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Didnt cheat but feel guilty ?

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21 August 2017, 2 hours ago (M age 22-25 - Me and my gf have dated for about a year and a half. A few months ago. I've never flirted or talked to or tried to cheat on her (never even thought about it. Me and her were going through an extremely rough patch, constantly arguing, and being mad at eachother. O... (421 words

Should I be concerned about my erratic behavior?

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21 August 2017, 2 hours ago (F age 30-35 - Should I be concerned about my erratic behavior? A little brief background I am 32 and most of my life I have battled just depression and going to these deep waves of misery. I must admit through therapy and for the first time trying to LISTEN I am alarmed. I have a girl I have ... (278 words

How do stop my self from being so nervous before a date.

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21 August 2017, 2 hours ago (F age 30-35 - How do stop my self from being so nervous before a date. Iv recently started seeing some one new and the first time we meet I'll admit I was pretty drunk. He has looked me up and we are goin on a date. I feel lik the first time I brought him home I was full of confidence ... (115 words

I can't get over my ex of 4 years ago. I treated her badly and have regrets

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21 August 2017 (M age 36-40 - Hi 4 years ago I was with a woman I fell completely in love with I admit now I didn't treat her how I should of done I called her a couple of nasty names and generally treated her like rubbish now every morning I wake up with her on my mind I see her around regularly she just ... (108 words

Is it common for a man to steal and wear his partner's panties?

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21 August 2017, 2 hours ago (F age - Ok I was with my long distance lover three Months ago.He told Me over the phone that he stole a pair of my Panties ...did I realize they were missing? No... he said When He put them On he got hard... said he liked that the Panties were soft. We both laughed.... ... (127 words

She didn't like my solo comment to a girl online and now she won't speak to me

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21 August 2017 (M age 30-35 - Been seeing this girl a month , I like her she is the good girl sweet type.. It took her forever to have sex with me.. she hasent had sex in 4 years had an abusive ex .. long story short I was on Facebook chatting up another girl I wasn't hiding it or anything all I did was ask ... (160 words

Is it too much to ask to want a virgin partner?

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21 August 2017 (M age 22-25 - I am 25 and a virgin guy. Is it too much to ask for a virgin partner? I mean i have no disrespect for those who aint and i believe that every person has a choice. PLEASE HELP! ... (39 words

My ex wants to chat again. Is he just trying to keep all of his options open?

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20 August 2017 (F age 30-35 - I was seeing this guy three years ago and the relationship was very rocky. Eventually we split, he met someone else but we stayed in contact. We spoke last month and admitted there was still something between us. He says his relationship is ending and that he wants some time to ... (98 words

Dealing with my son's father?

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20 August 2017 (F age 22-25 - My son's father never wanted to know anything about his son when I tried to reach out to him when our son was born. Now at 2 months he finally responded to my texts and his mom actually was the one to speak to me. She has been kind this whole time but what makes me mad is the ... (365 words

I've been snooping and finding messages my boyfriend has sent to people on Craigslist

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20 August 2017 (F age 26-29 - Hi everyone My boyfriend and I have been living together for 2 years dating for 3. This summer we moved to a new town for his work. He really hated the job but had to do it to move up. One week, our sex life was amazing, he was tired but came home to make love to me every... (728 words

He says the sex is better with me but he still keeps his girlfriend. Do I wait around or end things?

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20 August 2017 (F age 22-25 - Back in January I met this guy on Tinder. We started off talking every single day just clicking really well and having great conversations. After we met one or two times we had a conversation and he said that he wasn't looking for a relationship and wanted to keep things just ... (631 words

If my husband loves me like he says he does then why can't I shake the feelings that he's been unfaithful?

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19 August 2017 (F age 36-40 - Hi everybody, I have never done this before so here goes.. I have been married to my husband for 12 years. We have been together for 15 years. I ma 38 and he is 53. I love him so much and there's nothing I wouldn't do for him. I'm in school for RN and i make time for him a... (501 words

Do couples have to be united on everything?

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19 August 2017 (F age 26-29 - Do couples have to be united on everything? my boyfriend is frustrated because he feels like people treat him as less than. When I first met him, I saw that he was the butt of peoples jokes. That was 10 years ago. We've been together for 5 years and he has maintained this ... (322 words

She's boring and bland and I need to cut her loose but how do I let her down without hurting her feelings?

