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Long time friend wants to be more than friends.

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26 April 2018, 3 hours ago (F age 22-25 - Hello agony aunts. Im facing some troubles and dealing with my guy friend's behavior towards me. My guy friend is being cold, sarcastic and mean to me in the past few weeks. Okay well let me start with this, he actually loves me, he told me before that he wants to be in a ... (547 words

I cant get the "cloud 9" feeling!

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26 April 2018, 3 hours ago (F age 22-25 - hello dear aunts! Don't want to go too long or detailed about this. I'm going to cut it short. I 'm seeing someone who is great. He is known to be an honest and decent guy. I've known him as a friend for a long time but we started seeing each other only recently and we ... (361 words

He earns three times more but wants to split the bills 50/50

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26 April 2018, 3 hours ago (F age 26-29 - my boyfriend has recently asked me to move in with him. we had a conversation about our finances and his expectation of what i should contribute to the household expenses. He wants to split everything 50/50. We got into an argument over this because I make considerably less ... (324 words

Boyfriend upsets me then gets mad at me and ignores me instead of making it better.

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26 April 2018, 3 hours ago (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are in a LDR for a year and 2 months. It started out slow but now we have spoken about marriage, a child and me moving to his town. Trouble is - in 2 is our most recent fights - he did something to upset me, I got upset, and then he got angry that I got upse... (452 words

I'm a hopeless romantic who all the girls want as a friend, not as a date.

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25 April 2018, 3 hours ago (M age 26-29 - Just a little background: I'm a male virgin who's never been kissed and I've only been on one date. I'm usually the friend, not the boyfriend type. I still am friends with girls I've met and befriended. However it is a little frustrating being the hopeless romantic and nev... (71 words

Why the mixed signals?

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25 April 2018 (F age 18-21 - Me and this guy have been casually seeing each other for a year; he would come over from nights out etc and we would just cuddle and kiss and act romantic even though we were not together. We got close in the sense that he started to trust me and we would tell me personal ... (203 words

Why did my ex give his friend my number?

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25 April 2018 (F age 18-21 - Dear Agony Aunts, i broke up in July last year (2017) with my boyfriend (I’ll call him M) i loved very much because i felt he had fallen out of love with me and two weeks later, he got a new girlfriend (I know because i came back to him so we could fix things up and he said ... (360 words

Why does this woman I barely know keep texting me to vent ?

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25 April 2018 (F age 41-50 - I’m a single and quieter living gay woman. I’m pale and average looking but feminine and not manly. Not looking for manly women. I’m on an app for Gay and bi women. Like all apps there’s players and catfishers Straight women playing games and nastiness and judgmental... (646 words

My fiance saw my mother naked.

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25 April 2018 (F age 30-35 - My fiancee and I are sharing a house with my parents and sharing expenses with them at this point. Obviously it permits us to save a little more money for our future. Well yesterday my mother was in her room with the door wide open. We were walking down the hall at the time... (525 words

Why do I feel I have to supress my emotions when in a relationship?

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25 April 2018 (F age 30-35 - I don't know how to be in a relationship. When I get excited about someone, I drive them away. The pattern is always I show too much interest (in a happy, excited way, from my perspective), they pull away, and then because they pull away, I start to become needy and insecure. ... (415 words

I think I am having a mid life crisis ... or something.

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24 April 2018 (F age 30-35 - I think I'm having a mid life crisis or something. I'm 30, cohabiting with my long term boyfriend (nearly 6 years). Just about to move into our first house purchased together. I hate my job. I'm on medication for depression and anxiety (the latter of which is practically ... (77 words

I want out of this relationship with a married man but he is making it difficult.

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24 April 2018 (F age 22-25 - In September I moved to a new area for work, shortly after I started my job i had a coworker that started flirting with me. He is really cute and sweet only problem is he is married. He like me moved to the area for work, his family is actually four hours away. He is older by ... (379 words

My boyfriend said he liked my skinnier self and now I'm very hurt.

