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What is my sis in law suggesting here? That I'm a loser??

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13 December 2018 (F age 41-50 - Was this fb post directed at me? and my “ettiquette” in talking with my sis in law and 11 yr old neice when I see them over new year? They live 2 hours from me in a small town. Im driving to see them in early Jan, sometime when its ok for them. Ive Not seen my neic... (317 words

I'm crushing on my team leader.

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13 December 2018 (F age 30-35 - I am very frustrated because there is someone that I'm potentially interested in at work that I think is also very interested in me but that nothing is happening for -- So I started work at this new place about five months ago now, and slowly I started noticing someone... (715 words

This guy has a girlfriend, should I forget about him?

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13 December 2018 (F age 22-25 - Hello, I know a guy for almost three months now, who I thought I was getting along with well and gave him my number because we work together. He's the only person I talk to, really. I told him I was finishing school, he mentioned he's finishing studies as well, and he oft... (145 words

I wonder if forgiveness is the key to moving forward

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12 December 2018 (F age 36-40 - I, like many grew up with a toxic family. My parents where not there and pretty much abandoned me. I have struggled alot of my life due to this but also the last few years I have done alot of work and had therapy on this. This has made things easier and better for me , although ... (293 words

I'm not happy with my girlfriend and my crush is now single.

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12 December 2018 (M age 18-21 - I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for past year and half. Because of her excessive mood swings, things have become difficult for me. I tried talking to her about this but she says this is how she is. We love each other and try to understand each other most of the ... (128 words

I'm planning on getting married but afraid of divorce

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12 December 2018 (F age 26-29 - I am engaged and planning the wedding next year. But off late I have been having recurring fears about divorce. I am worried about my husband (to be) falling out of love with me when we grow older. Not because i will stop loving himbut because I am no longer attractive or ... (87 words

I'm pregnant and my friend isn't supportive

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12 December 2018 (F age 18-21 - I am pregnant and so excited about it but my best friend isn't really happy for me and keeps saying all the wrong things time after time. I've told her I don't need her input but she just won't shut up. The worst thing is she thinks she is my only best friend but I have other... (106 words

I've grown to care for a sex worker that I see and feel I want to be more than her friend

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12 December 2018 (M age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I've been seeing a prostitute for some time now. When I started seeing her, I was in a very bad place emotionally (borderline depression, work pressure, family issues). We didn't have sex on the first few "dates". We mainly talked and cuddled, as it was what I mo... (632 words

I'm being used by a totally useless boyfriend and I feel trapped

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12 December 2018 (F age 30-35 - When me and my guy first got together about 8 months ago, he had his own vehicle, his own place to live with a roommate, a good paying job, and was easy to get along with. After about 5 months i agreed to let him move in with me but things went downhill fast as can be. He ... (537 words

Should I tell my friend that I am dating his ex wife?

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12 December 2018 (M age 51-59 - I'm dating a freiends ex wife. He's a good friend but don't see him much, 1 time in the last two years. He remarried and his ex wife was also remarried and divorced for 5 year. Is it important that I still tell him?... (44 words

No sex in almost a year, he's watching porn but says nothing is wrong with our relationship

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11 December 2018 (F age 30-35 - Hi I’m 32 and in a relationship for 5 years the first 4 years were good then our sex life became non existent I asked my partner what was going on if he was depressed or stressed about anything he said no then one day I heard him watching porn while he was supposed to be having ... (186 words

My boyfriend is obsessed with sex!

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11 December 2018 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend is obsessed with sex! He constantly tells about sex, tries it on.even when I have been ill. I had a colopscopy procedure a few months ago and it was meant to be 6 weeks recovery time..after a few days he told me I should be having sex with him as his ex had this... (227 words

Around how long were you and your significant other together before saying "I love you"?

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11 December 2018 (F age 22-25 - I'm just curious for other people's experiences, although I know every one is different. Around how long were you and your significant other together before saying "I love you" ? My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly 8 months and are even moving into an apartmen... (265 words

Should I just leave it at that?

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11 December 2018 (F age 30-35 - A guy i had got to know had occasionally winked and started bantering by text with me. We started having really good chats together bantering and flirting and then at a recent party we were both texting each other and he was saying I bet you really do flirt (He was quite ... (174 words

How can I approach faith and dating ?

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11 December 2018 (F age 30-35 - I realize my question is towards faith and love but I wanted to come here since I got fantastic advice during my abusive relationships. I have been in what I would say emotionally neglectful combative home - my youth was always comparative to what she and he is doing is what ... (326 words

Should I include her son for the first date or should it just be between the two of us?

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11 December 2018 (M age 22-25 - So a while back I met a woman through my sister-in-law. We've been talking on the phone a lot, and met up for lunch a couple times since we work near each other. It's obvious there's a chemistry between us. I'd like to ask her out. She has a seven-year-old son. I don't know if ... (102 words

How do I deal with my pregnant friend without upsetting her?

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11 December 2018 (F age 30-35 - My friend recently got pregnant. Now everything i do results in fight. I try to look after her but she tells me i am being irritative. I try to make her mood happy by sending nice texts so she says she is bored of them. Yesterday she said somethings which made me feel bad but i ... (179 words

What can I get for my ex for a wedding present?

