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Does my FWB have feelings for me?

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20 October 2017, 8 hours ago (F age 22-25 - I've been friends with benefits with a guy for over 3 years. We hook up nearly every week. I telephoned him today to speak to him, he was busy building a draw and I didn't realise I was on loud speaker, during the call we were talking and he was saying it's not been long enough ... (112 words

Given his past, do you think that this man would be a good parent to my daughter?

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20 October 2017, 8 hours ago (F age 30-35 - I recently left an abusive marriage, and have been seeing a man from work for almost a year. He moved in with my kids and I over the summer. He has always been very sweet and caring to all of us, but the relationship isn't perfect, though I love him. I was aware that he ... (212 words

My boyfriend revealed a secret and my question is how do I deal with what he told me?

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19 October 2017 (F age 36-40 - My new boyfriend of almost 5 month has been suffering from ptsd i knew this when we first got together , he decided to be open tonight and told me a shocking secret he had kept from me , he admitted he sometimes smokes weed to help him relax and sleep because of all the ' ... (184 words

She takes more than she gives and I know part of the problem is her low self-esteem!

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19 October 2017 (M age 26-29 - Hi, when I told my girlfriend that I love her she replied, for the first time, that she does as well, although she doesn't know if it's really love. She justified this with saying that she discussed the matter with her mom and when her mother asked her whether she would be ... (235 words

Is this a ploy to make me jealous?

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19 October 2017 (F age 18-21 - This guy and I decided to be friend with benefits before uni' but when we got to uni, it was quite different. The guy is in his late 20s and we go to each other's place to sleep over but we simply end up cuddling and kissing. We got into an argument and he came over days la... (128 words

Being used by my boyfriend and I don't know how to get rid of him

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19 October 2017 (M age 30-35 - I will try to make it short as possible, I am 35 years old gay and I dated a guy few months ago, specifically in May and I really liked him, everything was great , although he is way younger than me 24 years old, but I felt that he loves me, he introduced me to his friends and ... (819 words

Haunted by the past and now I'm expecting

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18 October 2017 (F age 22-25 - Hey, my name is Nancy, I'm 22 years old. I don’t know how to make this story short, but here we go Man, I've been feeling really depressed since early this year, my mental stability was ruined the day I accidentally found my husband's sex tape with a beautiful girl, and I di... (1236 words

Family squabble upsetting my new relationship

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18 October 2017 (F age 26-29 - My boy friend and I r relatively a new couple. He lives with his twin brother and a friend. I was staying in their place for the first time and just to clarify. Before that night me and his brother were getting along real well that I would call him real friendly with me. Around ... (279 words

I don’t know if I should stop talking to him or give it a chance?

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18 October 2017 (F age 18-21 - I have been texting this guy for 2 months everyday and sometimes we talk on the phone. We live in two different states I keep telling him I want to move to a different state and he wants me to move to his state because he says "I'll already know one person there" talking about ... (136 words

Was I out of line and is my boyfriend right in not trusting me?

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18 October 2017 (F age 22-25 - I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 years now. A few months ago I met a guy at work who I messaged after I left the job. He was quite flirty with me in this conversation but I didn't think it meant anything. About a month later he messaged me again asking if I was arou... (267 words

How do I lay my cards on the table? He wants to go into the Navy but I think he's missing a good thing in us!

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18 October 2017 (F age 22-25 - Hi. I'm sorry for the long email - but I feel like I need to get loads of details into this to give afull picture. Here's my story: I'm a 25-year-old woman who struggles to meet guys that I'm attracted to and have a really great connection with. Doesn't help that all of my f... (1567 words

My husband's coworker made some very odd comments and I'm wondering if there is something going on!

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18 October 2017 (F age 36-40 - Recently on a ride home my husbands coworker needed a ride home. While we were driving his coworker begin to flirt with my husband, He repeatedly said how much he liked my husband, saying my husband was one of a kind. How he had never met anyone like him, then he brought up a ... (277 words

Why am I hopelessly infatuated with this man?

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18 October 2017 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I was just wondering if someone could give me advice I'm with my husband for 16 years married 6 and have two wonderful children we had out up's and down's over the years I've been in and out of counselling due to child abuse and suffer with PTSD but I have come along ... (230 words

What should I do about feeling inadequate?

