 2 years. At this point, we spend a lot of time together, keep in contact on a daily basis, and share a lot of personal information with eachother in general. I ... (428 words

If people never initiate contact with me, should I take that as a hint?

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17 October 2017, 6 hours ago (F age 22-25 - This is a friendship related question/ issue. For several years I had no friends (literally) but in the past couple of years I have been trying to put more effort to meet and socialize with people. In the process I’ve gained one very close friend (but with whom I don’t get... (301 words

He's getting back together with his ex but doesn't want to lose my friendship

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17 October 2017, 6 hours ago (F age 26-29 - I met a guy on-line. We dated for about 3 months and became intimate. He recently announced that he has been talking to his ex girlfriend and they have decided to try it again but he does not want to lose my friendship. He wants to meet with me. He lives in London for 3 ... (156 words

My boyfriend and I argued again, this time over laundry

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16 October 2017, 6 hours ago (F age 26-29 - I suppose this might be my fault but my boyfriend and I haven't spoken in the last 24 hours because of...laundry. Enter scene: I'm a 25 year old working two jobs currently (soon to quit one to go back to school). He is a 29 year old working on his master's with no job curr... (497 words

I've met a new woman but cautious about dating again

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16 October 2017, 6 hours ago (M age 22-25 - First thank you for taking the time to read this. My problem is that ever since my ex left me 9 months ago I've been left unsure about whether I can handle having a new relationship and it has left me very guarded. Normally this wouldn't concern me as I don't really go out of... (351 words

Can't seem to say no to sex anymore and actually mean it. What should I do?

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16 October 2017 (F age 18-21 - Can't seem to say no to sex anymore and actually mean it. What should I do? Hi I'm 18 and I've had sex with two guys, including the one I lost my virginity to. He was a friend and still is, but he occasionally flirts and I respond to it. We hung out a few times to see if ... (461 words

His online world has me worried

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16 October 2017 (F age 51-59 - Hi All My husband is addicted to Facebook, constantly checking his Facebook even when we are out shopping/socialising etc. I have had to accept this and we have had many arguments over it. He does not listen. Recently he has set up an Instagram account and follows tw... (387 words

How can I gauge how much he loves me?

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16 October 2017 (F age 36-40 - Guys help please.. What does it mean when he says he thinks of me sometimes all day? I am trying to figure out how he feels i guess... I know i am in love with him pretty much and i think of him everyday all day see.... Now that would mean that well he not in love like i am ... (83 words

I'm struggling with taking care of my ailing mother!

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15 October 2017 (F age 26-29 - I'm struggling right now. I'm feeling guilty and I just don't know what to do. About 8 months ago my mother suffered with gout. During the time she suffered from anxiety and depression. She found it hard to get out of bed. She self diagnosed herself with so many things ... (221 words

I can't bear to let him near me since I discovered he is still watching porn!

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15 October 2017 (F age 41-50 - During our recent holiday, my partner and i were in our room and i decided to have a shower. To my surprise i saw my partner change channel on the tv to a porn channel! I could see the tv reflection in bathroom mirror...i alerted him to the fact i could see and he immediately ... (214 words

Have I blown my dream job with a wrong answer?

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15 October 2017 (F age 26-29 - Hi I just applied for my dream job in an IT company and got invited for interview. Interview had 4 rounds and I cleared all of them. But after the rounds we had a small question answer round about the job. They asked me whether I'm okay with night shifts I said yes. They sa... (175 words

Family problem has just got worse

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15 October 2017 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I posted previously about a fall out I had with my sister due to her not being able to take responsibility for a flat she shares with me and also that I didn't want her drug addict boyfriend round. Anyway she has taken it to extremes and I received a tirade of abuse from ... (199 words

She cheated twice! Will her boyfriend ever accept her or trust her again?

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15 October 2017 (F age 18-21 - There is this girl dating someone she really love this guy and this guy also love her but she later cheat ,she went to have sex with her ex but she no longer love her ex and her current boyfriend found about it he was mad according to him he said this is her second time ... (101 words

Is it a good sign that he told her?

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15 October 2017 (F age 22-25 - Hi aunts and uncles. I wanted to know what your opinion was on this. My new boyfriend of a month has a huge circle of friends and he's pretty well loved by people as the "nice" guy/good guy. Yesterday he told me he spoke to this girl and told her that he had a girlfrie... (177 words

Men don't see me as dating material - why?

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15 October 2017 (F age 22-25 - Hi, you know how people like to use the term "friendzone" in situations when girls only see guys as friends? Well, i'm the opposite. I'm a 25 yo girl and find that most guys see me as a buddy or undateable. I've gone on dates with guys but nothing serious ever happened. At ... (121 words

Why can I not see things how they are?

