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I lost my job living at home and really struggling

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20 September 2018, 5 hours ago (M age 26-29 - Hey guys, I really don’t know what to do here. I’m 28, have been in successful career, slowly building up money for house, still living with parents. Recently I lost my job and it has been a month since I have worked. I am living with parents and it is really affectin... (337 words

I need to talk about what I am feeling but cant burden my family or people at work

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20 September 2018, 5 hours ago (F age 22-25 - Hi, I have a dilemma and I’m starting to feel desperate I’m afraid this may be very long winded :/ but if I don’t tell someone out there how I’m feeling I will implode. First of all I should say that I have been suffering from ptsd for the last year or so after a very abusive ... (765 words

How do I get the spark back it feels like we have grown apart

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20 September 2018, 5 hours ago (F age 26-29 - I've been with my partner for 4 years nearly and I loved him dearly. he's a good man I get on well with all his friends and family but we went through a difficult stage for a few months recently we were arguing and it just seemed like he disagreed with everything I said just to ... (222 words

Will he come back to his senses .... and me?

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20 September 2018, 14 hours ago (F age 22-25 - Hi So my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. Last year he lost his job and things were not great the fact that he never used to save or invested.I was there for him and supported him in any way I could.Last week he called Me asking how people make money and get ... (197 words

How do I stop self sabotaging.my relationships?

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19 September 2018, 14 hours ago (F age 18-21 - Every time I get in a relationship I seem to always panic that I am annoying them or I over think things to must making up problems that aren't there making the situation 10x worse than what it is already. What can I do to try and stop this from happening?... (51 words

My fiance is a virgin but I've slept with 6 people and had an abortion. Do I need to tell him all this?

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19 September 2018 (F age 22-25 - Hi, I am engaged to a wonderful guy from the last 5 months, we are going to get married this December 2018,I came to know by investigation and inspection and his views and thoughts and actions, that he is a virgin and he is against premarital sex and this upsets me to the most, ... (149 words

My wife wants to use a sperm donor to ensure that our third child isn't autistic but I’m not sure how I feel about this.

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18 September 2018 (M age 36-40 - My wife (34f) and I (36m) have been married for just over six years and in many ways have an ideal marriage and are very much still in love. Despite two kids, we still have sex 2 - 3 times per week. We still find time for getaways nearby beaches, hiking in the redwood forests, ... (509 words

Is he fobbing me off, I thought we had a good thing going.

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18 September 2018, 14 hours ago (F age 30-35 - I started seeing a guy a month ago. He’s 12 months separated from his wife with two young children. Our relationship seemed really promising but then he went a bit cold. He says his ex wife is being really challenging. She calls him up out of the blue and tells him he has to ... (212 words

I'm happy with the way things are, but she is talking marriage and babies

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18 September 2018, 14 hours ago (M age 26-29 - I have been dating a girl for 7 months now, due to my working hours and her studying at college, we only see each other 2-3 times a week. I am happy with the relationship the way it is because I like my space and time to myself, however she is beginning to talk about having ... (78 words

My crush is distracting me at work! How do I keep my focus?

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18 September 2018 (M age 26-29 - Hi people, really like a girl at work and it's driving me crazy, need to take my mind off her but every time I get her off my mind she appears and I have her on my mind again. I can't lose this job but I am starting to lose the plot! Any advice would be greatly apprecia... (59 words

How to make a recovering alcoholic comfortable at a family holiday event?

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18 September 2018 (F age 36-40 - My brother-in-law is a recovered alcoholic. The last time he drank was 11 years ago, when he got so drunk that he is surprised he did not die from alcoholic poisoning (he had to buy a new bad because he woke up with everything covered in vomit). Two days later, he met his ... (306 words

Move on or try to resolve between us?

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17 September 2018 (F age 22-25 - Hey everyone, I've posted a while back about how to move on from my ex etc but wanting a bit advice on an update really. Long story short, me and my partner split up about 4/5 months ago now. We lived together for the majority of our relationship. Moving in so quick made us... (927 words

Do I just forget about it since my partner hasn’t technically said anything wrong to her?

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17 September 2018 (F age 26-29 - I’m not sure if I’m overreacting or not (as I do tend to) but my partner has a work and personal phone. The other month I had to use his work phone to get a contact and I came across messages over a few days to his female colleague. It was general work chat but she was over ... (287 words

How to move on from your old crush?

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17 September 2018 (M age 18-21 - So, three years ago, i.e. 2015, I had a huge crush on a girl and she had a crush on me too. But unfortunately we couldn’t make it work. Mostly it was my fault, i guess i kept pushing her away because i wasn’t ready (i was 17). Then she moved abroad for college and i wa... (198 words

Is he fully really over me when it’s only been a month?

