I have never felt like this about a women before
Q. 3 month ago we hired a clerk to do work for another department. We started flirting right away, then she quickly came to work for my department since I needed help. The flirting went to kissing and she even came to my place once. We are both ...
A. 9 May 2010: If you love her, you should go for it even if she already has a b/f. In time, she will select the better person as her b/f.... (read in full...)
I love them both but I can't have them both!
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend who recently asked me to marry him for 3 years now, he is the kindest and most loving guy and he treats me like a princess. However over the past 8 months i have been getting feelings for an old friend of his, and the ...
A. 3 May 2010: Well! No one is perfect and one should not have too high an expectation of one's partner.
You love him for who he is and not what you want him to be.During the early stages, he can morphed into anything you want him to be ,but after marriage... (read in full...)
We can't move forward until his divorce finalizes, and I'm getting depressed
Q. I have been with this guy for 1 yr. He treats me well. The problem is, that his divorce (he's been separated for 18 mos.) is still not final. Court dates have been cancelled, the 'other' side is being very difficult, he has a 14 yr. old daughter ...
A. 3 May 2010: Be patient.Good things come to those who can wait. Do not let it affect your happiness.
Take each day at a time. Do not make a mountain of this mole hill. It will end someday. Nothing can stop you being together.... (read in full...)
Is she going overboard with the privacy?
Q. Why does my girlfriend countinue to talk shit to me when i get into her personal business when she is on her phone online and she ignores me when i ask her questions bout what she does or who she with?...
A. 3 May 2010: It is obvious that something is going on in her private life which is not privy to your knowledge. Check her out.... (read in full...)
Is he lying about his financial situation?
Q. please can anyone explain this-i feel like im going insane i work with this guy who ive developed feelings for. hes unaware but likes me a lot and we do get on really well. hes had a lot of stuff going on-his marriage ended last year and he hasnt ha...
A. 3 May 2010: He is a con man .He is taking advantage of your gullibility and having lunch on you . Don't give him any money or spend lunch on him .
Don't be a fool.... (read in full...)
I love them both but I can't have them both!
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend who recently asked me to marry him for 3 years now, he is the kindest and most loving guy and he treats me like a princess. However over the past 8 months i have been getting feelings for an old friend of his, and the ...
A. 3 May 2010: You are involved in a triangular affair.
Making a list of pro's and con's is a good way to decide .
Your choice is actually pretty clear. You should choose your b/f. He is committed ,he is the kindest and most loving guy and he treats me like a... (read in full...)
She cheated so I cheated too!
Q. my girlfriend cheated on me after six months and i forgave her, and now she countinues to flirt with other guys and go to the bar once in awhile to flirt with other guys or meet with other guys, so i cheated on her am i wrong?...
A. 3 May 2010: A tit for tat and room for more repeats.
You two are of the same kind and I wonder if you are in competition with each other to find out who can cheat more ?... (read in full...)
What does a wet vagina mean?
Q. when my girlfriend and i have intercourse without a condom(dont worry were adults and shes on the pill, were careful) she gets wet before we have intercourse, she gets wet while we kiss and make out but when i'm in her and penetrate her nice and ...
A. 3 May 2010: When she is aroused sexually ,her vagina secrets those natural lubricants to prepare her vagina for entry of the penis. It is not orgasm. For that,you will have to orally and manually caress her clitoris.... (read in full...)
My wife doesn't let me give her oral sex and leaves her pubic hair ungroomed, I like it shaved. Any ideas?
Q. I've been married now for over five years. My wife and I have a great sexual relationship with some of the best sex I have every had. There are two things that I'm having trouble speaking to her about. My wife leaves her pubic hair ungroomed. ...
A. 3 May 2010: She has her inhibitions about oral sex. It could be some past sexual traumas or she was brought up with the notion that is is dirty and unclean or on some religious grounds. You need to respect and understand her decisions and preferences. Eve... (read in full...)
I said things I shouldn't have said and now he won't talk to me! This is so painful!
