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Could our relationship be salvaged?

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16 August 2017, 14 hours ago (M age 26-29 - So this past Monday my girlfriend of 6 months split up with me. She's just got back from a week away with her sister and the day she went away told me she had been thinking about it because of how I react to things and how she's constantly worrying how I'm going to react. (... (700 words

Have I done the right thing in leaving this relationship?

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16 August 2017, 14 hours ago (M age 51-59 - I've been in a relationship for 7 years. The relationship transpired from my girlfriend having an affair. She promised when separated that we would spend more time together. 7 yeas on and she hasn't told her children about me and her ex is around her house doing various jobs. ... (139 words

Is my husband pretending?

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16 August 2017 (F age 30-35 - Sorry in advance if too much information! My husband and myself were having sex last night, usually he closes his eyes during sex, which used to bother me but he said it was just concentration on the pleasurable sensations, so it doesnt bother me anymore. (I'm sure there... (192 words

What is the point of this relationship? Unbiased advice requested!

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16 August 2017, 15 hours ago (F age 36-40 - I am so angry and upset. I am honestly considering if the better option is to just walk away from my five year relationship. I am really sorry but this is going to be quite long. I need some advice, or just pointed in the right direction. I wish I could allow you access... (792 words

How do I curb his frantic sex?

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16 August 2017 (F age 18-21 - I currently started dating this new guy and everything is going great only problem is that he is insatiable. We have only been on two dates and we have spent both nights together however the first night we just made out and I spent the night there because it was raining ... (511 words

Married but falling for someone across the world

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15 August 2017 (F age 41-50 - I'm married with 3 children. A few weeks ago, I met a wonderful man in a pub in Edinburgh. He's Australian and was on a cricket tour. We instantly connected and got on do well I found myself being attracted to him. We shared a kiss at the end of the night. Before I go further... (154 words

Help me end my loneliness

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15 August 2017 (F age 18-21 - Has anyone else ever felt completely alone? I feel like my friends are drifting away from me. I also feel like I will never find someone who will actually treat me the way I deserve. I guess my question is have you ever felt alone? And what did you do to change it?... (53 words

He's a sweet person except when he's turned on!

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15 August 2017 (M age 22-25 - Dear Cupid(s), I am very confused. At the beginning of the year I met a guy and things seemed to be going really well. Both of us were virgins, and when we finally had sex it felt like that became all our entire relationship was about. I started to feel used, because when he'... (304 words

I'm annoyed about his contradictory comments about not wanting children but not using birth control with his exes!

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15 August 2017 (F age 41-50 - I have been seeing my boyfriend for three months and in general we get on well. But one thing that keeps cropping up is his exes. The other evening the subject of children were brought up (he hasn't got any). He told me that he had not used protection with his wife of eight ... (188 words

Career or relationship? On the cusp of a big decision, I would like your advice!

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15 August 2017 (M age 22-25 - So life has finally slowed down a bit. Its been roughly two months since graduation and my folks think that I should move on with my life. Ive been dating my girlfriend since January last year and its been a roller coaster of emotions that I wouldn't trade for anything... (614 words

I got back with my ex but I am struggling!

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15 August 2017 (F age 22-25 - Hi everyone! Would I please able to get some opinions on my situation. I was with my ex boyfriend for almost a year we got on very well and had a pretty good relationship. Although towards the end we began arguing and bickering over different things and it got more and more... (455 words

My girlfriend is waiting after a fight for me to says its all my fault. I'm not going to do that again.

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15 August 2017 (F age 26-29 - Hey all, My partner of five years and I had a fight two days ago and we haven't spoken since and I miss her a lot. Usually I am always the one that goes running back and gets us to make up but I'm just tired of her never making that effort. The fight is because I feel li... (575 words

One minute he says he's not going anywhere, the next he is avoiding discussing feelings!

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15 August 2017 (F age 36-40 - I'm not sure what to think about this situation anymore. I have a male friend who told me that he'd like to be romantically involved with me, however we agreed to wait until my divorce is finalized. We have been close friends otherwise. He told me he will be forever supportive ... (253 words

My best friend's new boyfriend is my former FWB

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14 August 2017 (F age 22-25 - Hi I had a FWB for 6 months the sex was amazing I just got out of a long term relationship and he just enjoyed being single I didn't feel anything for him other than friends and him with me I started texting someone who I genuinely liked and it stopped from there It was mo... (410 words

Should I invest in this relationship when I'm not completely trusted?

