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I’m pregnant and confused and worried about what I should have happen next!

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12 November 2018 (F age 36-40 - Just wanted to ask others opinions on this subject. Basically i have quite a bit of bad look with relationships, i have my own house and and have been living on my own now with just my dog and rabbit which is how i like it for 3 years now. I did meet someone just under a year ... (668 words

Do I go with the flow on this one? Or try and dial it back to friends only and if so how?

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12 November 2018 (F age 30-35 - I got back in touch with an old male friend around 9 months ago. We were close friends years ago and I was a good friend of his girlfriend. I've been in a relationship with someone else and whilst it started out as friends only, around 3 months in he started showing he was ... (297 words

He literally flipped in 8 hours! Is he blowing me off?

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12 November 2018 (F age 30-35 - Is he blowing me off? I've been friends with this guy for years. We talk daily and have recently decided to take things to the next level since we are both finally single at the same time. Plus, he always lived about 6 hours away and now hes only a little over an hour away. I ... (121 words

The girls I want to date end up dating other guys!

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12 November 2018 (M age 26-29 - Hi everyone! This isn't such a serious situation, just looking for some advice and guidance. I met a girl a few weeks ago, we exchanged numbers and she went back to her city 2 hours away. We chatted every day, she flirted a lot and we had a good connection, talking all day... (302 words

I don’t know if I should date my coworker!

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11 November 2018 (F age 30-35 - UI think I know the answer to this, but I’m looking for someone to confirm that I’m doing the right thing. I’ve been in my current job for a year, and have sat right next to a man who is around my age. He’s not my normal type physically, but as we’ve got to know each other ... (386 words

Are LDR's real relationships, even if you haven't met them yet?

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11 November 2018 (F age 18-21 - Hello, I am currently in a long distance relationship with a man. He is from the US, and is 21 years old, and I am from the UK, and am 18 years old. We met online, and have been together for a couple of months now. We are still going strong: We are literally on call... (437 words

He wants to be friends only!

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11 November 2018 (F age 30-35 - I have been seeing a guy on and off for around 10 months, we’ve never gotten past the casual first stage due to him not being ready and so there have been gaps where we haven’t seen each other and dated other people, however always seem to come together again. About 2 months ... (209 words

How to get him to see the urgency for a house and a family?

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11 November 2018 (F - I have been with my husdand for just over 6 years and we are newly wed only married for 5 months. I find I am increasingly getting down and upset as we have been living in a caravan for 5 years together on his parents farm and we now have a good deposit to buy a home, but he ... (138 words

A month in, I hate my new career!

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11 November 2018 (F age 26-29 - Dear cupid, Not really a relationship question, more a career related. Hi I’m nearly 30 years old and have been working self employed/contracting to employers in the construction field since I finished school. I have always liked my job but it’s not high paying. A few year... (248 words

I've got a crush on the check out chck!

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11 November 2018 (M - Over the last couple of months i have been getting very friendly with a girl who works on the checkout at my local supermarket. We chat a lot and share lots of eye contact, and when i am walking away with my trolley after paying i look back and she is still fixated on me. Now ... (205 words

Worst mistake of my life!! Don’t know what to do

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11 November 2018 (F age 22-25 - I’m in the worst situation I could ever be in in my life I’ve made the biggest mistake ever and now I don’t know what to do I am suffering badly! I am 14 weeks pregnant but ended up cheating the night before I found out I was pregnant I know how bad this sounds I can’t believe ... (530 words

I'm not in lov with him but scared of his reaction if I tell him.

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11 November 2018 (F age 26-29 - How do you break up with someone your not in love with without hurting them?I think my new boyfriend is obsessed with me and something just doesn't feel right. About a year ago I had a hurtful breakup with my ex boyfriend of 3 years who I deeply loved.I was so devastated I ... (340 words

My girlfriend is perfect, but I want an open relationship.

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11 November 2018 (M age 22-25 - Hi people. I met my current girlfriend a little over two years ago and I was not the social type back then. I never really went out a lot and hanging out with friends was pretty much 'indoor'. After I met her I became very outgoing. We went to concerts literally weekl... (376 words

I like a guy but another girl might steal him.

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11 November 2018 (F age 13-15 - I like this uy named Jonah but im not sure how to go about it because we only talk in school and this one girl Aliyah may steal him but I feel like me and him have a connection... (40 words

I can't believe he couldnt see how I felt.