Q. I am going through a pain like i have never felt before. I'd rather experience physical pain then the feeling i have right now. I had been seeing someone for 3 months. We had a lot of fights and mostly because of me because I would question him on a ...
A. 3 May 2010: He is very suspicious and does not trust you . It is very difficult when there is no trust in a relationship.Probably don't love you as much as before.
If there is love, such things would not have cropped up. You need to walk away for your own... (read in full...)
I love them both but I can't have them both!
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend who recently asked me to marry him for 3 years now, he is the kindest and most loving guy and he treats me like a princess. However over the past 8 months i have been getting feelings for an old friend of his, and the ...
A. 3 May 2010: You will have to choose between the guy who loves you more or the guy whom you love more? The guy who will put you first on his priority list and the one who can spend more time with you . The answer is to choose the guy that you cannot l... (read in full...)
I am 13 and a lot of other girls tell me I should have sex, but I don't want to!
Q. im 13 years old and a lot of other girls are saying that i should have sex but i havent gone through puberty yet and i heard that dry sex reeeeeely hurts and i want to lose my virgenity when im married to the man of my dreams what sould i do?!...
A. 3 May 2010: You are not ready for sex yet and you should not bow to peer pressures. Just ignore them and hold on strongly to your own beliefs. They do not understand the full implications of losing their virginities and having sex.They are just following t... (read in full...)
B/f says that a break will help our relationship
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for over 4 months. Our relationship is strong and we never fight. We're definitely in love with each other. But just today, he asked to go on a break. He said he wants time to spend with his friends and not ...
A. 3 May 2010: He wants a time out and to balance his life. Too much time together may cause resentment and absence makes the heart grows fonder.
It may strengthened your relationship because he would be able to give you more quality time.
It is a good thing ... (read in full...)
Takes two to tango
Q. stuck between two guys.. #1 Lee.. Lee i dated a few years ago for a few months. we had this really intense relationship. he is beautiful and sexy and funny and sweet. #2 Cooper.. Cooper and i are currently dating. He just bought us a hous...
A. 3 May 2010: Any relationship that does not have passion will not last.
Material things may satisfy your external urges but it is the passion that satisfies the inner man.
What good is a home when it is empty of passions?... (read in full...)
Wife says you want sex give me romance. What's a husband to do?
Q. My wife and I have been married for a little over a year now. The first year is always the hardest they say, but my wife may have just made it harder. She says that we have never had romance in our relationship and that from now on if I want sex I ...
A. 3 May 2010: You should not stop wooing her once you are married. You should continue to chase and woo her . Make her feel special and loved.Take an interest around the house and what she is doing. Validate her and give plenty of praises and compliment... (read in full...)
I have never felt like this about a women before
Q. 3 month ago we hired a clerk to do work for another department. We started flirting right away, then she quickly came to work for my department since I needed help. The flirting went to kissing and she even came to my place once. We are both ...
A. 3 May 2010: Let nature takes it's course.Just follow the current flows. Be patient and if she is meant to be yours, it will be someday.... (read in full...)
He's been told that checking out other women is hurtful but he still does it
Q. Why do married men say there not checking out other women while there with there wife, and she the wife see's it and says it hurts her. But he says its not true. And then when she says something about it he makes her feel bad for saying anything...
A. 3 May 2010: Accept the fact that men have roving eyes.It is their innate nature and they cannot help it.
If they can only look at you , it can be pretty boring in their life. You cannot stop them. If you cannot stop them , join them.... (read in full...)
Men: Would you have treated a woman like this?
Q. I when out with this guy from work with his friends. We when to a couple of bars and a sushi place. We really hit it off. He bought me drinks that night. He stayed the night over at my place. We did not have sex but pretty close. The next ...
A. 3 May 2010: It looks like he has a score to settle with you . Probably because he did not get to have sex with you on the first date.
He is artless and unrefined .... (read in full...)
Unemployed husband has put faith in God, while we owe 40 thousand pounds!
