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I don't want to lead her on, but I don't want to flat out reject her as I don't want to hurt her that way either

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22 May 2018, 4 hours ago (M age 22-25 - Dear all I need some advice. I met a girl online several months ago, as a language exchange. That was all I was looking for and her too i believe. We get along great and have learned a lot together. Our personalities are very similar, lots of similar interests. S... (609 words

I’m a first time dater and find myself stressing about the romantic/ affectionate part of it!

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22 May 2018, 8 hours ago (F age 22-25 - Does anyone have tips for letting yourself be more romantic/affectionate with someone when it's totally outside of your comfort zone? Been seeing someone for a couple weeks now (first time ever dating) and can tell he wants more from me physically as he's been finding obv... (190 words

How do I support my husband in his business stress?

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21 May 2018 (F age 30-35 - Hi all Im wondering how i can support my husband in his stress. He runs two businesses that could be successful but due to outside factors, things arent going well. He literally cannot catch a break. He most recently said: "if i have to deal with any more pressure i think i ... (139 words

Recently there is a lack of trust from both sides!

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21 May 2018 (F age 18-21 - I'm in a relationship and have been with the boy for 6 months. We had a very good start to our relationship other than a few anger issues he had where he would get too angry too easily. Beside this it was pretty much perfect. Recently he found out that I was talking to two ... (418 words

My youngest children have fallen out with my oldest child!

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21 May 2018 (F age 51-59 - I have 3 children who are now young adults and 2 of them have fallen out with their eldest sibling. I have tried for almost a year now to get them to talk and they’re all willing to talk to each other as long as the other party says sorry first. None of them will do that as ... (245 words

How can I adapt better to what my career will be? How can I make this better for myself?

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21 May 2018 (F age 26-29 - Not a relationship question more of a general life question and how to cope with the working routine. I’m 29 years old, graduated college with a BS in the Health Sciences and have been working in my field for about 8 months now. I love my job and the work itself, although... (348 words

Why am I having dreams about his ex?

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20 May 2018 (F age 22-25 - I had a dream of a bull chasing me to the edge of a river and when it was about to hit me I close my eyes and on opening I am at my boyfriends house and her ex is seated on the chair. So I ignore and go straight to the bedroom to drop my bag then I find hers hanged where I put ... (118 words

Anxiety and fear when alone

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20 May 2018 (F age 30-35 - Hi there. I am going to be staying alone because my fiance is going away for work for 3 nights. I have anxiety and fear being sick (it is something i have had my whole life). This fear is intensified when i am alone. It is probably worse because I live outside of the city and ... (95 words

He's addicted to sex sites and internet dating. I want my old man back!

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20 May 2018 (F age 51-59 - My live in man of 20 yes he is addictied to internet dating and sex sites.his treatment of me in last couple months he says not doing anything but he is I am a worthless I have tried everything just to get him to come bed with me he say ok then never stop talking to other woman ... (75 words

I've only had sex once, have a long distance g/f I'll never meet and I want experience

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20 May 2018 (M age 26-29 - I am 27. I have never had a phyiscal girlfriend. I had sex once at 24. I have no friends to speak of. All I have is a long distance "girlfriend" i met a few years ago. She lives in another country, and that along with money means that we will never realistically be... (345 words

Our sex life is non existent

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19 May 2018 (M age 30-35 - Me and my gf sex life is non existent. Sometimes I look forward to it and it can be over so soon. No foreplay happens, she doesn’t let me go anywhere near her for foreplay. She used to be really wild, and now it’s gone to nothing. I’m still up for it but she isn’t. I can’t ... (117 words

I don’t feel a spark with her but I still had sex with her!

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19 May 2018 (M age 18-21 - Me and this girl broke up a while ago, after about a month she came over to play some video games and chat. It was getting real late and she was getting tired so I offered her to stay the night. During that we began cuddling and making out and it led to sex. This girl is s... (128 words

Does anyone have any tips on mental health?

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18 May 2018 (F age 30-35 - Hello aunts I realize this is not a relationship question but I have been diagnosed with ocd/ rumination (excessive) to the point where I get horrible tension headaches and panick. I am a prisoner of my mind and I go and recheck things and repeat and write things over and... (190 words

Does he have a disorder or is he just a liar?

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18 May 2018 (F age 36-40 - Hello i have a question, i have been dating this guy for 3 months but am confused about his character.The first time met him, he told he was born Jan 30th, the next time i asked he said 20th feb 1979 i asked to see his Id it was 1th Jan 1978. Last time he told me his sons ... (225 words

Please help to explain to my sister that I am not a monster for looking at porn!

