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Why won't my boyfriend tell his parents I am pregnant?

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Question - (2 May 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 8 May 2010)
A female South Africa age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm 37 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend has not told his parents that I'm pregnant, whenever I ask him when he is going to tell his parents he always tells me that he will do it soon and its now 3 weeks left until our son comes... Please help don't know what to do, I've even lied to my mom about his parents knowing about the baby coz she's been asking a whole lot of questions.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2010):

My sister boy friend didnt tell hes mom intill she was in labor with there frist child there son, maybe theres some reason he doesnt want to

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A female reader, Ich_liebe_dich Philippines +, writes (2 May 2010):

Ich_liebe_dich agony auntIf the parents or the mother of the boyfriend will find out that you are pregnant, do you think that the mother will take care of the baby or at least help you in any cases? of course it is important that the part of the boyfriend family will know about this. BUT" I have a feeling that the very first thing you have to ask to your boyfriend is, when he is going to marry you? how you two will take care of the coming baby? how you two are going to manage the situation? In this situation the parents of the boyfriend is not what i can see most important of all. The important is the baby and how you two will handle and take care of it. I dont wanna be negative here, i feel for you, but this time you have to think about the coming baby now. Dont make your self stress out of this" that his mother doesnt know till now that you are pregnant. dont make your self stress out of this. You dont need this kind of problem at the moment, your coming baby is the most matters of all now. I wish you good luck anyway and congrats to your coming baby too..

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A male reader, EDLion Brunei Darussalam +, writes (2 May 2010):

EDLion agony auntLaura's right, your BF's a dope......... Tell her mom yourself, or regret it for your life.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (2 May 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntI don't think your b/f will ever tell his mom about your pregnancy. You will have to tell his mom yourself and then she will take charge and do what is right. Your b/f is a coward, irresponsible and immature.

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A male reader, Brunel Wallis and Futuna +, writes (2 May 2010):

Have it out with him today and make clear that if he won't you will?

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