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He's taken my wife. Should I be worried?

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21 November 2017 (M age 26-29 - my wife an I have been married for 3 years. however things have been interesting for last 18 months. we have a neighbour Raymond who is divorced for a long time and is 44. he has two girls about 8 and 12. me and my wife are both 28. however 18 months ago things got interesting ... (260 words

I'm married but starting to get obsessed with the guy my husband and I had a threesome with

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21 November 2017 (F age 26-29 - Over a year ago my husband and i had a sexual threesome with a single male friend of ours after a night of drinking...this was totally my husbands idea..I was always attracted to this friend but had no intentions of taking it any furthur, even though i believed my husband at ... (283 words

I think my boyfriend has a case of " internalised homophobia". How do I talk to him and help him?

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21 November 2017 (M age 26-29 - I am a gay 29 year old man. I have been seeing a 32 year old guy since early 2015. When we met I did not know his sexuality, but we clicked, and in no time we developed a sexual relationship. This man has never said he is gay, but we spend a lot of time together, buy eachother ... (276 words

I feel that my boyfriend's ex wife was living my dream life and I'll never match up to her

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21 November 2017 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am off for the next week due to holidays and as my boyfriend is working, I offered to work on clearing out his storage. Now he has an ex wife of 10 years(divorced in 2009) and I brought home a ton of boxes that were never unpacked. The divorce was not on good ... (162 words

I'm like a weekend hobby for my boyfriend while his sister and nephew are his real family

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20 November 2017 (F age 36-40 - I have been dating a guy in a long distance relationship for 2 years. He lives 50 miles away and I only see him at weekends. In the week he lives with his widowed sister and works with her son to help him out as he is retired. The other week for the first time he stayed with me ... (184 words

Can you help explain my boyfriend's strange behaviour?

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20 November 2017 (F age 30-35 - I have a bizarre problem! I've been seeing my boyfriend for ten months and we often go away and stay at hotels but the thing is he picks me up after work about 3pm then when we arrive at our hotel he wants to literally go to bed straightaway and have sex and stay in bed until ... (165 words

How will having a baby affect someone with PTSD?

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20 November 2017 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for a year now and we have spoke about our future what we both want , i work and he doesnt and that is due to him having ptsd . he has his good days and bad more good and he goes out everyday so he doesnt get low and it gives him something to do . ... (215 words

Why do I feel so insecure about his ex and his other relationships?

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20 November 2017 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for six months and right from the start we really liked each other. He has been married and split up with her several years ago. He married young and went to another country where she lived to be with her. I feel that because he married her youn... (194 words

Why would he not see me in 2 months then turn around and say he loves me loads?

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20 November 2017 (F age 30-35 - hi everyone. person i'm seeing for a year now,we not had the exclusive talk but hes told me we friends but seeing where it goes etc we are sleeping together mostly when we see each other sex is involved 9/10 times it happens now recently iv not seen him since October bu... (284 words

Lost my virginity to a man I don't know or like very much

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20 November 2017 (F age 18-21 - How do I cope? I recently lost my virginity to a guy I barely knew and i regret it so much.i don't feel innocent anymore. And the worst part of it is i lost to the wrong guy,i always assumed i would lose it to someone i loved so much and it would be beautiful but it didn't ... (95 words

I've never cheated but my husband is accusing me off it because he says I am "loose"

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20 November 2017 (F age 22-25 - am a young woman of 25yrs I have two children all through c section,av never slept with any other man for the past six years.my spouse is accusing me of cheating because my vagaina is loose he had started an affair outside..am shattered what can be the cause and how to I treat ... (56 words

I have been having an affair with a woman for 7 years and I am content. Is this strange?

