My husband makes me feel like a plain Jane.
Q. I've been married for about three years and I find myself less intimate with my husband. I feel like I always have to compare myself with other women. I have a low self esteem because his eyes wonder even if I'm there. I've seen things on his phone, ...
A. 25 May 2010: Thanks for your update.
It is a great pleasure to hear that you have found the spark again in your marriage. Don't let those problems get you down. Overcome them and live a happy and joyful life.
All the best to you !... (read in full...)
Is there any way to prevent myself from thinking I could lose her?
Q. I need some help about this. It's been a pretty good couple months going out with my girlfriend. But it's like every minute i spend worrying i could lose her. I don't think it's normal to think this. I trust her 100% but i just live my life thinking ...
A. 22 April 2010: Life has got no guarantees and it is full of uncertainties. Live from each day to another and stop worrying about the future. Enjoy the present and accept whatever it may bring.
Try to think positive always. ... (read in full...)
Do I give her attention or space?
Q. My girlfriend and i have been broken up for 2months now once she found out i cheated on her(only kissing 2 random drunk nights at a bar).we dated for over 5years and i am deeply sorry and dont know how to get her back in my life. i have said how ...
A. 22 April 2010: Why don't you call her out and talk to her to thrash out those issues?
If she is not receptive to that, then you need to move on.
It is sad to break up a 5 years relationship over such an incident.... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have a life and be happy after everything that has happened?
Q. I have a very sad story. I have two son, who are addicted to crack,or other drugs. 3 other children are doing ok. But our life is ruined,because,I can never stop worry ,and feel, I have no right for happiness. We tried to help them many ways,but it ...
A. 22 April 2010: My sympathies and sadness to you . You brought them into this world and you have given them all your love and sacrifices to them .
What more can you do when they chose to walk that path? You could not stop them and there was nothing you can do t... (read in full...)
I can't believe I was stupid enough not to think he cheated on me!
Q. I don't know what to do. I was told yesterday that my boyfriend of a year and 5 months that he slept with someone at the start of the relationship. I know the girl as he was sleeping with her before we started going out. Then I was told yesterday ...
A. 22 April 2010: Call 999 if it is an emergency . If it is not an emergency, you could contact your local police station and discuss your situation with them.
They can put you in touch with volunteer organisations who provide refuge accommodation where you’ll b... (read in full...)
I lost a bit of respect for him when he didn't defend me
Q. While hanging out with my boyfriend and his friends. one of his friends, who is usually a nice guy, was drunk and chatting with me about his girl problems. Out of nowhere, he lifts me and slaps my butt in front of everyone. I felt offended of ...
A. 22 April 2010: This type of incident sometimes happened too fast and the thing is when you are ready to take any actions , it is quickly over.
He believed that you could handle the situation and did not require his help.He did not want to create a scene an... (read in full...)
My friend is putting alot of rules on me making it difficult to see my boyfriend
Q. Ive posted quite a few questions about this guy...well things flourished between us and we are now a couple. He is about 6 years older than me and has two kids and an ex wife. He also works with me. I never thought we would see each other out side ...
A. 22 April 2010: Time to part ways and live your own life. Find another new room mate . She is too intrusive and have gone overboard.... (read in full...)
Can't afford to pay for someone else's kids!
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years now and have a 20month old son! he has 3 children from a previous relationship! his 3 children come and stay on a saturday/sunday and have dinner etc. I am trying to be supportive and understanding ...
A. 22 April 2010: You are not selfish. It is survival .It is very sad reading your plight.I hope that you will find employment soon ... (read in full...)
He's trying to talk me into a threesome
Q. I need some advice on something girls an guys... me an my boyfriend been together for 3 years we have a 8 month old baby together and he has been asking me to have a 3 some with another girl! I don't what to do I feel it can ruin our relationship ...
A. 22 April 2010: If you can believed his words, then pigs can fly.You are a smart and intelligent woman and you should not venture there.
Things will never be the same again if you have a threesome.... (read in full...)
