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Is the grief causing him to treat me badly?

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19 March 2019, 9 hours ago (F age 26-29 - Hello. Firstly just for some context I was in a on and off relationship for 10 years with the sweetest best friend of a boyfriend who was my high school sweetheart but his lack of ambition and lazy attitude I couldn't take anymore. We are still close friends but after trying... (735 words

Do girls usually let other boys rub them up on the dance floor?

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19 March 2019, 9 hours ago (M age 16-17 - Ok so i am a junior in high school and have been hanging out with a girl who is a second year student at the local college. She i a great girl and way different than high school girls i have dated. We have been having one on one dates as she has her own car. Nothing has been ... (206 words

Why did he unmatch me after hooking up?

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19 March 2019, 9 hours ago (F age 26-29 - I hooked up with this guy from Tinder the other night but we didn't have sex because I was on my period. That didn't seem to bother him but I was uncomfortable with it and gave him oral instead. I told him next time we will go all the way and he said he would love that. Then ... (182 words

His priorities don't make sense

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19 March 2019, 9 hours ago (F age 30-35 - DEAR cupid, my boyfriend I and have been together for a year and 1/2. We have been living together for a year. We have been experiencing issues and decided to end our realationship to work on ourselves and our relationship. This is where it gets confusing for me. Were moving ... (197 words

Is this trainer being friendly or flirting?

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18 March 2019, 9 hours ago (F age 18-21 - I hired a female personal trainer to help me achieve my weight loss goals, and she is co-workers with another personal trainer who is male. I see him around often and a couple of times he has said hi to me, and when he was getting his client on the treadmill next to me he ... (185 words

She thinks there was a hidden message about being fat in my fruit and yoghurt comment

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18 March 2019, 9 hours ago (M age 26-29 - So I have been with this woman for 18 months. Our relationship has been perfect so far, no arguements, always get on. Today she had an arguement with a friend and was not very happy after. She sent me a message saying she was going for a walk and thinking about getting ... (143 words

Is there anything wrong with fantasizing what your friends would be like in bed?

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18 March 2019 (F age 22-25 - Hey, I want to ask a quick question (I'll try to keep it quick anyway) Is there anything wrong with wondering what your friends are like in bed, or even fantasizing about such things when you're alone? I love my partner and he satisfies me in ways I never thought poss... (116 words

I am not sure that I can be the support system I think my b/f needs

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18 March 2019 (F age 26-29 - Hi all! I have been dating my BF for about 4 months now. The relationship was very fast moving and we basically were pretty "offical" after a few weeks of dating. He was pretty intense, But I felt like I had finally found someone who really cared for me and loved me. Overti... (394 words

I'm having doubts about my 5 year relationship

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18 March 2019 (F age 30-35 - I am in a 5 year relationship and starting to have serious doubts about it. I'm not sure if I want it anymore, and pressures are growing around marriage, mortgage and children. There's no apparent reason as to why I'm feeling this way... nothing specific has caused this feeling ... (82 words

Wife hides her family and past from me

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18 March 2019 (M age 41-50 - I recently found out that my wife’s sister has past. I am upset because I never even knew she had a sister. My wife hides her family and her past from me. Worse she asked me not to come to the funeral and wants to go alone. We have been married for over a year but have been ... (88 words

What’s wrong with people? Do we not listen now??

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17 March 2019 (F age 41-50 - Why are people so self absorbed and disinterested? Is this rude? If you saw a friend you hadn’tseen in ages and she didnt once ask how you or your life was what would you do? You havent seen her in 5-6 months. and of course ask how she and work and life’s been, ... (199 words

Are hugs and pecks on the cheek too forward from someone who really isn't your friend?

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17 March 2019 (F age 41-50 - I am a bit old school in certain things with texting and personal greetings so would like to ask two questions. When I text female friends I tend to put one or two kisses but don't tend to put them to men unless its male relations like a cousin, if they put one to me as I l... (208 words

I'm growing concerned that my girlfriend is on the phone for hours with "friends"

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17 March 2019 (M age 18-21 - Girlfriend oh phone with other guys for hours late at night..... So my girl and i have been together for a while. We like to fall asleep on facebook messenger videochat at night. Ive been getting worried because most nights I'll try to call her and messenger will tell me she... (172 words

How do I make our troubled relationship better again?

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16 March 2019 (M age 18-21 - I unintentionally insulted a girl I liked. She told me how she struggled with school in the past. I tried to care for her and said "It must be difficult for you". She misinterpreted my meaning, got angry and thought I looked down on her intelligence. I know she got angry be... (426 words

Why is my boyfriend suddenly acting differently regarding oral sex

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16 March 2019 (F age 36-40 - Hello, I have a quick question. My boyfriend is 54 and lately, when I'm performing oral on him, he remains soft yet ejaculates. Also, lately, he only wants me to suck, no licking around it like he used to like and suddenly, he's been pressuring me to finger his butt. When I ask ... (66 words

My boyfriend got a cake and presents and its not his birthday

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16 March 2019 (F age 36-40 - Dear All, Today my boyfriend of 3.5 years received an anonymous gift, cake and a red rose. It mentioned his petname and said "your smile is everything to me." The cover of the cake mentioned " happy birthday". It is not his birthday. My boyfriend is a bit of a flirt an... (78 words

How do I meet new friends?

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16 March 2019 (M age 30-35 - A lot of my friends, I know from my local bar. After a very bad night where I got extremely drunk, I decided to quit drinking. That was about a year ago and I have not drank any alcoholic beverages since. The problem is I no longer see my "friends". How do I meet new ... (65 words

I love my wife but have a sex doll. Why don't I just cheat with a real woman?

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15 March 2019 (M age 41-50 - My wife and I've been married for a long time. Our sex life is only 3 times a month now. Sex was a big part of our relationship from the beginning. We would do it as many as 15 times within a month. I understand all the situational things that happen with a woman when she gets ... (173 words

I want my married lover's wife to know I am having his child

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15 March 2019 (F age 30-35 - I have been dating this married man a little over 2years now. I was with him for 5 months before he married his wife(chose another woman over me whiles I was with him). At the time of his marriage I was two months pregnant for him which I made him aware but in anger, asked me ... (507 words

He is trying to make it out like I’m overreacting, but why buy gifts for his female co-worker?

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15 March 2019 (F age 30-35 - Hello, Looking for any advice on how to keep pushing forward and leave be okay with my decision. Last week I found out my husband purchased flowers for a coworker. He states he was just being supportive because she hosted a networking influencer event and it turned o... (573 words

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