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Was my co worker trying to start an affair with me?

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24 May 2018, 4 hours ago (F age 26-29 - I'm friendly and cordial to this co worker who works in the same department with me,just like everyone else. He got my number from the office so he texts me outside work when he wants to exchange shifts.However,lately he has been been sending me random texts that were ... (346 words

I don’t always reach orgasm and he gets upset! Any suggestions so we are both happy and satisfied?

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24 May 2018, 11 hours ago (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have a great sex life, that is even if I have never had an orgasm from intercourse. I need oral or extra attention down there but there have been days when I just can’t orgasm, like just before periods etc.This has never bothered before, because I enjoy ... (166 words

He’s been giving porn more attention than me!

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24 May 2018, 14 hours ago (F age 26-29 - Hey. So me and my boyfriend have been going together for 6 yrs now. Our relationship is pretty good for the most part. However the past couple of months he's been giving porn more attention than me. It's made me a bit insecure, and I'm starting to feel like it's impossib... (138 words

Me vs his ex, is his behavior a red flag?

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23 May 2018, 14 hours ago (F age 30-35 - To keep it short, my bf was showing me some pictures of him, and when he was going through different albums I happen to see an album cover which had the picture of his ex wife,besides this picture they send text messages to each other/communicate on a regular basis (I really ... (365 words

I’ve got a crush on him and need help deciphering if he has a crush on me!

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23 May 2018, 14 hours ago (F age 13-15 - Hi I'm 14 years old (almost 15) and I've never had a boyfriend but a few links and crushes. A little while ago, I started finding one of my closest guy friends attractive, and it was really awkward for me because I've known him for so long. I was super confused and I've kinda ... (429 words

Sister didn't invite me to her birthday but instead asked me to watch her kids. Advise please.

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23 May 2018, 14 hours ago (F age 41-50 - Sister didn't invite me to her birthday but instead asked me to watch her kids. Advise please. So recently, i got a text from my sister asking me if i could mind her kids on a Saturday night for her birthday (which at the time was about 6 weeks away, now about 5 or so). ... (501 words

I’m completely confused about my feelings for him!

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23 May 2018, 14 hours ago (F age 22-25 - Hello.... i am in the midst of a total dilemma romantically which is being worsened by the fact that i have so little trust in my own feelings and judgement. I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months. He is very kind and lovely, treats me well, is there for me and all the other ... (328 words

Which is more important Love or Sex??

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23 May 2018 (F age 51-59 - I have been married for 40 years this year. It was only 10 years ago that I discovered my husbands porn stash, he promised me he would never do it again, I believed him, only the cycle continues, he tries to hide it , I find it, he tells me he does love me. We do not have a s... (296 words

My boyfriend is extremely shy, but can put on fake confidence which is starting to worry me

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23 May 2018 (F age 26-29 - I don't get my boyfriend lately. After being together for nearly 2 years, i feel that I don't really know who he is sometimes. When we first met until about a year, he was VERY insecure, very shy. The type that would hunch over while walking. And even now, when he's around my ... (362 words

My boyfriend's over-friendly encounter with his ex has me worried

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23 May 2018 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend and i have been together for over a month. He broke up with his ex in January not sure the reason why. I met him in February and by the third week of March we were a couple. Today while in the store with my boyfriend we saw his ex. So at first it seemed like he ... (382 words

We never have alone time. Is he taking me forgranted?

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23 May 2018 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months. He has two kids and so do I. I always find someone to watch my kids when he comes home. He works on the road. The problem is he never takes me out. He has family that can watch his kids. He never does. He never takes me to dinner or ... (95 words

Has anyone completely moved and drastically cut everyone off because I want to do just that

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23 May 2018 (F age 30-35 - Has anyone felt this way in their thirties? I love in a major city in the east coast (US) and I want to so desperately leave my job my family my everything behind - I almost want to disappear and go missing - a lot of things in my life have turned out a disappointment - my love ... (286 words

I'm constantly worried my boyfriend has/will cheat on me and I'm going insane thinking what on earth happened while he was on that cruise without me

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23 May 2018 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend went on a cruise ship with his (male) friends last week. I expected it to be hard. I was a bit moody during the first day he was there, but the remaining 6 days I felt fine about the fact that he was having fun. He kept in touch with me frequently, etc.... (932 words

Can a devout Catholic male can be friends with a transgender girl?

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22 May 2018 (M age 16-17 - I am wondering if it is possible that a devout Catholic male can be friends with a transgender girl (she was born a boy but transition to a girl)? I did not know she was transgender until after we got to know each other. I enjoy her company but I know nothing romantic ca... (108 words

I just learnt that my girlfriend was sexually abused by her stepfather and his friend but I can't seem to move past this information

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22 May 2018 (M age 26-29 - I’ve been dating this amazing girl for two years. We took our relationship very slow because we both had been in long term relationships that ended badly. Our relationship is close to perfect we’ve actually talked marriage recently. We were talking about things and she told me ... (264 words

I Like A Guy But He Seems like a "Bad Boy/Player" - I'm Turned Off?