What's going on with my girlfriend?
Q. What is going on with my girlfriend? We've been dating for over a year and everything has been going really great. She has been very sweet and everything. However a few weeks ago she went away on a volunteer trip with a group of girls for her coll...
A. 21 April 2010: She could have received some negative feed backs about you from her friends .... (read in full...)
How do you confess your feeling to a shy guy without scaring him off?
Q. how do you confess your feelings to a guy who is very shy without scaring him off as he is a good friend and you want to be more than friends but you don't want to ruin your friendship with him?...
A. 21 April 2010: Pass him a note telling him your feelings for him.... (read in full...)
Best friends, or not?
Q. Ok, honestly, by best friend was a guy, but I never liked him more than a friend, I just want to make that clear. Here's my problem though, I had told him something that I didn't want anyone else to know, because it was REALLY private, then one day ...
A. 21 April 2010: Forget him and make new friends. He sounds like a liability.... (read in full...)
Do I go for "True happiness" or "This is alright"
Q. Right I'm going to skip the nonsense and get straight to the point. I've been with my partner for two years. He has problems due to an accident. He is on a hell of a lot of medications and shows no interest in sex. He is snappy and no matter what he ...
A. 21 April 2010: You are not responsible for anybody except yourself.Think of yourself first .It is your happiness and your life.
No one should control your life and never lay down your life for someone who is not worthy of your love.
... (read in full...)
He never wants to go out, spend any money or do anything!
Q. Ever since the beginning of the year I have felt different towards my boyfriend of 6 years. I used to feel a connection, but now not so much. We still get on very well, but it's like we have separate lives, despite the fact that we live together. ...
A. 21 April 2010: You can always go out with your friends, spend your money or go on holidays without him.
You do not have to depend on him for your happiness. Get control of your own life and do what you like.... (read in full...)
I think about sex all the time and I don't want to!
Q. I'm always thinking about sex! It's so embarrassing, I can barely even talk to my best friend now because all I can think about is what it would be like to have sex with her. I feel so guilty too because it's not just her I think about, but my ...
A. 21 April 2010:
Men are believed to think of sex every 52 seconds.
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/newstopics/howaboutthat/2108012/Women-think-shopping-men-think-about-sex.html... (read in full...)
Why can't I talk to her even tho I want to?
Q. sometimes i find myself thinking too much about love , very specially when i last saw twilight , i really dont know why i dont know , however it's not my exact problem , it's i like a girl , when i see her i wish if i can speak to her , well i didnt ...
A. 21 April 2010: You are too self conscious and not relax when speaking to girls. Think of them as another human being and not much different from you .... (read in full...)
She's become friends with someone I have reason to dislike
Q. hello, I've been dating my gf for about 4 months now, and we've had couple fights here and there, but we are having a pretty big one at the moment. She recently started being friends with this guy, which wouldn't normally bother me, but the guy ...
A. 21 April 2010: You are welcome!Thanks for your compliments.
Some times,there are situations which are beyond our controls. No doubt, she should follow your advise because you know more about that guy's history than her.
It can be exasperating whe... (read in full...)
My husband makes me feel like a plain Jane.
Q. I've been married for about three years and I find myself less intimate with my husband. I feel like I always have to compare myself with other women. I have a low self esteem because his eyes wonder even if I'm there. I've seen things on his phone, ...
A. 21 April 2010: You should seek your own happiness. You do not have to depend on him for your happiness.
Think of those things that you want to do.Go and do it and you will feel much happier and it will increase your self esteem and confidence.... (read in full...)
Is she cheating, or is there something else lacking in our relationship?
Q. I have a problem i drive truck over the road and i like what i do. I am gone for a month and half at a time. I meet this girl and we hit it off right away and been dating for 5 months at first we would talk on the phone for hours on end about ...
A. 20 April 2010: Send her romantic love messages on postcards from those places where you stopped by.... (read in full...)
I text like there's no tomorrow, and my parents get really mad!