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19 August 2017 (M age 22-25 - Hello everyone, I've recently been speaking to a girl that I got speaking to through social media. I just randomly messaged her one day and things took off and we've now been speaking for roughly two months. We went on a date after about 10 days or so, hit things off well ... (322 words

My very best friend is cheating on her partner! Do I tell him?

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19 August 2017 (F age 41-50 - Please help. She is my very bestfriend for 17 Years. WE See really good with each other. I care for her. I know her very much and everything what she do is open to me. Thats how she trust me. My Problem is, i visited Her 2 months ago. Thats also the first time i meet her ... (269 words

Why would he say he isn't right for me, yet I'm right for him but he still doesn't want a relationship?

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19 August 2017 (F age 36-40 - Please be patient as I outline my story. We were good friends and disclosed our feelings for each other a few months after re-establishing contact. He's been supportive of me from the beginning, and we have always playfully flirted. There was instant chemistry. We'd initially ... (707 words

Suggestions please on how to help his aim

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19 August 2017 (F age 51-59 - I got a question and it's not drama and I think it needs to be answered guys my husband iS a hunting man so I ask guys how can you hit a deer at 300yards and miss toilet seat at 3 feet... (45 words

Uncertain of my feelings at this time

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19 August 2017 (M age 16-17 - I m in my last year of my schooling and I have never been in a relationship so far. But I was attracted to a girl in my class and she was also attracted to me. We started to hangout, go on rides and met alone when no was there in the home. We used to hug, kiss (cheeks) but we ... (168 words

We've fallen out over nothing. What do I do?

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19 August 2017 (M age 22-25 - I've been hanging out with this girl for the past 2 months(i know im slow). We have a pretty good friendship and I could tell it was heading towards a relationship. We had an awesome couple of days planned(aka dates) and basically we broke down and confessed we liked each ... (229 words

How can I manage my wedding envy?

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19 August 2017 (F age 26-29 - First let me tell you that I know how utterly ridiculous I sound, but here's the story. I am 29 and have been with my partner for 9 years and we are engaged. We have travelled together and have good jobs. We were going to get married this year but had some complication... (165 words

Family problems blighting my future with him

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19 August 2017 (F age 18-21 - Me and my fiancé have been together for over 2 years now. During his past relationship with his ex' this women had already had a child by someone else. This child was very little when they started dating. During the time they were together he got her pregnant. So they had a ... (256 words

He spent 5 years in prison for crippling a child in a drunken car accident

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18 August 2017 (F age 26-29 - Would you date someone with a criminal record ? I met this guy at a party of a mutual friend. We spent the whole night talking and exchanged numbers. After spending hours a day texting / talking we went on an amazing first date. At the end of the date on the ride home he tol... (222 words

This relationship is draining me

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18 August 2017 (F age 26-29 - I've been dating "N" (29)for the past two years. Of course, everything was great at first. We moved in together and though he has many great qualities, I feel myself falling quickly out of love. I am stressed, depressed and there's a lot going on in my life right now. He doesn... (437 words

My friend's son seems to have a crush on me

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18 August 2017 (F age 18-21 - Hi there, so I have a problem that I myself don't have a solution to. I recently went to live with my friend who's older then me. She's nearly 50 and I'm 21. She was really close friends with my mum when I was little and we recently reconnected when I started working with her. ... (819 words

A guy I have a crush on wants to do things I've never done

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18 August 2017 (F age 13-15 - Hi, Im 15 years old, and there is this guy who I like and he likes me back. He says that he wants to finger me and do stuff with me, and I want to as well but I am shit scared. There are so many things that Im worried about, and questions I want answered. Firstly, I hav... (204 words

Am I too sensitive or he just rude?

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18 August 2017 (F age 30-35 - Would you be upset at your BF for ignoring a "Thinking of you" text you sent to him? I can see he opened it but he didn't respond. About an hour later, I saw he was on Facebook for 45 min til 11 p.m. While he was on FB I sent him a heart on Messenger and there was no reply... (179 words

My husband is unaffectionate

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18 August 2017 (F age 30-35 - My husband literally acts like I'm invisible he never hugs/kisses me or shows me any love at all. I've asked him over and over what's wrong or whether he still loves me he just says that he does love me yet never changes. I even asked him if he was cheating yesterda... (90 words

Did he cross the line? I'm not sure.

