Why do I feel like this after I give my husband oral sex?
Q. Hi. How come when I give my husband a blow job, for days afterward I have snot and mucuous in my throat, and during the mornings I end up gagging and coughing? Today I threw up a little because of all of the snot. When I don't do that, my mornings ...
A. 19 April 2010: It could be some infections or viruses that is causing you to have those snot and mucuous. Those mucuous and snots are supposed to wash away those germs or virus.
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http://www.nh... (read in full...)
Had Sex While On Period, Condom Broke But I Take Birth Control.Should I Take Plan B?
Q. So... today my bf and I had sex while on my period, the condom broke and he "finished" inside me..unfortunately we didnt realize it broke until after the fact. I AM on the pill and I take it daily but Im wondering - should I still take the plan ...
A. 19 April 2010: You should be safe but the anxieties and worries may torment you non stop till your next period.
It would be easier to take plan B than to have an abortion,if what you feared will come to pass.... (read in full...)
Friends vs lovers - you women mix us guys up!!
Q. What is it with you women? I know it's a woman's option to change her mind, but.... Poor guys on here get so mixed up by you lot! Half the time you tell us to "hang in there, be their friend" when we like someone but the other person is with s...
A. 19 April 2010: When she cannot find anyone better, being her friend may give you the second chance to take another bite on the cherry.
If you are not her friend, you will have zero chance.It is up to you to decide if you still want to have a second chance w... (read in full...)
How much of a chance is there that I'm pregnant?
Q. So I have to ask and be concerned, if your "riding" a guy for under a minute with no condom on and when he takes it out and theres jizz on it... is there a chance I'm pregnant? I'm more worried than hell and I've already talked to my mom about it ...
A. 19 April 2010: It depends on your luck or fate. If you are going to have a baby , you will have one , unless you take the morning after pill within 72 hours.
After that, if conception has taken place, the pill becomes useless.
Don't play Russian roulette... (read in full...)
Do couples have to do everything together?
Q. my boyfriend doesnt want me to do anything without him. i like to go to concerts but he says no every time, he will always say that artist is crap, even if i know he likes their songs. and then he says if he doesnt go i cant go without him. he d...
A. 19 April 2010: Your b/f is too selfish, immature and inexperienced in relationships. He has a lot to learn about how to treat a lady .... (read in full...)
Boyfriend needs space?
Q. I have been with my bf for 2 1/2 years and currently we live together. He just told me a couple weeks ago that something in our relationship has changed and he thinks he needs space to figure things out. The truth is we had been fighting a lot in ...
A. 19 April 2010: He is depressed and have lost his bearings in life.He is overwhelmed with all those negative factors which is beyond his controls.
If you stay on , it will only prolong your agony. Allow him to leave and be friends only . Whatever will happen t... (read in full...)
First date went well but since then no contact??
Q. hello everybody :) can u tell me what should i do?days ago, we had our first date, and everything went really well. but since then, she stoped talking to me, i allways had to begin conversations, and when i stopped talking to her she hasn't talked ...
A. 19 April 2010: You can ask her out again and if you get the same response, you will have to dump her.
Or don't ask and forget about her.... (read in full...)
I don't know how to respond to my ex's text message
Q. So my ex responded to my message I sent 2 nights ago. I wrote her saying "I'm sorry to hear things have been bugging you. It is true I am thinking about u but I don't let it absorb my thoughts for I don't yet know what plans are in store for me and ...
A. 19 April 2010: You should reply to her without any delay . Tell her the truth and what you feel inside of you .
If she rejects you , accept it as the will of God. Your perceptions of her could be wrong. You need to take that risk and be more assertive.... (read in full...)
Does he have another girl or am I just being too paranoid?
Q. I have been suffering from this since months ago. Recently he started to pull back even more. The last time we met was 2 days ago where we were out for a drink. First, I was with my friend then he texted to tell that our outing might be cancelle...
A. 19 April 2010: He seems to be distancing himself from you and that is a red flag.I am sure you can hug and kiss even if you are very tired. By not doing that, there is definitely something going on in his life.
Whether there is another girl or that he has lost... (read in full...)
My girlfriend says I am not the man she thought I was, and now won't consider moving in or taking the relationship further.
Q. My girlfriend says I am not the man she thought I was, and now won't consider moving in or taking the relationship further. We are stuck in limbo! We have been dating for 3 years. A year and half ago I did something stupid at work, I stole. N...
A. 19 April 2010: Sadly , it is very difficult to change some one's perspective when they have hardened their stands.
It is her perceptions of you that have changed .The only honourable thing for you to do is to let her go .
If you love her, let her go and i... (read in full...)
I think my ex's brother wants sex?