Q. So I've gone over my texting limit before, and my parents always get REALLY mad. I think last month I went over by 100 (not even) this time I went over by like 1,600. :( Is there a way to fix this issue?! I don't even wanna know how much it's gonna ...
A. 20 April 2010: I think you will be grounded for sure. If it is not important don't text . If you need to talk , use the computer, Facebook, IM , Skype .It does not cost anything.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend simply will not satisfy me in bed.
Q. Hi, I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. We have been reasonably happy except for in one regard: sex. He always wants a blowjob, but he never wants to go down on me or even manually stimulate me. He has only gone down on me 3-4 times ...
A. 20 April 2010: You need to be firm and assertive with him . If he does not want to do what you want, threaten to leave this relationship.He will be left with no choice and will do your bidding's.... (read in full...)
Unprotected sex for last 3 weeks..am I pregnant?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been having intercourse without proctection for the last 20days last week i started feeling sick randomly and everytime i get up i feel extremly dizzy makes me feel more sick and have a headache also i started smelling...
A. 20 April 2010: You could probably be pregnant but only a pregnancy test will confirm if you are pregnant.If you miss your next period, you should get a pregnancy test.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend found out that I love my best friend!
Q. ok...well....i love my best friend....and i have a boyfriend now that i love...and they both really like me...and my best frind lives an hour and a hlf away and my current bf lives with me (long story)...... but... and my bestfriend says that he ...
A. 20 April 2010: Talk less and minimise your contact with your best friend.In time , he will fade into the background .... (read in full...)
Will our relationship be negatively affected by this?
Q. Me and my boifrend masterbate while talking on the phone evryday. Can this harm me in any way?...
A. 20 April 2010: It won't harm you but you may get a big shock when your phone bill arrives.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend moved to another country and I have to initiate all the contact. Should I try to let go?
Q. Hello guys . I was in a relationship with a guy .i met him last year .but 4 months ago he left to usa with his family . when he left at first he was so kinder .and used to call me and he used to say that i wanna come back there and be with you . bu...
A. 20 April 2010: This relationship has run it's course and there is nothing more to keep it going.
A one sided relationship will never work and it is best that you forget him .... (read in full...)
Help!! I'm physically, spiritually, and emotionally drained from my lazy husband.
Q. My husband and I have been married for nine years and we have three wonderful kids. He works at the local sherrif's department and I work at a local lawyer's office. I work from 8:00a.m.-5:00p.m. and he works from 4:00p.m.-midnight. During the ...
A. 20 April 2010: Having a lazy husband is like having no husband and it does not change anything even if you were to live alone.
Some men will only do what you want when they stare in the face of divorce or separations. They don't get serious and have the could no... (read in full...)
My husband makes me feel like a plain Jane.
Q. I've been married for about three years and I find myself less intimate with my husband. I feel like I always have to compare myself with other women. I have a low self esteem because his eyes wonder even if I'm there. I've seen things on his phone, ...
A. 20 April 2010: How a man treats his wife can make or break her. If there is love in the relationship, she will have joy and radiant in her face. If love is not there, the woman's countenance will suffer and she will always be sad.
You need to go back to the b... (read in full...)
Troubled about her sexual past
Q. Well, i just got married 5 months ago with the one i'm in love with but i started having a problem when i think of her ex-boyfriends with whom she had sex before we knew each other. Before our marriage she told me everything about her past; wh...
A. 20 April 2010: When you married her, you were aware of her past and you accepted it. You loved her no matter what.
What is important is now and not the past. She chose to be with you and you should feel lucky indeed .No one is perfect and she committed some mis... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says he doesn't want to marry until until I get a better job
Q. My boyfriend of four years hasn't proposed yet and doesn't know when he will. We had a discussion last night about it because I'm tired of waiting. Basically he's told me that he can't marry me unless I get a different job that pays more and is m...
A. 20 April 2010: It is just an excuse not to be committed to you . There is no future in this relationship. Cut your loses and move on.... (read in full...)