Q. I been married for over thirty years now. My husband I both work for the same company. My husband has arthritis in his leg and been complaining about it.He has beenworking with this comapany for over thirteen years. Anyway he came home one day from ...
A. 3 May 2010: Under those circumstances, he is doing his best to accept the situation .It is better for him to act that way than to be sad and depressed .
Everything happens for a reason and only God knows the purpose .
You will have to hold the fort for now... (read in full...)
I feel like my boyfriend is looking for an escape route out of our relationship
Q. I've been with my bf for 3 months and im starting to feel like hes looking for an escape route out of the relationship. Hes very friend orientated so will see them most weekends and he also goes on cycling weekends so half the time i feel neglected ...
A. 2 May 2010: You do not seem to be on his priority list.His actions does not show that you are his priority .
Wait for him to initiate the text and if there is no text, you will know where his heart lies.... (read in full...)
What does "I'm physically attracted to you" mean?
Q. What does it mean when a guy says he is physically attracted to you?...
A. 2 May 2010: You have sex appeal or in another word , physically attractive for him to want sex with you .
Guys are attracted by visuals .Most guys are attracted to women because of their physicals. ... (read in full...)
Why does my ex still want contact with me?
Q. Why does my ex still talk to me and want to see me if she has a boyfriend? We were together for a long time 2.5+ years, and she started dating him about a week after our breakup. The last month we have stayed in contact about three to four times a ...
A. 2 May 2010: Do you still love her and want her ?
If you are no more interested in her, you should not give her any false hope. Cut off all contacts with her.
If you want to reconcile with her, you will have to ask her about her new b/f and her real int... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's period is late, should I worry?
Q. The other day my girlfriend told me she can't remember when she had her last period. This understandably freaked me out. Whenever we have sex and I cum its always with a condom. I remember once before she brought this up to me, but it was a fal...
A. 2 May 2010: Unless your condom was damaged or sabotaged, she will not be pregnant.It is probably stress and worries which caused her period to be late. She can go for a self pregnancy test.... (read in full...)
Why won't my boyfriend tell his parents I am pregnant?
Q. I'm 37 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend has not told his parents that I'm pregnant, whenever I ask him when he is going to tell his parents he always tells me that he will do it soon and its now 3 weeks left until our son comes... Please help don't ...
A. 2 May 2010: I don't think your b/f will ever tell his mom about your pregnancy. You will have to tell his mom yourself and then she will take charge and do what is right. Your b/f is a coward, irresponsible and immature.... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about not using a condom?
Q. Me and my girlfeiend had sex last night first time, her backseat of her car..no condom..and today we did...i masterbated about an hour n half before she came over, but i washed myself with soap and water before she did so no residue wod be thre.she ...
A. 2 May 2010: Now ,you may not worry but when she informs you that her period is late, you will worry big time. Better be safe than sorry.
Any contact between the genitals are dangerous .Even though you feel that you have not ejaculated, you may leaked s... (read in full...)
Fighting often, and in front of the child -- should we divorce?
Q. My husband and I have been married for four years. We have a wonderful little girl who is three years old. So when we first met we were both on drugs, in a very bad place in our lives. We started out as friends and gradualy it turned into more. ...
A. 2 May 2010: You should do your very best to improve your relationship . Leaving is easy but you will have regrets and remorse .Sometimes, silence is the answer to many problems.
You may not be able to change him but you need to change your perspect... (read in full...)
Why does the man blame the woman?
Q. why does a man do something wrong and then try to turn it around on the woman instead of making up?...
A. 2 May 2010: It has been that way since Adam blamed Eve for asking him to eat the fruit from the forbidden tree.... (read in full...)
How can I back down and tell my daughter I am sorry?
Q. My only daughter has always been my baby girl. Ever since she was just a little girl she talked about beign a princess on her wedding day. I always told her that I would make her a princess on that day, I just didn't think that day would come so ...
A. 1 May 2010: A father's love for his daughter knows no bounds.
Being married does not change the fact that she is still your princess. You are blessed that she is married at this age because she has someone to look after her when you are gone or if somethin... (read in full...)