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20 November 2017 (M age 41-50 - I have been the male equivalent of a mistress for the past 7 years. Is it strange that I don't mind? I havent dated or even tried to date because I am just fine with having her a few times a month. I am 42 years old and never been married, but I don't know why I am happy and ... (89 words

I am getting weird vibes from my girlfriend in regards to her friend but I don't want to tell her to stop talking to her friend

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19 November 2017 (F age 22-25 - So my girlfriend had this mate that they've meet on tinder. She calls my girlfriend everyday and texts her. Practically any social media she can contact my gf. Just a couple of days ago my gf said that they've kissed. I've meet the friend and all I got was this weird vibe from ... (71 words

Triangle friendship double cross!

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19 November 2017 (F age 26-29 - Ive been friends with my friend (Samantha) for 5 years and its really had its ups and downs throughout the years but things started to get worse, the competitiveness, the jealousy etc. We love each other very much but there is a lot negativity and contempt towards each other. ... (283 words

Was it inappropriate for my wife to wear the revealing dress just to get back at me?

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19 November 2017 (M age 41-50 - A short time ago me and my wife had an argument just before we were going out to meet friends for some dinner and drinks. She wasn't quite ready, so she said she would meet up with us later. So I went and met with our friends. She came in about a half hour later in a very, ... (128 words

My world has come crashing down because my wife just told me that the daughter we've been raising is not mine but from her affair after the marriage!

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19 November 2017 (M age 30-35 - My wife and i have been married for 3 years, 6 months ago she told me something that rocked my core. the daughter i have been raising is not mine. she had an affair 2 years ago. the reason she cheated was that she was a virgin when we got married and she wanted to feel how ... (203 words

I sent him a nude, I hope he hasn't lost respect for me.

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19 November 2017 (F age 26-29 - I posted a while ago saying i had a met a man with quite an usual job- he's a travel author (fairly successful). He is 35 years old, is in the public eye quite a lot and has a lot of female attention. I went on 2 dates with him back in june but then i moved away and got back ... (279 words

The guy I've liked from afar is being a little wierd

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19 November 2017 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I need some advice, I haven't dated in ages, I am 43, just went through a rough patch with major losses, illness etc, now better but I am still fragile. Anyway, since last year I meet maybe every 2/3 months this guy through work, older (I usually don't like older guys) but ... (342 words

Am I reasonable to choose money over potential happiness?

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19 November 2017 (F age 22-25 - Dear aunts, I am in a fix as I type this. I made a first attempt at online dating about 7 months ago and the only guy I really had an interest in, we hit it off. It was rocky at first but we are amazing now and not a day goes by without us chatting for hours and calling. We've ... (842 words

Sick of being ignored, what do I have to do?

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19 November 2017 (F age 36-40 - I think I give off a “don’t be my friend” vibe, though I say hi and am polite? All my life people have avoided me, socially and socially at work and in group or social events, like I have A flashing sign “avoid her” I was bullied and socially awkward as kid/teen, am... (224 words

We still sext even though he has a girlfriend, how do I move on?

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18 November 2017 (F age 18-21 - For the past two years ive been sort of sexting/sending the odd nude to this guy. Recently though he's gotten into a relationship, however we have still continued sexting etc. We've never slept together its strictly 'cyber'. A few weeks ago (I don't know why I did it) after ... (241 words

My confidence is wrecked, I regret telling people the truth about my ex boyfriend.

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18 November 2017 (F age 30-35 - I just want to vent about a situation that still bothers me. Basically I had a 6 month relationship with a guy I worked with. He was the first person I'd been with after my marriage broke up. I guess because I was vulnerable and feeling really crap about myself I instantly fell ... (935 words

I'm disappointed he saw a new movie with his brother instead of me

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18 November 2017 (F age 26-29 - So my bf had a family funeral to attend this weekend. It is out of town far away. After the funeral he was bored so decided to go to see a movie that we planned to go see next week together. All he texted me was 'I think I am going to go see the movie with my brother'. He ... (382 words

Why does this person not stop harrassing me?

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18 November 2017 (F age 30-35 - Why would someone who you have told them no and they know you don't want to do the unreasonable request they asked you keep pressuring you and pressuring you to try and do what they want. You have even blocked their calls and they still phone you off a different number. ... (114 words

We had plans, should I keep him as a friend?