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18 May 2018 (M age 18-21 - I need the help of the people of DearCupid here. I have been trying to explain to my sister that all guys look at porn one way or another but she wouldn't listen and thinks I am a monster for looking at images of naked women. I have been a role model and sort of father figure ... (346 words

I don’t want to cut off this friend, but his behavior feels selfish and manipulative? Or is it me who is being childish and needy?

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18 May 2018 (M age 30-35 - I have a friend who I used to consider a best friend. He isa very charming person but also totally hypocritical and self interested, at other times eh can be selfless. We used to spend a lot of time together. Recently, with no notice to me his priorities have changed; he’s ... (504 words

He broke up with my but regrets it 1.5 years later. I still love him, but what is the right thing to do?

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18 May 2018 (F age 26-29 - My ex and I are high school sweethearts and each other’s first love. We had been together for a decade and the last 4 years were long distance. I thought he was the guy I was going to marry and spend the rest of my life with;unfortunately he ended up cheating on me. we did ... (382 words

How much of an issue is porn while getting into a serious relationship/marriage?

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18 May 2018 (M age 26-29 - How much of an issue is porn while getting into a serious relationship/marriage? I don't know if I'm addicted but I watch it everyday. I am currently single and I've noticed that I watch it even when I'm with someone. Do women take offence to their men doing this? I sometime... (97 words

Should I ask for the money again or just let it go and block her?

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18 May 2018 (F age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I know this lady for few years and I can’t call her my friend but we hangout for a coffee sometimes. I find her cheap, not that she is not spending but just her attitude towards money. 2 months ago she was asking to attend an event with me so I gave her the ... (497 words

I know I should divorce him but I have no energy to do it!

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17 May 2018 (F age 51-59 - Hi, i feel very extremely frustrated with my marriage at the moment. We had 30 years together, many of them filled with tragic events and heartbreaking moments. I did have many years of counselling and friends help. But less and less understating cause my situation is ju... (311 words

Why do guys I meet (and like) only like to flirt and never do anything?

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17 May 2018 (F age 36-40 - Why do guys I meet (and like) only like to flirt and never do anything? I have an unusual job, we do fieldwork and one expedition can last for several months, so we get to know each other well and spend time together. They are all very openly affectionate towards me,... (411 words

If I’ve fallen for him and my parents don’t approve of me being with someone, what do I do?

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17 May 2018 (F age 18-21 - I met my friend when we were both just 10 years old. We kept in contact for years but were never close.. we just always make sure to wish each other on birthdays and chat to catch up and see how we’re both doing. But just last year in September, we talked more and more and ... (236 words

Why does my married boyfriend love me one day and hate me the next?

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17 May 2018 (F age 30-35 - Hi. I have been in a "relationship" with a married man for approximately 5 years. Before I begin, I am asking not to be judged. I truly and honestly go through enough pain because of the situation I put myself in. And I know what everyone here will say, as I have been following ... (1615 words

Why does my husband look up his ex after we argue?

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17 May 2018 (F age 30-35 - Anytime I have a really big argument with my husband, the next day or day after I check his internet history. I did this once years ago as I felt paranoid after the fight. I really really hate arguing, it freaks me out. So the first time I did it, I saw he had looked up a ... (153 words

Should I keep in touch and message him from time to time? Or leave it to him? And how long are we on hold for?

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17 May 2018 (F age 26-29 - i met someone in february at a friends party and we hit it off immediately, only he suffers from mental health issues because of a past abusive relationship anyway recently my mum had a go at him through Facebook for going to see his friend instead of spending time with me or ... (166 words

He hasn’t initiated a date and I’m wondering if I’m being played!

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17 May 2018 (F age 26-29 - Hello everyone! So I’ve been on a few dates with this guy, who I really like! He’s a mutual friend, but I don’t know much about him. The first date was good, we had plenty to talk about but we were trying to impress each other quite a lot but it went well and he ended up... (247 words

My husband found some screenshots from my sim game!

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17 May 2018 (F age 30-35 - My husband is jealous of a dating Sim (similar to otome) visual novel romance game. Recently he came across some pictures I'd saved of one of the sex scenes between the sprites (it's all dialogue) to show to my friend. He got mad that 1) I had picked a black male sim and 2) ... (145 words

Did my boyfriend snub my son by not saying goodbye to him?

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17 May 2018 (F age 36-40 - Something is bugging me. I drove my boyfriend to work today. His car is in the shop and he doesn't live with me. My 13 year-old son was in the car too. After I dropped off my boyfriend, I was going to drop my son off at school. Well, my boyfriend got out of the car when I d... (171 words

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