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24 April 2018 (F age 41-50 - I need help. Just had a big fight with my boyfriend of 5 years. We are in a hotel room travelling to Memphis and we were enjoying a week long road trip. I've put on some weight since we met. But then so has he. He had once told me he would love me no matter what sha... (303 words

We are both too shy to say hi to each other?

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24 April 2018 (F age 18-21 - There's this guy that I like and I know he likes me back because he always walks past me and a bunch of other signs over afew weeks, explaining these will defeat the purpose of the question. The main question is we are both too shy to talk to each other even though we both give ... (154 words

I'm tired of being the other woman but love him too much to let go.

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24 April 2018 (F age 22-25 - I have been seeing A married guy for nearly 8 months. He spending every free moment with me we do things we go away sometimes, we talk on the phone multiple times a day every single day. He has been great fI me, He’s caring, attentive, Generous understanding this whole time ... (233 words

I offered an adult student help, now he constantly contacts me.

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24 April 2018 (F age 26-29 - I would like to preface my question by saying that this isn't exactly a "relationship" question, but I am reaching out for advice because I know that some of you are really qualified to give advice about interactions with people, in general. I teach English to students who ... (1137 words

I have feelings for my ex but he just wants to be friends.

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23 April 2018 (M age 18-21 - dear cupid i have recently got back in to touch with an ex boyfriend we Broke up on bad term yrs ago but as i said we got back in touch and we are friends but i have realised i still have feeling for him and he said he just wants to be friends so do i tell him how i fell and... (80 words

He canceled our second date and hasn’t rescheduled! Should I ask him why or just forget him?

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23 April 2018 (F age 26-29 - Two weeks ago I met a guy and we had a great date, he asked for a second date while we were still out so we made plans to meet up the following week. The day of our second date he cancelled because he had a cold so I didn't think anything of that, I just told him I hope he ... (124 words

Should I tell him I’m gay before moving in or not say anything?

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23 April 2018 (M age 30-35 - I've never had many guy friends but I've become a bit closer to a guy I knew since about college but only starI've never had many male friends but I've become a bit closer to a guy I knew since about college but only started getting friendly with after he broke it off with my ... (239 words

What is going on with me? How do I end this weird relationship?

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23 April 2018 (F age 36-40 - I don’t understand what happened. I am in my 30s, I fell in love once when I was a teen 14 yeas old. It was so intense and somewhat had a feel of overwhelmingness and it didn’t end up too well even though we had a crazy run of about 5 years together. Then then I’v... (358 words

Every relationship ends the same way ....

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23 April 2018 (F age 22-25 - Hello, I'm 23 years old (f) suffering with anxiety and bipolar. In my childhood and teenage years, I suffered from emotional and physical abuse, and it's affecting my relationships with people right now. My dad was one of the people who made me feel like crap, until now, I ... (377 words

Their Grandma wont drop the subject, what do I do?

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23 April 2018 (M age 30-35 - A few years ago, my sister-in-law's grandmother and her boyfriend went to Alaska on a vacation (the boyfriend is now decease). We talked about Alaska and I mentioned to her that Alaska is my dream vacation. I did my research and realize how much it would cost for me to g... (227 words

My well-connected but broke boyfriend has 4720 friends on Facebook but won’t add me!

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23 April 2018 (F age 30-35 - I probably know the answer to this question, but if anyone has some thoughts, I'm in a long distance relationship with a much older man who is very accomplished and well-connected (flat broke, but always has younger women chasing him). We see each other a few days every other ... (1014 words

Did I do the right thing, I think he is still involved with his children's mother.

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22 April 2018 (F age 26-29 - I was seeing a man who lives with his 18 year month twin boys and he still lives with his kids mother.He told me they have broken up but staying together for financial reasons for now. Well he wouldn't see me outside working hours so I called him out on it. He said he would... (168 words

What should a person do .....

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22 April 2018 (F age 41-50 - What should a person do if they are falling for someone, and that person tells them they have a certain type a woman they like, and it's not you, and they don't have time but maybe one day a week, they are to busy to see you more then that, you live in different towns, but only ... (70 words

I muust have a "hate me" sign above my head.

