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Just had a baby, but now I am scared about returning home, due to his abusive actions while I was pregnant. What can I do?

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23 March 2017 (F age 26-29 - Dear aunties and uncles. I am a first time mom to a month old baby and my husband and I have had a fair share of ups and downs but we love each other a lot and wouldn't dream of spending my life with anyone else. Last year, while in my first trimester, he would drink a lo... (234 words

I suspect my fiance is cheating but he thinks I am stupid!

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23 March 2017 (F age 26-29 - My fiancé was out last weekend and I was informed from one of his friends he was walking a girl home. The weekend before he was out and lost his phone and I call it and a girl answers whom he had left the phone at her house. This was the only information I had (besid... (159 words

My addictions are affecting my life!

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23 March 2017 (M age 22-25 - Hi, I'm a 22 year old gay male and I think I may have a problem. I've been dealing with feelings of depression and loneliness ever since the 7th grade. Although it is a lot better now because I am more independent, they always come back. I feel like I'm gonna be alone ... (364 words

I asked him to slow down ... did I screw up?

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23 March 2017 (F age 26-29 - I met a guy on an online app. We are both super interested in each other just that I needed him to slow down as he was coming on way too strong. He started talking relationship stuff even before we met, which would be fine, but I don't trust a guy coming on strong and then ... (163 words

Married five months and husband wants me to have an abortion.

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23 March 2017 (F age 26-29 - I've recently got married to my husband. We are very happy, and I have never felt more secure in all my life. We agreed to wait a few years before having children, and to focus on renovating our house which we brought before Christmas. We'll on Friday, I checked my dates for my ... (507 words

My boyfriend does not like my ex husband doing my laundry!

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22 March 2017 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend does not like my ex husband doing my laundry. He called my ex a saint for doing it and said he must care about me to do it still. Like there is an emotional connection and he feels I should finish with the relationship entirely. But the relationship was finished ... (129 words

Is this man using my sister, and did she move him into her house too soon?

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22 March 2017 (F age 41-50 - This is really a question about my sister. She is the sweetest kindest girl, aged 45, divorced with two teenage sons. She tends to fall in love very easily, and rushes into relationships, and those relationships rarely last, so she ends up heartbroken. 3 months ago sh... (372 words

Am I a sex addict? 101

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22 March 2017 (F age 30-35 - I just turned 31. I think about sex atleast every 30 minutes. I mentally undress every woman i See or imagine them having sex although im actually not interested in women sexually. My partner count is about 73 men and 2 women. To me a man has to be able to please me sexual... (140 words

Does this help a man with ED to feel better? What could possibly have allowed me to continue to enjoy knowing my wife was having an affair?

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22 March 2017 (M age 41-50 - I am a 50 year old married man who has had erectile dysfunction problems since before i married my wife.. She was very beautifull when she was younger but that doesnt make a difference when you have ED.. When she was still in her twenties I found out about an affair she w... (183 words

Is it really worth it to file for child support? I got pregnant 3 months into dating him, then he disappeared

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22 March 2017 (F age 22-25 - The baby's father isn't in the picture. I have tried to reach out to him during this pregnancy, but nothing. I kind of am considering to file for child support, since I'm living with my mom and don't make as much at the moment. The only thing is the fact that I don'... (145 words

I'm hesitant about calling her. Is it good idea to call her when she is with her bf?

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22 March 2017 (M age 26-29 - Helo my beloved dearcupid aunts and uncles, i am a guy and i have a female friend. When she come back from vacation, she came with her bf and they are staying together for some days. I didn't call her since she is with her bf together because i don't want to feel awkward. ... (116 words

Should I wait another year until I am more sure of my feelings for him before I buy him an airline ticket to allow him to visit me?

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22 March 2017 (M age 30-35 - This issue is a bit tricky and I need an external view I met a guy online 6 months ago , he lives in Argentina, he is 5 years younger than me, I live in Europe, we talk constantly every day including video calls , although the time is different , I have feelings for him but ... (518 words

Family conditioning has defined sex as inappropriate and dangerous. How can I stop feeling afraid pf physical sex?

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22 March 2017 (F age 18-21 - Ever since I was young, sex was explained to me as something that was inappropriate, dangerous, and could generally be used against me. Both of my parents were always adamant that men couldn't be trusted, and that I needed to be cautious and aware at all times. Before ... (599 words

What are the chances of success and happiness for women STARTING new relationships after the age of 50?

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22 March 2017 (F age 51-59 - I've read horrible statistic that the odds of a woman marrying after 50 are something less than winning the lottery . What the hell ? Is this true . Are we really that unattractive and unwanted? What are women's experiences with STARTING new relationships after this age . ... (59 words

Whose last name do I give to my baby?