Q. i have a dilemma. Lately my exs' brother has been coming around to visit my spouse. Their cousins. I had an affair with the brother a longtime ago and it ended bad. But now recently the cousins mom passed away and the two brothers basically despise ...
A. 19 April 2010: You need to be more assertive and be fair to your spouse. You have a mind of your own and you should not be played by your ex.
You don't have to be any part of your ex's plan unless you wanted it.... (read in full...)
Do couples have to do everything together?
Q. my boyfriend doesnt want me to do anything without him. i like to go to concerts but he says no every time, he will always say that artist is crap, even if i know he likes their songs. and then he says if he doesnt go i cant go without him. he d...
A. 19 April 2010: He has taken you for granted and is starting to have an attitude. Either you do what he wants or he threatens to dump you . He is a big bully and probably comes from an abusive family background .... (read in full...)
Why is she so upset?
Q. My girlfriend is upset with me because we both just found out that i gave her chlamydia. I didn't know that I had it. I know this will sound strange but I dont understand her being so upset about it. Now before you call me a dumba** let me explain ...
A. 19 April 2010: "Women are to be loved and not to be understood."
She has only herself to blame because she was too trusting and did not practice safe sex.
That could explain in part why she was upset.... (read in full...)
I'd like to take it to the next level ...
Q. I've been friends with a guy for about years. The last two or three we have been really close. I want to take our rlationship to the next level but don't know how. I can't just come out and say it because he gets very skiddish at the thought of ...
A. 19 April 2010: If he is already texting you everyday , it means that he is very interested in you .
Ask him for a date or some romantic evening get together to put him in the mood.... (read in full...)
In love with 22 year old teacher
Q. hi, im a 15 year old girl and i really feel i have fallen for my 22 year old teacher. i make excuses for myself, make it okay in my mind since there is only a 7 year difference in age and that if i was 20 then he would be 27 and that isnt weird at ...
A. 19 April 2010: Yours is a forlorn cause. You may dream and fantasize about him and enjoy all those beautiful thoughts .
Your teenage idealistic views are a fertile ground to breed romance and love.
You need to make a clear distinction between what is real and... (read in full...)
Should I expect to be dumped?? How do I handle this?
Q. For the past 3 years, I have been involved with a man, a co-worker, who has been separated. Our involvement has been a "physical" one. We've enjoyed each other very much. I'm 29, and this is the first man I've ever been with period. What I'm ...
A. 19 April 2010: There is no indications from your post that he will dump you once his divorce is final. You are just having insecurities.
It is a good sign that he is finally divorce and the road is clear for you .
You cannot avoid being hurt when you in love... (read in full...)
He wants to move out to be with his daughter
Q. I've been dealing with this guy for almost 6 years now. When I first met him he was involved with someone but things were rocky according to him and I at the time was going through a breakup with my husband of 16 years. We became friends one thing ...
A. 19 April 2010: You can only have half his heart and if you are satisfied, you can still carry on as usual .
Are you contented with this arrangement? If not ,you will have to let him go.
... (read in full...)
Confused and conflicted because I want someone that's off limits!
Q. Hi there. I have this *little* conundrum. There's a guy I work with who I've known for about 2 years or so. I haven't liked him for the whole time I've known of him, but in the past three months or so I've found myself attracted to him more than...
A. 19 April 2010: Don't play with fire. When it gets out of control ,it will consume everything in it's path. You do not know what you are dealing with and the consequences can be tragic.
In the work place, you need to be more professional .... (read in full...)
He's going to visit a nude beach -- should I be worried?
Q. I have a friend I've been involved with for 3 years. He told me not too long ago that he and some of his boys are going on vacation in Jamaica, and that he plans on going to the nude beach there. The way he was talking about it he's been wanting ...
A. 19 April 2010: They have laws on those nude beaches and most of those nudist are elderly people .You won't find those with the likes of Miss World down there.
He is not going around those beaches to screw around or have an orgy.Don't let your imaginat... (read in full...)
Do couples have to do everything together?
Q. my boyfriend doesnt want me to do anything without him. i like to go to concerts but he says no every time, he will always say that artist is crap, even if i know he likes their songs. and then he says if he doesnt go i cant go without him. he d...
A. 19 April 2010: He has double standards.That is the mentality of would be abuser . What works for you does not apply to him. There is one law for you and another law for him.
He wants to control you and soon he may control who you can see or who you can talk too... (read in full...)
Is this really karma, like I believe it is?
Q. does anyone believe in karma? cos when i was 16 my mum kicked me out, due to me having a lot of problems and she couldnt cope, but we're closer than ever now. but i lived in 2 hostels at the time, first one was for only a month, and i got bullie...
A. 19 April 2010: There is a universal law or Karma.Whether you believed it or not, it does not matter but it exist.
Everything comes back in a full circle. If you do wrong , you will get your just punishment.