It bothers me that he is not bothered by our recent lack of contact.
Q. I havnt been talking to my best friend. This week we haqve no school. I'm busy and he's been going to red sox games and bruins. It bothers me that he is not bothered by me not talking to him. I dont know what to do? I think about him without trying ...
A. 20 April 2010: Sorry about your arm. I hope you arm is better now. It could be a misunderstanding .You should talk to him and find out the truth before you want to forget him.... (read in full...)
My fiancees friends are always around and I am so sick of it!
Q. Engaged but boyfriend's friends are always around. What should I do? I've been with the same guy for 10 yrs. I'm 25 and he's 28. We've been engaged for 2 yrs and have two boys together 6yrs and 2wks old. My boyfriend works comes home showers the...
A. 20 April 2010: If you are unhappy , you should talk to him about it. He cannot read your mind and he is probably thinking that you do not mind .He can get carried away and forgets about spending time with you .
You need to let him know where are your limits a... (read in full...)
Can cross dressers really stop doing it and be happy?
Q. I have been with my current partner now for nearly 12 months. When i met him hed recently been through a divorced and seperated 8 months prior to his divorce. Hed told me that his marriage hadnt been right for the last 4 years and he knew that it ...
A. 20 April 2010: Most transsexuals would want to be a complete woman but the cost of the operation is so exorbitant that not every transsexual will go for the sex change.
They have to have hormone injections or take it orally. Cross dressers do not take those ho... (read in full...)
Can cross dressers really stop doing it and be happy?
Q. I have been with my current partner now for nearly 12 months. When i met him hed recently been through a divorced and seperated 8 months prior to his divorce. Hed told me that his marriage hadnt been right for the last 4 years and he knew that it ...
A. 19 April 2010: It depends on whether he is just a cross dresser or a transsexual. Cross dressing maybe just a passing fad and he may give it up ,while a transsexual may find the temptation to go back to dressing up again. Transsexuals feel that they are a woman ... (read in full...)
Unloved with no affection in my marriage...
Q. I been married for ten years now but my relationship with my husband is "rocky". I honestly love him... but later.. I get bored and fell out of love. He cheated on me a couple of times and he even hurt me physically... I longed for his affection and ...
A. 19 April 2010: Yours is a loveless and unhappy marriage. You should find your happiness and if you cannot get it from this marriage, you should leave . Enough is enough.... (read in full...)
I'm worried I might have set my standards too high and I will never meet anyone who is right for me!
Q. Hello, I hope you guys can help. I am almost 25 and a virgin. I can't quite find anyone who is good enough to a) have sex with b) have a REAL relationship with. It's just that I feel as if I have waited for the right guy but all the m...
A. 19 April 2010: As women get more educated and financially independent, their chances of getting married becomes lesser and lesser.
The availability of the right men becomes very limited. She will have to settle for a beta man or a househusband if she have any... (read in full...)
Will I ever move on from my infatuation with a work colleague? Or should I continue to pursue him despite our marriages?
Q. For almost two years I have been attracted to a married colleague at work. He has 3 kids. I myself am also married with 2 kids. My husband works in another country so I only get to see him other every 2-3 months. It initially started just a ...
A. 19 April 2010: Time is a great healer. Move on and do not contact him because it would be like reopening those old wounds again.
Get on with your own life and refocus your attentions on your own family.
... (read in full...)
Our relationship is basically everything without a label?
Q. Hi everyone, I find myself stuck in a rut with a lot of history...so here goes the story: I've been with this guy for over 2 years (we're both 20), but we still don't have that "boyfriend/girlfriend" label. We weren't too sure if we wanted that k...
A. 19 April 2010: Ask him to come out because you have something important to discuss with him.
Tell him directly that you are looking for a committed relationship with him.You relationship needs to have a status.Get a commitment from him.
If he cannot give y... (read in full...)
