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Lost my virginity to a man I don't know or like very much

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20 November 2017, 16 minutes ago (F age 18-21 - How do I cope? I recently lost my virginity to a guy I barely knew and i regret it so much.i don't feel innocent anymore. And the worst part of it is i lost to the wrong guy,i always assumed i would lose it to someone i loved so much and it would be beautiful but it didn't ... (95 words

I've never cheated but my husband is accusing me off it because he says I am "loose"

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20 November 2017, 17 minutes ago (F age 22-25 - am a young woman of 25yrs I have two children all through c section,av never slept with any other man for the past six years.my spouse is accusing me of cheating because my vagaina is loose he had started an affair outside..am shattered what can be the cause and how to I treat ... (56 words

I have been having an affair with a woman for 7 years and I am content. Is this strange?

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20 November 2017, 17 minutes ago (M age 41-50 - I have been the male equivalent of a mistress for the past 7 years. Is it strange that I don't mind? I havent dated or even tried to date because I am just fine with having her a few times a month. I am 42 years old and never been married, but I don't know why I am happy and ... (89 words

I am getting weird vibes from my girlfriend in regards to her friend but I don't want to tell her to stop talking to her friend

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19 November 2017, 18 minutes ago (F age 22-25 - So my girlfriend had this mate that they've meet on tinder. She calls my girlfriend everyday and texts her. Practically any social media she can contact my gf. Just a couple of days ago my gf said that they've kissed. I've meet the friend and all I got was this weird vibe from ... (71 words

Triangle friendship double cross!

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19 November 2017, 19 minutes ago (F age 26-29 - Ive been friends with my friend (Samantha) for 5 years and its really had its ups and downs throughout the years but things started to get worse, the competitiveness, the jealousy etc. We love each other very much but there is a lot negativity and contempt towards each other. ... (283 words

Was it inappropriate for my wife to wear the revealing dress just to get back at me?

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19 November 2017, 6 hours ago (M age 41-50 - A short time ago me and my wife had an argument just before we were going out to meet friends for some dinner and drinks. She wasn't quite ready, so she said she would meet up with us later. So I went and met with our friends. She came in about a half hour later in a very, ... (128 words

My world has come crashing down because my wife just told me that the daughter we've been raising is not mine but from her affair after the marriage!

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19 November 2017, 6 hours ago (M age 30-35 - My wife and i have been married for 3 years, 6 months ago she told me something that rocked my core. the daughter i have been raising is not mine. she had an affair 2 years ago. the reason she cheated was that she was a virgin when we got married and she wanted to feel how ... (203 words

I sent him a nude, I hope he hasn't lost respect for me.

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19 November 2017 (F age 26-29 - I posted a while ago saying i had a met a man with quite an usual job- he's a travel author (fairly successful). He is 35 years old, is in the public eye quite a lot and has a lot of female attention. I went on 2 dates with him back in june but then i moved away and got back ... (279 words

The guy I've liked from afar is being a little wierd

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19 November 2017 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I need some advice, I haven't dated in ages, I am 43, just went through a rough patch with major losses, illness etc, now better but I am still fragile. Anyway, since last year I meet maybe every 2/3 months this guy through work, older (I usually don't like older guys) but ... (342 words

Am I reasonable to choose money over potential happiness?

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19 November 2017 (F age 22-25 - Dear aunts, I am in a fix as I type this. I made a first attempt at online dating about 7 months ago and the only guy I really had an interest in, we hit it off. It was rocky at first but we are amazing now and not a day goes by without us chatting for hours and calling. We've ... (842 words

Sick of being ignored, what do I have to do?

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19 November 2017 (F age 36-40 - I think I give off a “don’t be my friend” vibe, though I say hi and am polite? All my life people have avoided me, socially and socially at work and in group or social events, like I have A flashing sign “avoid her” I was bullied and socially awkward as kid/teen, am... (224 words

We still sext even though he has a girlfriend, how do I move on?

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18 November 2017 (F age 18-21 - For the past two years ive been sort of sexting/sending the odd nude to this guy. Recently though he's gotten into a relationship, however we have still continued sexting etc. We've never slept together its strictly 'cyber'. A few weeks ago (I don't know why I did it) after ... (241 words

My confidence is wrecked, I regret telling people the truth about my ex boyfriend.

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18 November 2017 (F age 30-35 - I just want to vent about a situation that still bothers me. Basically I had a 6 month relationship with a guy I worked with. He was the first person I'd been with after my marriage broke up. I guess because I was vulnerable and feeling really crap about myself I instantly fell ... (935 words

I'm disappointed he saw a new movie with his brother instead of me

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18 November 2017 (F age 26-29 - So my bf had a family funeral to attend this weekend. It is out of town far away. After the funeral he was bored so decided to go to see a movie that we planned to go see next week together. All he texted me was 'I think I am going to go see the movie with my brother'. He ... (382 words

Why does this person not stop harrassing me?

