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Am I in the wrong for talking to his mate?

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25 September 2018, 6 hours ago (F age 18-21 - In February I was talking to this guy and he was newly single at the time. I knew his ex but she wasn’t a friend I just knew of her. And because we live in such a small town we kept it a secret because everyone knows everyone so literally not one person knows about us. We ... (194 words

How do I learn to filter my comments?

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25 September 2018, 6 hours ago (M age 26-29 - Hi everyone, I'm a 26 year old guy. Started a new job few months back and am in a good place right now. I'm meeting a lot of people with whom I need to co-ordinate to get my job done on a daily basis. The problem is however that I get too friendly too quick and poke fun at ... (199 words

Is he too immature? Should I give up?

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24 September 2018, 6 hours ago (F age 26-29 - Hi everyone! I went on a couple dates with this guy, we met online. I'm a few years older than him, he just graduated from college. Both dates were really fun and great and ended with us kissing for a long time. He said he really liked me and wanted to see me the next day. Well ... (225 words

Husband hasn't kissed me for years and I now want to kiss other men!

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24 September 2018, 6 hours ago (F age 22-25 - I have been with my husband 10 years, married for 3. We are still very happy in our relationship and everything apart from this one issue is normal. We still have sex as of normal too, in fact the past month or so it's been every day so I can't complain about that and I think ... (330 words

Would women actually want a relationship with someone who already has a kid?

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24 September 2018, 6 hours ago (M age 26-29 - Call myself c and my daughters mother m. I'll try to keep things short. Our relationship was great before the child came and we even got engaged. I'm not great with women or people in general and I struggle just to hold a conversation to get a tip while I'm driving for ... (668 words

I need dating advice on how to meet women!

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23 September 2018 (M age 30-35 - I'm 30, single male, and at a total loss on how to meet women for dating. I don't have a big social circle (which has been shrinking since my mid 20's) so I don't meet anyone through mutual friends. I live in a small town but commute to work in a big city in SoCal. I'm no... (144 words

Cheated on my boyfriend 2 weeks before getting pregnant help!!!

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23 September 2018 (F age 22-25 - I am 24 years old and found out I was pregnant about 3 weeks ago. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and thought things were fizzled out, I looked for company else where. I have never cheated on him before and can’t believe I did it this time! I did not sleep with the ... (156 words

I am at my wits end with laziness of my husband

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23 September 2018 (F age 51-59 - I am a full time worker and also a house wife of a man that is on disability due to mental state he can still do things but chooses not to do anything but sit on the computer all day consuming negative news . I work for Hospice and work long days to come home and have to do ... (265 words

My wife is giving me the cold shoulder after I sent her touristy pics of women in Japan. How do I handle this?

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23 September 2018 (M age 51-59 - Hi, first timer here. I am on a business trip to Japan. I am taking some guided tours with colleagues in my spare time. It has been interesting to explore the different culture here. I've never been before. I have always been an avid photographer. I enjoy taking pic... (344 words

How to get people off my back about dating?

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23 September 2018 (M age 26-29 - Hey guys I have a question, may be weird for most as you probably have not experienced it. But I have to face the facts. From young age I was always bullied about my looks. Certain facial features different proportions etc. Anyway I always found it embarrassing in ... (266 words

What are some tips for using an average sized penis to make her feel good?

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23 September 2018 (M age 36-40 - The saying is, it's not the size of the boat, it's the motion of the ocean. Well my penis is averaged size, but I've come to the conclusion that I don't know how to use it very well. Does anyone have any advice on how to "use" my penis to make her feel good in PIV sex? I ... (121 words

He says he's not ready to go public with our relationship

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23 September 2018 (M age 30-35 - I am 33 years old and my boyfriend, Joe, is 32 years old. We have been in a "secret relationship" for about 3 years now. People just think we are roommates and best friends. I am ready to let our family and friends know that we are gay and in a relationship. H... (107 words

Why do I feel so emotional about events happening around me?

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23 September 2018 (F age 41-50 - i sometimes feel pathetic with what i am going to say, a month ago my nephews best friend died in a tragic accident. I first saw his face in the newspaper before knowing he was my nephews best friend ( i didnt know every friend he had ) and i just thought poor lad you could see ... (228 words

Are my reasons to break up with long term girlfriend valid?

