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Is my husband avoiding sexual engagement with me because he has been having sex with other women and is therefore not horny?

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18 December 2018, 2 hours ago (F age 36-40 - Hi aunts and uncles. I AM A MARRIED WOMAN. My question relates to my being an apparent "worry wart" according to my husband of 10 years. My husband used to sext me all the time. He goes on business trips several times per year. We would send naked photos to each other and e... (304 words

I do not want my kids to inherit my partner's health problems!

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18 December 2018, 2 hours ago (M age 30-35 - I am in a moral dilemma. My partner has some health conditions such as endometriosis, which means she has a harder time falling pregnant with a chance of not falling pregnant at all. She has other minor health conditions which after thinking about it is starting to worry me. ... (84 words

I want to show him I care but I also don’t want to be a burden or an annoyance

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17 December 2018, 9 hours ago (F age 30-35 - I was dating a guy for only 6 weeks. Things were going really well other than he wasn’t feeling good. Long story short, his symptoms have gotten worse and he’s not been working much and under going testing and imaging to see what’s wrong. So far, everything has came back ... (219 words

Has anybody else ever missed out on time and then got past it and been able to get on afterwards without too much regret?.

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17 December 2018 (M age 30-35 - Confidence has never been my forte in life and it is holds me back in so many things. In my early 20's I had even lower levels of confidence and has stuck with me since. I am now 30 and have missed out so many opertunitys in life.. ASKIN women out, goin for jobs, new ... (112 words

He puts sex before my needs. Is it time to walk away?

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17 December 2018 (F age 22-25 - My partner and I have been in a relationship for just over 3 years and have a two year old child. I’ve been struggling to hang onto our relationship for a while but when I try to tell him what I need in the relationship he makes it out as if he’s doing his best and I end up ... (258 words

Should I hold on to Alice? Break it off? And what about my wild partying?

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17 December 2018 (M age 22-25 - I've been in a committed relationship for all of my adult life (7 years). But alas, she moved away (far away) and left me single. I've decided to move on. Lately, I've been seeing a girl I met online. Lets call her Alice. We have shocking amount in common and get along well. ... (369 words

Why did he still help his supposedly awful ex despite whatever she did to him? Is he lying to me about his feelings for her?

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17 December 2018 (F age 41-50 - Hi, i hope i can get some advice here to move on in my life. I have been with my boyfriend coming up two years, we get on well and i feel we are compatible. but there is a problem. My boyfriend went to America when he was 19 years old, stayed with a woman he talked to online... (637 words

I met a cute guy at a job interview, when can I make a move on him?

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17 December 2018 (F age 30-35 - I had a interview and I was given a tour of the place and met this VERY VERY VERY CUTE GUY who told me about the area he works in etc.. which is the area i would be in if i get the job... well he came out the back area, with such confidence as he was just cheesing and grinning ... (197 words

I like my friend's twin brother, will she think I am weird?

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16 December 2018 (F age 13-15 - I am in 8th grade and have a friend in 9th grade... she has a twin brother and I really like him... I've seen him staring back at me and I think he likes me back but I'm not sure. I want to ask her but I don't want things to be weird; especially if he likes me back... Should I ... (75 words

I feel overwhelmed with empathy for older folk

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16 December 2018 (F age 36-40 - Has any of you felt ever overwhelmed by empathy towards elderly people who are suffering? Ever since I was a kid, I've been helping out elderly people in my neighborhood without being told to do so. I always felt such a strong sadness whenever I would read, watch on ... (97 words

I'm waiting for someone who clearly doesn't want me

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16 December 2018 (F age 22-25 - I met this guy a year ago and we’ve sort of been in and out of each other’s lives since. He’s struggled with his feelings and knowing what he wants, I finally thought we were in the same place but he completely backed off, saying that his heart and head wants to be with me ... (198 words

How do I move on from a girl who has a boyfriend?

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16 December 2018 (M age 18-21 - I met a girl in September at college and was interested in her from the first time I saw her. She was very quiet and never really spoke to anyone but she just captured my attention. Two weeks in we had to pair up for an assignment, and I asked her to work with me. Once she ... (707 words

When he is sober he's nice, when he is drunk its a big downfall.