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18 October 2017 (F age 26-29 - First off, this is quite the premature question, but tonight, its all I can think about. A year ago, I had to escape a mentally, physically, sexually, and verbally abusive relationship. It was difficult to say the least. A few months after we seperated, I met an amazing man. I... (588 words

I'm being taken for granted and wonder if I should marry him!

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18 October 2017 (F age 26-29 - I have been with my bf for 9 years now and we both dicided to get married, and we had registered. Just lately I have been very uncomfortable with my fiancee, i dont fee like i am being loved, i am only his comfort. It has been probably my fault because i loved him so muc... (336 words

Do mixed signals just mean he's not interested?

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18 October 2017 (F age 26-29 - There's a guy in my graduate program who is very handsome. I knew him previously from a class during undergrad as well. He is also a gentleman and very kind to everyone he comes by. He's naturally friendly, social, and sweet. He says and does things that make me wonder if he is ... (332 words

This woman is getting close on the train!

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18 October 2017 (M age 41-50 - I catch the busy train to work in Tokyo everyday and there is this cute younger lady who gets on along the way. I am usually standing near the door anyway but somehow she seems to find her way in front of me so we are hugged and crushed together. We remain this way for around ... (114 words

Why would my guy friend joke about marrying me? Does it mean anything?

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18 October 2017 (F age 22-25 - This isn't the first time this guy has joked about us and marriage, but this just happened recently. I was over a friend's house, it was 4 of us. 2 guys and 2 girls (myself included). I said to Guy A: Heyy you need to find me a Caribbean husband that can cook as good as you! ... (169 words

Is masturbation gay?

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17 October 2017 (M age - If you are not thinking of anything and just masturbating for pleasure is this homosexual?... (15 words

I think he likes another girl but I don't know how to broach the topic

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17 October 2017 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months but it's not exactly official, his family don't know and only a couple of our close friends know, it's like a need to know basis. Recently he went on holiday back to his home town with a mutual friend of ours who knows w... (451 words

My ex hasn't told me his wife is filing for divorce

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17 October 2017 (F age - I've been seeing ex for some time. Yes, I know it's wrong it's a long story. anyway, his now wife is filing for divorce but he hasn't told me. heard from mutual friend. why would he not mention this?... (39 words

My boyfriend used to be a nerd but now acts like a 'Gangsta'

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17 October 2017 (F age 22-25 - He's a middle class white boy whose parents pay for everything including his Mini but he keeps acting like he wants to be the "gangster hood" stereotype and idk it really annoys me for some reason. My parents are also middle class but I was raised differently, is it stupid to ... (240 words

My guy friend denies being in a relationship and lied about becoming a father

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17 October 2017 (? age 22-25 - Hi everyone, so this situation is going to sound kind of crazy. There's this guy who I've been friends with for about 2 years. At this point, we spend a lot of time together, keep in contact on a daily basis, and share a lot of personal information with eachother in general. I ... (428 words

He's getting back together with his ex but doesn't want to lose my friendship

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17 October 2017 (F age 26-29 - I met a guy on-line. We dated for about 3 months and became intimate. He recently announced that he has been talking to his ex girlfriend and they have decided to try it again but he does not want to lose my friendship. He wants to meet with me. He lives in London for 3 ... (156 words

My boyfriend and I argued again, this time over laundry

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16 October 2017 (F age 26-29 - I suppose this might be my fault but my boyfriend and I haven't spoken in the last 24 hours because of...laundry. Enter scene: I'm a 25 year old working two jobs currently (soon to quit one to go back to school). He is a 29 year old working on his master's with no job curr... (497 words

Can't seem to say no to sex anymore and actually mean it. What should I do?

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16 October 2017 (F age 18-21 - Can't seem to say no to sex anymore and actually mean it. What should I do? Hi I'm 18 and I've had sex with two guys, including the one I lost my virginity to. He was a friend and still is, but he occasionally flirts and I respond to it. We hung out a few times to see if ... (461 words

His online world has me worried

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16 October 2017 (F age 51-59 - Hi All My husband is addicted to Facebook, constantly checking his Facebook even when we are out shopping/socialising etc. I have had to accept this and we have had many arguments over it. He does not listen. Recently he has set up an Instagram account and follows tw... (387 words

How can I gauge how much he loves me?

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16 October 2017 (F age 36-40 - Guys help please.. What does it mean when he says he thinks of me sometimes all day? I am trying to figure out how he feels i guess... I know i am in love with him pretty much and i think of him everyday all day see.... Now that would mean that well he not in love like i am ... (83 words

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