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I'm 68 haven't had sex since I was 35. I'm worried it will be painful

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12 December 2019 (F age - I would like to know. If I have not had sex since I was 35 and now I am 68 will it hurt. I would love to have the chemistry that this person is my match and romance I do love. I need answers? ... (51 words

I'm in love with a married woman we had a spat and I fear things will never go back to how they were

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11 December 2019 (M age 36-40 - I am helplessly in love with a married woman. We were good friends for a long time and then, during the breakdown of my long-term relationship, I turned to her for support. There was no affair, but I was overly attentive, and she lapped it up. We used to meet regularly and ... (763 words

Do all older men think younger women are superior physically to older women .

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11 December 2019 (F age 51-59 - As I’ve gotten older my taste in what is attractive in men has changed and I find men my own age much more attractive than the younger men I dated in my youth . Quite a few of the men I have dated have mentioned how younger women are so good and seem to think they are better in ... (159 words

Do I tell the girl he's engaged to that he sexted me whilst seeing her?

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11 December 2019 (F age 22-25 - Hi everyone. Last year, I graduated from college, and I seem to have had an issue with a guy I slept with one time. Basically, I came into college as a virgin, dated one guy for a bit, and then was single for the remainder of college. It was a small liberal arts college ... (384 words

Please help me understand an abusive man's actions

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11 December 2019 (F age 26-29 - Would a man who has been abusive to a woman deny his abusive behaviour if the woman finally exposed him to other people and she told them what he has been doing to her and why she left him and then he make up other excuses as to why she left him? And if so why would the abus... (62 words

We broke up, I said I understood but I want to message her. Should I?

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10 December 2019 (M age 26-29 - About four months ago I broke up with a girl i had been seeing for around the same amount of time, four months. She ended things with me. She had many great qualities, she was sweet, interesting, beautiful, she was Spanish but spoke many languages which I thought was great. She ... (325 words

It's been over 20 years but how do I turn the feelings off?

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10 December 2019 (M age 51-59 - I had sexual relationship with my cousin for a a long time. We met in a city and we lived together like man and wife for five years. Only one of my brothers knew about it because we live in a city far away from home. After the 5 years each of us got married to another person ... (157 words

Help with two friendship situations please

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10 December 2019 (M age 30-35 - Dear all, I have two recurring situations and I seek your advice on it. I’m very sensitive to who are around me as friends and acquaintances, people who I think have questionable behavior or ethics (mean, rude, dismissive, arrogant, poor manners) , I will give them a chan... (391 words

My family never visits me and leave sit all up to me to see each other

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10 December 2019 (F age 26-29 - I live across the country from my family for work. Since I've moved, in three years, my family has only visited me twice. Every other visit has been my doing. I tell them I miss them. I tell them I'd like them to visit but they won't. They rely on me to do it. Money isn't an ... (94 words

How do I find out if my LDR husband is married to someone else?

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9 December 2019 (F age 30-35 - Hello I'm Canadian, my husband is African. We met on fb, a friends request. I have been trying to get him to Canada which isn't an easy task. He is even declined on a visitor visa. So I usually go see him in Africa. There has been some eye openers with his behav... (284 words

Does every woman like oral sex?

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9 December 2019 (F age 41-50 - I was out with some male friends the other night and they all told me every woman they have slept with loved oral sex and had orgasms from it. I just admit I'm not a fan and never feel completely comfortable recieving oral. However I do like the penetrate side and orgasm ... (70 words

A friend is basing all of our interactions around her 9 year old son and I am getting weirded out

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9 December 2019 (F age 26-29 - I entered a graduate program (2 year length) last August where I met Wanda. She is about a decade older than me and is married with an elementary age son. I am married in my late twenties. My husband and I moved to a new part of the country just so I could attend this program ... (1324 words

Why is my former FWB not leaving me alone?

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9 December 2019 (F age 41-50 - Last July at a 25 year school reunion I met an old school friend whom I experienced an instant strong chemistry with, he was in a relationship and I was just out of one, I wasn’t interested in dating a taken man and made that known! He pursued me massively and Over the last few ... (231 words

I got too clingy to a guy I was interested in and he's stopped responding. Do I reach out again?

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9 December 2019 (M age 26-29 - I’m a gay man and there is this guy I’m interested it. We met through an app, started messaging back and forth back in May, and yes he’s also gay. We like a lot of the same things and have a similar sense of humor, which is a change because I have this bazaar morbid sense of ... (844 words

My boyfriend thinks I cheat on him. Will he get over this as time goes on?

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9 December 2019 (F age 30-35 - My bf gets upset easily and accuses me of being with other men. I went to a friends house and he got very upset and started saying I was with another man. Idk why he gets so jealous because I made it very clear he’s the only one I am interested in . Do you think he will get ... (65 words

I have never been on a date or been kissed and I'm too insecure to ask someone out

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8 December 2019 (M age 26-29 - Im not really sure where to start this, other than I posted on here probably about 10 years ago with pretty much the same question. I am in my late twenties, and I have never been on a date, been in a relationship, never kissed anyone or had sex, never even come close to it... (265 words

My mistress is upset about my upcoming trip with my wife. How do I calm her down?

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8 December 2019 (F age - I'm a man in his 60's, married for 25 years and I have had a mistress for 7 years. The problem is my wife and I travel frequently and always have, well before my mistress came into the picture. However it has been a constant source of friction in my relationship with... (376 words

I desperately need to get on birth control but I don't know where and how to get it

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8 December 2019 (F age 16-17 - I need to get on birth control because I heard my boyfriend is trying to get me pregnant (I'm 16 a Sophomore, he's 18 a Junior). My parents make it impossible, though. There are TWO clinics in our town that gives birth control to minors without parents permission. The one ONLY ... (399 words

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