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My partner never makes time for me

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26 September 2017, 7 hours ago (F age 30-35 - Hi just wondering if this is normal I've been with my partner now for 4 years we have 2 children aged 1 and 2 we live together but he never makes any effort to spend any time with us if he needs to go anywhere he asks his mate first rather than me he spends more time walking ... (173 words

Hard to love a man's children like my own.

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26 September 2017, 7 hours ago (F age 26-29 - I've been dating a man for 7 months. I have no children, he has 2 daughters ages 9 and 7. He doesn't see them very often (once a week) on the weekends. I have spent almost every weekend with him and when he gets them. They are great kids don't get me wrong, very sweet and cute. ... (280 words

Can smells and tastes affect a perfect blissful courtship?

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25 September 2017, 7 hours ago (M age 36-40 - Im blessed with a beautiful and very loving, caring partner who im sure would do anything for me and I would for her as well. So when I have this seemingly silly problem, I do not know how to overcome. Her odors. She uses deo but it wears off either by the morning after a sleep ... (298 words

How do I deal with jealousy? french kissing? He's my first boyfriend

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25 September 2017, 7 hours ago (F age 16-17 - So I failed the year and got set back a year... I'm in a new class and I made friends (something that I didn't have for the past 2 years) and one guy (Gabri) started talking to me because I'm English (I live in Italy), after school we started chatting by text and we became ... (323 words

I'm pregnant and my husband's sexual demands are taking a toll on our marriage

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25 September 2017, 8 hours ago (F age 26-29 - Yesterday my husband came away from a childs party to use his fake vagina, which i never knew he had. I know this will seem like a pathetic reason to be upset but i just cant help feeling insecure and disgusted. Weve been together for over 11 years, we have a 3yr old and im ... (278 words

I know I could have an amazing life with mistress but don't want to hurt my wife and children

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25 September 2017 (M age 41-50 - Hi. I am really confused and need advice. Here goes with a bit of background and my position. I am an almost 49 year old man and have been married for almost 25 years.we have 3 Kids.one of which has now left home. My wife gave up work 17 years ago to look after the kids a... (578 words

My boyfriend has a new friend & he seems to care more about their relationship than ours.

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25 September 2017 (F age 26-29 - I've been in a relationship for five years, and cheating has never been something I was concerned about. But about six months ago my boyfriend made a new friend through a club at colleg, and they became close friends real quickly. They talk all the time and sometimes Facetime ... (359 words

My parents don't know about my relationship till I am 18. A parents advice would be nice

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25 September 2017 (F age 16-17 - I am currently 16 and live in Victoria Australia and my boyfriend is 20 from punjabi india.All aspects of our relationship is legal We have been together for just under a year and my parents don't know i plan on telling them when i am 18 but his parents know and they love me.... (204 words

I'm very confused about our relationship and what we are to each other, if anything

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24 September 2017 (F age 22-25 - We are friends for 4-5 years. He is younger then me and he likes girls always have lot of different girls mostly one night stand and also few relationships for maximum 4month. He always goes out with me Im like his homeboy and also bro however I cant understand he says that he ... (174 words

I feel like leaving my husband how do I change this feeling ?

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24 September 2017 (F age 22-25 - I need advice, I'm 22 and my husband is 39. We are married one year and have a 6 month old daughter. My husband and I got on well most of the time and he was generally someone I could call my best friend but Lately I have just felt like leaving him. A year before our baby was ... (829 words

Mother-in-law is interfering

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24 September 2017 (F age 26-29 - Ive been married to my long term fiance for just a month. He treats me amazingly sweet. Especially in front of his family. Its been almost a decade and at first i can feel that they find it strange with how he treated me. I mean his mom and sister. But they used to it. Now ... (353 words

Should I reach out again or just move on?

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24 September 2017 (M age 18-21 - There's a girl I started talking to in July, at the moment nothing is going on but I feel like that may be my fault. However I'm also feeling like I should move on but I'd like to know if theres anything I can do to start talking to her again because she seems like a good ... (275 words

She stopped responding, is that it?

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24 September 2017 (M age 30-35 - Girl I liked a lot and went on a few dates with started getting cold after I told her I liked her and the time we had been hanging out. I asked her why she was acting so different and she said, she was dealing with stuff and I couldn't help her. She wasent wanting a ... (295 words

Love triangle, help! Who do you think I love and who should I be with?

