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Should I fade my manipulative friend out?

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12 November 2019, 16 hours ago (F age 30-35 - I have been "best friends" with a woman for over 25 years. I started to notice when the bill came at dinner, or anywhere we were, she'll begin to complain about how broke she is and I'd end up either paying the entire bill or some of her food/drinks. She would also sometimes ... (753 words

I’m focused on school so I don’t see the need for relationships. Is that selfish or wrong somehow?

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11 November 2019, just this minute!  (F age 18-21 - I broke up recently with my boyfriend of 7 months, because I was definitely mistaken love for infatuation. The problem is, I felt really good about us being together the first two months, although things between us happened quickly, and we rushed into it, but for the first time ... (326 words

I think I need more information about how his last relationship ended before he makes plans to visit me! Thoughts?

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11 November 2019, 2 minutes ago (F age 36-40 - I am in a new “situation” with a man for 5 months, 3.5 months of which has been long distance. He has been visiting the country that he lived in for 10 years that he left a year ago. I recieved a message this evening saying that he wants to come and visit me (I am on holiday at ... (416 words

If I decide to quit a church associated group, how do I do that?

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10 November 2019 (M age 30-35 - I joined the Knights of Columbus a few years ago, and I regret it. I still believe in my Catholic Faith and I still want to attend the Catholic mass every Sunday. I just no longer wish to belong to the Knights of Columbus. When I joined, I thought the Knights of Colum... (243 words

I need help with online dating ettiquette!

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10 November 2019 (M age 30-35 - Hey everyone. I was just wondering at what point when dating someone is it normal / the etiquette do you not chat with other people / ask for dates? I've been online dating for a while, but without much / any success. Had a second date recently, the first person I've met ... (193 words

My ex is a jealous, negative-minded selfish idiot in the relationship area, should I take him back?

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9 November 2019 (F age 30-35 - I have a tricky situation that will probably receive mixed reactions based on whether you're a dog-lover or not. Basically - I broke up with my partner a few months back. We fought at first but eventually learnt to be civil. We don't have any kids, any ties etc but stupidly... (338 words

My boyfriend has a separate SIM card for his cell phone

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9 November 2019 (F age 22-25 - I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months now, and during all those months I noticed multiple times that he has an extra SIM card in his phone cover, but I didn't ask him why does he have another phone number, I gave it time and thought that he might tell me eventually and it's ... (277 words

My overbearing grandparents have left me feeling isolated

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9 November 2019 (F age 36-40 - When I was in HS (and younger) I was raised by very strict, old-fashioned grandparents who sheltered me. I got made fun of a lot for not getting cultural references or not knowing who many celebrities were. I was not allowed overnights or friends in the bedroom (for privacy) ... (817 words

My husband's use of porn has really hurt me

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9 November 2019 (F age 41-50 - I am 49 year old woman, my husband is 53. He had his prostrate removed 3 years ago and we have still manage to have sex with the aid of a pump. he as looked at porn for years and I told him I think he wants the women on the screen he said he does not. I told him he has me y... (194 words

Will I be able to stay away from my abusive ex when he turns on the charm?

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7 November 2019 (F age 51-59 - I am gutted that my relationship that I clung onto has turned out to be nothing more than an abusive relationship. Someone warned me at the beginning but I couldn't take it in. It's taken an episode of near strangling for me to face facts. All our plans are now disintegra... (145 words

Married 40 years and not once has my wife given me oral sex. She refuses to

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7 November 2019 (M age - I have been married for forty years to the same woman. She has never given me a blow job in all those years. I have gone down on her for years, but she refuses me when I ask her to do the same on me. When we were first married we had good sex but she refused to give me a blow ... (113 words

I love my girlfriend but am lusting after her mom

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7 November 2019 (M age 22-25 - I love my girlfriend but I can't stop lusting after her Mum. Is there something wrong with me? We've been together for 2 years and are both 24. Her Mum is 41. I don't know what it is but over the past few months or so I've started finding her Mum really REALLY attractiv... (172 words

Am I in the friend-zone? What should I do to avoid becoming her friend and further into a relationship?

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7 November 2019 (M age 36-40 - I'm a 37 year old male, met this girl who is 31 on a dating app. We're both of Chinese background. She's had two relationships prior to our match; both long term. We hit it off pretty well over texts, subsequently I asked her out for dinner. She is attractive, fun,... (647 words

I don't think I'm ever going to get over my ex

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7 November 2019 (F age 26-29 - Is there any way to really get over an ex? My ex fiancé and I were together for 7 years and have been split up 5 years and I’m still not over him and don’t think I ever will be. I’ve only seen him once during that time and haven’t really spoken to except when I have to (we have ... (277 words

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