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11 December 2018 (F age 22-25 - Dear agony aunts, I’d like to get wedding gift suggestions for my ex girlfriend’s marriage coming in a few days. We broke up earlier this year and we started talking 6 months later. I found out she was engaged to a guy and since then, our friendship has been platonic and ... (108 words

Am I being unrealistic. Is it too late to change my thinking?

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11 December 2018 (F age 41-50 - I really hope that men in particular won’t take this question. Personally because obviously it’s not aimed at anyone and I realise that there must be good men in the world but I want to ask if any women have experienced similar to me and how they have dealt with it . I have ... (285 words

Date wanted me to add him as a friend when I did he said I didnt need to

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10 December 2018 (F age 41-50 - I went on a date this weekend and had a great time. The man i was with said he wants to see me again. We had been chatting on social media and i decided to add him as a friend. When i checked if he had added me he had changed his settings so i couldnt resend a request. I then ... (146 words

Should I have fought harder for my daughter

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10 December 2018 (F age 30-35 - Should I have fought it out to the end? I have just finished a family court proceeding today, regaurding my daughter, who is now nine years in age. She has been living with her dad since December 2015. It was during the Christmas period when she was due to spend time with ... (388 words

Why am I so scared to be in a relationship?

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10 December 2018 (F age 26-29 - Why am i so scared to be in a relationship? Im 26 with 2 kids, my baby father is the only guy ive been with sexually and all he was my first everything lol..im probably ashamed because im 26 with little to no experience, and am i weird because i dont want a boyfriend? Im not ... (98 words

How do you cope with losing a parent or a loved one?

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10 December 2018 (F age 26-29 - So, about a year ago I lost my father to stage 4 cancer. I cry and have break downs, when I see his photo, or if I see a video of him, or if hear a voicemail he left. So, now I avoid looking at his photos and things that remind me of him. It’s just I am so heart broken and lost ... (252 words

The neurosurgeon I have met online says he wants a dominant woman.

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10 December 2018 (F age 41-50 - Hello everyone. I’m 41 and just strarted looking to online dating 4 years after divorce. I started chatting with this incredibly smart and handsome guy. He is 47 and a neurosurgeon. Never been married and no kids. We both have the same religion and similar backgrounds but from ... (154 words

He doesn't talk to other volunteers, just me. Does this mean he likes me?

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9 December 2018 (F age 22-25 - Hello, I am a 22 year old female who met a 24 year old male. I am volunteering at an organization that the guy I met works at. We've known each other for two months now but I see him every once in a while because I don't always have shifts. He works during office hours an... (193 words

His ex was HOT ... is he settling for me?

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9 December 2018 (F age 26-29 - My bf and I have been dating a little over a year. This insecurity of mine is due to one particular ex coming up several times in our convos. Always comes up about how guys swooned over his ex because she was hot. My bf says I'm the best he has ever dated (educated, gorgeous ... (149 words

I'm keeping it light and my options open, does this make me a bad person?

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9 December 2018 (F age 36-40 - Hi, so I’m a single mum, I’ve been on my own for about 7 years now, I haven’t dated in a few years as I just couldn’t be bothered anymore. But recently on a Facebook group I’ve met two men, I like them both, and they are both aware of each other, but I can’t help but feel a bit ... (145 words

I like my boyfriend but get all flustered when the crush is around

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9 December 2018 (F age 18-21 - Hi im a 20 years old female from philippines I have a boyfriend and we are already dating for more than a year now,but before we started dating the one i used to like is one of his friends,i even once tried to make a move on him first but he rejected me I dont know if its... (318 words

I showed interest in a shy guy, now he wont leave me alone.

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9 December 2018 (F age 26-29 - I've been acquaintances/friends with a guy from work for about 9 months, we weren't really close but had a lot in common and chatted when we saw each other. He's in his thirties and openly admitted once to not being good with women. Anyway we were chatting quite a bit so I gav... (515 words

Does my FWB want a relationship or is this just a power play?

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9 December 2018 (F age 18-21 - I know this site is filled with people wanting their fwb/ fuck buddy to be something more but mine has started telling me I need to open up to him more and trying to get me to admit I have a crush on him. Is this him trying to have a relationship or just wanting more power in... (61 words

Loves first kiss ..........

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9 December 2018 (M age 13-15 - How can I kiss a girl who is taller than me without looking silly. I imagine we will be standing since it will be the first kiss. ... (27 words

My younger boyfriend just asked me to marry him

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9 December 2018 (F age 30-35 - I'm 31 years old woman divorced with 2 kids one of whom have a a disability. I've stayed away from relationships all together because my life is not easy and I have my priorities. Lately, a younger man started to show interest in me, he is 5 years younger than me. I've ... (267 words

My boyfriend is generous with his mum and friends, but miserly with me

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9 December 2018 (F age 26-29 - I have been in a relationship for 6 years, we are put in outer late 20's. My boyfriend does not like to spend money on me but I find journals of all the expenses he pays for his mom, including a car he just bought her. He does not help me clean anything including taking t... (128 words

My husband has ED only during intercourse

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9 December 2018 (F age 36-40 - I wonder if anyone has any insight or advice to offer on erectile dysfunction. My partner and I met while I was leaving an unhappy marriage and he was in a sexless marriage. We fell in love and are now living together. My children are living with us apart from alternate ... (286 words

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