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My wife wants an open relationship, I don't

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15 December 2017 (M age 41-50 - My wife insists on a open relationship for her but not for me. I am very resentful about this but she says its this or nothing. I love her but I am going nuts.... (34 words

Is there a chance my crush likes me back?

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15 December 2017 (F age 22-25 - There is a guy nice guy at my church and I liked him the monent I saw him but he had a girlfriend and I back off which was a year ago and forgot about him. Me and him are in the same weekly church group but never really talked much Recently I had a dream about him and wo... (269 words

Do I need to step out of my bubble with this outgoing guy?

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15 December 2017 (F age 26-29 - Hello Aunts and Uncles I'm not in any precarious situation but just looking for some advice on things in my relationship i've just not encountered before. About two years ago I left a long term relationship, it was wholly amicable and ended because it just felt like a frie... (434 words

Our intimacy is gone and I don't know what to think or say?!?

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15 December 2017, 4 hours ago (M age 51-59 - Don’t know what to think or say!! I haven been married for 15 years to a wonderful lady. Like every marriage we have encountered ups and downs. For about a year our intimacy is gone. She gets off work at 5:30pm arrives home at 8:30pm. She is always on social media. Sleeps ... (115 words

How do I act with this coworker?

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15 December 2017 (F age 30-35 - How do I act with my coworker- a little background -when I started working for this law firm I noticed that me and one of the senior lawyer were attracted to each other BUT he is married. Although I would never push the envelope I do notice he might also be attracted - he has ... (439 words

What is a normal amount of sex?

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15 December 2017 (F age 30-35 - Im 30 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 10 years. We don't have any kids. How much sex would be 'normal'? Id say on average we probably do it twice a month. ... (35 words

I'm unhappy that my husband takes me forgranted

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15 December 2017 (F age 41-50 - feel i am taken for granted and im sick of it. i like to buy nice things for my home and i take after my mother being house proud. hubby doesnt even notice at times when ive bought something and i have to tell him. i got some money from my mother which she gave because she said ... (222 words

I love him and want to be his but I don't want to get hurt

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15 December 2017 (F age 22-25 - So I started dating this guy I never though I’d be with and fell in love with him and he fell in love with me. We had the best relationship. Well he joined the military a year after dating and I decided I was going to support him, that my love for him was enough go to wait and ... (376 words

My negative body image is ruining my life in every way

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15 December 2017 (F age 26-29 - Dear cupid, without going into too much detail, I used to be overweight through out all my teen years, and after a major depression for a period of over 3 years, I was obese at 340 pounds. Over the past 2 years I got weight loss surgery and have lost 130 pounds putting m... (240 words

Is this my motherhood talking or would I have changed my mind as I grew older anyway?

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14 December 2017 (F age 30-35 - I have a daughter who will soon become a teenager. (they grow up sooo fast!). My sister commented that we'll soon have some dating-drama in the house. Which made me think of my teenage and young adult years. What would I do as a mother if my daughter at some point wanted to ... (391 words

In a long term relationship, partner isn't paying attention to me, I'm cheating on him with someone who's also in a relationship but isn't "long term boyfriend material". So confused! What do I do?

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14 December 2017 (F age 22-25 - Hi there, so I’ve been with my partner for 7 years, living together for 2. I’ve been completely loyal until now, but have been feeling unhappy and a little taken for granted for a while now. My boyfriend has a good heart and is loyal, but he is also bad tempered, grumpy and ... (414 words

Will I never be with my soulmate? It seems fate is keeping us apart

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14 December 2017 (F age 30-35 - I met the love of my life when I was 14, we fell in love so deep. The world was our oyster, growing together year after year, experiencing every 1st thing together. Bad and good. Both our life’s were tragically twisted and I made a mistake when I was 22 and left him without... (1529 words

My female friend said she had an "inappropriate" dream about me. What could it be?

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14 December 2017 (M age 22-25 - A friend of the opposite gender brought something up. We were talking about dreams, all sorts of dreams, and then she said 'I had a dream about you recently'. I asked what the dream was about and then after a long pause she responded with 'it's inappropriate'. So I just said ... (67 words

How do I get the power back in the relationship?

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14 December 2017 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I started an affair with a guy from work around 1 year ago, who actively pursued me. The relationship I was in was physically and dometically abusive and around 5 months ago after police involvement I left him and moved out on my own, which was a daunting experience for me. ... (493 words

Not sure how I feel about this married man anymore, what should I do?