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22 April 2018 (F age 36-40 - I’m unlikeable it seems, people don’t “take” to me land aren’t friendly. I feel like giving up on people. I Try to be nice and get ignored, uninvited, dismissed and forgotten. Please, how can I be more likeable? I listen, I smile and Am I’m not full of ego or “al... (122 words

My friend is upset none of us can afford to go to his wedding

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22 April 2018 (M age 30-35 - An old friend who moved from Berlin where I live to San Diego is getting married. 5 years ago we were great friends and housemates. As time went on, I recognized we are very different and have different value systems. His dream is to find a partner settle down and get married ... (411 words

A mutual friend has boundary problems

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22 April 2018 (M age 30-35 - I have this problem with a friend of mine (we are both gay men). He is very close to my best friend. This friend, who can sometimes be great and at other times be utterly creepy. He can be the kindest, most helpful person and in a whim switch to a hyperactive eccentric person ... (372 words

What are some thoughts or suggestions on solving this without ending this or is it just better to end this?

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22 April 2018 (F age 30-35 - I’ve been with my partner for going on nine years. We have lived together a good majority of this time. There are children involved from previous relationships, but my struggle doesn’t really involve the children. My partner is a great guy. I truly believe when and if he want... (759 words

How often should a healthy couple have sex?

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22 April 2018 (F age 30-35 - How often should a healthy couple have sex? I know this is a subjective question and every couple is different. I ask because my partner (32m) and I (32f) have been having issues around this lately. My natural rhythm dictates about 2-4 times per week, depending on the... (425 words

He’s been dragging his feet on getting a passport and my anxiety problems have caused a rift! What now?

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22 April 2018 (F age 26-29 - So me and my boyfriend got into a big fight. Weve had a difficult time for the past 6 months of our relationship (we've been together nearly 2 years) due to my anxiety problems..We argued very frequently, and I developed a phobia that he was going to betray my trust. Anyway... (412 words

Friends of 25 years don’t include me anymore!

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21 April 2018 (F age 41-50 - At the moment im trying to clear debt i have so have to stop spending where i dont need to. I messaged my 4 closest friends saying id have to cut back on nights out round pubs as i cant afford to waste money. Having each other round at each others houses would work. This has ... (137 words

Why did he have makeup smeared around his lips?

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21 April 2018 (F age 26-29 - My husband is the most loving loyal husband, we never argue at all and we get along amazing, we are both just so madly in love, he’s always been very affectionate and he really is amazing in every way. However he went on a works meal yesterday and afterwards him and his fsna... (532 words

How do I have conversations with my husband about our relationship without him getting angry?

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21 April 2018 (F age 26-29 - I dont know where to start.. my husband changed a lot after we marry. In a negative way. He doesnt care anymore and we kinda lost connection after we marry. He become irresponsible man which i never think he could be. He used to be a very caring and considerate and patient man. ... (669 words

Am I meant to tell him to break up with her?

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21 April 2018 (F age 18-21 - I'm currently talking to this lad who seems to be interested in me. It would be fine but he has a girlfriend, who I asked about recently. He never seems too happy to see her, says they're distant,she doesn't speak to him much and she has cheated on him numerous times. He speaks ... (240 words

Did she sell the phone I gave her? I regret how our interactions ended!

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21 April 2018 (M age 36-40 - I am an Expatriate aged 39 and good looking working in a rather 3rd world country with good financial. I met a girl in a family friendly bar. After few visits at the bar, i took a liking to her as she was unlike the rest that goes around flirting with customers and doing all ... (888 words

Why doesn't my heart race when I kiss my boyfriend?

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21 April 2018 (F age 22-25 - So I'm in a bit of a dilemma. I have dated 3 guys (and have kissed all of the ) and the guy I am with at the moment is my first love, we have kissed many times but my heart doesn't race like his does. The first guy I dated took my first kiss, and I am my current boyfriends ... (118 words

I'm obsessed with my professor and it's making me depressed

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21 April 2018 (F age 18-21 - I have a massive crush on my professor. I assure you it's completely platonic but it's still causing me much trouble. I think there are 2 main aspects to my feelings for him: 1. Admiration: He's the exact kind of person I want to be when I grow older. He's passionate about... (750 words

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