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18 November 2017 (F age 30-35 - Why would someone who you have told them no and they know you don't want to do the unreasonable request they asked you keep pressuring you and pressuring you to try and do what they want. You have even blocked their calls and they still phone you off a different number. ... (114 words

We had plans, should I keep him as a friend?

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18 November 2017 (F age 22-25 - I have been friends with this guy for a year now and we have recently gotten pretty close. se seemed like a really easy going person and cool guy to hang out with. He really opens up about his life and we have many deep conversations. Well this past Tuesday, he asked me to come ... (347 words

How do I make myself more attractive now that I'm out?

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18 November 2017 (M age 26-29 - I’ve just accepted that I’m gay, I’ve told friends but not told family yet. There was this one guy I really fancied and I told him I liked him but his got a boyfriend his 32 his bf 22 (will that even work?) Anyway after exploring the gay world... I’ve become really insecure.... (147 words

How do I tell him his breath smells?

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18 November 2017 (F age 22-25 - I am seeing the most amazing person I have ever met, but I have a problem. His breath always smells and I have no idea how to bring this sensitive subject up without hurting his feelings. I did not notice it at first, but recently I have become very aware that his breath alway... (167 words

Would this relationship be wrong?

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17 November 2017 (F age 18-21 - I've already asked this question but I didn't outback detail in to it so I'm gonna try again! Is it wrong for me to be falling in love with my soon to be step uncle ? I've recently turned 18 and he's recently turned 21. My uncle is marrying his sister in December ... (279 words

Is this the right person to hang out with?

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17 November 2017 (F age 30-35 - Should I go back to hanging out with this friends - I had a friend that stopped talking to me because I called her out on her actions. One of my colleagues and I started having out and became friends - it’s a new friendship and within three months I found out that she had ... (355 words

My boyfriend doesn't last long in bed, wha can I do to help?

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17 November 2017 (F age 22-25 - I’ve been with my boyfriend only a few months, been best friends for a few years.. we have had talks before and hes pretty open about this issues with me only... He can’t last very long while having sex, my question is what are some options to help him last longer? I don’t wa... (79 words

Where do you go to meet momen?

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17 November 2017 (M age 30-35 - I still don't get where a guy is supposed to try and meet single women. Why is it so hard at my age? Everyone says that gym is a bad idea.. the bar is a bad idea, workplace is off limits, etc. You can't approach a woman at the park because you will get accused of harassment. ... (97 words

How can I learn my value?

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17 November 2017 (F age 30-35 - How Can I learn my value? I am insecure and I have let people walk over me - use me- and leave me - friends and lovers . I have worked on the outside (lost the weight - got the degrees - got a better corporate job) but I still fear saying no- I always seek validation and I ... (244 words

How to overcome the guilt of dating my friend's ex

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17 November 2017 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupids I met this wonderful man. We have been dating for less than two months but our relationship is moving quite fast. It feels so right and ever-since we dated we have not spent a day without talking to each other. He calls and we meet once a week and spend weekends t... (683 words

Mr Nice Guy is perfect for me but why do I feel something is missing?

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17 November 2017 (F age 26-29 - I have a history of dating unavailable, cheating, lying, game playing men. In fact when I look back I've only ever had one healthy relationship that I ended up pushing away with my own actions. This guy is amazing! I am insanely attracted to him, the sex is amazing, he is l... (279 words

How important to you is respect for and trust of your manager?

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17 November 2017 (F age 51-59 - A work based question for those of you with years of experience of the workplace. How important to you is respect for and trust of your line manager? I ask because I am in a job I don't want to quit (for a number of reasons) BUT I have always found it difficult to wor... (579 words

How to deal with a more sexually experienced partner?

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17 November 2017 (M age 26-29 - I'm a male virgin who's never kissed a girl or been on a date. I'm not particularly handsome either and I am obese. I will be visiting an escort in a few weeks to lose my virginity. Finally I'll get to feel what intimacy is like. However I've been thinking about what happe... (113 words

Should I leave a little heart in his desk?

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17 November 2017 (F age 30-35 - Is it ok to leave a little heart in his desk? Just want to know some opinions. There's this guy at work that I like and I'm sure he likes me too. But I think it was my mistake by not showing interest in him and I think he has distanced a little. I really like him but I ... (82 words

Is it too much to hope that things might work out with my ex?

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16 November 2017 (F age 18-21 - My ex text me after a week. After breaking up, briefly getting back together, then breaking up again, my ex text me asking how I was. We'd been having difficulties for a while because I just felt that my bf wasn't giving me any of his time. He was out partying a couple of time... (319 words

Does this guy who works with the man I'm sleeping with like me?