He had a sly errection ..what did I do ??
Q. Hi everyone , Im a little confused over an incident that occured recently . There was a group of us going out for dinner and my boyfriend was driving ..we were one seat short , and seeing Im the smallest I jumped onto a male friends lap in th...
A. 1 May 2010: You succumbed to the temptations and you could not control yourself. Do forgive yourself and do not judge yourself too harshly.
Learn from this incident and avoid such incidents in the future.
There is no advantage in telling your b/f as it w... (read in full...)
How can I back down and tell my daughter I am sorry?
Q. My only daughter has always been my baby girl. Ever since she was just a little girl she talked about beign a princess on her wedding day. I always told her that I would make her a princess on that day, I just didn't think that day would come so ...
A. 1 May 2010: If you are going against your daughters wedding , you will commit the ultimate faux pas, the biggest blunder in your life.
It is not about your life but your daughter's happiness. You should support her even if you do not see eye to eye with her... (read in full...)
I'm very upset that boyfriend spent money he didn't have to buy a gun!
Q. Me and my boyfriend of 8 months just recently went on holiday with a little money he saved up. He wanted to do something nice for me and both of us don't have much money at the moment as we are unemployed, so I thought it was a kind gesture. Whil...
A. 1 May 2010: My empathies to you .He is acting like a small kid and I bet he has been wishing for that air gun for a very long time.I am afraid, he has no monetary sense and don't seem to worry about money.
The timing was wrong and he should have being mo... (read in full...)
How do I get out of an emotionally abusive relationship?
Q. I've been in a relationship with my current boyfriend for a year now. Beginning was great, but then it turned to hell. He cheated on me and lied to be about everything. So i finally broke up with him for about 3 months. He was my first love and ...
A. 1 May 2010: Take control of your own life and create your own life .
Make up your mind to leave him and do not waver. You will not gain anything by staying because in the end you will lose everything.
Reasons to leave;-
You will lose your self este... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I don't like how he's changed?
Q. Hey all, i have a huge problem: I've had a boyfriend for almost a year now. When we began to go out, he was really smart, funny, kind and fun to be around. That has since changed. He's starting to hang out with the wrong people, and i'm paying f...
A. 1 May 2010: You need to tell your feelings to him directly and hope that he will listen and change. Let him know your limits and boundaries.
He is going to get hurt no matter how you sugar coat those words.
Sometimes , words are useless because they don... (read in full...)
Help! My husband is a workaholic!
Q. Is there any solution to this tricky situation? My husband is a workaholic. I know, it is so much better than a guy who does not pay the bills. But if you have one if these husbands, you know what I'm talking about. Because of his work, he totally ...
A. 1 May 2010: Life is about balance between career and family life. A workaholic is a kind of sickness where the person does not have a balance life. He concentrates all his energies into his work and left only crumbs for the family.
He will not listen t... (read in full...)
Clothes make the woman!
Q. Hey everyone, I heard this one guy say something when i was walking down the street. he said ¨clothes make the woman.¨ What does that term mean?...
A. 1 May 2010: Clothes can accentuate a woman's body.It can hide those ugly parts and show off those beautiful curves.
A woman who dress sexily and provocatively will get the man's attentions.Hence , it is the clothes that make the woman .
Clothes alone... (read in full...)
Can an excess of water affect the pregnancy test?
Q. havent started my period this month. did a pregnancy test, came back negative. but, i had drank 2 bottles of water right before the test, because i was anxious to find out of the posibility of being pregnant. would it have any effect on the test? ...
A. 30 April 2010: Many home pregnancy tests (HPTs) claim to be 99 percent accurate on the first day of your missed period.
But research suggests that most HPTs do not always spot pregnancy that early. And when they do, the results are often so faint they are misu... (read in full...)
He likes me, he loves me, but does he REALLY?
Q. Me and my friend have been getting closer lately. He's told me he likes me and i like him. he has been wanting me to kiss him and hes told me he wants to have sex with me. but he only tells me he wants to screw me, when hes drunk. but hes always ...