You will reap what you sowed.... (read in full...)
Should I call him? Or should I wait for him to take initiative again?
Q. So I went on a date with a guy for the first time a day ago. We spent literally eight hours together having fun. He bought dinner etc. and he initiated the date to begin with, and I think it took him a lot of courage seeing as he's younger and we ...
A. 19 April 2010: It would be better to wait for him to call you again at this stage. This way ,you would know if he is serious about dating you .
After you have dated for awhile , you can initiate some of the calls.... (read in full...)
My ex suddenly wants back after a year, should I dump my current boyfriend for him?
Q. Me and my ex went out for a year and a half, we had plans to get married, have children and all the rest. Sadly that all came to an end June last year, he had a change of heart and needed to rediscover who he was, and left. I was absolutely heartbro...
A. 19 April 2010: You will have to decide who you love more or can't live without.
Good luck to you .... (read in full...)
I love him as a person but there's no sexual spark!
Q. Is it right to stay with someone who you love very much as a person, but the sexual spark isn't there? I love him and want him to be happy. I know my being with him makes him happy, but he is happy with me just being there. I want so much more, like ...
A. 19 April 2010: You are in a relationship with an online games addict. His world is just online games and it will take away all his energies and left none for you .
You need to weave him off from his online games.There are many things that you can do together... (read in full...)
Woman in 30s and never had boyfriend
Q. I am a woman in my early 30s and I have never had a boyfriend. Recently, I`ve been meeting some men but I keep getting rejected because I do not have dating experience aka I have never been in a long term relationship. I have two question...
A. 19 April 2010: I think there are plenty of women in their early 30's who do not have a relationship.
It is pretty common these days as single and financially independent women are putting of marriages in favour of their careers.
Wanting you has got nothing ... (read in full...)
Snooping in fiancee's facebook account made me discover he cheated!
Q. I recently did a bad thing and snooped in my fiance's facebook account. I read a message in there that said that he had sex with a girl whilst on a boys weekend away. This happened a week after we met (we'd only been on one date) and we weren't ...
A. 19 April 2010: Something happened in the past and it is best to leave them there and move on.
It was unfortunate that you found out about it and you should not let it influenced your opinions of him.
At that time , you were only friends and it cannot be con... (read in full...)
He says we should live separately so not to be in each other's faces
Q. After my ex and i broke up, he kept texting me that he wanted me back,i told him that we have to work on a few things first and he agreed! so he came over last night and said that we should live separately giving each other space that way we would ...
A. 19 April 2010: Keep your options open and if you find a better one , ditch him. You deserved someone who thinks of you as his priority and not some toy to play with when he is bored.... (read in full...)
I can't stand my roommates filthy habits!
Q. My roommate's habits are filthy and dirty. She pokes her nose,spits everywhere and is really dirty! I can't stand it. But i can't even say it straight to her. Please help! ...
A. 18 April 2010: That is a disgrace. I hope you can make some arrangement to either remove yourself from that room or find another replacement.
If you cannot,you will have to educate her on personal hygiene's.... (read in full...)
Is this relationship over?
Q. *Op's own title* Okay its like this, i have been in a relationship with this girl for 4 and half years now, i was working abroad in Malaysia for the first 2 years and we were together, for the past few years i visited reguarly from UK to malaysia...
A. 18 April 2010: You are taking the right approach and I think you will be able to save this relationship.
Best of luck to you !... (read in full...)
Am I a friend or someone more, to her?
Q. I have a situation in which I can not understand where it will go. Recently an old ex from high school contacted me after 8 yrs of no word (Bad breakup). Since then we have hung out twice in the last month. I would love for it to be more but she is ...
A. 18 April 2010: She maybe thinking the same question about you .Have you been assertive that you want more from her?
Have you showed your intentions and given her clear signals to her that you want more than friendship ?
If you want more from her, you will ne... (read in full...)
Am I too needy? I want to show her I care though
Q. I met a girl through a mutual friend in NY. She's seems to be everything I want in a girl. We've been dating for ten months now. When we first started dating (for the first couple months), she was a sweet happy girl that truly respected me. When we ...
A. 18 April 2010: You need to woo her and chase her and write her romantic thoughts. Rediscover those magical moments when you first met.
Keep away from contentious issues.Respect her opinions and don't argue with her.
Give her more praises and compliments ... (read in full...)
Make or break...???
Q. I wonder if you can help me. My friend says he loves me and I feel like i should trust him but we like to do totally different things yet when it comes to us just being together it just feels right. I dont know what to do about this feeling that i ...
A. 18 April 2010: It is a mistaken notion to think that you can change somebody. Many young people have that idea and they are making a big mistake.
You need to accept him as what he is. ... (read in full...)