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22 March 2017 (F age 22-25 - My mom thinks I should give the baby the fathers last name but I don't think I should because I'm not married to him and he isn't in the picture. Won't that be an issue at school for my son and wherever I take him, if we have different last names. What did some of you do i... (67 words

Bad sign or just a poor planner?

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21 March 2017 (F age 26-29 - After a week of talking, I finally met the guy for date. He was late to the 1st date, which is ok once in awhile. We spent about 6 hours together and we were planning to spend today together. There was never a time set up. There is an event I've been planning on going to, ... (109 words

Am I a repressed sex addict?

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21 March 2017 (F age 26-29 - Dear cupid, I am 30 year old woman and I have bein single for most of my life, happily single I should say. I had my first kiss at 15, lost my virginity at 18. These were two kinda isolated events more like a box to tick, virginity gone what's next, I've never sky dived ki... (800 words

I just don't want sex. What can I do about it?

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21 March 2017 (F age 26-29 - Hi Please help me. I have been with my partner for eight years. But over the last few years and particularly this year I have lost all interest in sex. I do have a hormone disorder and suffer frequent cystitis so I know that this probably contributes but I don't think abou... (92 words

How can I cool this without offending him? I'm feel anxious!

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21 March 2017 (F age - I am 70 and have been a widow for 8 years, a married man has been very kind, but recently bought me a rose plant, took me to lunch, and a couple of other visits. He is ok as a friend, the places we have visited are not of interest to his wife, but an interest he and I share. ... (149 words

Was this man in my walking group interested?

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21 March 2017 (F age 30-35 - Last year I joined a walking group online. I noticed a guy had viewed my profile a few times at the time but we had never met. 8 months went by and I finally made an appearance and met the group in person. The guy who had viewed my profile was there, we didn't speak on the ... (164 words

Why does inexperience turn women off more than the other way around?

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21 March 2017 (M age 26-29 - Why does inexperience turn women off more than the other way around? Why is it that if a guy never had a girlfriend before, he is a turn off to the majority of girls that have had their fair share of boyfriends or just been in a relationship before, and sadly the older a guy ... (103 words

Is being too fast rude?

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21 March 2017 (F age 26-29 - Would you consider it rude if a guy gets off within two minutes if it's the first couple of times you've done anything together? I started dating a guy a couple months ago and we started taking out to the next level recently. So far we've done it twice and each time he came ... (89 words

Should I report my friend's family situation to the police?

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21 March 2017 (F age 16-17 - Hello, My best friend has some family problems. She is 16 and she has a 11 year old brother. She lives with her mum,dad,and brother in the same city as I do. Her father is not a nice person at all. He is not working, so her mum has to work all day to pay everything. The fath... (265 words

My husband is perfect in every way yet my imperfect ex haunts me and my heart belongs to him

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21 March 2017 (F age 30-35 - I'm 30 years old, I've spent more than half of my life crazy insanely in love with this person, we had a great love story but equally great drama, what broke us was a very strong storm, both of us are changed forever and deeply wounded that to end our relationship we both moved ... (783 words

His ex is stunning and a lovely girl and I feel that I just don't measure up

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21 March 2017 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone and thanks for taking the time to read my question. Ok so iv been with my boyfriend for a year now,he's the most caring and kindest man iv ever met and he is so good to me. I have no problem -however I find myself constantly comparing myself to his ex girlfriend. ... (358 words

How do I initiate my next FWB encounter with this guy?

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21 March 2017 (F age 22-25 - Had a one night stand with an acquaintance a few weeks ago and the sex was great! We tried going on a date after but it didn't work out, so we decided on a more of a friends with benefits situation (more my decision than his) and slept together again. It's been almost 2 weeks ... (108 words

My boyfriend says he doesn't care about things!

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21 March 2017 (F age 18-21 - My boyfriend lives with me and I mean, we've had our arguments, but I find that he pays no attention to me. He goes to work, the gym, then he comes home and plays video games until we go to bed and pays more attention to the dog even. I've asked him what's wrong when there's ... (92 words

I feel so insecure because he hasn't said the "L" word.

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20 March 2017 (F age 22-25 - I've seen this type of post a few times on here, but I wanted to share my personal situation and get your input. Thanks in advance! My BF and I are 24. We've been officially dating for 5 months. These months have been extremely happy. He is so respectful, thoughtful and c... (455 words

Do you think I have the right be upset since technically he is still married?

