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My husband has a massive problem with texting women endlessly, no amount of counseling has helped yet I can't leave because of certain situations

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26 June 2019, 6 minutes ago (F age 36-40 - After 16 years of marriage I’ve hit a cross roads and I have no idea what to do next, so over the years my husband has been texting and emailing other women, it’s always in secret but strangely it’s never sexual, he meets woman at work or online and strikes up a friendship with ... (354 words

Is it worth for me to get into a relationship if I feel that the man will inevitably lose interest?

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26 June 2019, 3 minutes ago (F age 41-50 - I am having trouble dealing with the thought that it seems no matter how good a relationship or marriage or how beautiful a woman or how well she looks after herself it seem that everything I hear about read and see in real life it’s ineveitavke that the man will loss interest ... (222 words

I escaped an obsessive ex only to get married to a man exactly like him!

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25 June 2019 (F age 36-40 - I don't even know where to start...I guess I'm going to tell you about this in two parts. When I was in high school, there was this guy, James, who was new in school and he wanted to go out with me. I refused because I wasn't interested. He persisted, was very weird, almo... (998 words

My insecurities are making me wonder if I should make things official with him or just break up?

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24 June 2019 (F age 26-29 - I've been dating a guy for about 9 months who's 20 years older than me. I've been taking it slow because I was married for 7 years before this and I've been a bit nervous about a new relationship after my husband cheated on me (resulting in the separation). I'm not particularly ... (381 words

Should I tell her how I feel about her?

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24 June 2019 (M age 18-21 - I've been in love with a woman who is 1-year older than me. We dated for a few months, but then she moved to Ohio. We kept regular contact, and I still love her, but I never got to tell her how I felt before my only method of talking to her stopped working. I've made contact ... (100 words

My husband's behaviour towards my daughters has grown terrible

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23 June 2019 (F age 36-40 - I’ve been with my husband for 8 years. We have a 3 year old child together and I have two girls from a previous relationship ages 9 and 10 who don’t see their biological dad. When my husband and I first got together he was excellent with my girls and treated them as his own.... (261 words

My boyfriend expects me to cut his family's hair for free since I will soon be a hairdresser

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23 June 2019 (F age 26-29 - I'm about to qualify as a hairdresser and my bf if expects me to cut his families hair for free otherwise he says it will be awkward? He has a large family and I've spent nearly a year and half working for apprenticeship wage. Am I right to be annoyed? How do I handle this? ... (55 words

My ex gave me money with no strings attached to buy land but my husband is upset

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23 June 2019 (F age 30-35 - I have been married for four years... But we stay in our father inlaws house. My husband has a job but doesn't know how to manage his finances..so we haven't invested much. More so his growing old and is to retire in the next 10years. We have two children one a step daughter ... (203 words

Why would an ex reach out after years?

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23 June 2019 (M age 18-21 - My ex gf reached out to me a while ago and said she ran into someone back in our hometown and she wanted to clear up what they said. Apparently they told her I was still talking about her (which I wasn't) and she wanted to see if I still was and why. She also said she wanted ... (285 words

I lied to my ex boyfriend about my pregnancy

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23 June 2019 (F age 16-17 - i lied to my ex boyfriend about my pregnancy and i wanna now how i can get him to talk to me again its so hard not to think about him i can't get no sleep at night cause all i do is think about him what should i do i need help.... (53 words

I am in love with my cousin that is 10 years older than me

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23 June 2019 (M age 16-17 - I just wanna let u know I’m 17 and my cousin she’s 27! I know this is going to sound like a very crazy story and looking at the ages I know. Me and my cousin love to mess with each other it’s our??? thing! As time went I had feelings for her and couldn’t get her out of my mi... (289 words

How do I deal with my husband's jealousy?

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22 June 2019 (F age 30-35 - Hi this may seem like a pointless post but it’s really bothering me I’ve been with my partner for 8 years we have a 4 year old daughter whenever I’m playing a game or tickling her or even reading to her he makes stupid comments as though I’m not meant to spend time with her he ... (142 words

How do I stop feeling guilty that I can go home to see my family and my husband cant see his?

