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How do I handle my critical dad? He's given me poor self-esteem!

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20 July 2017, 1 hour ago (F age 26-29 - I've been struggling w/this for years w/my dad. My dad does love me, I do know that. When it comes down to me, he has always been negative w/about 95% of everything. For the last 10 years he has been convinced that I'm overweight and will be morbidly obese one day. Right now I ... (295 words

I'm feeling more alone being left out!

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20 July 2017, 1 hour ago (F age 36-40 - Some people may find this petty but my feeling are being hurt. Theres a close group of 4 of us. Its very hard to get together at the same time due to commitments. 3 of my friends meet up more often and leave me out even tho im free. I dont mind them meeting up but its a lot ... (179 words

My friend is too clingy!

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20 July 2017, 1 hour ago (F age 22-25 - I have a guy friend (JUST A FRIEND). The problem is, though he is nice, he is rather clingy. He always wants to hang out with me. I find it rather awkward. I want to pursue other friendships too and hanging out with him makes it seem like we're exclusive or something. How can I ... (69 words

I'm ready to walk, am I just being used as a babysitter?

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20 July 2017 (M age 30-35 - hey, my partner sits on her phone all day does the odd chore round the house i mean when one of the babies does a dirty nappy she doesnt get down to cleaning it up she tells me babies pood so i end up doing it and been like that for years im a stay at home dad to 4 kids i have ... (207 words

I'm lost in feelings about my cousin. What do I do?

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20 July 2017 (M age 26-29 - Well as my title states I'm lost on my feelings about my cousin. It first started out when we were kids and we were both very close. Then we both learned out sex. We experimented quite a bit. To tell you the truth it made us even closer. From there we had a semi sexual ... (254 words

He flirts with me when his girlfriend isn't around.

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19 July 2017 (F age 16-17 - I'm not sure if my male friend is flirting with me or just being friendly. Its starting to make me uncomfortable. So in a nut shell, I've known and been friends with him for over a year now, I'm 18 and he's 23. When we first met I must admit I had a little crush on him, he... (476 words

Does my LDR GF have borderline disorder?

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19 July 2017 (M age 18-21 - I posted a similar question a while back but I need some more help now more than ever. Long story short, my parents and i all went camping for three days and I told my gf that it may be hard to talk since I'll be in the middle of the woods/at the beach for three days, but told... (287 words

I like him but scared I wil lose the friendship!

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19 July 2017 (F age 13-15 - Hi, so, I'm a 14y/o female. So I go to karate and there's this guy (14 too) who I get along with really well. I kinda think I have a crush on him. I end up thinking about him randomly and whenever I go anywhere I always hope I could see him somewhere, even though I know the ... (131 words

How do I tell a man he's not doing it for me in the bedroom?

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19 July 2017 (F age 30-35 - Ok so my problem is pretty simple. How do I tell a man he's not doing it for me in the bedroom? I've been seeing a man for about 6 weeks now and in the last two weeks we've started to have sex, but it really isn't good. He's a great kisser and I assumed that same passion wou... (467 words

Did I ruin our date?

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19 July 2017 (F age 18-21 - So I was really wondering , how do you know if the date is going well? I've been on this date with a guy and the whole date we were laughing and talking with a few moments of silence but we were together for 5 hours and it was really fun and at one time he was stating at me so... (79 words

She makes up things I've said - then criticises me

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19 July 2017 (F age 36-40 - Hey guys, Need some advice here or just a way to avoid the unnecessary arguments altogether. In short, my girlfriend is continuously saying I've said things I've never said. It's driving me mad because if I defend myself about these things I've never said she twist... (246 words

How do I help my boyfriend sort himself out?

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19 July 2017 (F age 13-15 - My boyfriend had a really bad relationship with this girl before me and left him with some mental scars and we were totally fine until he got drunk and texted some random girl stupid stuff but they weren't that bad. Now he's apologised loads and I don't want it to split us. He ... (142 words

I don't want to panic in the future about oral sex performed on me, advice please?

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18 July 2017 (F age 16-17 - Hi I'm an 18 y/o girl and lost my virginity earlier this year. It was great, and the foreplay was even better, except as he was kissing his way down there I was pulling him back up. I told him I wasn't comfortable with him going down on me, like I was shy. I wasn't shy per say. ... (296 words

Engaged but I've seen someone new

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18 July 2017 (F age 30-35 - I am engaged to a man whom I have been in a mostly happy relationship for 9 years. He cheated on me three years in with someone at work but we got over it. We are now engaged and the wedding is next year. My problem is, I'm absolutely obsessed with a new guy at work and cann... (203 words

Can't understand what kind of relationship I'm in

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18 July 2017 (F age 36-40 - I have known my friend for over a year. He has been doing little things. 1: Can you be out by a certain time? 2: I have my own place but still living with him. 3: He said he wanted to tell me something but then stops and pauses and says never mind. 4: Took me on a date with... (107 words

8 years of trust,broken! Can we make it back?