It's a solid marriage but I miss sex
Q. Can a marriage survive without sex? My husband and me are totally not sexual anymore.. I feel,my sexuality is dead. He is impotent , not medical. He is healthy,was checked out.. And never looks at me as a man,looks at a woman. But he says he loves ...
A. 18 April 2010: If you can't have sex, you can always pleasure each other or use toys .That's a compromise and it is better than no sex at all.
You can have a marriage without sex as long as he showers all his attentions and love on you .... (read in full...)
Is this relationship over?
Q. *Op's own title* Okay its like this, i have been in a relationship with this girl for 4 and half years now, i was working abroad in Malaysia for the first 2 years and we were together, for the past few years i visited reguarly from UK to malaysia...
A. 18 April 2010: You should not lay of communicating with her daily because this will show to her that you care about her dearly and is thinking of her always.This is woman's love language.
She needs a lot of reassurance of your love and validate her thoughts... (read in full...)
Is it my fault that he couldn't cum?
Q. I've been dating a guy for a little over 3 months now. 2 months into the relationship, I gave him his first blowjob, but we had to stop before he finished because we had to go somewhere. I tried again a month later, we were finally able to ensure a...
A. 18 April 2010: It could be your fault and it could be his fault. Maybe, he masturbated too much or he was too self conscious of you and was not relax.
Better luck next time. ... (read in full...)
I'm really insecure about my latest boyfriend and need advice. Help, please!
Q. I've been in relationships and I've been cheated on most times, I think I go for the bad boy sort of thing, always have haha. But even thought they're like that I usually get with people who get quite attached to me and don't talk to many girls and ...
A. 18 April 2010: Man have the ability to fall in love at the instant they see you .
Not everyone is a cheater. There are also good guys out there.
Try to think more positive rather than negative.... (read in full...)
My ex gets upset when I'm with any guy, but I want to ask him out again.
Q. i ask you to bare with me in this question as it is a little complex to my mind and there's alot that i need answering lol. i am confused about the feelings that one of my ex's feels towards me. i have known him nearly 2 years now and since we broke ...
A. 18 April 2010: What you see is not what you get. You may infer wrongly about him . You should not be deterred by such small incidents.
If you like him, go for it. Ask him out and you will know where you stand with him.... (read in full...)
Do I verbally tell her how I feel, or keep flirting and hope for the best?
Q. i like this girl in my class. we talk everyday and we have became best friends. it started when this other guy in our class started hitting on her. she didn't like him at all and he wouldn't leave her alone. so she asked me if i would sit in between ...
A. 18 April 2010: If you wait too long, she may think that you are not interested in her and will place you in her friends category .
You got to make a move soon or she will kill her interest in you.... (read in full...)
I'm 18, is it bad that I masterbate and watch porn daily?
Q. I am VERY young and I watch porn daily and masturbate. Is that bad?...
A. 18 April 2010: It is an obsessive and compulsive behaviour and can interfere with your daily life. Other areas of your life may start to suffer.
In the long run , you may have this OCD syndrome
reference;-
http://helpguide.org/ment... (read in full...)
Does this girl really like me?
Q. okay, so along with the popular girl from my school, I think another girl might like me...but the thing is I don't think she knows I'm 17 and she looks about 19 or so. She works at a resteraunt and all of the girls that work there are extremely ...
A. 18 April 2010: Next time you go there , ask for her phone number and if you are interested in her, call her up for a date, ... (read in full...)
His mom is sufficating us, how do I make her disappear?
Q. I am currently living with roommates and one of them is my best friend. Whenever him and I want to spend some alone time together, his mom throws tantrums and calls him and I very nasty names. My friend has tried to spend some alone time with his ...
A. 18 April 2010: Your best friend comes in that package and you will have to accommodate her mom.
The only way to clear this problem is to jettison both of them.
If you cannot , you will have to learn to tolerate her idiosyncrasies.... (read in full...)
Is this relationship over?
Q. *Op's own title* Okay its like this, i have been in a relationship with this girl for 4 and half years now, i was working abroad in Malaysia for the first 2 years and we were together, for the past few years i visited reguarly from UK to malaysia...
A. 17 April 2010: She is coming over to see for herself if you really meant what you said.
Good luck to you .Hope and pray everything will come out fine.... (read in full...)
Is this relationship over?
Q. *Op's own title* Okay its like this, i have been in a relationship with this girl for 4 and half years now, i was working abroad in Malaysia for the first 2 years and we were together, for the past few years i visited reguarly from UK to malaysia...
A. 17 April 2010: If she is willing to come over to talk it over,there is still hope. She is kindda disillusioned with you and you need to set her right and do what you need to do for her.Find out what she wants and try to accommodate her wishes.
She has given th... (read in full...)
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