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13 December 2017 (F age 18-21 - Hey all! So I've been hooking up with a married man (mid 30s, yes I know im terrible for it) for about 9 months now, but the first time we had sex, we didnt communicate or see each other for almost 3 months, like I actually thought I wouldn't see or speak to him again, but we ... (701 words

I'm doing all the work in the relationship!

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13 December 2017 (F age 18-21 - I have been dating this guy for 3 months now. I really love him and feel like he could possible be the one to walk into my future with. He carries a lot of baggage in regards to sexual abuse, drug abuse and so on. He is taking anti-depressants and is also in therapy. My ... (261 words

I always seek validation, but I shouldn't really need it!

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13 December 2017 (F age 30-35 - Why do I attract these men or better yet these people in my life? Hello aunts I am turning 32 next month and I am at a dead end with men . I have stoped daring and having sex for the last year an a half but I don’t jnow why I attract men that are negligent- self centered - and ... (283 words

He wants me to change, I want him to love me as I am.

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13 December 2017 (F age 26-29 - I'm feeling kind of hopeless in the relationship I'm in. We'e been together nearly 10 months, age gap between us is 15 years. We get a long great, there is so much chemistry. We love each other very much. There is however an issue that we find ourselves arguing over again and ... (311 words

Still hurt over the break-up

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12 December 2017 (F age 26-29 - I have 2 kids and one on the way. My bf and I have been together for 2 yrs, but were together 2 yrs prior, when we had our first child. Things didn't work then because I had self-esteem issues. After we broke up, he moved on to another relationship and stayed in it until a yr ... (436 words

My boyfriend is being brutally honest and I can't cope with it.

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12 December 2017 (F age 30-35 - Been dating for a year and it's the BEST relationship I've ever been in. However, he's starting to be brutally honest and I'm not liking it. I've told him how I felt, even cried and I try to avoid certain topics just because where it can lead to. He wants to be in a honest ... (96 words

Hard for me to tell if he is genuine

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11 December 2017 (F age 16-17 - Hi everyone. I’m just asking for advice because I’ve been out of the dating game for a while and I’m not sure how to go about pursuing a relationship. Basically, my ex and I broke up in March and it took me until October to really get over him. I haven’t really developed ... (790 words

I want to work on myself and stay single. How do I keep from letting men distract me?

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11 December 2017 (F age 22-25 - Hi ladies, as the end of 2017 is approaching I’ve made a decision to be single for awhile. It seems like 2017 was full of meaningless sex with people I thought it would work out with and it just ended up not going anywhere. So I decided to work on myself and taking care of ... (145 words

I have a health problem that makes me feel unworthy of a man's love

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11 December 2017 (F age 26-29 - What really makes us worthy of love? I have been losing hair since teenage years and my hair density has gradually declined (not bald yet). With treatment, I have stopped the hair loss to some extent and seeing some new hair growth. But, fighting a genetic hair loss is fig... (131 words

Our sexual needs are different

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11 December 2017 (M age 51-59 - My girl friend and I got in an argument last night about sex. I get tired it’s me who wants sex. She never starts it, and now she is too tired, because of work, one full time job an one part time job. I realize that, but now it’s the holidays. She is too busy. It’s only been ... (137 words

Religion may be the stumbling block for us

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11 December 2017 (M age 30-35 - I'm an atheist (born to Christian parents) and my fiancé is Christian. We both want kids. She recently asked me if I was willing to give them a Christian upbringing when they arrive. I want them to make the decision about a deity when they can think for themselves. So I made an ... (330 words

Feeling guilty I missed hen do

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11 December 2017 (F age 26-29 - Hi everyone. I'm having a friendship dilemma. A close friend is no longer speaking to me because I didn't attend her hen do. I declined months prior due to the dates not being good for me - it's a month of birthdays and prior planned trips. Speaking to her recently she... (164 words

Do I owe her an apology?

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11 December 2017 (M age 26-29 - Dear cupid, Guys I've done something stupid and I don't know how to make it up. I feel like I am a dirt bag for this but I feel like I was being taken advantage of and I lashed out. See I've kind of sort of been seeing this girl for the past 7 months. We've seen each other ... (426 words

My roommate and her boyfriend constantly hog my couch, but other than that, they're not much of a bother. Am I right in feeling irritated?

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11 December 2017 (F age 22-25 - I'm not sure if this is ok to ask, but I'm having issues with my roommate. I feel like I may possibly be overreacting, so tell me your thoughts. We've lived together without issues since July. However, she has a long distance boyfriend who visits on weekends. It use... (522 words

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