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How do I respond to his confession that he's falling for me?

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18 January 2018, 11 minutes ago (F age 36-40 - My colleague and I have a very good relationship. He is someone very supportive and protective of me. A handsome and neat guy with high sense of morality. I am 4 months in the job and we have had a lot to talk about. We have a good rapport and understanding with each other.... (414 words

Should I ask him if he's ever had sex with her?

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18 January 2018, 13 minutes ago (F age 18-21 - Hi guys! Quick question.. I've been having a sexual relationship with a man for almost a year. We used to work together but we now both moved on to other jobs right after the first time we had sex. So here's the thing- Right before we had sex the first time, we wer... (444 words

Is he interested or just being casual?

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18 January 2018, 15 minutes ago (F age 41-50 - If a man has made it clear he really likes you, but is also aware you've had a very prolonged period of really awful stuff happening, none of which was your fault, would it make sense that he would show interest in meeting up with you socially - if you indicate you'd like to - ... (477 words

My girlfriend doesn't really communicate with me and I'm starting to doubt the viability of our relationship

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18 January 2018, 17 minutes ago (M age 26-29 - My girlfriend and I have been talking since August, made things official in November and things are plodding along just fine...I think. I've been trying to have conversations with her to get her to open up to me about things that happen in her life, you know, like normal ... (546 words

How can I stop thinking about my married coworker ?

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18 January 2018, 13 hours ago (F age 30-35 - How can I stop daydreaming about my married co-worker ( we are both in the medical field) and Work in close proximity. I believe we have a mutual attraction- I say this because conversation sometimes has steered to unprofessional chit chat ( we made a couple of sexual jokes) ... (400 words

My ex treated me badly, now I don't have the confidence to date again.

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17 January 2018, 13 hours ago (F age 26-29 - I don't think I'm still fully over what happened with my ex/ex friend and it still affects potential dating. It's been over a year now since I last saw him. We started out as friends, then it became more, but he wasn't treating me well so I ended it. After a while we got in ... (537 words

Apart from these issues my boyfriend is great.

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17 January 2018, 13 hours ago (F age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for four months now. We get along really well. He use to be a well known player in our town. The sex is alright. He likes it better than me. Hence the fact I've had better lovers. The two issues I'm having are this: first he calls me his whore, his ... (175 words

Why did he block me? Was it because I didn’t have sex with him?

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17 January 2018 (F age 18-21 - Hey guys.. I randomly met this guy last week and as soon as I saw him, I liked him. He seemed shy and I could tell he was into me but I knew he wouldn't ask me out, so I did. He took my number and he asked me to dinner on Saturday. Well he knew how excited I was because I ... (609 words

I’m feeling guilty for our breakup!

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17 January 2018 (F age 26-29 - First of I was married for 7 years I have two boys they r young 3 and 7. I divorced my husband can give a straight reason we just didn’t get along couldn’t work as a team. It was like we where against each other all the time. He was depressed and I was depressed. We divorced ... (157 words

Should I be open to casual sex to gain experience?

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17 January 2018 (M age 22-25 - I am a 25 yr old male with a problem in dating/sex I cant figure out. I am finishing medical school this year. I put in a lot of work/long hours to get where I am. I go to the gym try new hobbies etc. I was shy in high school,got better in college but not where I want ... (368 words

Should we split so that I can folllow my dream?

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17 January 2018 (F age 22-25 - I've been with my boyfriend for three years and we've been living with each other for 2.5 years. I feel as time is going by that I'm changing and he isn't (this is probably because he's 25 and I'm 22). I do absolutely love him and he's my best friend. Anyway, I real... (269 words

I don't feel confident to talk dirty

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17 January 2018 (F age 36-40 - How can I feel confident talking sexy with my ldr . He like porn that features lots of mistresses and assertive women and I just dont feel I have the confidence to pull that off. When he asks me to talk sexy I just freeze and can't help feeling very foolish k owing he is so ... (70 words

How can I find out her feelings for me?

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16 January 2018 (M age 26-29 - I have a female friend and have a crush on her from last three months. She is having a boyfriend and their marriage talks are going on. But its not confirmed as of now. While talking to her, it seems she is having interest in me.Maybe I am wrong, but she cares a lot.She didn't ... (147 words

I'm getting married soon so why am I thinking of this other guy?

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16 January 2018 (F age 30-35 - Hello, a few days ago i went to a family wedding with my fiancee. Everyone had a great time and got on well, it was brilliant! Only problem is, my cousin brought a friend with him who i now cant stop thinking about. We found we had a lot in common and he was so much fun! He ... (213 words

Do we ever stop dreaming about our ex boyfriends?

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16 January 2018 (F age 30-35 - Why can’t I stop having dreams of my ex boyfriend? It’s been two years since we broke up and with a good reason. Why can’t I just forget about him like I have with my other bfs? Is it because I dated him the longest? ... (45 words

How do I stop feeling jealous and insecure?

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16 January 2018 (M age 22-25 - Dear aunts, How do I stop feeling insecure and jealous? I have a girlfriend who is very friendly and extroverted, she has a lot of friends that are both male and female. We've been together for 3 months but known each other for about 2 years.I get very insecure when sh... (175 words

Why send me a video of his girlfriend?

