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I know I was stupid for having sex with my ex! What do I do now?

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19 June 2018, 13 hours ago (F age 36-40 - I split up from my fiancé 7 weeks ago due to not making any time for me I’ve tried talking to him loads of times he just walked out on me whenever I tried talking to him so I ended the relationship I did feel better about it up until Sunday gone he turned up at mine wanting to ... (109 words

Should I say I was annoyed about the way he set up meeting his children?

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19 June 2018, 13 hours ago (F age 41-50 - Should i tell him I felt annoyed? My boyfriend of 5 mths recently invited me over to meet his children of 21 and 16. They were having a takeaway night so thought it would casual. We arranged a time and I went over. I knocked the door but got no reply. As he had always sa... (278 words

How can I stop obsessing over a taken man?

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19 June 2018 (F age 30-35 - Has anyone dealt with obsessive love and limerence? I have an issue with being obsessed with my crushes and making up scenarios and fairy tale endings in my head to the point where all I think about is the object of my obsession . To be frank I am in graduate school and I work ... (294 words

I'm struggling to trust my boyfriend

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18 June 2018 (F age 22-25 - I'm struggling with trusting my boyfriend of 2 years and I don't know what to do. I guess my reasons sound petty but things add up. When I met him he had been seeing this girl casually and they'd been sleeping together. Anyway things ended and we started seeing eachotehr. She ... (381 words

Why can't I orgasm normally?

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18 June 2018 (M age 30-35 - I know it is embarassing but I just lost my virginity at this old age. Problem is I can't achieve orgasm during vaginal intercourse. I don't have erectile disfunction and I ejaculate easily when masturbating using my hand. Could my problem be due to too much masturbating? I ... (275 words

My ex best friend is confusing me and I don’t know what to do!

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18 June 2018, 13 hours ago (M age 26-29 - Me and my best friend have been on a roller coaster ride this past year. It’s a long story so I’m going to try to keep my sentences to the point. We had a falling out almost 8 months ago. He didn’t say why he was mad and didn’t want to talk to me. We were super close and saw ... (938 words

My boyfriend doesn't say "I love you." What are your thoughts?

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18 June 2018 (F age 26-29 - Hello all. So my inquiry isn't as serious as most, but I'm curious as to what your thoughts are, aunts and uncles. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and a half. He is a very good man and while we have dealt with some small issues, we always just talk them out... (396 words

I don't want a boyfriend, I'm not interested in sex and I just want to be left alone!

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18 June 2018 (F age 26-29 - I have absolutely no interest in sex and while I've had it before, I'm honestly disgusted by it. The whole thing: having people in my bubble, having a face too close to mine, random unnecessary touches, kissing is just gross to me. I don't like the feel of it. I don't want ... (654 words

My boyfriend ignores me at times.

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18 June 2018 (F age 41-50 - im with my boyfriend for 5 years and he ignores me at time when he is in his facebook and takes awhile to answer me when im talking to him and i feel he takes advantage of my kinds and times i dont think he appreciate alot of things i do for him cause alot times i dont get a ... (94 words

I worry so much about my baby, I just need a balanced view.

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18 June 2018 (F age 26-29 - Hi All, I've posted a number of times before and you've always provided me with great advice. My child's dad and I split before he was born ( 16weeks pregnant). Our son was planned - tried for a year to conceive him..split after ten years, were engaged, he'd fell for s... (584 words

I'm worried he still has feelings for his ex.

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18 June 2018 (F age 18-21 - Is he really over his Ex? Me and my boyfriend have been together 2 years now and I thought we was both the happiest we could be. Last night he went to show me something on social media and his ex girlfriend was at the very top of his search bar I got upset and he said that... (282 words

None of my friends like him .... what can I do?

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18 June 2018 (F age 30-35 - I (33F) am looking for advice regarding my boyfriend(31M) of two years. None of my friends like him. In fact, they all basically refuse to spend time with him. The typical reasons for this would have to do with the guy being a cheater, abusive, controlling, etc - and ... (835 words

I'm waiting for a girl to come and sweep me off my feet.

