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I am currently single having had 2 failed relationships.

I got dumped the first time because I was in a long distance relationship, and she just couldn't wait!

The second one was because she hurt me, insulted me, took the mick out of my disability, and told me I was too ugly (looking at my pic girls, what do u think?!)

Just drop me a message if u feel like you're in the same boat

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How does my dating advert come across?

Q.   I need some advice on my dating advert please!: Sociable and friendly guy would like to meet a warm-hearted girl for laughter and maybe more. I'm a good listener, so lets talk! I have been to Cologne recently, really loved it and going to tak...

A.   5 December 2014: Thankyou; I have removed quite a bit now (including the SF bit!). What do girls look for in a man's dating profile?... (read in full...)

How does my dating advert come across?

Q.   I need some advice on my dating advert please!: Sociable and friendly guy would like to meet a warm-hearted girl for laughter and maybe more. I'm a good listener, so lets talk! I have been to Cologne recently, really loved it and going to tak...

A.   5 December 2014: I have removed some of the 'padding'. I will let you know how I get on... (read in full...)

How does my dating advert come across?

Q.   I need some advice on my dating advert please!: Sociable and friendly guy would like to meet a warm-hearted girl for laughter and maybe more. I'm a good listener, so lets talk! I have been to Cologne recently, really loved it and going to tak...

A.   2 December 2014: Next draft: I have been to Cologne recently, really loved it and going to take my sister there for her 30th next year. Some pictures are up on here. Friends and family are very important to me. A sense of humour is a must in a relationship for ... (read in full...)

How does my dating advert come across?

Q.   I need some advice on my dating advert please!: Sociable and friendly guy would like to meet a warm-hearted girl for laughter and maybe more. I'm a good listener, so lets talk! I have been to Cologne recently, really loved it and going to tak...

A.   2 December 2014: This is my latest effort: I have been to Cologne recently, really loved it and going to take my sister there for her 30th next year. Some pictures are up on here. Friends and family are very important to me. A sense of humour is a must in a r... (read in full...)

How does my dating advert come across?

Q.   I need some advice on my dating advert please!: Sociable and friendly guy would like to meet a warm-hearted girl for laughter and maybe more. I'm a good listener, so lets talk! I have been to Cologne recently, really loved it and going to tak...

A.   1 December 2014: I did, but I've changed it since then.... (read in full...)

Do you ever have sex like a porn star???

Q.   Just out of curiosity, do you ever have sex like a pornstar? If so, how often? All the time? Once in a while? Special occasions? (And by pornstar sex, I'm talking about stuff you would expect to see in a fairly vanilla porn video - no insane, dem...

A.   23 June 2011: Having sex like a porn star is like not having sex, if you see what I mean. If you take the question literally, all a porn star is doing is their jobs, they probably don't have any emotional attachment to the person. So, to enjoy sex at home, ... (read in full...)

Helppp!!! Should I tell him how I feel before it's too late???

Q.   I am seperated from my husband. I have being seeing a guy for two and a half years. He has a partner (he is divorced). He has a partner and has done since I've known him. We have been having a sexual relationship. We were friends before this all ...

A.   23 June 2011: You will regret it if you don't tell him. As the saying goes, the biggest regret in life is the things you didn't do. So, even though it may seem complicated, take a risk, you'll be kicking yourself if you don't. Then you'll be asking yourself ... (read in full...)

How do I know whether to believe my fiance?? I found 100's of porn and dating sites, but he blames a virus!

Q.   Well basicly last night i accidently stumbled across porn that had been viewed on the computer...I had to know where it had come from so i looked and it was from my fiances acount...hoping i'd made a mistake i checked again and to my horror found ...

A.   9 June 2010: I am a computer engineer, and the only way he can get viruses through watching porn is if he was downloading it illegally using file-sharing sites. If not, those sites didn't appear in the address bar without any user interaction!... (read in full...)

Will giving her my number scare her off?