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22 June 2019 (F age 26-29 - I'm really torn and don't know what to do. Im married and with a husband. He's currently here on a working visa that expires in 2021. We started a process of him getting a green card, however, its already been a year and our case is still pending. Its been 5 years sin... (363 words

My conflicted feelings make me wonder if I would be better off single?

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22 June 2019 (F age 26-29 - I've been with my girlfriend for two and a half years now. I love her very much but in the past year I've found myself less and less attracted to her physically. About three months ago, we had a huge row in which she accused me of being distant toward her (I was) and I ended... (211 words

Why does a man with a perfect girlfriend still feel the need to have sex with someone else?

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22 June 2019 (F age 41-50 - I'd like to know WHY a man can have sex with two women at the same time? I don't mean a threesome. But having two sexual relationships concurrently. One of the relationships is with a woman he's been with for 6 years and he supposedly loves. The second is with a woman he ... (166 words

My girlfriend and my friend/roommate are way too close for comfort! Should I be concerned and who should I be upset with?

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22 June 2019 (M age 36-40 - I've been seeing this this young girl for couple months now. Very passionate with each other sex is great! She says I love you and so do I and I do love her.we started out as friends.. anyway, recently I moved in with my friend into a two-bedroom he's a good friend of mine. ... (255 words

Upset with my friends putting me in the middle of a mess

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21 June 2019 (M age 22-25 - Am I right to be upset with my friends on this? I help coach some softball teams for my local area. I try to help setup teams and find people to play on all the nights. My problems began a couple months ago when two of my friends(from different friend groups) who both have ... (353 words

Pregnant and boyfriend wants space?

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21 June 2019 (F age 22-25 - hello, Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years now, in the start of the relationship everything was perfect, he was the exact man I was looking for after coming out of a terrible long term relationship that ended badly. We faced alot of issues from... (1467 words

We are both married but how do I let go of this man who is my real love?

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21 June 2019 (F age 30-35 - This is going to sound ridiculous and like me and this other person are the worst people in the world. I am married, but separated and this man is married with kids. We have been talking for quite some time now. We have never done anything sexually even though the attraction is ... (160 words

They are both my friends do I tell her that he's going to a swingers club?

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21 June 2019 (M age 22-25 - Hi everyone, Around a year ago I found my very close friend on a popular swingers site. He’s my best mate and I’m also pretty close with his girlfriend. They’ve been together for a few years now and have a serious relationship, house, engagement etc. Now, today he has post... (116 words

Am I right in just leaving him to it?

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21 June 2019 (F age 41-50 - Hi all I’ve asked for advice before the same guy and found it really helpful so I was wondering if I could run this passed you also x So ... basically work together sometimes , he split from wife six months ago after bad times ... started sending messages then eventually... (236 words

She didn't answer should I call again or just move on?

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21 June 2019 (M age 22-25 - So I called her a few days after getting her message. I'll probably see her again at some point but the bottom line is she didn't answer and from what I've seen it's really a mixed bag when it comes to calling vs. texting. So, if she didn't answer me (I only called once, not ... (265 words

My boyfriend has grown more distant as my pregnancy goes on. Is he no longer interested?

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21 June 2019 (F age 26-29 - Hi so my boyfriend of a year and a half and I got pregnant recently. At the beginning when we found out he was so supportive going to appointments, helping me figure out what is going to happen with our living situation etc. Everything recently started to go down hill when I ... (141 words

Do I tell my husband that his adult daughter is putting terrible things about him on social media?

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21 June 2019 (F age 51-59 - Do I tell my husband or not that his adult daughter is putting nasty things on social media about him, things like he's not been around for years and other horrible stuff, which is untrue we took her out for dinner last weekend! I am assuming it's for attention from people on ... (82 words

Why is there so much pressure for women to stay youthful?

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21 June 2019 (F age 51-59 - As I am getting older I’m finding that outside influences make me conscious of my aging and like there is somehow something wrong with me or less attractive about me because I’m a woman getting older. It seems that every se one ad on is about how to look younger or get rid of ... (213 words

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