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I just got married and I feel that my marriage is already breaking

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21 February 2019, 2 hours ago (F age 30-35 - Dear cupid I just got married and already feel like my marriage is failing, to be precise nothing changed i.e we were living together even before marriage so it's the same. But my husband emotional support is almost none to these days Most of the things he say just to hu... (178 words

Can you please give me some ideas on how to make his birthday special?

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21 February 2019, 2 hours ago (F age 16-17 - So my boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a month and his birthday is coming up next month and I want to do something really special for him but I cant really think of anything. Any ideas would be greatly appreciated! Thank you!... (47 words

I broke up with my violent boyfriend, he wants the ring back but I paid for it!

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20 February 2019, 2 hours ago (F age 41-50 - I have just broken up with my boyfriend of twenty years due to his violent behaviour. the thing is he says he wants the ring he bought me back which is expensive but I feel like in all fairness I have paid for the ring as I gave the cost of the ring by giving the same amount in ... (130 words

Does a heart break months after the relationship ends?

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20 February 2019, 12 hours ago (F age 30-35 - I dumped him a month ago and I have been doing okay ...I actually thought I had it easy this time ...until this week when it seems his haunting my thoughts every second ...Does a heart break months after the relationship has ended? ... I dumped him because he is a chronic liar ... (151 words

Is this flirting behavior from my doctor?

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20 February 2019, 12 hours ago (F age 41-50 - I have just been detecting a vibe. He is a bit touchy feely, like he will touch my hands (playing with my fingers) or my shoulder, and sit close and lean in. He also runs hot and cold. If I am serious he starts to flirt or if I start to flirt he gets serious. He will fidget and ... (279 words

I’m in an exclusive long distance relationship, despite my desire for it to be open, and I started cheating. What do I do?

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20 February 2019, 12 hours ago (F age 18-21 - I’m a freshman In college and am doing long distance with a boy I started dating about a year ago (during my senior year of high school). I truly believe that I’m in love with him, as I dated a boy before him and learned the difference between just loving someone and being ... (471 words

I need help with work and love advice! Please help!

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20 February 2019 (M age 26-29 - So I’m having a frustrated year so far.... Work I closed my business last year after over 3 years of trading and got into a retail job, I then got let go from that retail job and the got called to go to a different branch. I hate it! I try to see the positive in it all but I ... (307 words

Am I fighting a losing battle? She is still speaking to her abusive husband!

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20 February 2019 (M age 30-35 - So... there's a woman I've been talking to for a little over a month. And when we're together, things are good for the most part. The problem is... this woman is married to a man that she has been involved with for a few years. He has threatened her, threatened me, h... (316 words

My boyfriend often makes me feel inferior and I am not sure if I see a future with him. Please help?

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20 February 2019 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend of 5 years and I had a huge argument recently. I mentioned applying for a 6-month advisory governmental job in another town. He got very angry and said he doesn't want to do long distance again (we had done it for a year internationally while he attended a highly ... (472 words

I’m scared to talk to him about my desire to have children! Help?!

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19 February 2019 (F age 22-25 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now and we're both very happy but there's one thing that I feel scared to talk to him about and it's the subject of children, he's had relationships in the past that have ended badly and this worries me sometimes, recently I ... (125 words

He played games with me and I need your help to understand why!?

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19 February 2019 (F age 41-50 - I am a mature person (not perfect and have many flaws, I am only human), I met this guy who was 10 years older than me 4 years ago, I told him I did not want not want to go out with him as my previous relationships have broken down and they have cheated on me (yes I have my ... (293 words

Our sex life needs improvement but how do I approach it because he gets upset and feels bad!

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19 February 2019 (F age 18-21 - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for a year and 2 months, our relationship is good the only thing that kinda sucks is when we do it.. I'm his first but he isnt mine, when we do it he never takes the time to make me wet, he just goes and spit and gets to business, and sometime... (181 words

I get angry over little things, and he thinks that’s dumb!

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19 February 2019 (F age 18-21 - Hi I've been with my boyfriend for a year and 2 months. Our relationship is good and I'm happy with him.. but I dont seem to stop getting mad over tiny things, or sometimes i get mad at something and he thinks its dumb or that i shouldn't be getting mad at. Example: tod... (177 words

Do you think he’s basically telling me to leave?

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18 February 2019 (F age 22-25 - So last night my S/O and I got into an argument. We were at walmart leaving and our daughter stopped to whine about getting some gumballs so I wasn't paying attention to where I was walking and accidentally bumped into the entrance doors of the walmart and it sort of unhinged ... (339 words

I really like her and want to continue communication with her, but she’s on holiday! I don’t want to put a foot wrong, so I need advice!

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18 February 2019 (M age 26-29 - Hey everyone, This feels really pathetic but any advice will help. Basically I’m messaging a girl who I met a few weeks back. She lives just over an hour away and i met her on a night out. Since then I went back the following weekend to see her and I said next time I’ll take... (433 words

Do you think it's possible to build a relationship over feelings for a different person?

