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My husband committed suicide. I think its because he found out about my past. How do I move on?

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17 October 2018, 4 hours ago (F age 30-35 - I don't know how to begin,I lied to my late husband about my past relationships and virginity, my late husband was a gem and the most wonderful man i have spent my life.He was a virgin before our marriage and never had a girlfriend.He lost his virginity to me.It meant special ... (279 words

I feel like our relationship has been killed by moving in together.

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17 October 2018, 7 hours ago (F age 30-35 - HI I have been dating a guy for 6 months, he had to find new accommodation quickly and I stepped in and said that he could move in with me, (1 and half months ago) However I am now beginning to feel really frustrated, miserable and angry a lot. I feel like we have gone f... (274 words

How can I keep away from my awful co-worker when I am forced to work with him?

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17 October 2018, 7 hours ago (F age 26-29 - I just started a new job a few weeks ago. Everyone has been nice to me so far... except one person. You see, when I met him I thought he was cool. He teased me a little and tried to make me laugh (it worked). But then it was like a switch flipped. All of a sudden he started ... (210 words

Am I expecting too much from this man?

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17 October 2018, 4 hours ago (F age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend since May. The relationship has moved rather fast and he's moved in with me already. We've had our first few big fights and a few times I've asked him to move back out but he didn't due to no where to go and within a few days we manage to work ... (425 words

Should I give my ex money back for a trip that he won't be taking with my family?

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16 October 2018, 4 hours ago (F age 22-25 - Hey guys. Since my last post I've taken your advice and no longer visit my exs social media accounts. I am actually in the process of moving on and have even met someone else :) I'm just writing because it's coming to the time where I sign the house over to my ex. I've no... (167 words

I believe my husband has sick fantasies about my daughter. She trusts him. What should I do?

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16 October 2018, 4 hours ago (F age 30-35 - I found a spare phone in my husband's truck and saved to his favorites was "Stepdaughter fucks step dad".. I have a beautiful 18 year old daughter that lives with us . I'm leaving him because to me, that is unacceptable and I will never look at him the same again. I found out ... (96 words

I don't feel like chasing him do I just let things ride and see what happens?

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16 October 2018, 4 hours ago (F age 26-29 - Hi I need some advice there's this guy I met last month at a party he seemed to be interested but he never gave me his number he said we should hang out sometime and gave me a spot where he will be however since we have mutual friends I ended up finding him social media that ... (341 words

What do you make of my boyfriend's long-distance female friend?

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16 October 2018, 7 hours ago (F age 30-35 - My bf has had a female friend for 5 years. At first I was uneasy about the whole thing but as I learned more about her and took my insecurities for working, I became cool with the whole thing. One evening when she messages, he said "oh she was asking how you were during t... (152 words

Regret kissing a girl I didn't find attractive that turned out to be an alcoholic on a date whilst drunk and now she wants more.

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15 October 2018 (M age 30-35 - Hi to everyone, I have gotten myself into an awkward situation with a girl I went on a date with last night. To elaborate I met this girl very briefly about 3 weeks ago at a club, she took a photo that I wanted so we exchanged details and she sent it to me. From then ... (1445 words

I've been with him for 15 years. Am I stupid?

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15 October 2018 (F age 26-29 - Am I being dumb? I have been with my partner for 15 years We have 2 children together. His mum is constantly on the phone texting call and bitching about me. I have recently started a new Job, but that's more for her to bitch about me. I now don't talk to my Partner ab... (288 words

Should I be upset that my FWB partner is having sex with others and lied about it

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15 October 2018 (F age 41-50 - I have been having sex with a friend but he said he having been with anyone else but I caught him with another woman should I be angry or not because we are not dating? please help me because im mad as hell.... (43 words

I have an anal sex question and can't find answers

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15 October 2018, 4 hours ago (F age 26-29 - Hi, Okay this probably sounds stupid. But please give me some serious answers... I would appreciate it. Yesterday my husband and I had anal sex and he came inside. Today, more than 24 hours later, we had anal and vaginal sex both. Can the sperm possibly be alive inside... (116 words

How do I get over my co-worker? I have made sacrifices she wouldnt make and I know she doesn't care about me

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15 October 2018 (F age 22-25 - I apologise in advance for rambling but I wasn’t sure how to explain things. It’s been a long time since I last felt the need to ask for advice online but I’m desperate. I can’t talk to any of my friends because I’d be breaching confidentiality rules at work. I am a lesbian and ... (354 words

Girlfriend in jail. How do I handle that we have to move out?

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15 October 2018 (M age 41-50 - Girlfriend who has been living with me at my apartment for 5 months was arrested last month(drugs). Lease is up and all her stuff is here. I have been packing it up and cleaning the place to get the deposit back. So I have been there during odd times that I normally wouldn't ... (214 words

Is he just not interested? being a jerk? Did I screw things up?

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15 October 2018 (F age 51-59 - Hi, I have been single for twenty years and dating for ten, long years. I dated on and off, because of the bad experiences. I have dated a lot of men, who have commitment issues, some with intimate issues, not being truthful with what they really want. I met a man a month ago ... (265 words

Why can't I develop strong feelings for guys?

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15 October 2018 (F age 18-21 - I'm struggling to understand why I can't seem to develop strong feelings for guys. I have crushes, but they're always for the guys I can't have. The minute I get into a relationship or feel myself going into one I immediately go off them and run away. I've only ever slept with ... (207 words

My boyfriend is thinking about working with a woman I don't like! What should I do?