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23 September 2018 (M age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am in a 2.5-year relationship with a Southamerican girl (we are both 36; she is here on a temporary work/study permit). She is sweet and loves me, and I love her too, but I cannot stop thinking about breaking up with her...why? I don't find her very interesting... (285 words

15 years later I am informed I might be father. How should I handle all of this?

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23 September 2018 (M age 30-35 - When I was 18 years old, I had sex with a girl, Dianne, that hung out with my group of friends. She was extremely nice and cute. About two months later, she went away to college which was not a big surprise because a lot of us were going to college. Around March or April, I ... (285 words

Does he love me or just think of me as a sex toy?

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22 September 2018 (F age 26-29 - I've been with my bf for 3 years and now I feel like he just wants me for sending him sexy pictures and wants to see me for intimacy he barely even talks about himself like how he's doing, or anything other than spicy pictures and am not sure what he thinks about us cause he ... (184 words

He threw out something important to me for no reason, WHY???

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22 September 2018 (F age - I had been buying second hand toys and saving them for a friend of my husbands who had asked for help with a co-worker with a 5 yr old who had no money for toys. I collected two shopping bags of quality toys (Dora the Explorer talking doll house, barbie and car, polly pocke... (345 words

I can't feel anything while having sex and lose my erection

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22 September 2018 (M age 22-25 - my age is just 23....I cant feel while having sex with my wife I put my penis inside the vagina but after a min automatically my penis gets down I am worried about it please help please give me some tips ... (43 words

Is it wrong that I feel he's totally describing her when he volunteers his opinion on whats his type?

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22 September 2018 (F age 26-29 - I have been seeing my boyfriend for five months now. When we first got togther he mentioned he knew one of my friends and almost dated her. Ill call her S. Then after hanging out with him and another friend of mine ill call P, im told he was really obsessed with S to the ... (414 words

I’ve been bullied by my brother-in-law for 17 years! What is the best revenge?

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22 September 2018 (F age 26-29 - I have a brother in law and for 17 years he has disliked me from the very moment he laid eyes on me. I am a very likeable and confident, and id like to say hot girl lol i am hilarious and fun love to tell stories and make people laugh i dont have any enemies in truth, only him. ... (329 words

Confused and not sure if I'm in love anymore!

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21 September 2018 (M age 26-29 - Hey fellow cupids. I'm a little bit confused and have been for some time. I'm in a long term relationship and care for my partner, probably even love (sorry I'm not an emotional guy so it's hard to understand my feelings sometimes). For the last two months I haven't been int... (155 words

Should I give up on a shy guy? Is he just not that into me?

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21 September 2018 (F age 26-29 - I've been friends/acquaintances with a guy for 6 months now. I don't know him all that well but when we talk we would really get on and have a lot in common. He wow make excuses to come chat to me all the time. He's 10 years older than me and quite shy. Not my usual type an... (497 words

Why is this married female coworker playing games?

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21 September 2018 (M age 36-40 - Why would married female coworker who is friendly with everyone shower me with gifts just told me she cheated on her husband before out the blue seeks me out all day but today she invites me to smoke and then ignores me and wouldn't even sit next to me saying she was worried ... (88 words

Her husband abruptly didn’t want to move! Any advice on how I can advise her?

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21 September 2018 (M age 36-40 - A good friend of mine is very upset. She had accepted a promotion with her company to move to Florida. Her husband is a pilot for a major airline and also made arrangements to relocate to Florida. So my friend went through the process to buy a house and give her notice at her ... (164 words

Good date but no sparks. Should I ask for a second?

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21 September 2018 (M age 30-35 - Hi all, I went on a first date with a girl last night. We met on a dating website. I am unsure what to do next. She was a nice girl and I think the date went well. It was comfortable and conversation flowed. She said at the end that it felt like she’d known me for a long ti... (426 words

Iv recently found out my wife has had sex with women

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21 September 2018 (M age 41-50 - Hi, found this site accidentally while googling my issue. Ive been with someone 28 years and married 25 years, been together since late teens, thought everything was ok but now I know isnt. Iv recently found out my wife has had sex on more that a few occasions with other ... (199 words

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