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My older brother gets on my nerves!

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18 August 2018 (F age 22-25 - I am the middle child. Both are boys. One elder and one older brother.I often feel that I DO NOT have an elder brother as we didn't talk to each other. Idk why seeing him sometimes just getting on my nerves as he have no responsibility at home and what he do was just play ... (254 words

He has a gambling problem and sneaks around. I’m pregnant and wondering if I should just leave him now?

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18 August 2018 (F age 26-29 - My husband and i are newly married for a year. I just know that he has a very bad personality and character. He lied a lot before since i know him but i brushed it off just because i love him. Now we are married i just know that he has gambling problem. He has huge debt an... (915 words

I always find some flaw in men, am I a full-blown lesbian?

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18 August 2018 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I am 32 and reevaluating my life. I have noticed a pattern of freaking out from liking the same sex. I must admit that I think I'm definitely into the same sex because I am attracted to them physically. I haven't yet gone on a date and don't know how to be emotional wit... (417 words

He keeps asking for nude pictures!

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17 August 2018 (F age 22-25 - Hi everyone. I'm in a 2yrs long distance relationship with this guy never met him, although the time I would have met him wasn't convenient because of my exams and he traveled back bcos of work. we chat everyday, he tells me he loves me n can't wait to see me, can't wait to ... (140 words

I am neglected and forgotten by family and friends! How do I accept this?

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17 August 2018 (F age 22-25 - I've had a very difficult childhood, i suffered from physical and emotional abuse by my dad, I've been bullied, people always made fun of me and the way i am by calling me a weirdo (because i was doing art that represented my feelings). I've lost many people in my life ... (515 words

Should I continue to try this relationship or end it early? She's great but I find myself wanting more

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17 August 2018 (M age 30-35 - I'm a 36 year old working professional and have been with my girlfriend for a little over a year, she's 24 and had just graduated college and recently gotten a job (a decent one too). Like any relationships, at the beginning it was all sweet heaven, the age difference didn'... (595 words

Would it be weird to message him on Facebook?

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17 August 2018 (F age 30-35 - Hi all I would be grateful if you could offer me some advice about a guy that I like. I like this guy called Tom and he knows my cousin. I’m not sure if I should approach him. You see I don't want to tell my cousin that I like Tom as my cousin (male) might feel awkward... (316 words

How does someone go about meeting other bi-curious people?

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17 August 2018 (F age 41-50 - I am a 40 something woman who is interested in exploring my bi-curiosity. I have had a couple drunken make outs with girlfriends when I was in my twenties but no other experiences to speak of. I am divorced and dating a man but my desire to have a same-sex experience just seems ... (99 words

Why didn’t we hook up?

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17 August 2018 (F age 26-29 - I met a really cute guy online a month ago. He lives far away but has family here so he comes up about twice a month. He asked for my number and we were texting back and fourth while he was here. He said that he wasn't looking for anything serious because he just broke up with ... (192 words

Am I having these doubts because the honeymoon phase is over and we've been together for 8 years? Or am I with the wrong person?

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16 August 2018 (F age 22-25 - I am really struggling with myself at the moment. I don't know whether my doubts are justified or if I'm just having some sort of quarter life crisis. I have been going out with my boyfriend for 8 years now (since we were 16 and at school!) and many of our friends are gett... (505 words

Sometimes people don’t understand my sense of humour!

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16 August 2018 (F age 18-21 - i hope I don't sound big headed but I feel as though I am quite a funny person which is one of the things I like about myself and makes me feel slightly more confident , I always seem to make someone laugh , when im in a group of people im normally the one that is the funniest ... (295 words

Any chance he likes me despite having a girlfriend?

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16 August 2018 (F age 26-29 - Hi, I was involved with this guy, we were something like friends with benefits..but i fell in love with him..then he decide to change a job and left the country, which i was very sad about, but i couldn't do anything about it.. During the next half year, we were texting/sex... (298 words

She likes slaps and I like kisses. We have a baby girl but I don’t see how this will work!

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16 August 2018 (M age 26-29 - More than a year ago, I started dating a girl who I was exactly smitten by but wanted to see how things would progress. I was introduced to her via a friend so I really wanted to see where things would go. During the first few weeks, we got on somewhat well, but i wasn't too ... (1013 words

Five years online relationship ... maybe I should just give up!

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16 August 2018 (F age 41-50 - I never knew I would find my "Soulmate", "The Love of My Life", on one of these dating websites but I did. The connection we have together is so exciting and real. The bond we share is like no other. I've never felt felt this way about another person. We connect so well on ... (244 words

My husband lies and the trust is gone.