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17 July 2017 (F age 26-29 - Hi all thanks for your help first of all I have a horrible problem I need help with. Sorry about the lengh. I went on a holiday with 4 of my friends one of them is my boyfriends brothers girlfriend Side note: I've been with my bf 8 years been friends with her for 18 years... (660 words

Should I allow her more space in my arrangements?

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17 July 2017 (F age 30-35 - I am a lady who likes ladies. I have been toying with the idea of moving across the country to a particular city for awhile and have a good friend there. Through an online dating site, I have been speaking with a lady from this city who seems great, we exchanged numbers and ... (311 words

I can't deal with his passive aggressive behavior when I don't want sex

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17 July 2017 (F age 30-35 - I met a guy, who is now my boyfriend, 3 months ago. He has made it clear he is really into me. I wasn't sure if I was atttacted to him enough, but he was lovely to me and we had a lot in common, so I went with it. I was very happy to fiND we worked really well, in the bedroom, ... (422 words

There's tension between us but she has a girlfriend. Am I misreading her?

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17 July 2017 (F age 22-25 - I am 25 yo fmale and feel as if i have som crazy chemistry with another female. The first time we met she stood facing me and we had this eye contact that was so intense, as if buildings in the background had blown up... We never spoke and the next time ii saw her was 9months ... (354 words

Husband wants sex and a baby but he's searching online for partners

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17 July 2017 (F age 36-40 - Everyday I feel more and more sick. My husband always asks for sex but I don't want it, he wants a child but I don't, not even an adopted child, but he insists, and now he's trying to turn me on but I say no. The real problem is he's searching online for a new partner. What ... (64 words

The difference , between , I DO LOVE YOU, YOU KNOW . compared to I LOVE YOU .

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17 July 2017 (M age 51-59 - My ex girl friend , said to me now and again , I do love you, you know . Is she trying to say that she treated me badly ? I used to say to her I love you , I,m wondering what the meaning behind her saying is ? Thank you ... (105 words

I'm stuck and not sure what to do about my life

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17 July 2017 (M age 26-29 - struggling with my own business I've always lived with the head frame of going after what you want... I wanted to be a singer songwriter.... I got near places then my grandad died and I had another vision.... owning a business and living the simple life giving my mother... (260 words

I'm disappointed that he suggested such a crummy hotel. Am I overreacting?

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17 July 2017 (F age 36-40 - Hi, thanks for your advice in advance. I'm 40 and my my boyfriend is 45. He took his children on a short vacation and asked me to go with them. I didn't accept his invitation because this is a new relationship, we have been together for 6 months, and I didn't want to make his ... (221 words

Do I stay with my husband because I feel sorry for him?

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17 July 2017 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I'm 49 and married second time for 5 years. He is 13 years older and adores me. But Iv never really been settled. Iv hankered after an ex for the first years of the marriage. Now Iv met and fallen madly in love with a guy I met . I'm so torn. My husband will have ... (184 words

Can you stay friends after having a one night stand?

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17 July 2017 (F age 30-35 - About a month ago, I met a guy on a dating site. We would talk from night to morning every day. I kind of like him, but he rarely talked about himself. I was curious about him; therefore, I checked on him on Facebook and found out that he has a daughter and is probably ... (272 words

Am I Being Played - - or Am I the One At Fault?

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16 July 2017 (M age 51-59 - Why did I allow myself to get to this point with her? Bit of a different spin. I am married. Main Head Boss of Organization. 300 employees. Always been aware of importance to treat all employees respectfully, etc. I've always adhered to the general premise that any... (585 words

How do I find out if he's in contact with my colleagues?

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16 July 2017 (F age 41-50 - I used to work with a bloke and have texted him a few times, he doesn't respond and yet I sense that he is in contact with other people he worked with but not me. Before he left he made out that he wanted to keep in touch but instead ignores me nobody at work admits they're in ... (76 words

Should we try to rekindle our friendship?

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16 July 2017 (F age 18-21 - So this might not be a typical relationship, however, more of a friendship thing. So me and two girls used to be very close friends - call them A and N so it's easier. Me and A fell out with N over silly arguments and ended up hating each other. A and N have not been friendl... (187 words

think they are way too secretive and just honestly don't want them anywhere near each other!

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16 July 2017 (F age 22-25 - Okay so before me and my bf were dating he had a crush on my best friend but nothing ever happened because he was actually dating someone else. We winded up dating about a yr later. We were kind of like a trio before our romance started but as time went on and I moved to a diff... (425 words

Why has he not met me yet?

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16 July 2017 (M age 26-29 - There's this guy I like.... so he keeps making plans to meet me then goes quiet for the before and day of. Why, does he not really like me? Does he really like me and is nervous? We seem to get on well over text and phone and social media but in person he always se... (80 words

Do I pick my FWB or the girl I was dating?

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16 July 2017 (M age 30-35 - Hi all. In much need of some help to sort out this insanity I've found myself in. So I've been in a friend's with benefits relationship with a woman for 2 years now. She's actually become my very best friend. But I also have a girl who is super pretty, smart, and genuinely se... (453 words

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