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18 February 2019 (F age 18-21 - I've recently started flatting with five other people. One in particular, I'll call him S, I didn't know very well, so I assumed everything would be fine and we all signed on for a years tenancy contract. That was maybe 8 months ago, and during the next few months S and I st... (237 words

He couldn't get it up! Any ideas why?

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18 February 2019 (F age 18-21 - Hie Cupid, I fell in love with a very amazing guy, about two months ago. He's in love with me too. So, after hanging out for six times only (writing this because it might be the answer to my doubt), on Valentine's day, we both decided to lose our virginity. Now, the foreplay... (354 words

I’m bi, my friend is straight, but she said it was okay to flirt with her! What does her behaviour mean?

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18 February 2019 (F age 16-17 - I am bisexual, turning 18 in March. I have a friend, who I think I am in love with... I told her I liked her but she told me that she is straight. But she also said before all this shit, that it's okay to flirt with her. One time, she and my other friends were talking ab... (225 words

I'm dating a restaurant owner who's 10 years older and struggles with money. Is it worth it?

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18 February 2019 (F age 26-29 - Hi everyone, It's a bit long but please be patient with me. I'm currently dating a restaurant owner for almost a month. We met a supermarket and he took courage to ask me out on a date. We really hit it off after the first date and continue seeing each other ever since. A... (579 words

My husband wants "space" to deal with his feelings of anger towards me

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17 February 2019 (F age 36-40 - Hello, I am a mother of 3 wonderful children. My husabnd and I have been married for over 10 years. I love him dearly. Recently he has asked for "space." Claims his job and our marital issues are overwhelming him. Says he loves me but doesn't have romantic feelings towards ... (168 words

I hate the way my partner talks about my children and I'd rather live alone than be trapped in a relationship with him

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17 February 2019 (F age 30-35 - Hi there. I am in a long-term relationship and love my partner but i feel very trapped. I have 2 children from a previous relationship that are teenagers and my partner doesnt have a strong relationship with them but they do all get along well most of the time. My problem is ... (175 words

Why don't I have any drive or passion for my business ideas?

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17 February 2019 (M age 30-35 - This isn't about love but I could really use some advice. I hope that's ok. I poured lots of money into a tv show pilot, the problem is I'm not motivated to continue with the idea. I think the idea is good and needed but I find myself dragging myself to get sponsors. I started ... (166 words

I’m falling out of love, but can’t manage to walk away! Any advice?

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17 February 2019 (M age 36-40 - Hi everyone my name is James, i am currently in a 9 year relationship. For the last few years i felt like ive fallen out of love with my girlfriend. I am the only source of income in the relationship. Im very ambitious she is the complete opposite. I literally pay for ... (409 words

How can I deal with my anger?

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17 February 2019 (F age 30-35 - Hello I am preparing myself emotionally and physically for life in my mid 30”s. My twenties were a series of parties - insecurities and putty fears with occasional breakdowns Throughout my self reflection I have noticed that I get angry very quickly and I want to fix t... (243 words

Is my husband crossing a line in his interactions with female friends?

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17 February 2019 (F age 30-35 - Hello, Should I be concerned with how my husband interacts with certain females? Example: he was discussing valentines plans with a coworker and when she asked if he was doing anything, he said no. It isn’t entirely untrue because we didn’t go out, but you would think he w... (179 words

I don't like children at all but why am I thinking about the possibilty?

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17 February 2019 (F age 26-29 - I’m 26 and have never ever ever wanted children in my whole life and the thought of giving birth and being pregnant makes me feel sick and squeamish. I don’t even find babies or children cute and I get very uncomfortable around them~ at Christmas I was helping my boyfriends 5 ... (529 words

He is slow responding to texts! What to do?

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16 February 2019 (M age 36-40 - Hi, I met this guy about 3 weeks in person. He lives a 2-hour flight far from me. We have also videochatted twice. We seem to like each other, but he usually responds late to my texts. On Wednesday, I decided to delay my response by 5 hours on purpose. He hasn't replied yet [to ... (96 words

I’m so broken up about his porn use and his cheating behaviors!

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16 February 2019 (F age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been living together for almost 3 years. Recently I have been seeing allot of things on his phone his name is connected to dating profiles 2 email addresses several text and history in his phone. I feel like he’s been looking and cheating on me and he ... (258 words

He tells me I insulted him by asking if he was gay! Help?

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16 February 2019 (F age 30-35 - Hello. Recently the man I live with have been acting strange.We had a lot of arguments and he crossed boundaries and spent a lot of money from my savings account.We kinda broke up but we still live together because he said we should make it work.Recently I discovered he watches ... (190 words

My boyfriend’s ex-partner is a nightmare! I feel like we are constantly looking over our shoulders!

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16 February 2019 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend's ex partner is a nightmare - and I feel like we're constantly looking over our shoulders. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year. Things are great between the two of us and we are very happy. The problem we have is that his ex girlfriend i... (393 words

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