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16 August 2018 (F age 51-59 - I just recently found out that my husband has been in touch with an old girlfriend .. email.. and had sent her $200 for her birthday and $400 last Christmas .. and he refuses to put my name on his bank account... I saw all of this on his email .. I’m ready to divorce him ... (68 words

How long after hooking up do I wait before texting him?

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15 August 2018 (F age 26-29 - I went out with a guy I've known for a while but we started talking differently recently so last night we hooked up and one thing led to another. He said he would be busy this week with work and he suggested we maybe hook up on Sunday. So how long do I wait for a text before I ... (88 words

Why is my ex reaching out again?

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15 August 2018 (F age 26-29 - My ex boyfriend and I dated in school only for a month when he suddenly broke it off. I was really hurt because I have deep feelings for him and we talked about our future a lot even though it was short lived. He ended up apologizing for his behavior about six months later. I ... (161 words

My body turned him off ... he preferred to watch porn.

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15 August 2018 (F age 36-40 - I split up with my boyfriend of 10 years a few months ago and he's really effected my self esteem. He said quite hurtful things about my body, I'm just looking for some opinions from guys about what kind of imperfections would really put you off. I have great legs and a... (288 words

How do I tell my date that I’m bisexual?

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15 August 2018 (F age 18-21 - I’m a bisexual woman and I need advice on coming out to a guy I’ve been dating for a couple of weeks. I’d like to know if any other bisexual people have advice on how to do it, and how straight people would feel if a date came out to them as bisexual. My previous (and on... (282 words

I'm already cheating on my new boyfriend with an old FWB. How do I stop?

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15 August 2018 (F age 22-25 - Hey everyone. I'm about to admit to something bad so please don't be too harsh with me here. I have recently got into a new relationship with a man my age. We have been together for just over a month and were dating for about a month before that. I will readily admit that I g... (254 words

I’m worried about how I’ll be able to handle things at my new job!

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15 August 2018 (F age 18-21 - I have a trial for a job at a café/restaurant next week and i'm unsure of whether to do it as ive been asked to hand out menu's to customers and I no this is just something im really bad at talking to people and how do I even say so to someone oh look here's the menu to this ... (197 words

Am I just in love with the idea of being loved?

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15 August 2018 (M age 26-29 - Has anyOdy else experience what I am experiencing now? Although She is an attractive woman I have never had any feelings for her in the past. By accident I found out that she finds me physically attractive. I never realised that fancied my type. Now I can't stop thinking ab... (88 words

How do I not get too attached to the new guy I'm seeing?

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15 August 2018 (F age 26-29 - How do I not get too attached to the new guy I'm seeing? We like all the same things to a spooky degree and we have a lot of chemistry. The only thing is his ex might be pregnant and she won't go to the drs because she is religious. Which I don't understand. So she's been ... (140 words

Any advice please I’m pregnant and I feel like he doesn’t care

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15 August 2018 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend stemmed to be happy that I was pregnant until I pushed him away and deleted my Facebook and Instagram for a break. He hurt me I had enough I deleted social media so he doesn’t know how I am since we are long distance. He literally knew he messed up he cheated and I ... (309 words

I want to meet and talk not be his hook up

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14 August 2018 (F age 30-35 - I’ve known this guy for nearly two years, we originally met on a night out and we were instantly attracted to each other, however he soon got a girlfriend and we barely stayed in touch and only bumped into each other a few times, the problem is that whenever we did talk or see ... (173 words

My parents are so overprotective that its affecting my dating

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14 August 2018 (F age 18-21 - Hi there, I hope I don't get judged by what I'm about to say. I'm not sure how to feel about this but what I do currently feel is like a mixture of being a little angry and annoyed. I'll try to keep it short. So just before my boyfriend was due to fly off the States to contin... (665 words

Is it normal to have an orgasm this way?

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14 August 2018 (F age 18-21 - Hey Guys, I'm a virgin. I was wondering if it's normal to have an orgasm just by playing with my nipples... cuz i have a very quick orgasm within just 3 minutes of teasing the nips.I don't even have to stimulate the clit; the work get's done with the nips alone. Is that n... (60 words

We live far apart so why did he tell me not to share things hes told me with anyone?

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14 August 2018 (F age 22-25 - I've been talking to a guy online for a while now and we get on really well but he lives far away so we are just having fun. He said to me today - if at some point we have to stop talking please don't share some personal things he's shared with me. Since we live so far apart. ... (71 words

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