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10 November 2018 (F age 26-29 - I love a guy who is a good friend of mine and he doesnt know that I love him. At present we are not at all in talking terms. Let me explain how all this happened. 6-7 months back it came to my realization that I love him because I sensed jealousy in me when one of our friend s... (456 words

My head is everywhere and I can't make a decision.

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10 November 2018 (F age 22-25 - I’ve been with my boyfriend for 16 months and he left to go Australia in Feb this year, I knew from the start that that was his plans and I was fine with it and both decided to keep things the same way knowing with it being a long distance relationship it’s going to be hard, we ... (409 words

Should I be strong and not burden people with my problems?

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10 November 2018 (F age 30-35 - I'm really upset but wondering if I have every right to be or if my boyfriend was spot on and I need to get a grip. I have two children with my ex, we were together 8 years but then he cheated with his now wife. They got married within months of us splitting up. They've b... (339 words

I love him but I feel sad and ignored.

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10 November 2018 (F age 26-29 - Hello everyone, I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months, but things have been rocky lately. Here's a little background info: i'm 27 and he's 36 years old, and has 4 kids. I do not have any kids of my own. Things were good in the beginning, but since mid summer,... (284 words

I feel pathetic, its seven years and I am still not over him!

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10 November 2018 (F age 26-29 - Hi all, I’m going to keep this short and sweet and any help and advice is greatly appreciated. I was in a long distance relationship that ended in 2011 because my partner got depressed due to me always leaving to go back home. I’m Scottish and he’s Canadian and in 2011 we w... (334 words

Sometimes I feel lost about who I am.

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9 November 2018 (F age 30-35 - Hi All, Might sound like a silly issue raised, but I have a problem trying to have self belief sometimes. I feel I have come from a relatively tough background (in comparison to most people around me) divorced immature parents, a mother with a personality disorder that ha... (537 words

I'm 20 yet my parents don't want me to date.

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9 November 2018 (F age 18-21 - Hi everyone, this might get quite lengthy as there are back stories to the issues. Bear with me! First of all, I’m 20 years old in my 2nd year of university and I come from a Chinese family. And yes, the typical stereotypes of asian households applies here. So the problem l... (1577 words

I cheated, fell pregnant, boyfriend left, I believe its his baby.

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9 November 2018 (F age 18-21 - I cheated on my boyfriend and I found out I was pregnant in a month time. When I told my boyfriend about it he told me to give birth but after he will have a DNA test. I had to tell him the truth that I cheated on him.he then said he is not responsible since I cheated on him. ... (106 words

She seems open but what if she is telling me lies?

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9 November 2018 (M age 30-35 - Been single now for about 5 months after a long term relationship, and met someone a few weeks ago that i hit it off with, it happend very randomly and out of the blue. being careful, or at least trying to be ive had my guard up. but it feels right to me.. when we talk its not ... (260 words

Should I apologize before the concert or just leave it alone?

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8 November 2018 (F age 18-21 - When we were dating, I had given my ex a Louis Vuitton necklace. After we broke up, I knew he would just throw it away, so I asked for it back and he said he would mail it. A week later, it hadn’t come in the mail, so I texted him and asked if he mailed it. 2 hours later he ... (482 words

I don't want to hurt his feelings but I don't see this being a long term forever thing

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8 November 2018 (F age 30-35 - I've been seeing a guy since August we both got out of relationships shortly before so we just decided to have fun with it. we've known each other since March and got on well as friends but as both of us were in relationships we never displayed any flirty behaviours. Then when ... (189 words

I'm sick of this man being a ghost in our relationship.

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8 November 2018 (M age 26-29 - Early this year my girlfriend did an internship in another city. I was too busy to visit and she didn't have much time either, so she only travelled back here a couple of times. I missed her and was looking forward to her getting back. Then she admitted she had got drunk and ... (358 words

My boyfriend doesn't want children, my mother is heartbroken.

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8 November 2018 (F age 30-35 - I met my boyfriend 1 year ago. He is 40 and I am 30. He told me about 3 months into the relationship that he does not want to have any children. I am confused because I am not sure if I want to have any. I know that my current circumstances will not suit a child at all and to ... (373 words

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