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16 January 2018 (F age 30-35 - My to be ex husband sent me his intimate vdo of him with his girlfriend. After we have been talking about divorce for these past years. We have been lived in 2 different countries though. So he sent me that last week, saying I should know and he wanted to be honest with me. ... (108 words

Why am I still tempted by my ex that didn't treat me well when I have a great guy in my life?

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16 January 2018 (F age 26-29 - Hi, I have been broken up with my ex for 1.5 years now. While we are mostly "off" there have been a few instances where we talk, get caught up on our lives and sometimes hook up. We both know it's not going to work out but he'll say things like he's going to regret it one da... (339 words

Is my diet likely to work?

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15 January 2018 (F age 16-17 - Hey there folks. I am an unfit teen who is grossly over weight. I have heard about the apple a day thing. Does that work? I do excise Monday-Friday for about 40 mins. My mother has bad very bad eating habits, which I have grown up with and she'll continue eating that way. So I ... (86 words

Ending Long-term Relationship

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15 January 2018 (F age 22-25 - I currently live with my boyfriend of almost 4 years. We live 2 hours from our home town due to me being in college and us wanting to be closer to each other. We've lived in an apartment for almost 8 months, but since living together he plays games all the time along with being ... (163 words

My boyfriend doesn't like public displays of affection and it bothers me

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14 January 2018 (F age 36-40 - my boyfriend of year and a half just doesn't like public displays of affection and it bothers me. I am a very romantic woman and I like to cuddle, hold hands and kiss in public but he never does any and when I approach him he backs off. I cant understand this as romance is a ... (191 words

I’m still bothered by comments he made about celebrities and sex early on in our relationship!

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14 January 2018 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I have a boyfriend who is quite devoted and loving in most ways. He is actually a caring person but sometimes says insensitive things without realizing. He is well-intentioned but awkward with no filter. We have been dating for a while, but in the first few mont... (488 words

My girlfriend wants to do a boudoir photo shoot, help?

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14 January 2018 (M age 26-29 - First of all, this is the first time I'm posting stuff like this on the internet, so excuse whatever mistakes I make, but I have literally nobody else to give me a single different perspective on this matter. Here goes: I've been with this girl on and off for almost a yea... (766 words

I thought my luck had changed! Now what?

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14 January 2018 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I have just come out of relationship with a wonderful guy, i was never treated as good in my life before by any guy, he brought me everywhere, family functions and so on, he was always very affectionate towards me, forehead kisses which are very sweet and showed me a lot ... (362 words

I want marriage and children, is he wasting my time?

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14 January 2018 (F age 30-35 - So I’ve been dating my boyfriend for about five years we both have crazy work schedules so I suggested that we get a place together somewhere located centrally Between both of our apartments.In my mind it’s the perfect solution so we can spend more time together and save money ... (140 words

I just want some to love ... who will love me back!

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14 January 2018 (F age 30-35 - Hello aunts What does someone do when they can’t find love? I want to give a background ( been in two relationships) long term( both same type of guys) negligent - over powering - verbally absuive - and non emphatic . Learned my lesson that I need to wake up and not let men ... (309 words

Am I an evil step mother?

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14 January 2018 (F age - I am a stepmother who will be inheriting my husband Home instead of his adult child. I want responses on whether * am the evil stepmom everyone fears. Here is my story. My husband was a widower when we married,that was 14 years ago. His daughter rejected me from the ... (318 words

I’ve been the primary breadwinner for most of our relationship!

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13 January 2018 (F age 26-29 - I have been dating my partner for 2 years now. Before getting together I expressed to him that as a single parent with big goals I need someone motivated who will pull their weight and he said that was easy. At the time he was a manager at a local company making $20 an hour... (469 words

How can I help him with his terrible snoring?

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13 January 2018 (F age 22-25 - Dear Cupid. I need advice on how I can help my partner with his snoring! My partner and I have been together for just over three years. In the first year, year and a half my partner barely snored, we had a great bedtime routine. Fast forward now three years and I cri... (351 words

How do I convince my parents that I'm an adult? They have my entire college schedule mapped out and a GPS on my phone!

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13 January 2018 (F age 18-21 - I'm new in here and I've tried to help others and so far I hope I'm doing a good job. But now, I need some advice on how to convince my parents that I am an adult and deserve more privacy and freedom. I'm a college student and to be honest, I'm very lucky my parents LET m... (1438 words

We live with his parents they heard us fight and now I'm ashamed to see them

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13 January 2018 (F age 26-29 - Hi.. we are asian married couple living with my in laws. We married several months ago and been together for 5 years before. My husband isnt perfect, but he is the most approriate man for me. When we first marry we are so happy and he is protective with me. But he dislike t... (1198 words

I'm concerned that my boyfriend may expect the same kind of commitment from me that his ex wife gave to him

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13 January 2018 (F age 41-50 - My bf (he's 51 and I'm 43) has been divorced for almost two years now (separated for longer than that). He's on good terms with his ex and they coparent well their two children (15 and 18). We're taking things slow and he seems like a great guy. I would just like to hear wha... (608 words

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