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14 August 2017 (M age 30-35 - Hi, I'm in a relationship for ~ 2 and a half years. She means a lot to me, and I to her (or so she leads me to believe). We get on very well, I enjoy and feel very much at ease with her and all that good stuff. However, I do not feel very trusted by her as to be involved... (258 words

My question is does that mean I just want sex again and I'm mistakening that feeling for wanting a relationship

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14 August 2017 (F age 18-21 - Hi I'm an 18 y/o girl and I've never had a boyfriend but I'm also not a virgin. I lost my virginity to my guy friend, which wasn't planned at all, but it happened and I guess I don't regret my first time. Better off with someone I trust and respect and who respects me than some ... (236 words

I'm OK with just sex. Should that be a problem?

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14 August 2017 (F age 22-25 - Commitment issues with no commitment? I met this great guy, neither of us are looking for a long-term commitment and we have great chemistry and amazing sex and we have had open talks about it not being a serious thing. BUT he seems to always freak out/take 5 days to text me ... (97 words

Any advice on reconciliation?

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14 August 2017 (M age 26-29 - Hello, my ex' and I have been chatting for the last couple months again and getting closer. We talk to each other all day and even make time to spend with each other a couple days a week. I'm taking her to lunch tomorrow and am going to ask to reconcile and apologize for ... (96 words

I've developed feelings for her, should I tell her? She's 20 years younger than I am.

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14 August 2017 (M age 36-40 - This is a bit of a strange situation, but bear with me. I am a big Meat Loaf fan, and together with other FB Mad about Meat Loaf group members, we set up a fund to get one of the members, who has ME, down to London from Hull to see the Bat Out of Hell musical. The young la... (267 words

Should I back off being friends with him?

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14 August 2017 (F age 30-35 - I'm a member of a sports club and have been for a while now. We meet a couple of times a week and it's great fun. About a year and a half ago I became friends with a guy in the group. We share a similar sense of humour and background. This has led to us becoming the closest ... (223 words

How do I overcome this fear of rejection and anxiety?

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14 August 2017 (M age 26-29 - I am 27 years old and I get anxiety when I approach a woman. I'm a heavy set guy, but more athletic than fat. I've been in relationships before but at this point in my life I would just love to settle down and start a meaningful relationship. I just need to get over my anxiety ... (104 words

I found out that one of his closest friends was also a past sex partner!

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14 August 2017 (F age 18-21 - Hello, I have a boyfriend who I have been dating since the end of 2015. In the beginning few months of our relationship, he told me that he was still friends with this girl whom he had dated and had sex with. I was pretty cool with it because I didn't know about her identi... (285 words

Should I continue with plans to visit family?

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13 August 2017 (F age 51-59 - Hi there Happy Sunday everyone and thank you in advance for any forthcoming advice. This is a family matter and I am just not sure how to handle it. I am a little older, divorced, no kids and have lost both my parents. I have siblings who I am on fairly good ... (463 words

I cant break up with her because she threatens self harm.

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13 August 2017 (F age 18-21 - Hi, So I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years total now with some time in between here and there. I've been on the fence about breaking up with her for the entirety of this summer but I haven't been able to act on it because she is suicidal and has attempted to kil... (517 words

My best friend's boyfriend tells me he loves me.

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12 August 2017 (F age 13-15 - So my best friend's boyfriend likes me and her and I like him as well. I feel horrible for liking him even though I liked him before they started going out. He says we should just wait even though he keeps telling me he loves me. I don't know what to do... (52 words

I'm still friends with an ex and my new girlfriend gets jealous!

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12 August 2017 (M age 51-59 - I've been with my new girlfriend for six month's, my ex am still friends with,she babysits my granddaughter, if she needs help I help her like today, I have a pickup, she bought a big snowblower, so I pick it up for her, I help other friends too, my new girlfriend gets ... (136 words

He said he's not going anywhere. What does he mean?

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12 August 2017 (F age 36-40 - My male friend and I have recently shared our inner most feelings to each other, and as it happens we feel the same way. This was accompanied by him interlocking our fingers, many hugs (him saying "I just want to hug/hold you"), holding me while looking in my eyes and he even ... (105 words

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