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18 August 2017 (F age 30-35 - I have been seeing this guy for a little over a month now, things are good. He has his kids every weekend so that kinda sucks but all and all he is nice.. I haven't met his kids yet but it's a bit soon for that. Anyway I told him that I haven't had sex for 2 years and explained ... (199 words

Should I invite my estranged dad?

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18 August 2017 (F age 22-25 - Hey Guys! I'm engaged and am due to have a small intimate wedding in January. My issue is that I don’t want to invite my dad. My dad and I don't have a relationship whats-so-ever. My mom passed away when I was 1 1/2 and didn't step up to take care of me and my sister. My sister ... (236 words

My friends have changed toward me

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17 August 2017 (F age 18-21 - I don't what is wrong with me lately. Or am i just being depressed or just over thinking? I've been friends with these group of girls for over 5 years. We used to always hang out and spend time together. But this year, they completely changed. They wouldn't communicate when... (245 words

Is it right to ask for help?

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17 August 2017 (F age 41-50 - Should a person who is sick or not feeling well ask for help? Like: A lift home from a doctor's appointment or from hospital? Or for a friend to drop and check they are OK? This is if they have no family nearby or live alone. If you were having surgery in next 6 weeks, ne... (419 words

How best to take time from busy office for interviews?

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17 August 2017 (F age 22-25 - My company consists of 7 people including my manager. We are a small company but work exclusively for a major client. One of my colleagues recently left the company and the work has been redistributed to us. It's short term manageable but not sustainable and my manager has been ... (442 words

I feel guilty for having feelings for my wife's sister!

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17 August 2017 (M age 36-40 - I am very happily married but I think I love my wife's sister. She is married to my friend who has changed over the years and treats her terrible. We were always close but now she confides in me all the time. She is always hugging me and rubbing my back. We spend a lot of time ... (162 words

My boyfriend of 8 months is going on vacation with his almost ex wife and their kids! Is this normal? Is this okay?

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17 August 2017 (? age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with a man (in recovery from alcohol) for 8 months. A few months back things got a little rocky as hes still not fully divorced that's not final for about 2 more months. I have not met his children, nor him mine. His ex wife does know I exis... (374 words

His ex randomly pops up!

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17 August 2017 (F age 26-29 - My .... ex? current bf?... I don't know what we are... we dated for a year,he cheated several times, I broke up with him and 6 months later we are seeing each other and acting like a couple. To him and his friends and immediate family, he introduces me as his girlfriend on my ... (304 words

Is it petty that I am annoyed that the man I am dating is cheap?

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17 August 2017 (F age 30-35 - I am dating a guy who is about a decade older than me. On our first date we went to a restaurant (one he'd chosen and he asked me out). When the bill came he wanted to split it. He has a very well paying job. I am setting up my own business and earn very little. After the... (201 words

How do I talk to him aboug where we stand?

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17 August 2017 (F age - I've been dating a lovely man for 23 months and no sex. He says he has libido problems but does nothing about it. We have good times when we are together and he phones me every night to discuss his work. I know that I'm more attracted to him, than he is to me. I broke up ... (164 words

Long distance friend thinks we are in a relationship

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17 August 2017 (M age 22-25 - Around a year ago I met a woman on a dating/friendship website, she lives in America (and me in the UK). We message as often as we're both able to, considering the time differences, and a few weeks ago she called me for the first time. Since then, we've been speaking over the ... (267 words

Is it too late to return his interest?

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17 August 2017 (F age 18-21 - Afew years ago I started going to the gym and use to see this guy there who use to smile and look at me all the time, but at that stage of my life I was not looking for a relationship and my mental state and esteem was pretty crap. Silly me thought he was judging me and ... (307 words

Why can he have an orgasm now?

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17 August 2017 (F age 41-50 - been with my bf 21 yrs.he has never had orgasim from oral,we broke up 7 months ago now were trying to work on getting back together,when i give him oral now he does have orgasims why not before please help me understand.... (42 words

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