Been lying to everyone I care about my job
Q. I've been lying to everyone about what I do for work. Not where I work but my position. I've told everyone my position is slightly above what it is. It's my first full time job out of uni and it's really down the bottom of the barrell and I th...
A. 19 April 2010: This is a small world. The truth will always surface and you should not tell lies. I hope that you will learn from your mistake..... (read in full...)
Hey I don't understand this girl! it was all going well then something went wrong!!
Q. hey guys, i have a problem. Theres this girl ive been talking to, for about 3 months now. previously, before me and her, she just ended a 2 yr relationship, and i got out of a bad one with no intentions on dating anyone at all (and still have ...
A. 19 April 2010: Yours is a rebound relationship ,since she has just broken off from her ex. Her emotions may be unstable and erratic,vacillating from her ex and to you .
Her ex may have messed up her head and she could be having some problems dealing with it.... (read in full...)
Why would my friend have sex with him when she knows I do too?
Q. Hi everyone, thanks for reading. There is a guy that I like, and when we first met he had a girlfriend, so we were really just friends, but after they broke up we would make out sometimes and we have had sex a few times over the past 6 months. ...
A. 19 April 2010: Your friend could be sexually attracted to him like you do and she wanted to find out how good he is.
You can put your friendship with that friend on hold because you felt been stabbed in the back.... (read in full...)
He tells me he loves me but then later says he isn't sure?!
Q. Well, I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months, which have been great, for the most part. He's an amazing man, he treats me well, he's very romantic, he really is just, perfect, and he treats me as though I am the most important girl in the world to ...
A. 19 April 2010: Maybe , you should give him more time to grow up and be more matured. Give him a time frame and if he still behaves like a kid, you should let him go.... (read in full...)
Why do I feel like this after I give my husband oral sex?
Q. Hi. How come when I give my husband a blow job, for days afterward I have snot and mucuous in my throat, and during the mornings I end up gagging and coughing? Today I threw up a little because of all of the snot. When I don't do that, my mornings ...
A. 19 April 2010: It could be some infections or viruses that is causing you to have those snot and mucuous. Those mucuous and snots are supposed to wash away those germs or virus.
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She's become friends with someone I have reason to dislike
Q. hello, I've been dating my gf for about 4 months now, and we've had couple fights here and there, but we are having a pretty big one at the moment. She recently started being friends with this guy, which wouldn't normally bother me, but the guy ...
A. 16 April 2010: If you don't know what is controlling or manipulating other people by subtle thoughts and arm twistings ,I am very sorry for you .Your relationship will always be very rocky.
You can learn it by trials and errors and from making your own mistakes... (read in full...)
She's become friends with someone I have reason to dislike
Q. hello, I've been dating my gf for about 4 months now, and we've had couple fights here and there, but we are having a pretty big one at the moment. She recently started being friends with this guy, which wouldn't normally bother me, but the guy ...
A. 15 April 2010: She has a mind of her own and she can make her own decisions. You can explain to her why you don't like that guy but that is as far as you can go.
You should allow her to decide for herself because if you want her to follow your decision ,it woul... (read in full...)
Our relationship is basically everything without a label?
Q. Hi everyone, I find myself stuck in a rut with a lot of history...so here goes the story: I've been with this guy for over 2 years (we're both 20), but we still don't have that "boyfriend/girlfriend" label. We weren't too sure if we wanted that k...
A. 6 April 2010: You need to know what you want in life and where you want to go. If he cannot agree with you , you will have to leave him behind.Be more assertive.
From now on , it is on your terms. Take it or leave it... (read in full...)
Our relationship is basically everything without a label?
Q. Hi everyone, I find myself stuck in a rut with a lot of history...so here goes the story: I've been with this guy for over 2 years (we're both 20), but we still don't have that "boyfriend/girlfriend" label. We weren't too sure if we wanted that k...
A. 5 April 2010: You are neither here nor there. You need to either carve out your own path or remain a martyr or a doormat to him.
You should get back into the control seat, harden your heart and walk away from all those unpleasant experiences.
... (read in full...)
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