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24 September 2017 (F age 18-21 - I am in a love triangle. I'm still in love with my ex-boyfriend, who happened to be my sitting mate in high school. And had some feelings for each other but didn't confess our love. Until I traveled to Holland(where I am currently living), and he told me he loved me. Yes, I ... (693 words

He says he will never marry me because of my past!

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24 September 2017 (F age 30-35 - Hello, My question is...is there any hope for a future with my ex-boyfriend? We dated for six months and he always suffered from retrograde jealousy for me. During this time I foolishly, casually mentioned my exes, not fully grasping what torture I was putting him throug... (1463 words

How do you cope and embrace change?

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23 September 2017 (F age 36-40 - How do you cope with change. More so change within the work place. I work in an office and have been here for many years . I do like my job and the company i work. Obviosly i know things change and people come and go. At the moment we have a good team in here and its going to ... (143 words

I found some unsettling texts between my boyfriend and our mutual friend. should I be worried?

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23 September 2017 (F age 30-35 - We have been hanging round with another couple for about a year now. My boyfriend is a very outgoing, flirtatious person naturally but something has been bothering me. Our two friends, Michelle and Danny, well Danny does not have a mobile so whenever we arrange to go out it is ... (403 words

My ex had a baby and am sad, but I don't know why

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23 September 2017 (F age 22-25 - My Ex had a kid and now I'm depressed and I don't know why. We dated from 2012-2013 and I would have to say he was my first love. We ended our relationship horribly, he cheated twice and picked the other girl over me and we haven't spoken since. I've moved on and am engaged and ... (168 words

I dated one guy, then his cousin and am now going back to the first man because his cousin was a cheater and a liar

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22 September 2017 (F age 26-29 - Im a 25 year old female. I was dating A from 2006-2009 , then communication got lost between me and him , so in 2012 i got close to B which resulted in me dating with B. A and B are cousins. I stayed with B for a period of 1 month and i discovered that he is a liar,a thie... (91 words

Where's the sex gone?

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22 September 2017 (M age 22-25 - My girlfriend and I have no sexual chemistry. None at all. Every time I bring up anything sexual it’s, ‘we don’t have the time’ or she acts like it’s vulgar and what I’m saying is disgusting - we went to New York recently on our first holiday together to a really classically ... (251 words

Difficult LDR, I feel I'm becoming close to my ex. Should I isolate myself from all girls so I don't find myself slipping?

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22 September 2017 (M age 22-25 - Greetings Agony Aunts and Uncles, To give you a bit of background Im in a LDR with mg GF for about a month now and the separation is killing us. We met in college and our both living near our families in different states. Unless one of us is willing to leave his/her job ther... (356 words

Is the guy I'm dating being a jerk?

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22 September 2017 (F age 22-25 - I started dating this guy about a month ago and we've been on four dates so far.. We haven't gone all the way yet but have done some stuff in bed, as well as the usual things like cinema etc. TBF to him he does have his good points like he pays for everything even though I ... (406 words

He was still receiving photos from his ex!

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22 September 2017 (F age 36-40 - So I found out that my boyfriend of 9 months still received pictures from his ex. He knew that it bothers me everytime she send texts, call or send selfie pictures. However, I do understand that my bf has no control of what his ex is sending him. When he received selfie pics of ... (149 words

Can we get what we once had back, or are we destined to be 'just friends?'

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22 September 2017 (F age 41-50 - Hi. I was in a short relationship with a guy for around eight months. During this time we developed very strong feelings and connection. Subsequently we split up around six months back, due to differences in the area of affection. His love language if you like is more words ... (394 words

My wife's sexual past has become a sticking point for me

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22 September 2017 (M age 36-40 - OK this might be a bit long winded but here we go. So I have been happilyish married for nearly ten years now. I met my wife in 2003 while on my OE in London and we got together and started dating and then eventually the "how many people have you slept with?" question popped ... (417 words

What is going on? Are these just excuses?