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22 May 2018 (F age 22-25 - There's a hot guy on my course (economics) who is in some of my tutorial groups etc and he flirts with me quite a bit, looking me up and down, winking at me asking me if his belt buckle looks big etc. He has the SS haircut with lots of hair gel, wears lots of perfume, drives a ... (248 words

Why does this COO treat me in such a manner? Why not just fire me?

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22 May 2018 (F age 30-35 - I've recently decided to quit my job. I'm torn because I truly love my job... I just don't love the management team at my company. My direct boss, the COO of the company is a poor manager. Basically she micro manages and enjoys putting me down. Here are a few examples : 1. To... (366 words

Will our views on careers cause problems down the road?

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22 May 2018 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 4 years and I have a huge disconnect regarding our careers. He wants a short term job with a lot of flexibility.. basically it means no benefits, pay as you work, no pay when you don't work kind of job. I want stability, good medical benefits coverage, and a ... (275 words

I don't want to lead her on, but I don't want to flat out reject her as I don't want to hurt her that way either

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22 May 2018 (M age 22-25 - Dear all I need some advice. I met a girl online several months ago, as a language exchange. That was all I was looking for and her too i believe. We get along great and have learned a lot together. Our personalities are very similar, lots of similar interests. S... (609 words

I’m a first time dater and find myself stressing about the romantic/ affectionate part of it!

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22 May 2018 (F age 22-25 - Does anyone have tips for letting yourself be more romantic/affectionate with someone when it's totally outside of your comfort zone? Been seeing someone for a couple weeks now (first time ever dating) and can tell he wants more from me physically as he's been finding obv... (190 words

How do I support my husband in his business stress?

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21 May 2018 (F age 30-35 - Hi all Im wondering how i can support my husband in his stress. He runs two businesses that could be successful but due to outside factors, things arent going well. He literally cannot catch a break. He most recently said: "if i have to deal with any more pressure i think i ... (139 words

Recently there is a lack of trust from both sides!

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21 May 2018 (F age 18-21 - I'm in a relationship and have been with the boy for 6 months. We had a very good start to our relationship other than a few anger issues he had where he would get too angry too easily. Beside this it was pretty much perfect. Recently he found out that I was talking to two ... (418 words

My youngest children have fallen out with my oldest child!

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21 May 2018 (F age 51-59 - I have 3 children who are now young adults and 2 of them have fallen out with their eldest sibling. I have tried for almost a year now to get them to talk and they’re all willing to talk to each other as long as the other party says sorry first. None of them will do that as ... (245 words

How can I adapt better to what my career will be? How can I make this better for myself?

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21 May 2018 (F age 26-29 - Not a relationship question more of a general life question and how to cope with the working routine. I’m 29 years old, graduated college with a BS in the Health Sciences and have been working in my field for about 8 months now. I love my job and the work itself, although... (348 words

Why am I having dreams about his ex?

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20 May 2018 (F age 22-25 - I had a dream of a bull chasing me to the edge of a river and when it was about to hit me I close my eyes and on opening I am at my boyfriends house and her ex is seated on the chair. So I ignore and go straight to the bedroom to drop my bag then I find hers hanged where I put ... (118 words

Anxiety and fear when alone

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20 May 2018 (F age 30-35 - Hi there. I am going to be staying alone because my fiance is going away for work for 3 nights. I have anxiety and fear being sick (it is something i have had my whole life). This fear is intensified when i am alone. It is probably worse because I live outside of the city and ... (95 words

He's addicted to sex sites and internet dating. I want my old man back!

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20 May 2018 (F age 51-59 - My live in man of 20 yes he is addictied to internet dating and sex sites.his treatment of me in last couple months he says not doing anything but he is I am a worthless I have tried everything just to get him to come bed with me he say ok then never stop talking to other woman ... (75 words

I've only had sex once, have a long distance g/f I'll never meet and I want experience

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20 May 2018 (M age 26-29 - I am 27. I have never had a phyiscal girlfriend. I had sex once at 24. I have no friends to speak of. All I have is a long distance "girlfriend" i met a few years ago. She lives in another country, and that along with money means that we will never realistically be... (345 words

Our sex life is non existent

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19 May 2018 (M age 30-35 - Me and my gf sex life is non existent. Sometimes I look forward to it and it can be over so soon. No foreplay happens, she doesn’t let me go anywhere near her for foreplay. She used to be really wild, and now it’s gone to nothing. I’m still up for it but she isn’t. I can’t ... (117 words

I don’t feel a spark with her but I still had sex with her!

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19 May 2018 (M age 18-21 - Me and this girl broke up a while ago, after about a month she came over to play some video games and chat. It was getting real late and she was getting tired so I offered her to stay the night. During that we began cuddling and making out and it led to sex. This girl is s... (128 words

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