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17 September 2018 (F age 18-21 - Me and my ex were together for 1 year and a bit. It was good for the majority of the time but recently he started acting up. About a few months ago he wasn’t giving me the effort I deserved and only recently he broke it off with me about a month ago. He was saying how he wo... (126 words

She owes me money but is adamant she transferred the money!

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17 September 2018 (M age 26-29 - Hello This is not so much a dating question or anything, but I have used this website before for advice and found it helpful. A girl I have been on and off chatting to asked me if she could borrow £1000 to repair her damaged car. I agreed under the basis she was going th... (218 words

How can I get better at finding the one?

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17 September 2018 (F age 30-35 - I wanted to get some advice since my love life is a mess ( or lack of). I have been single for a year and a half and I have tried a lot of things to find the “one” but nothing - I can’t seem to connect with men and the ones I do connect with or find sexually appealing are ... (298 words

Why is he acting this way about my airplane ticket?

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17 September 2018 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. A couple of months ago he asked me to attend his mother's birthday dinner (big family gathering at a restaurant) this upcoming weekend. I declined because I couldn't take time off from work. But I got laid off from my job ... (422 words

Do you think she doesn’t want to see me?

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17 September 2018 (M age 22-25 - do you think she doesnt wanna see me? so this all happend last year when i was at work and i went out to the lobby and i saw the girl i used to liked back in high school sitting at the table with her boyfriend i guess she was waiting for her food at the table because i saw her ... (211 words

I want a second child and my husband does not! It’s really becoming a problem for me! Advice?

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16 September 2018 (F age 36-40 - My husband and I are at a complete impasse. We have a 3yr old son who is amazing and I feel truly blessed to be his mommy, but I yearn for a 2nd baby! I have felt this way for over a year. And anytime I speak to my husband about it he is very certain he does not. This tears ... (377 words

I feel my mother-in-law is inserting herself into my marriage!

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16 September 2018 (F age 30-35 - I love my husband very much, and I love my mom in law too, she's always there for us when we need her but she's also starting to annoy me. She doesn't seem to have boundaries. Btw, she is single. When she first started making me uncomfortable was a few months after our weddin... (542 words

Am I being paranoid about my girlfriend’s interactions at work with this guy?

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16 September 2018 (M age 30-35 - I work at a restaurant with my girlfriend. We just got into a big fight which was my fault. So we’ve barley spoken for a few days. I come into work and i notice my gf getting her shirt sleeves rolled up by a guy coworker. Then i see she’s playing with him by scaring him ... (229 words

I’m pregnant by a boyfriend using me for a green card! Advice needed!

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16 September 2018 (F age 22-25 - Hi there I am pregnant 9 weeks I’ve been dating this honderan man for almost two years. My boyfriend has been distant because he wants to get married but it’s to get his green card. He loves me but i am catholic and I want a church ceremony I’m not asking for a party just a ... (326 words

I am panicked about delivering the eulogy at my dad's funeral service.

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16 September 2018 (F age 41-50 - I am giving a eulogy for my dad who passed away on Sept. 11. I am his first born and it is family tradition that the first born delivers the eulogy. I am panicked and afraid I will break down. So many people are relying on me. So, I also feel pressure. I am trying to write it ... (82 words

Should I tell my partner about this encounter I had?

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15 September 2018 (F age 30-35 - Hi I’m not proud of what I’m about to write I feel very ashamed I’ve been with my partner for 5 years I went out had a lot to drink and ended up going back to a mans place we had oral but not penetrative sex i think I done it as I’ve been unhappy in our relationship for a while ... (114 words

Why do I attract older women?

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15 September 2018 (M age 26-29 - A bit about myself. I consider myself somewhat of a dork. Not good at sports. Tall but not confident. Naturally skinny. I was never good at dating, girls liked to chat with me but I end up friend zoning them. I always thought this was due to my androgynous look so I strived to ... (1103 words

My boyfriend spends more time with my dog

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15 September 2018 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. We do live together and for the most part it’s great but, lately he hasn’t really been affectionate. I have 4 dogs but my one female he is particularly close too. Well anyway my problem is that when we are spending... (210 words

Would it be ok to ask my mum to buy me a vibrator?

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15 September 2018 (F age 16-17 - I'm 17 and have the money to buy a vibrator, but I have no way of actually getting one by myself. I don't have any friends old enough to take me some where that will sell them to people under 18, and I don't have a credit/debit card so I can't buy one online by myself. My mom... (159 words

How do I get over this anger toward my ex?

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15 September 2018 (F age 26-29 - It's been over 3 months since me and my ex broke up. Tonight a mutual friend said he has been really low for a few weeks and that could I talk to him. I had blocked him on everything and although I felt okay, I wasn't sure it was a good idea.... I decided to unblock him and ... (251 words

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