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18 November 2017 (F age 22-25 - I have been friends with this guy for a year now and we have recently gotten pretty close. se seemed like a really easy going person and cool guy to hang out with. He really opens up about his life and we have many deep conversations. Well this past Tuesday, he asked me to come ... (347 words

How do I make myself more attractive now that I'm out?

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18 November 2017 (M age 26-29 - I’ve just accepted that I’m gay, I’ve told friends but not told family yet. There was this one guy I really fancied and I told him I liked him but his got a boyfriend his 32 his bf 22 (will that even work?) Anyway after exploring the gay world... I’ve become really insecure.... (147 words

How do I tell him his breath smells?

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18 November 2017 (F age 22-25 - I am seeing the most amazing person I have ever met, but I have a problem. His breath always smells and I have no idea how to bring this sensitive subject up without hurting his feelings. I did not notice it at first, but recently I have become very aware that his breath alway... (167 words

Would this relationship be wrong?

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17 November 2017 (F age 18-21 - I've already asked this question but I didn't outback detail in to it so I'm gonna try again! Is it wrong for me to be falling in love with my soon to be step uncle ? I've recently turned 18 and he's recently turned 21. My uncle is marrying his sister in December ... (279 words

Is this the right person to hang out with?

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17 November 2017 (F age 30-35 - Should I go back to hanging out with this friends - I had a friend that stopped talking to me because I called her out on her actions. One of my colleagues and I started having out and became friends - it’s a new friendship and within three months I found out that she had ... (355 words

My boyfriend doesn't last long in bed, wha can I do to help?

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17 November 2017 (F age 22-25 - I’ve been with my boyfriend only a few months, been best friends for a few years.. we have had talks before and hes pretty open about this issues with me only... He can’t last very long while having sex, my question is what are some options to help him last longer? I don’t wa... (79 words

Where do you go to meet momen?

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17 November 2017 (M age 30-35 - I still don't get where a guy is supposed to try and meet single women. Why is it so hard at my age? Everyone says that gym is a bad idea.. the bar is a bad idea, workplace is off limits, etc. You can't approach a woman at the park because you will get accused of harassment. ... (97 words

How can I learn my value?

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17 November 2017 (F age 30-35 - How Can I learn my value? I am insecure and I have let people walk over me - use me- and leave me - friends and lovers . I have worked on the outside (lost the weight - got the degrees - got a better corporate job) but I still fear saying no- I always seek validation and I ... (244 words

How to overcome the guilt of dating my friend's ex

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17 November 2017 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupids I met this wonderful man. We have been dating for less than two months but our relationship is moving quite fast. It feels so right and ever-since we dated we have not spent a day without talking to each other. He calls and we meet once a week and spend weekends t... (683 words

Mr Nice Guy is perfect for me but why do I feel something is missing?

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17 November 2017 (F age 26-29 - I have a history of dating unavailable, cheating, lying, game playing men. In fact when I look back I've only ever had one healthy relationship that I ended up pushing away with my own actions. This guy is amazing! I am insanely attracted to him, the sex is amazing, he is l... (279 words

How important to you is respect for and trust of your manager?

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17 November 2017 (F age 51-59 - A work based question for those of you with years of experience of the workplace. How important to you is respect for and trust of your line manager? I ask because I am in a job I don't want to quit (for a number of reasons) BUT I have always found it difficult to wor... (579 words

How to deal with a more sexually experienced partner?

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17 November 2017 (M age 26-29 - I'm a male virgin who's never kissed a girl or been on a date. I'm not particularly handsome either and I am obese. I will be visiting an escort in a few weeks to lose my virginity. Finally I'll get to feel what intimacy is like. However I've been thinking about what happe... (113 words

Should I leave a little heart in his desk?

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17 November 2017 (F age 30-35 - Is it ok to leave a little heart in his desk? Just want to know some opinions. There's this guy at work that I like and I'm sure he likes me too. But I think it was my mistake by not showing interest in him and I think he has distanced a little. I really like him but I ... (82 words

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