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16 November 2017 (F age 18-21 - Hello, I'm going to make this question as quick as possible haha! About 8 months ago, I got involved with my boss. He has just quit the company the day we slept together, so technically he wasn't my boss anymore that night, but you get the picture. Anyway, he went ... (559 words

What is he doing? His last text said he still wants me but that was November third!

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16 November 2017 (F age 30-35 - hi i am seeing a man, don't what sort of relationship it is but hes not text me in 2 weeks and not seen me in 2 months now, i did text him 2 weeks ago asking whats going on my text to him was " how are you ive not heard off you in weeks how can you say you care if you don'... (184 words

My boyfriend has hooked up with his best friend?

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16 November 2017 (F age 26-29 - I've been dating this guy, and we are crazy about each other. The only thing I'm a little uncomfortable with is the fact that his best friend is someone he's had strong feelings for and hooked up with in the past. plot twist: she is a lesbian. I guess at the time she must have ... (149 words

What did you do when you found your partner was watching porn and not having sex with you?

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16 November 2017 (F age 30-35 - Hiya I've been with my fiance for 4 years we have a 2 year old daughter together last weekend I caught him watching porn on his phone it wouldn't have bothered me so much but the last few months our sex life has been once a month so I was hurt when I saw that we have had trust ... (90 words

Gossip mongers got me going

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16 November 2017 (F age 30-35 - How do u act around people that gossip? I recently started a job and I noticed that two of my coworkers are partaking in chit chat - one of them first asked for my social media accounts right away (I only knew him for a month) and he wanted to add me on everything - then I ... (295 words

Help me find my way out of these abusive traps

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16 November 2017 (F age 41-50 - I am in a 16-year-relationship that became sexless and violent, abusive. I was thrown out the house in middle of night. I left and he wants me back. While away I met another man who I fell in love with and been seeing for a year this man seems quite controlling and demands sex ... (78 words

Could this relationship be wrong?

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16 November 2017 (F age 18-21 - I am falling in love with my soon to be step uncle and I don't know what to do. Do I end things now before it gets out of hand or do we carry on being like we are and tell people about us ? Is it forbidden to date him ??... (52 words

What can I do to make her pull her weight at home?

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16 November 2017 (M age 22-25 - We have been married for over 5 years. I do the cooking, cleaning, shopping, house repairs, car repairs, take care of the animals, etc. Meanwhile my wife comes home, gets on her social media, and messes up the house. Shoes everywhere, papers, books, glasses, food containers, ... (363 words

If we could be friends should I try?

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15 November 2017 (F age 18-21 - Should I keep speaking to him, and try and be friends? I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years about 2 weeks ago and it's killing me. We broke it off about 2 months ago, then briefly got back together before we realised nothing had changed. We're both 21 at university. B... (358 words

Now he's gone I really miss him

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15 November 2017 (F age 26-29 - Hello, I was involved with a guy for a few months, but we were never in a relationship,,just took it casual.. but few weeks ago he went studying abroad. We didn't promise anything, because it's far,so we said goodbye. After he left, we've been in contact through facebook, we... (193 words

Help me sort out my feelings

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15 November 2017 (F age 26-29 - Hi, I'm not sure where to start really. I've been in a relationship for 4 years. Basically I felt that he couldn't commit to me. He never asked me to move in or when we'd talk about it he'd come up with so many excuses, he had issues showing his feelings and he has contacted... (258 words

Does she really love me like I love her?

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15 November 2017 (F age 36-40 - I just recently found out that my wife, I'm a lesbian, only watches straight porn. I'm questioning a lot now, not so much about how I feel about her but if I could ever truly make her happy or if I have ever truly satisfied her. She's brought it up about sleeping with other p... (226 words

My girlfriend is exhausting me!

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15 November 2017 (F age 30-35 - My gf is exhausting me. I'm fully convinced that she could argue for hours with a person who believes the grass is green and tell them no it isn't - it's blue. And then immediately turn right around and tell someone who believes the grass is blue that she thinks it's green and ... (386 words

Should we remain friends

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15 November 2017 (F age 36-40 - I left a man i love because he preferred open relationships. He took the initiative to remain in touch with me by occasionally texting me and asking me out. One one hand, i was still attracted to him and my heart beat whenever i saw his messages. On the other hand, i ... (180 words

How can I explain to parents?

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15 November 2017 (F age 18-21 - Hi all :) I’ll share a little details about myself and family before diving into my question. I’m 18 turning 19 soon and just started university and my parents are quite what our generation would say a little “old-fashioned”? I come from a Chinese family that believed in quite ... (420 words

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