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15 October 2018 (F age 36-40 - I don't know what to do anymore. I feel like I'm at the end of my rope. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years and I love him with all my heart but I have always struggled with trust issues due to my boyfriend's career. He works at a gym and has always worked at... (1050 words

He said he'd break up with his girlfriend to date me but I just want to be friends

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14 October 2018 (F age 18-21 - Hi, I've just transferred to a new university starting second year where everybody already knows each other. I befriended a girl on my course and she introduced me to her friendship group on the course which has been lovely. I've particularly gotten on well with one boy in ... (234 words

25, single, a virgin, and in the closet... not living my best life. How do I motivate myself to do better both personally and professionally?

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14 October 2018 (M age 22-25 - SO... I have this master plan to come out, but I haven't made it very far through it yet... And by that, I mean that I haven't done anything at all. Lately, though, this has been weighing on me. I need to tell you a little bit more about myself for this to make sense. I... (996 words

Will I ever find someone the same as my unrequited love or will I continue spiralling into an endless depression?

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13 October 2018 (M age 13-15 - Over a span of about 3 years, I've fallen in love with someone who, not long ago, I decided to open up to. They told me that they only want to stay as friends, which has deeply saddened me. They were the only person I've been interested in ever and they seemed to have the ... (257 words

He loves me, wants me for his wife.. but also wants sex with other women. Please help!

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13 October 2018 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over two years; we're in our thirties and met on a dating site. We've been having a great time together and at this point we're discussing a path to marriage and children, but I'm having trouble with something... He told m... (498 words

Is it cheating if my boyfriend stood and talked to a naked woman for 5 minutes?

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13 October 2018 (F age 26-29 - Grrr. Me and my boyfriend of 10 months have been arguing a lot lately. We've hit a rough patch. To make matters worse he broke his hand so he's out of work and can't drive right now. I moved him into my home about 2months ago. So now he's living with me, jobless, and I'm ... (616 words

Have I just been used?

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13 October 2018 (F age 26-29 - I was seeing someone up until a few months ago, we weren’t together very long but I really started to care for him. Anyway he’d not long got out a relationship before we met, moved out and started his new life so wanted to take things slowly, he then got appendicitis’s and ... (145 words

How do we announce his cancer diagnosis?

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13 October 2018 (M age 30-35 - My younger brother is 33 years old and moved back in with his parents. Only a few people know that it is because he waa diagnose with brain cancer and he moved back in with our parents to make it easier f or us (family and friends) to help him. He asked our sister, our pare... (91 words

Why was my boyfriend of 8 months stalking his ex girlfriend from his car?

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13 October 2018 (F age 22-25 - We been together 8 months. He lies to me alot and doesnt priortize me. She moved back in town 5 months ago. And he was stalking her from his car 5 days ago. I know this because my friend informed me when she was driving in the area he was at. They been broken up two years and ... (238 words

How do you tell if your mother is a narcissist?

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13 October 2018 (F age 26-29 - I know my mom is a narcissist. Or maybe I am. I don't know. I hope not....My question is ... how do you tell? Little bit of back story... I started watching Bates Motel and I'm noticing some overlap when the show is juxtaposed with my real life, her mood swings, her mani... (525 words

It seems like boyfriend's love is fading not sure why

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12 October 2018 (F age 41-50 - Hi I’m sorry if this is long. I’ve been with my new bf for 4 months. Everything was perfect. He told me he loves me from the bottom of his heart he went on holiday for two weeks and we spoke lots on the phone and video called each other. When he came back home we had an a... (408 words

My boyfriend’s family getting in the way of our relationship and they want to take my baby away

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12 October 2018 (F age 22-25 - I am really overwhelmed by a situation going on in my personal life with my partner. I am a mom of two, we live together, we have a one year old, I have a daughter and we live in an appartment inside his mom and step dad’s house who are not married. His dad has never been in ... (1057 words

I'm willing to leave my husband but my married lover isn't saying anything about leaving his wife

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12 October 2018 (F age 36-40 - Iv been having an affair for a couple of years now and decided to end my marriage. I'm living with a friend but my married lover is still staying put. I said it was my problem about leaving my husband but he said he was still worried for me. He thought I was going to leave my ... (143 words

My boyfriend of 5 years is no longer sure he wants to be with me. I think he is going through some sort of life crisis

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12 October 2018 (F age 22-25 - Hi everyone. This is pretty long so just bear with me please. I (25F) and my boyfriend (30M) have been together for 5 years. We have lived together for all of that. Before dating, we were very good online gaming buddies for another 5 years. I moved to a different state to ... (1087 words

How do meet someone who would want to settle down with me?

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12 October 2018 (M age 22-25 - I'm a 23 year old trans male. So I've been single for well over five years now. I dated 1 girl in school and another in college. The first girl broke my heart (original I know.) So it kind of messed up my second relationship because of confidant issues. We broke up several... (1016 words

Engagement called off due to past relationship how do I fix things?

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12 October 2018 (F age 22-25 - I was engaged to a wonderful guy.He is a virgin and have very high Morales and values.However, i lied to him about my past relationship and virginity. Engagement called off due to videos and pictures of sexual activity and intimate ones,taken and recorded with my ex boyfr... (137 words

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