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My boyfriend goes too quickly during sex. How do I talk to him about it?

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21 May 2019 (F age 18-21 - I don’t know how to talk to my boyfriend about this without him saying i dont like out s*x life or making him feel bad. I love what wr have but he tends to finish too quickly, 2 days ago it was probably 30 seconds, and it has happened before but it never upset me how it did ... (190 words

My 24 year old son is physically abusive occasionally

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21 May 2019 (F age 51-59 - Hello I really appreciate this site. Thank you for making it. I’d find it very helpful. This time I have a family related question and I’d appreciate an suggestions/recommendations you can give me thank you. What’s happened is that I have a son that is very abusive at ... (206 words

He talks about sex but never performs. Is he gay?

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20 May 2019 (F age 51-59 - I have been with a man for 15 months, We are both in our mid 50s . He says he loves me but he has NO passion. He kisses me but they are little pecks. He will some time kiss my neck and when I am feeling a little excited, he pushes me away. He says it is because he has troubles ... (127 words

My boyfriend dumped me he said he couldn't be himself with me

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20 May 2019 (F age 30-35 - Dear cupid, My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years, like every couple weve had our ups and downs but love each other greatly. We were living together and decided to not renew our lease because we wanted to buy a house together so we each moved back to ou... (345 words

My boyfriend doesn't want sex as much and its starting to bother me

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20 May 2019 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend a couple of years and we do love each other, our sex life I would say is pretty good. We dont live together and see each other 3 nights per week. But the past few weeks on a Sunday evening we have not had sex as usual and he has said we will in the ... (145 words

I have overwhelming urges to kiss my friend

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20 May 2019 (F age 30-35 - I’ve been best friends with my friend for 3 years now and we spend a lot of time together but recently I’ve started getting overwhelming urges that I want to kiss her. She’s never indicated she feels the same way as we are both girls but I can’t see to get it to go away. I ... (120 words

My boyfriend stares at and approaches other women, it makes me uncomfortable.

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20 May 2019 (F age 41-50 - my boyfriend keeps looking at other women when we are out and ive seen him literally turn his neck to side and stare for ages at other women also he goes up to women on theyre own and chats to them about anything usually starting with theyre dog to make it look like hes ... (123 words

One date later, should I pursue this girl?

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19 May 2019 (M age 30-35 - I have been internet dating for a little while now and have had 4 dates. The last was a woman from Canada who is visiting over here for a month. She contacted me and explained she was travelling but we chatted a little online and we went for a drink. I have been looking to ... (306 words

I don't know how to deal with people who ignore other's worries while making theirs sound worse than they are

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19 May 2019 (F age 41-50 - How do you all deal with people who like to make a mountain out of their molehill and when they encounter people who have actually overcome a mountain they act uncomfortable or belittle that person's experience? It's so upsetting to have a serious illness/trauma/financial ... (76 words

I have doubts about my fiance.

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19 May 2019 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I’m not sure about if I should be with my fiancé or not. I feel because I ask the question that it should be the obvious answer. But I don’t know if my expectations are just wrong. I’ve been with him for 10 years, we have a house together. I think he’s attractive, but... (435 words

I broke it off ... so how come he hasn't unfriended me on facebook?

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19 May 2019 (F age 30-35 - Hi, i need some advise. I broke up with my LDR bf of 3 months ,this weekend sent him message on facebook that i want to break up with him and he just said he respect ny decision. But he never unfriend or even blocked me on facebook. Why you think he doesnt do that, is he ... (96 words

My partner avoids me, but says there is nothing wrong.

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18 May 2019 (F age 30-35 - Hi people I really need some advice I’ve been with my partner for 6 years we have a 4 year old daughter I have a son from a previous relationship we’ve been having problems this last year I caught him watching porn which normally would not of bothered me but we haven’t had sex ... (207 words

I feel so alone and I'm so scared of being abandoned.

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18 May 2019 (F age 22-25 - I'm wanting some advice about a few issues right now and a bit of perhaps on guidance on what to do next or how to make the next decision on the next chapter. I'm currently in a small city in the UK and I've been struggling with mental health issues for a while now. I use... (716 words

My boyfriend is very casual about his daughters' privacy and I find it very very odd

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18 May 2019 (F age 30-35 - Ive been seeing a guy who's super awesome. We're both single parents of two girls each. They stay the night frequently. My girls are 9 and 13, his are 9 and 11. Despite having lived in an all girl house for the last 5 years or so, my daughters and I are hardly ever naked ... (257 words

How can I stay grounded, protect myself and keep even firmer boundaries with an absolutely ghastly ex?

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18 May 2019 (F age 30-35 - Today I realized that I am experiencing Crazy-Making with my ex, whom I split up with over 9 years ago. There has been a repeated pattern of him provoking arguments and there is no room for effective communication to take place; he chooses to talk over anything I have ... (411 words

We're both unhappy in our marriages and have a long history. Should we have sex?

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18 May 2019 (F age 36-40 - When I was a teenager While visiting family i met a boy, through high school we crushed back and forth on each other secretly and living in different ends of the country made it impossible for anything to happen. As young adults be told me he liked me and asked me to move to ... (253 words

Why are men so cruel? Is that the way of the world?

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17 May 2019 (F age 41-50 - I’ve asked for help in the past and am very grateful. Which is why i’m Asking again. As I need to process something clearly. I am 44 years old. Divorced twice ( arranged marriage in Asia and an alcoholic husband in the UK). I have worked all my life and support myself ... (381 words

My boyfriend goes out drinking every weekend and our relationship is devoid of intimacy, emotional and physical contact

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17 May 2019 (F age 30-35 - I am feeling sad because my boyfriend has just gone out to the pub and told me he isn't getting drunk, but he will be getting drunk tomorrow night. We've been together for 2 years. I am sad because this is becoming a pattern. He gets to the weekend and just wants to go to the p... (296 words

My best friend says he's in love with me after his break up but I don't feel the same way

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17 May 2019 (F age 18-21 - My best friend has recently been dumped by his girlfriend of three years, this is the first time he’s been single his entire since he was 16 and was naturally cut up about it. However after about a week he’s told me that he doesn’t care any more because he’s in love with me. ... (211 words

My husband looks at young women in porn and tells me I should just be happy he's still having sex with me despite my shortcomings

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17 May 2019 (F age 41-50 - My husband looks at porn of women around 18- 20 . I’m entering menopause and feeling extremely depressed about my changes to my body such as less elasticity and lubrication wrinkles etc . I’m fit and healthy but nothing makes me as young as the women he enjoys. I’m 1000 percent ... (150 words

I'm completely infatuated with a married man who's my boyfriend's friend!

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17 May 2019 (F age 18-21 - I just need someone to tell me that I’m crazy and maybe give me some advice on how to move on. I feel like I’m a high school girl! I’m 21 and I’m completely infatuated with a 40 year old married man who also happens to be very close with my boyfriend. I know it sounds silly,... (141 words

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