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20 March 2017 (F age 22-25 - I moved to a new town and got a job as a server at a local restaurant. One of my co workers is very cute and a lot of the girls like him. They are always going out as groups and hanging out with each other outside of work. We became really close and last weekend while o... (141 words

We broke up. I know I still care for him. should I talk to him about my feelings?

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20 March 2017 (F age 18-21 - I was in a long term relationship with this guy for almost two years and we just kept bickering, small petty arguments and I'm not afraid to stand up for myself. It turned out he was messaging one of my friends and it turned out she wasn't very nice about me or our relation... (236 words

Personal cleanliness? There has got to be a nice way to approach this! What would you do??

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20 March 2017 (F age 26-29 - I started seeing this guy about two months ago. We pretty much only hang out about two three nights a week when he'll come stay the night or weekend. We've known each other for a while now, we've taken our kids on play dates before etc. He's a nice guy in general and has an a... (549 words

He says he cares for me deeply ....

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20 March 2017 (F age 26-29 - DeAr CuPiD I met this guy in Belize in January and coincidentally he lived not to far from me back home. After vacation was over we started hanging out back home and we've been having the most incredible time together. We both just got out of long term relationship and... (136 words

Am I being hidden from the ex and his kids?

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20 March 2017 (F age 41-50 - Hello. I am hoping you are able to put my mind at rest really. I've been in a relationship with a guy for five months and it's all good. He lives about an hour away, and he has three kids who are another couple of hours away from him with his ex, who he is currently in the... (216 words

Why is he so hard to talk to?

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19 March 2017 (F age 18-21 - I've been seeing this guy for the past month and It's so frustrating because he has no trouble talking about himself and other things in life, but he doesn't really enquire about me, other than if I asked him "Have you done ___?" he will say, yes/no and ask if I have. He does ... (302 words

How can I deal with missing her in a LDR?

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19 March 2017 (M age 18-21 - So my girlfriend and I have been together for 5 months and we're madly in love with each other, we plan on getting married next year actually.She's 17 and i'm 18. She lives in Stockton and I live in Sacramento. I haven't seen her for a month because her mom is strict and she ... (146 words

Should I admit I messed up and try one last time?

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19 March 2017 (F age 18-21 - My ex and I were dating on and off for the good part of a year. There was a period where I was speaking to him as well as another guy and chose to be in a relationship with the other guy for three months – this really hurt him. Months later, we ended up together after I ... (762 words

I am considering contacting my train wreck of a dad!

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19 March 2017 (M age 26-29 - Hi everyone, thoughts, insights and advice please! I'm swiftly approaching a landmark birthday, the sort where you might stop and consider your life to that point. Well, I've been doing that and am considering making contact with my father. I'm from a big, close family a... (408 words

Is this a normal change for me to consider? Don't want to spend my birthday with family

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19 March 2017 (M age 30-35 - Hi, in a few days I'll turn 35, but unlike the other years - when I used to get together with family members, this time I don't feel like celebrating or focusing on it at all. Is this normal? Thanks..... (41 words

Is my hubby just starting his mid-life crisis?

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19 March 2017 (F age 36-40 - Dear aunts and Uncles, is my hubby just starting his mid-life crisis? He was always athletic and eat well so I can't say that all of a sudden he changed his life style, but he seems more interested in these areas. He picked up a new hobby two years ago and became very... (836 words

He has not told his ex about me yet. Is is reasonable for me to feel so hurt? Am I over-reacting?

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19 March 2017 (F age 41-50 - I've been going out with my partner for one year. We both have kids from previous relationships. Being a mother and full time parent i have included him in my two kids lives. We both have teenage daughters. He spent christmas with his ex and stayed over even though they liv... (88 words

How can I get dates if I am not attractive enough for guys to ask me out or approach me in person?

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19 March 2017 (F age 18-21 - I just witnessed a girl right in front of me getting cold approached and hit on by guy while I am never hit on and/or approached by men. I am not intimidating because I notice guys cold approach women without sending signals to guys. In fact, I've never had a guy approach m... (360 words

Roomies are all going in different directions so how do we divide the stuff we bought together?

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19 March 2017 (M age 26-29 - It's coming to the end of our lease and I [26,M] just found out I need some major dental work that's going to cost me a TON of money. So to save up again I'm moving back in with my ex-girlfriend, Lana,[22,F] I won't have to pay anything so I should be back on my feet in no ti... (429 words

Should I make a move on my crush?

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19 March 2017 (F age 18-21 - does anyone have any experience with those kinds of guys who are really clever, not very masculine and all their friends are girls but they're still straight, and the signs that they like you, because I'm really into a guy like that and I feel like the signs that theyre into ... (93 words

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