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18 June 2018 (M age 22-25 - Please bare with me and sorry for the long post. Im in a bit of a slump the past year. Essentially I once again broke up with a girl I'm madly in love with because circumstances prevents us from being together, that being a long distance relationship with no short term plan ... (452 words

He said we were moving too fast, and that he had bigger plans.

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18 June 2018 (F age 22-25 - I met this guy about a month ago and everything was going great. We were so genuinely happy with each other, always laughing and having fun. I met his friends and family. It felt like we were moving towards a relationship. We would see each other 3-4 times a week. He even t... (618 words

We are growing apart and I don't know what to do about it.

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18 June 2018 (F age 22-25 - Hiya, Ok I am in desperate need of advice, I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for 4 years now and I love him so much however I am thinking of ending our relationship. He is 10 years old than I am (the age has never been an issue and how fami... (274 words

I'm talking all the time to my ex girlfriend who is crying about her life. What can I do?

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17 June 2018 (M age 18-21 - Well guys m confused how to think about something , i had a relationship with a girl for almost 5 years everything was great but we had to break up because she left the countery to study far away but we keept contact as good freind few months later she met someone and she was ... (180 words

He is blowing hot and cold, I don't know what to think.

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16 June 2018 (M age 22-25 - So a guy I work with initially showed some interest in me, which if you know me is quite rare. At first I was a little uncertain, he wasn't my usual type but we did make eachother laugh and it's been a while so I thought why not. We gradually got closer and closer until I r... (273 words

Who is the weird one, me or him?

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16 June 2018 (F age 18-21 - I have this guy friend that I’ve been knowing for almost a year now, we’ve been involved intimately at one point, pretty much on and off. We both have feelings for each other. We recently started conversing again and hung out. We’re both still single but pretty much exploring ... (311 words

I want a baby but time is running out fast!

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16 June 2018 (F age 41-50 - IM not sure what to do , Im a single woman and dont have time on my side children wise. I want to have a child before its too late. I have never met 'the one'and im starting to feel down because time is running out. With adoption it can take a long time my friends did it and it ... (197 words

How can my boyfriend love me when I think I can't keep up?

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16 June 2018 (M age 22-25 - My boyfriend has quite a bit of intelligence, and I find it to be quite an attractive trait. All the same, a lot of his discussions and debates go over my head. When I see him talking with others who can carry the conversation, he always seems so happy and engaging. I always ... (110 words

My friend is upset with me and I am not sure what to do to mend our relationship!

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15 June 2018 (F age 26-29 - Four months back one of my high school friend got married. We have been friends from last 12 years. She is a very nice lady but she was there for me in my hard times. we always had back of each other. She married her boyfriend even though she was not happy with him.So for one ... (713 words

How do I show him I’m interested in him?

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15 June 2018 (F age 26-29 - I really like my tattooist and I think he likes me too but I'm so crap at judging these things. He told me he broke up with his gf pretty much as soon as I saw him the other day. He asked what star sign I am how old I was. I think he's really cute and we have a lot in common ... (94 words

My boyfriend is on his phone but does not reply to my texts!

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15 June 2018 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend used to take the initiative to text me in the beginning of the relationship, but lately it has become such that he takes hours to reply to a simple text. I'm not a heavy texter myself. But I noticed that he checks Instagram frequently (the times when he was last... (270 words

Should I give both of us another chance? Or not bother?

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15 June 2018 (F age 26-29 - Hi everyone. I have this ex who i was with 2 years ago. We met and everything was great so much that we moved together in 3 months so we could be closer, he lived in another city. From that moment on he gradually changed and was becoming cold, arguing with me, wouldn't help ... (289 words

The death of my pet caused me to perform terribly at work!

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15 June 2018 (F age 22-25 - Hi everyone. This is a coworker relationship question. Nothing romantic. Just wasn't sure where to go to ask this as I like going here. I started this job about two months ago. It is a unique job. Without getting into too many details, I do a lot of accounting work / progr... (484 words

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