Q.   I have been messaging a girl online, through a reputable website. We have been exchanging messages for about a month now, and she seems really sweet. She is a teacher, she lives about 25 mins from me. However, because of her job, she doesn't have ...

A.   5 March 2010: I got a message from her today (copied and pasted so excuse spelling!) ok tank you. It is really hsard for me to get on here sometimes. ... (read in full...)

Will giving her my number scare her off?

Q.   I have been messaging a girl online, through a reputable website. We have been exchanging messages for about a month now, and she seems really sweet. She is a teacher, she lives about 25 mins from me. However, because of her job, she doesn't have ...

A.   1 March 2010: I'm not sure that will work - but I shall try!... (read in full...)

Will giving her my number scare her off?

Q.   I have been messaging a girl online, through a reputable website. We have been exchanging messages for about a month now, and she seems really sweet. She is a teacher, she lives about 25 mins from me. However, because of her job, she doesn't have ...

A.   1 March 2010: mr_uk I like it, but I'm meant to be taking her out - where you're taking me for a coffee?!... (read in full...)

Will giving her my number scare her off?

Q.   I have been messaging a girl online, through a reputable website. We have been exchanging messages for about a month now, and she seems really sweet. She is a teacher, she lives about 25 mins from me. However, because of her job, she doesn't have ...

A.   26 February 2010: Shall I just ask her, or say something like 'as you can't get on often, would you like my number?'... (read in full...)

Why would she get back in touch? Am I reading too much into it?

Q.   Here's a bit of background before I ask the questions: I started going out with this girl after she expressed interest in me and asked me, 2 and a half years ago. We were only together 2 months, as she cheated on me with another bloke. We kept ...

A.   24 March 2009: I wrote a small email to her asking if she wants to meet for a coffee and a chat. This is what she said: i live a long way from kent now so would be a bit hard to meet up.. plus if we did meet up you would prob take it the wrong way and want mor... (read in full...)

Why would she get back in touch? Am I reading too much into it?

Q.   Here's a bit of background before I ask the questions: I started going out with this girl after she expressed interest in me and asked me, 2 and a half years ago. We were only together 2 months, as she cheated on me with another bloke. We kept ...

A.   20 March 2009: Thanks for all the advice so far... (read in full...)

Why would she get back in touch? Am I reading too much into it?

Q.   Here's a bit of background before I ask the questions: I started going out with this girl after she expressed interest in me and asked me, 2 and a half years ago. We were only together 2 months, as she cheated on me with another bloke. We kept ...

A.   20 March 2009: I don't know for sure if she has any problems, but I guess as she broughtout relationship up. she's at least a bit unhappy - don't you think?... (read in full...)

Why would she get back in touch? Am I reading too much into it?

Q.   Here's a bit of background before I ask the questions: I started going out with this girl after she expressed interest in me and asked me, 2 and a half years ago. We were only together 2 months, as she cheated on me with another bloke. We kept ...

A.   20 March 2009: Also, if I do ask her for a coffee, do you think I should wait?, and how do you think I should phrase the email, or what I use?... (read in full...)

Why would she get back in touch? Am I reading too much into it?

Q.   Here's a bit of background before I ask the questions: I started going out with this girl after she expressed interest in me and asked me, 2 and a half years ago. We were only together 2 months, as she cheated on me with another bloke. We kept ...

A.   20 March 2009: Her dad does some work down near where I live. Do you think I should ask her for a coffee when he comes over next?... (read in full...)

Why would she get back in touch? Am I reading too much into it?

Q.   Here's a bit of background before I ask the questions: I started going out with this girl after she expressed interest in me and asked me, 2 and a half years ago. We were only together 2 months, as she cheated on me with another bloke. We kept ...

