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Should I let this go, or just give it some time?

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21 October 2018, 6 hours ago (F age 18-21 - Sorry if this is long but my story is a bit complicated and I am hoping for some help. My ex and I were dating for a while before things went left. I really love him and am hurt by a lot of the things that he was doing. One day I called his phone and a female answered,... (755 words

I need emotional support which my husband can't give me.

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21 October 2018, 6 hours ago (F age 26-29 - Hi everyone.. its been months since my last post here. I had my 2 weeks old son now after long labor and he is perfect. Im the one who posted about trouble with my husband and mother in law. Things are not getting better. Im still living in my in laws house and my husband i... (807 words

I have a question about porn.

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21 October 2018, 6 hours ago (M age 18-21 - I have a question about porn. My grandparents are pretty strict and almost never leave the house. Well, they do but Grandma works part time and Grandpa is retired and is actually a Deacon but they are never gone at the same time unless I'm in school, which sucks. I have no time ... (206 words

My LDR guy ignores and hurts me.

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21 October 2018, 6 hours ago (F age 41-50 - We are certainly not young in age: I'm 45 and my partner is 61 years old but both are new in LDR world. 2 years ago my partner has lived and worked in different country and we have been apart since then. He is workaholic. As a result he focuses on his work very much and he... (210 words

I find myself wanting more but he appears lacklustre!

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21 October 2018, 6 hours ago (F age 36-40 - I’m seeing someone new and we’ve been dating almost a month. In that time Ive seen him about 6 or 7 times. Real dates. Dinner or movies etc. He is great about showing up and doing fun stuff I don’t feel like he’s just looking for a physical relationship. We’ve made out etc but ... (314 words

He didn't disclose his real age. Am I overreacting?

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21 October 2018, 6 hours ago (F age 22-25 - I met a guy several months ago, when we were taking an evening class together. I was too shy to talk to anyone for a while, but then one day he and I found we took the same route home after class. We got talking. I mentioned I'd just had my 25th birthday, and asked him how old ... (509 words

Five years on and he is still accusing me of cheating!

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20 October 2018, 6 hours ago (F age 30-35 - How can I get my partner to trust me? We've been together 5 years, I've NEVER done anything that's remotely disloyal or unfaithful. When we met I had a few male friends, I'm now not allowed to speak to any of them despite the fact that all I've ever had with these guys is fr... (353 words

When discussing sexual history, do handjobs count as sex?

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20 October 2018 (F age 30-35 - When discussing sexual history should people you didn't have sex with but gave handjobs to count? I know to count oral and vaginal ( I never had anal.) but do handjobs you've given typically go into that count?... (38 words

I went out of my way to make my friend feel special on his birthday but he didn't do anything for me on mine

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20 October 2018 (M age 26-29 - It’s really bugging me that I spent my birthday alone. When my best friend has his birthday, I planned dinner, made sure all his friends were there. I personally took them, paid for him etc. We had a great time. Recently it was my birthday last week and I did not plan ... (286 words

Online dating but he's much shorter than me and we've never met. I don't know where this is going

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20 October 2018 (F age 26-29 - Okay so basically I met this guy on a dating app. We really hit it off and I don’ usually hit it off with guys. I usually get bored or they annoy me. I honestly don’t know how to explain it any other way. Anyways. I met this guy. He’s 29 and I’m 26 and he too doesn’t really d... (326 words

How do I change my desperate tendencies regarding men?

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19 October 2018 (F age 30-35 - I have realized that when I get into any relationship my main goal is to win the over - and close the deal. This is all mentally obviously I never reveal my intentions out loud but with my bf two years ago he approached me asked me out etc and we started dating and I ignored he ... (330 words

Should I fly 4,000 miles to go see my ex? Would it be cheating?

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19 October 2018 (F age 30-35 - So... we’ve broken up for 5 years after an incident and subsequently I moved home to my home country. Contact was lost eventually as we were sick of crying over the phone. Recently, I thought I saw him whilst on vacation and sent him a text. He replied... and I just found ou... (210 words

How do I move forward and stop letting his coworker get to me?

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19 October 2018 (F age 30-35 - So my husband has a female coworker and their work relationship has made me uncomfortable. More so because of the actions of my husband. He has lied to me numerous times and all lies have been associated with her. While this was happening, I was going through some pretty rough ... (286 words

Can I just turn off some thoughts?

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19 October 2018 (M age 22-25 - I have very strong romantic feelings for my cousin and I know its wrong even if she is my step cousin I know its wrong. The problem is I suspect she feels the same way. She plays with her hair when she speaks to me, tries to get closer to me when sitting down or walking ... (132 words

How do I stop being so socially awkward and silly?

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19 October 2018 (F age 30-35 - I've recently started experiencing terrible anxiety and it's really effecting the way I am in work. I was wondering if anybody had any tips to help deal with day to day life. I have an issue with looking clean and tidy. I have a bath before work and then one when I get h... (281 words

Strange things keep happening after my one-night stand!

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19 October 2018 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone I split up with my partner but we carried on living together until he found somewhere to live I went out and slept with someone it was just a one night stand I woke up and told him I had a boyfriend even though we had split up just cos i only wanted it to be a one ... (267 words

My husband wont discuss things and gives me the silent treatment.

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18 October 2018 (F age 36-40 - Hello and thanks I tried writing in before but can't seem to find my question. My husband is very popular, and 10 years younger than myself. His friends are a huge part of his life and I knew that from day one. Sometimes I do get a bit annoyed because he supports them... (543 words

He asked me out as a joke but I said yes ... how do I face my friends?

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18 October 2018 (F age 13-15 - My crush asked me out as a joke and I said yes. I was sick the day after and I wasn’t at school. My friends texted me about it. Apparently he had told most of my friends. Now I have to go back to school. I don’t really like him a lot. I just wouldn’t mind dating him. Now I hate ... (77 words

I kissed other men while we were broken up, now back together did I cheat on him?

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17 October 2018 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I had split up for week, his decision and I was gutted but said I would respect his decision. I went out with a friend for a night out and i kissed two men. I love my boyfriend and I was upset with it all. We have now got back together but did I cheat on h... (68 words

I said yes when he proposed but I worry it wasnt the right answer.

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17 October 2018 (F age 26-29 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 12 years and live with him. I've had some problems with my boyfriend for a while, maybe a year. He stopped being romantic and didn't go on dates or ever go out to spend time at the weekend with me. He would play computer games all the t... (320 words

Should I reply or ignore?

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17 October 2018 (F age 41-50 - i think i am asking for advice due to a few things one is my age. OK so just over a year ago i was online dating and i went on a date with a guy we had a fab date or so i thought. The next day he said i was too ' out there ' im thinking he thought i was a bit too out going ... (305 words

I feel like our relationship has been killed by moving in together.

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17 October 2018 (F age 30-35 - HI I have been dating a guy for 6 months, he had to find new accommodation quickly and I stepped in and said that he could move in with me, (1 and half months ago) However I am now beginning to feel really frustrated, miserable and angry a lot. I feel like we have gone f... (274 words

How can I keep away from my awful co-worker when I am forced to work with him?

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17 October 2018 (F age 26-29 - I just started a new job a few weeks ago. Everyone has been nice to me so far... except one person. You see, when I met him I thought he was cool. He teased me a little and tried to make me laugh (it worked). But then it was like a switch flipped. All of a sudden he started ... (210 words

Am I expecting too much from this man?

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17 October 2018 (F age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend since May. The relationship has moved rather fast and he's moved in with me already. We've had our first few big fights and a few times I've asked him to move back out but he didn't due to no where to go and within a few days we manage to work ... (425 words

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