A. 30 April 2010: Actions speak louder than words.
Does he care and have affections for you ? Does he show his affections and love in a non sexual way ? Is he interested in having sex with you only ?
Only time will tell if he is true or a dud.... (read in full...)
No one remembers his birthday, should I greet him?
Q. Probably this question has been posted many times but I just missed the chance to read it. Last month, I told my ex that I prefer if we stop communicating. I have always asked him before but he would just pop out again about a week or two. But...
A. 30 April 2010: When the wound has healed, don't go and scratch them or you will reopen the old wound.
Let go and don't send anything .He is no more your concern and you should keep it that way.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend got so jealous she threw an iron at my head. Should I dump her?
Q. I have been dating someone for a year now and it has gotten to be very serious. I work the graveyard shift at a resturaunt and a few weeks ago I was very sick and didn't finish my shift. One of the waitresses is a very dear friend of mine liv...
A. 29 April 2010: Just because it happened once, do you think it is right to assume that she will do it again?
It is wrong to assume that she will do it again because you are not that person and you judged her and condemned her without understanding her.
... (read in full...)
My girlfriend got so jealous she threw an iron at my head. Should I dump her?
Q. I have been dating someone for a year now and it has gotten to be very serious. I work the graveyard shift at a resturaunt and a few weeks ago I was very sick and didn't finish my shift. One of the waitresses is a very dear friend of mine liv...
A. 29 April 2010: Making wild assumptions seems to be the order of the day.It is great to see so many are able to see into the future.They can predict what will happen in the future with accuracy.
Congratulations to all those who have that ability to see into the... (read in full...)
Is it true that all you need is love?
Q. me and my boyf have been with each other for over 3 years and he really is such an amazing guy but he has anxiety problems which he has had for over 2 yrs and it has hit our relationship hard. He never goes out or does anything but sits in the hous...
A. 29 April 2010: You need to think of your future. If the future is bleak,then you have to think of leaving him. He is not going to change or make any efforts to improve your life. He has lost his will to live.
Why do you want to sacrifice everything for a lost c... (read in full...)
What are the chances I can be pregnant?
Q. I’m 19 and I had I had protected sex with my boyfriend for the first time on April 23. My period came about the 5 of April usually last about 4 days. My periods are very irregular cannot predict my next one my cycle is typically 30 -35. I believe I ...
A. 29 April 2010: The chances of getting pregnant is less than 1 %. You should not be worried or stressed about being pregnant.Taking plan B was an overkill since you are using a condom .... (read in full...)
My girlfriend got so jealous she threw an iron at my head. Should I dump her?
Q. I have been dating someone for a year now and it has gotten to be very serious. I work the graveyard shift at a resturaunt and a few weeks ago I was very sick and didn't finish my shift. One of the waitresses is a very dear friend of mine liv...
A. 29 April 2010: If you had being a bit more thoughtful, you would not have to go through all this.
No one is perfect and we all make mistakes. There are times when our system fails us and we cross the line. Different people may have different breaking points. ... (read in full...)
I said things I shouldn't have said and now he won't talk to me! This is so painful!
Q. I am going through a pain like i have never felt before. I'd rather experience physical pain then the feeling i have right now. I had been seeing someone for 3 months. We had a lot of fights and mostly because of me because I would question him on a ...
A. 29 April 2010: Thanks for your update. It is good to see that he has responded well and you are on good terms again. Learn from your mistakes and avoid speaking in any negative manner.... (read in full...)
I said things I shouldn't have said and now he won't talk to me! This is so painful!
Q. I am going through a pain like i have never felt before. I'd rather experience physical pain then the feeling i have right now. I had been seeing someone for 3 months. We had a lot of fights and mostly because of me because I would question him on a ...
A. 29 April 2010: All you can do is to apologize to him and get him out ,to talk to him.
If he does not want to communicate with you or ignores you ,there is nothing more you can do until he opens up again.
Give him sometime to come to his senses or be rat... (read in full...)
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