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15 October 2017 (M age 26-29 - Why can’t I get over this crush? This guy I’ve fancied for 3 years now, his done my head in. I’ve never had such deep feelings for someone before, this guy matches me banter wise, future hope, likes and he just feels right! We’ve spoke on and off for the last 2 2 and hal... (376 words

Torn between my man and my family

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15 October 2017 (F age 26-29 - I understand that this is a difficult topic for strangers to give me advice on, but worth a try. I came on holiday to Australia  from England 4 years ago and met a man. Being only 25 at the time i took the 'go with the flow approach' and we have had a good relationship (we've h... (291 words

My friend was in town and didn't tell me

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15 October 2017 (F age 22-25 - A few months after a bad breakup, I reached out to my high school prom date who I'd always had a crush on. I suspected it may be mutual. We began talking and flirting regularly. He visited me once and I visited him once, as we live several hours apart. The weekend I v... (488 words

I just cannot get over him

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14 October 2017 (M age 26-29 - Why can’t I get over this crush? This guy I’ve fancied for 3 years now, his done my head in. I’ve never had such deep feelings for someone before, this guy matches me banter wise, future hope, likes and he just feels right! We’ve spoke on and off for the last 2 2 and hal... (376 words

My husband and I feel trapped and it's taking a toll on our health

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14 October 2017 (F age 36-40 - I feel that my husband an I are both unhappy and have been for a while. I don't think that we are dissatisfied with each other and our marriage per se, but the difficult situation we have been living in for over a decade has taken its toll and we are both in our early ... (837 words

My 'best friend' isn't much of a friend at all

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14 October 2017 (F age 30-35 - I have had a friend for about 30 years. We met as small children and have been "best friends" since. She has actually been fake and shady toward me since childhood. She would treat me differently depending on who was around. I was not strong enough to leave her alone then, ... (1208 words

My ex, who has a new girlfriend, has just contaced me out of the blue

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14 October 2017 (F age 22-25 - My ex and I split up a year ago and the other day he contacted me out of the blue to say he was sorry about how things ended between us. He wants to meet up next month so I said ok. He has been talking to me very strange though, he has said that he misses me and keeps talkin... (120 words

Boyfriend brings up his ex girlfriend

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14 October 2017 (F age 51-59 - I went to a high school reunion this past summer. While there, I met a man who I really didn't talk to much in high school. We kind of hit it off, and for the past 2 months, we have been dating and getting to know each other. My question is about red flags. Three times now,... (271 words

My brother's wedding showed me how regretable mine was

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14 October 2017 (F age 26-29 - Jealous of Sister In Laws Family Hi community. I just attended my brothers wedding and it was amazing! Such a great day with lovely speeches and an amazing vibe. I got married two months ago and looking at both I'm so jealous of my sister in law. Their family were able to h... (235 words

I need people's approval before I make changes in my life

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14 October 2017 (F age 30-35 - I need help. I guess that's pretty obvious. I just wanted to preface this by saying thank you if you just hear me out and listen. I've always had low self esteem and lacked confidence and it's always pushed people away, even though I didn't mean to. I'm not sure if I'm ... (1137 words

We exchanged numbers but now I'm turned off by him

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13 October 2017 (F age 51-59 - I haven't been out in the dating world for a long time. Recently I have been chatting here and there with a guy doing construction at my place of work, seemed like a nice guy, cute, I felt comfortable talking with him. So he asked me for my phone number, I decided to take a c... (161 words

I want to have sex with the father of my children

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13 October 2017 (F age 41-50 - Almost 50 and extremely horny. All I want is to have sex with the father of my children. We haven't been together for over 12 years. We broke up because he hooked up with best friend and things havent been the same. Getting back together isn't an option. We kept in touch b... (144 words

She has gone off sex and I'm worried I'll lose her!

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13 October 2017 (M age - I have a girlfriend i am 66 years old and she is 46 years old we have been together 4 years but this last 6 months she has went off sex she says she do not care she has sex or not i am getting worried maybe she is seeing some... (185 words

How to tell him I don't want children?

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13 October 2017 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I have been together for two and a half years, he is 32 and I am 24. We are moving in together in a few months (into his house), but I am worried about out future- I don't want to have children. I have several reasons for the fact that I don't want kids- th... (260 words

I'm struggling with wanting more attention from him through texts!

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13 October 2017 (F age 26-29 - So I have posted about this previously, but I’m starting to get that feeling of neglect again.  I feel terrible as I know my bf is working very hard and I hate asking him for more attention.  The situation hit a breaking point a couple weeks ago, he said he would try ... (233 words

How do I handle this meeting with him after the news that he's trying to reconcile with his ex in Italy!

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12 October 2017 (F age 51-59 - I met an Italian guy recently. We talked on-line for a few weeks. Then he was in Italy for a month. We met when he came back. I was a little suspicious as to why such a long holiday in Italy as he has no children or parents. We met for the first time when he came back. H... (537 words

My mother in law is an egoist and evil woman!

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12 October 2017 (F age 26-29 - I hate my mother in law. She is an egoist and evil woman. She is a cynist and speak badly about me behind my back. She keep posing a sullen face whenever im around. She used to be nice woman several years ago. But since this recent year, she changed drastically. Unfortuna... (480 words

He has kept in touch, but I thought he only wanted sex.

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12 October 2017 (F age 26-29 - Hi there! So i went on a date a few months ago with a lovely giy who i knew from primary school who just happens to now have his own tv series. We went out for a drink, had a lovely time. Then the next week he drove 3 hours to see his father (who coincidently lives next to ... (251 words

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