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Is mutual masturbation with random online women cheating on my wife of 10 years?

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19 August 2019, 4 hours ago (M age 51-59 - I've been married for 10 years. I love my wife dearly and our sex life is still very much alive and well. The problem is I used to go into chat rooms before I met her. It involved video exchanges with random women. I used to pay for it but once that got too expensive, I opted ... (228 words

There's less passion with this relationship and I am wondering what that means

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19 August 2019, 4 hours ago (M age 26-29 - I'm seeing a girl now for the last few months on/off. We met on a dating app and went out a handful of times before I got injured and wasn't able to drive for about 2-3 months. We kept in contact and now things are getting more serious now that I can again. The problem is... (279 words

Should I confront him or break it off?

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19 August 2019, 4 hours ago (F age 30-35 - I have been seeing him for just over two months. We have a great connection, the sex is amazing and we can talk for hours. We are comfortable around each other. It’s really great most of the time. I noticed when I started seeing him that he had posted a Facebook memory ... (1519 words

How would you handle losing friends?

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19 August 2019, 4 hours ago (M age 26-29 - When you lose friends or realise life long friends are stepping away. What would you do? When people suggest to work on myself, I find it depressing because I always look after myself and have gotten what I want so when I lose friends the suggestion is to keep myself occupied. ... (140 words

There's an age difference between us but I would like to get to know this person better. Should I try?

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19 August 2019, 4 hours ago (F age 22-25 - There is someone who I would like to spend time with and ask if they would be up for meeting me to get to know me .this may seem really easy for some people but for me it isn't . up to now its the first time ive really ever wanted to see if I could have the same interests as ... (357 words

Do I leave a 10 year relationship? Or settle for her?

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18 August 2019, 4 hours ago (M age 41-50 - Hello all. This post is as much venting as asking for others input. The sad truth is that I have nobody to talk to. So sorry if it is long. The big life question I have is: break up with my girlfriend, or settle for her. It is more than just a matter of break-up. I n... (1425 words

I feel like my boyfriend is forcing me into going on a trip with his friends. We were supposed to go alone. What should I do?

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18 August 2019, 4 hours ago (F age 41-50 - I have a hard dilemma! My boyfriend and I were supposed to be taking a week vacation together, just him and I. But he just went ahead and changed those plans on me. Apparently his friends are going to be at this resort where we were planning to go. They are a couple who used to ... (234 words

Does my partner have the right to know about the details of my therapy sessions?

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18 August 2019, 4 hours ago (F age 51-59 - Hi. I won't bore you with too many details. Just want to know if you think it is appropriate for your spouse/partner to ask you about the details of your therapy sessions? I was diagnosed with anxiety and PTSD. I have begun counselling recently because my issues are affec... (134 words

Wife is angry that I hugged a co-worker

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18 August 2019 (M age 30-35 - My wife is angry I hugged a female former co-worker/friend that I have known for 10 years. When we seen this old co worker I have not seen her in 2 years and she is over 20 years older than me. She has met my kids. When my mother passed she sent flowers and a card to the ... (425 words

Feel like I'm wasting my life but my reasons for wanting to leave seem petty

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17 August 2019 (F age 26-29 - I have being in my current relationship for the past 8 years and at the moment I am questioning whether it is what I want for the long-term. I feel that after 8 years together, we should be living together or at least have a clear plan for the future, but we don't. I have as... (342 words

Given our connections am I naive to believe that this couldn't blow up in my face?

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17 August 2019 (F age 30-35 - So I'm at a loss as to if I'm making the right judgement. To be very brief, I'm currently hooking up with a friend of mine I've known for almost 20 years. I crushed on him hard as a preteen and we got close to hooking up years ago but when sober he said he thought of me as a ... (252 words

Am I right to feel this way that my son's friend's mother didn't acknowledge me?

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17 August 2019 (F age 26-29 - Hello People!!! Okay so my 6 year old son plays Pee wee football. Their is a friendly competition between him and his teammate A as I will call him. Basically A’s mom and my husband have communicated hear and their about the boys and how they can help improve one another. I am ... (179 words

I know he wasn't the man for me but it's so hard to move on

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16 August 2019 (F age 26-29 - I married the man of my dreams this past November. In May, I learned that he's been having an affair since February, barely three months into our marriage. I moved out and we filed for a non-contested divorce. Now I'm finally free of him and decided to go no contact. But I'm ... (262 words

I left, he wants me back. What should I do?

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16 August 2019 (F age 26-29 - Hi Friends, I have two kids almost 3 and almost 2. I was engaged with their father for almost 3years.He was very sweet when we first met but after my first pregnancy he started changing more argument about financial.He was upset with one night I was 8month pregnant and he ... (210 words

Do most men see short women as less attractive than tall women .

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16 August 2019 (F age 30-35 - Do most men see short women as less attractive than tall women . I often see descriptions of ‘hot ‘ or attractive women include the word tall and cute or sweet women as shorter . Obviously individuals have individual preferences but in GENERAL is being Tall considered ... (68 words

My husband has completely changed after marriage and I feel exploited

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16 August 2019 (F age 30-35 - Hello and thanks! Me and my husband have been together almost 3 years. Before our marriage he was mind, sweet, loving. He seemed to be the most charming man I've ever met. He would look after me if I was sick, once I passed out from heat exhaustion and woke up with him... (212 words

Will he come back to me again after taking space?

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15 August 2019 (F age 30-35 - I met a wonderful guy a few months ago and we hit it off immediately. He told me that I was everything he ever wanted in a relationship and I felt the same. He has a young son (3) with his ex girlfriend and I was introduced to him a couple weeks ago and fell in love with him ... (326 words

I think my parents are treating me unfairly for shoplifting

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15 August 2019 (F age 13-15 - do you think I desrve to be punished this severely for shoplifting ? 3 days ago I got caught shoplifting,as the shopkeeper knows my mum he called her instead of the police he told her he expected me to be punished, my mum promished the shopkeeper I would pay for my crime with ... (373 words

How to approach her obsession with her looks

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15 August 2019 (M age 30-35 - Wife bought waist trainer corset. When I first saw it on her, she looked super sexy; tiny waist with huge boobs (DD; what a dream. I made the mistake of telling her how hot she was and as a result, she started wearing it all the time. Over time, she mentioned that she gets a ... (123 words

We've broken up but he talks as though we're still together

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14 August 2019 (F age 30-35 - Hi I’ve recently broken up with my partner due to a few reasons we split up nearly 2 weeks ago but he is acting as though we are still together he won’t talk to me about any problems we have this is one of the reasons I ended it but now he’s talking about where we’re going for ... (89 words

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