A.   20 March 2009: Thanks for the advice. I've often wondered if we did get back together, for any reason, whether I would be able to cope with the emotions I felt when she cheated on me before. I'd really like other people's views as well... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   16 September 2008: There was something wrong with my email yesterday, wasn't getting answer notifications! I wonder why she said she wasn't looking for a relationship then?... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   15 September 2008: ok, my last 2 answers were refected for some reason. I summoned up the courage to buy her a coffee this morning in the same cafe as I go to sometimes in Sevenoaks, and she agreed to, then she's coming to join me for a drink at The Bull soon! [Mod... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   15 September 2008: I've just been to Sevenoaks and came home and read your reply, which oft of didn't make sense that much after what I did (finally). I went in the cafe that I normally go in and she was in there. (I'd seen her in there once before) After abou... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   15 September 2008: Thank you for your input. However, I do have some good news. I actually did manage to talk to her a bit at the weekend, but not that much because they were busy (just Hi Sarara how are you!) Then yesterday, one of my friends (she was a female) ... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   12 September 2008: I could, but I don't have a lot of female friends!... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   12 September 2008: I like your idea but The Bull is more of a restaurant than a pub, you can just go in for a drink, but she's more taking orders than behind the bar... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   12 September 2008: I espect she has got a boyfriend; I suppose I should be optimistic though!... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   12 September 2008: apparently, she's lived in the UK since she was 8, and my mate's mate told me she thinks she has got a boyfriend, but she doesn't know... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   12 September 2008: I went for a meal last night, I was all psyched up ready, but she wasn't there! :-(... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   10 September 2008: Christian (Virgin Radio breakfast) rang up the breakfast host of a radio station in Croatia this morning - yes, because of the footie tonight - but is he subconsciously trying to tell me something?!!!... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   4 September 2008: Every time I see her, she looks more gorgeous than the time before, so I've got to ask her out!... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   2 September 2008: That could work, but if it doesn't, I've scuppered my chances, haven't I? And if I do do that, do I give it to her directly, or another member of staff? Thankyou for the suggestion... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   1 September 2008: While my mate was at the bar getting a drink, she came over to the room I was in to clean the tables. We were the only ones in there, but once again it was nerves!... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   1 September 2008: It'll sound a bit weird asking her about her life in Crotia, won't it? (to her I mean)... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   1 September 2008: She just smiled; that was it... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   29 August 2008: well, I said 'hi' last night - I didn't say sarara. When you've never asked a girl out before, it's nervewracking!... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   28 August 2008: Hang on - she doesn't know my name and I'm going there tonight! Won't Hi Sarara sound odd if she doesn't know my name?... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   27 August 2008: won't me saying 'hi sarara' in passing sound a bit odd?... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   27 August 2008: Thanks; I'd never thought of doing it that way! The only problem is, I don't want to wait that long otherwise she might get snapped up!! Also, I found it quite interesting you said 'soon you'll be slipping in the question has she a bf at home... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   27 August 2008: That's for the advice - I've always thought that that Russian Bride thing is a scam, and I'd never do it! That's a good point though, thankyou... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   26 August 2008: I know the gardener who works there - and he managed to find out her name for me: her name is Sarara, and she comes from Croatia. So all I have to do now is to ask her out for a drink!... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   11 August 2008: I'm going down there for a drink tonight - any advice?... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   7 August 2008: I went out to lunch today, and my mate and I have been for lunch there a couple of times, but I can't seem to pluck up the courage to ask her out, even when she comes and serves me. I suppose if I want her as my girl, I've got to do something about ... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   24 June 2008: Yes, thanks. That's perfect! Won't she think that I'm cheesy for doing that though?... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   23 June 2008: What I'm saying is that when she took my order I ordered scampi and chips!! What about complimenting her on how nice she looks? Yeah, I did mean the third finger from the left... (read in full...)

Were you nervous about asking your partners on your first date? How did you do it?

Q.   I like this waitress in my local pub that I want to ask out, but I'm nervous about it? I was just wondering whether readers were nervous about asking their partners out, and what they think I should do? (sounds obvious, but I'd still like ...

A.   23 June 2008: The only thing I've said to her is 'scampi and chips' when she took my order! She has got a ring on her finger (left-hand, third finger from the left). That may not mean anything, but what do you think? On the other hand, no pain no gain! ... (read in full...)

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