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16 December 2018 (F age 26-29 - Hi, I'm kinda dating one man few months, but I'm quite worried about him, because many times we go out, he drinks. While I'm having one beer or glass of wine, he has few and often some hard liquors too..he gets pretty drunk often to the level that he forgets where he is, talk... (145 words

I've met a lovely man but my ex wants to pick up where we left off.

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16 December 2018 (F age 41-50 - right now im feeling meh . everything but my love life is going great. I got into online dating and have met a fantastic man we get on so well apart from odd times he acts like a 5 year old espesh around his 8 yr old nephew. He really acts like a child around him and he is 39. ... (293 words

How do I stop thinking about my married colleague and convince myself that I don't love her in order to move on?

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15 December 2018 (M age 30-35 - Hi About 10 months ago I split up with my long term partner. In this months leading up to it I had what I'd describe as an emotional affair with a married woman in my office. My ex partner didn't know, the two just coincided. I knew couldn't possibly love my partne... (214 words

I sent the online guy my nude photos and initiated phone sex. Will he lose respect for me?

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15 December 2018 (F age 18-21 - I have been talking to a guy I met on the internet for about 3 months. We have always had great conversation, we like each other alot. We skype, phone call, text, IM, etc every day. Last week, I made the decision to finally start talking about sex. We've established that we ... (309 words

I don't know if she will come back or has moved on.

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15 December 2018 (M age 26-29 - Can anyone please help me what I did wrong or is it she is being self centered? Well this cancer girl, she is my friend and its been 2 years for our friendship. Months ago I confronted her about why she was being mean with this another girl in our group. (I actually came to ... (529 words

Why do men string me along?

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14 December 2018 (F age 41-50 - Hello. I am a 43 year old woman who asked for advice with her I’ll health and dead end personal life last hear and I got good advice. This year, I worked in a better job and started dating people in may. I do meet men but they are usually younger and only want me for sex.... (228 words

Boyfriend refuses to use his sex toys with me

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14 December 2018 (F age 30-35 - Hi I'm having a sexual problem with my boyfriend any advice you could give would be helpful thanks.. My boyfriend never tells me what he likes in bed he always says he likes what we are doing.. The thing is I know he likes porn actually I think it may be borderline addicted... (462 words

Etiquette on footing the bill

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14 December 2018 (M age 36-40 - Hi..My question is unrelated to a relationship but who is supposed to pay, and how often, when at a bar. For example, there's this foreign friend of mine working in my city, who I meet with quite often for a drink or so. Unlike him, I'm not into strong drinks, which means that ... (126 words

Is this co-worker friendly or testing out to be more flirty?

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14 December 2018 (F age 30-35 - At work there is a guy about my age who recently when around me or talking to me seems to want to touch my arm (shoulder area). He is a lovely guy to chat too but it dawned on me that no-one else seems to do it/not seen him do it to others). The other week I received some ba... (234 words

Is it normal to be so attached to someone that I never met?

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14 December 2018 (F age 18-21 - I met him on a dating app, and we got along extremely well. We chat for over a month, called many many times, but never did met up. The reason behind the parting was that we are not suitable. He is shorter than me by around 7cm, he has yet to get over someone else. Also, im an ... (200 words

What is my sis in law suggesting here? That I'm a loser??

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13 December 2018 (F age 41-50 - Was this fb post directed at me? and my “ettiquette” in talking with my sis in law and 11 yr old neice when I see them over new year? They live 2 hours from me in a small town. Im driving to see them in early Jan, sometime when its ok for them. Ive Not seen my neic... (317 words

I'm crushing on my team leader.

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13 December 2018 (F age 30-35 - I am very frustrated because there is someone that I'm potentially interested in at work that I think is also very interested in me but that nothing is happening for -- So I started work at this new place about five months ago now, and slowly I started noticing someone... (715 words

This guy has a girlfriend, should I forget about him?

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13 December 2018 (F age 22-25 - Hello, I know a guy for almost three months now, who I thought I was getting along with well and gave him my number because we work together. He's the only person I talk to, really. I told him I was finishing school, he mentioned he's finishing studies as well, and he oft... (145 words

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