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22 September 2017 (F age 26-29 - After still feeling neglected, I told my bf exactly why I was feeling down. In the last couple of weeks I have noticed that I was initiating the messages, which is ok, but I feel like I'm pestering esp being the only one initiating Messaging was even between us until 2 weeks ... (116 words

I desperately want to reconcile with my ex husband. He had sex with me after he had broken up with his girlfriend but hasn't contacted me since

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22 September 2017 (F age 30-35 - This is a long story and I apologize but I really need some advice from some neutral parties here. I am wanting to reconcile with my ex-husband. We were married for 4 years. He was and still is the love of my life but he left me for another woman and I was devastated. The spli... (375 words

Need help/ideas/advice I have a controlling guy friend... He is a friend forreal.

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22 September 2017 (F age 30-35 - I have a contolling guy friend...i mean controlling in ways that i dont believe are healthy at all... Prob the worst hardest controlling techniques ever... And yes to me very odd and differant because he is my friend... in that sense i feel its safe but then idk??.. And my ex ... (154 words

I didn't bleed so is my hymen still intact after having sex lots of times?

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22 September 2017 (F age 22-25 - hello, well my problem is i had sexual intercourse several times but i did not bleed in any of them, so i'm wondering is it possible that my hymen is still intact??... (32 words

I am unhappy at home, and flirting with my ex boyfriend

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21 September 2017 (F age 26-29 - I am married for nearly 4 years and lived together for 5 years . Since having my son last year , everything has changed . We both very good with looking after our son but My partner seems to be on the phone so much , which has been locked for two years .which I know is n... (1171 words

We were such good friends, now she wont even talk to me

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21 September 2017 (F age 30-35 - Slightly off topic of love and relationships but wondering if someone can shine some light over a situation with a close friend. I'm broken, torn, lost and really struggling to come to terms with the loss of my best friend, for the simple reason, that I have no idea why I ha... (1206 words

I want more, he leads me on but in the end wants just sex. It's he just a player?

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21 September 2017 (F age 22-25 - Hello! I have been friends with this guy since sophomore year of college and I graduated last year. He's 25 so yeah we are still young, but I feel like we have a good vibe going with one another. We used to hang out and talk about everything and anything nothing is off limits. ... (484 words

I had an affair with my ex husband's cousin and don't know what to do with the feelings I have

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21 September 2017 (F age 41-50 - I am married, my husband is my best friend and I really don't deserve him. This is my second marriage to the same man, we married,divorced cos he left me for someone else and we were both very young first time anyway. We got back together and were together 10 years before t... (152 words

She's going into an arranged marriage, unhappy with the man. Please help!

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21 September 2017 (F age 22-25 - I am an Indian. In our culture arrange marriage system is prevalent. Recently my best friend got engaged to someone. Her parents found that guy for her. Its been an year but not a day passed when she didn't complain about him. She always tells me that this guy never calls her, ... (442 words

She's asked me for advice-Can I be honest and tell her she's in a bad relationship?

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21 September 2017 (F age 36-40 - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I need some advice on should I say what I think or... be polite and lie. I have 2 cousins who are like sisters to me. One of them is having problems with her papers. She's been living in a foreign country for the past 7 years and since her contract i... (577 words

How can I last longer the first time?

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21 September 2017 (M age 18-21 - I just got into a relationship, its been quite a few months in. We are about to hit 3rd base and this is my first time someone will give me a handjob or even a blowjob. I don't think I can last for more than 30 seconds. Any tips on how to last longer on the first time?... (58 words

What are your thoughts on surprising someone that hates surprises & is worried about money?

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21 September 2017 (F age 30-35 - we've been Trying to conceive for over a year and a half now and both of us are self employed and super stressed out. So I decided that for my husbands birthday I would surprise him with a trip to the Netherlands to see this band that he loves! but now I'm super scared about ... (213 words

He's rejected me but is open to having sex. I'm upset but tempted to, since I'll be bored and alone in his city.

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21 September 2017 (F age 36-40 - I apologize in advance...this is a long one! I met a guy on Tinder back in March of this year. I was going to be in San Francisco for a few days and wanted to meet people while there so I changed my location to SF and started talking to him. He knew I was on the east coast a... (679 words

I'm Open-Minded but His Porn Habit & Denials are Alienating Me!

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21 September 2017 (F age 51-59 - my husband who is 10 years older than me is watching porn on a daily basis and playing virtual reality porn games,I know because he,s not very clever at deleting his history.He shows no interest in me even though I go out of my way to look nice and am told i look a lot younger ... (153 words

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