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I see his ex as a threat. Am I being silly or do I have reason to worry?

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17 January 2019 (F age 41-50 - I am probably being silly but my partner was married a few years ago and been divorced over ten years. He has told me that how he feels about me is far deeper than his ex wife, he said he was very unhappy with her and he looks back and knows it was a mistake. Yet even years... (190 words

My boss is not letting me move on from our affair

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17 January 2019 (F age 36-40 - I posted about a month/two back about having had an affair with boss and having ended it. He wanted to stay super secret best friends. But I’ve done a great job of only being professional with him and not interacting unless absolutely necessary.. And I’ve started looking ... (346 words

Can we get married in a church if neither of us are religious?

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17 January 2019 (M age 22-25 - My fiancee and I would like to get married in a church, however neither of us are religious. Does anyone have any thoughts or advice on this? Neither of our families are religious either. We have come across many churches locally and while traveling and have fallen in love ... (94 words

I hate being criticized and corrected and I don't like anyone see me other than at my best. How do I change this?

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16 January 2019 (F age 22-25 - Most of my self-worth depends on me not looking stupid in front of people, and it is affecting my life. When I was younger, everyone told me I was smart. I was always reading and didn't have to try very hard to learn. I barely studied and still always got above-average grades ... (563 words

Should I contact my boyfriend again or just give him space?

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16 January 2019 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 2 months has suddenly gone odd. We had pet names for each other on social media. He not really spoken to me much in the last few days. Today he cleared the nicknames we had for each other and he wont reply to any message i sent him previously. I know hes not had ... (119 words

How do I work with what I have? I am feeling down and disheartened

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16 January 2019 (F age 30-35 - Feeling so disheartened and it's impacting on my mental health. Today I went into work at the place where I volunteer. I was talking to the man who I work with and as he has said in the past, I am hard on myself where I put forward negative information about myself where I d... (387 words

Should I resign from my job because I’m being bullied?

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16 January 2019 (M age 30-35 - I’ve worked for a company for five years and enjoy my job. however a female co worker who is at the same company as me, doesn’t like me and is doing everything she can to make feel miserable. she has also back stabbed me a few times and has even threatened me and used swear ... (214 words

How do you handle being a single mom even though married because your husband is working away from home?

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16 January 2019 (F age 26-29 - My husband and I have been married for almost four years, and he has worked out of town (his cousin owns a construction company) off and on throughout that time; whenever he did, he was gone during the week and home every weekend. It sucked, but it was doable, especially ... (741 words

Am I reading too much into our friend with benefits relationship?

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16 January 2019 (F age 26-29 - Hello, I am trying to figure this person out and hoping to get some advice. I am in a Friends with benefits relationship . I am with man who I am getting the most weirdest signals, we started dating in July and usually back than it was just the sex, which is fine with me. Fa... (172 words

Am I friendzoned or is there a chance she might change her mind?

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16 January 2019 (M age 36-40 - Met a girl from Bumble and here's how it's gone dating wise: Sat 29 Dec - went for a few afternoon drinks. Sun 30 Dec - Went out for a meal and more drinks, ended up staying over at hers kissing most of the night, slept together but we didn't have sex. Mon 31 Dec - As I ... (322 words

Should I tell him what I know and see if he has had closure from the past?

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15 January 2019 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now, he is awesome, treats me like a princess, (him and I met in January 2018,) but in early 2017, he started going out and getting to know this other girl which was in his day to day work environment, according to him she was ... (682 words

How do I deal with a friend who is demanding, irritating, needy, narcissistic and whiny?

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15 January 2019 (F age 36-40 - Hi Aunts and Uncles! I often wonder what do people mean when they say that someone is a "good person" or a "bad one". That's why I hesitate to label anyone with just good/bad. My question today is: How to deal with a friend who's needy and narcissistic tendencies have w... (777 words

What would my deceased boyfriend's family think of me moving on with his cousin?

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15 January 2019 (F age 26-29 - My sons father passed away almost two years ago and I’ve been single since then haven’t even Pursue anyone since. Recently his cousin that I’ve never met started coming around a lot lately and once we started communicating we started to like each other but I feel weird knowing ... (107 words

I'm separated and my friend of years is making subtle moves on me. What do I do?

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15 January 2019 (F age 51-59 - im falling out of love with my husband do to his emotional and verbal abuse.Been married for 15 years but together for 25 there is no intimacy for the last year or so.Occassional hug here or there .However he is great with our daughter relationship wise.My daughter sees the way ... (223 words

I think my step daughter is selling nude photos of herself. How do I bring this up to her father?

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14 January 2019 (F age 41-50 - My husbands adult daughter can't seem to hold down a job she also has anxiety issues. I have been told she is selling nude pictures of herself online and I don't know what to do? I think she will deny it if I ask her and tell her father I am making trouble for her. How can I ... (71 words

He keep my number in last ten years ( could he be a player)

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14 January 2019 (F age 41-50 - It’s almost ten years ago I talked with a guy online . He was almost 17 years older then me. I was 34 and he was around 51. We chat online and we met . We liked each other. Next day , I texted him many times but he didn’t respond. Then he respond and he was mad why I tex... (245 words

How can we get married when my LDR man doesn't get a job?

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14 January 2019 (F age 30-35 - I have met a wonderful guy, it's been 15 months in our relationship, I have introduced him to my family, they accepted him, I haven't met his family yet because we live in different countries, we met through a friend, he is a good man, problem is, he has a business, and it's ... (256 words

I can't climax and I'm worried he will leave me because of it

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14 January 2019 (F age 51-59 - Hi, I am in need of some advice. I have been dating a really nice man for over a month. We have been intimate with him a few times. It was an amazing experience even though, I did not climax. He seemed really worried about it. Would tell me when I do get there, it turns him on. ... (215 words

Is she The One?

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14 January 2019 (M age 36-40 - Okies, I really need your help with this one. I want to make this the year I sort this out. So, I have known my female friend for 10+ years and I liked her from early on. We have lived together even shared the same bed (platonically) and been through alot. Whenever I have ... (640 words

We aren’t in a relationship yet, but I’m concerned about his sister-in-law!

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14 January 2019 (F age 41-50 - We are not yet really in relationship yet, we are getting close there. His brother family is living with him. Recently he told me that he feels like his brother’s wife likes him, she kept trying to be close to him. Few time she tried to hug him from behind. I live in different ... (367 words

I feel like the definition of a failure, any words of wisdom?

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14 January 2019 (M age 13-15 - Hi all. I am 15 years old and have recently been challenged with some difficult feelings. I'll sum up the story: A decent while ago (about 4 months ago), after two years of having feelings for my close friend, who I've known for a long time, I finally mustered enough ... (634 words

Girlfriend caught me texting another girl and broke up with me. I want her back

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13 January 2019 (M age 16-17 - I recently got caught messaging another girl my by gf of one year. Me and my gf had planned to get married and have a future together so I don't know why I did what I did. After getting caught I explained everything that happened and she broke it off. I told and showed my ... (92 words

I feel like he loves me but isn't interested in sex

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13 January 2019 (F age 51-59 - My man and I use to have sex all the time, couldn't get enough of each other.for the past few months, he never initiates, he says he is having a hard time getting hard.I try all kinds of things, I even please myself in front of him. I feel like he isn't interested in me ... (74 words

Why do I feel fear and anxiety of not being able to cope?

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13 January 2019 (F age 36-40 - I've always suffered with anxiety and ruminating thoughts etc. Lately this has got alot worse. I've been trying to work through and figure at out what the under lying feelings are and why I feel this way. I feel alot of fear and get so overwhelmed but even the smallest of task. ... (275 words

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